Backflash July 2023 “Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny” (June 27th, 2022)

31 Jul 2023 Leave a comment

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In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the series shall provide an insight into my and our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For July 2023 I selected a post from June 2022, just a bit more than a year ago. I picked that post as a tribute to Mistress Jenny, who passed away over a year ago. I miss her badly. In addition I didn’t find the time to create an “Enjoying Bondage picture” for this month, hence this Backflash of the month post shall also be the Enjoying Bondage picture of this month.
Enjoy reading and in particular seeing Mistress Jenny enjoying bondage. I know she was a big bondage fan…

Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny (June 27th, 2022)

On the occasion of Jenny’s 14th collaring anniversary I got a green light and was in control for a couple of days. I made the most of it – and addressed Mistress’ kink for tight and restrictive bondage. There’s no need for a collage, the two pictures I picked for this month’s Enjoying Bondage series are not processed at all. If Mistress enjoyed her predicament just half as much as I did, then she had a great time letting control go ….

Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Carnal Intentions / Mistress Jenny tied up at Psi’s realm

Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2022/06/27/enjoying-bondage-june-2022-mistress-jenny/

Enjoying Bondage May 2023 – Maurer family at Psi’s realm

27 May 2023 Leave a comment

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For this month “Enjoying Bondage” picture, I created once again a group collage. The base for the collage is a picture showing me and slave Kari (KariFinnagan) at Psi’s realm. I kept slave Kari exposed there for a couple of days, I added slave Alessi, slave Holly on the left side. slave Julia (devotiana) is our newest potential slave and placed next to slave Holly right in front of Flo. In May I also finally saw Kitty again and she got her place in the May picture. To my right is slave rene. rene had asked me about the May slave outfit, she got it for herself and sent a selfie. Actually I didn’t see her in the outfit, but she fits in very well, doesn’t she. slave rene is kneeling under slave Kari, who is the centerpiece of the May picture. Finally on the ourt right I added my sweet niece Angelique, who is watching the scene.

So here is the picture for May: (from left to right): slave Alessi, slave Holly, slave Julia, Flo, Kitty, Diomita, slave rene, slave Kari, Angelique

Diary 2023 (51) May 16th/17th Within the family

19 May 2023 Leave a comment

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Tuesday, May 16th, I found a message from Holly in my inbox. She reported that she met Kitty in the morning and she made a picture of it.
With regard to SL my day was lazy. I was inworld several time, saw Zana at club Domme a Domme in the morning, played one round of skipee with Flo in the later afternoon and had some chats here and there but nothing to report.
My night began as usual with playing cards with Flo. By the end of our 3rd round, I lost my internet connection and when I returned Flo had reshuffled the cards and pretended she had won *winks*. I went to club DeLust with Flo and slave Alessi joined us there soon later. We didn’t stay long though and walked over to club Domme a Domme because there’s often a bit more main chat and entertainment. slave Holly joined us there. We stayed at club Domme a Domme for the rest of the night….

May 16th: slave Holly and Kitty at home / Diomita at club DeLust and at club Domme a Domme with Flo, slave Holly and slave Alessi

When I came inworld Wednesday night, May 17th, Zana was already inworld. It was early for her but she also had to leave 5 minutes later. slave Kari was also present and I went seeing her at Psi’s realm. While it was comparably quiet before the room filled quickly and slave Kari drew quite some attention on her. One of the guests had a puppy which was very interesting in sniffing at slave Kari’s crotch and the leftovers of her puddles.

May 17th: Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave Kari and a puppy

It became fuller and fuller, even Cherry came by. In the end there was a real crowd around slave Kari. She must have enjoyed that to the fullest! A lot of teasing, a lot of humiliation.

May 17th: Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave kari, a puppy and a watching crowd

Flo had come inworld again and after one week at Psi’s I unlocked slave Kari’s chains and took her home with me. But Flo had already left again. slave Holly came inworld … and slave Kari had to leave. Sometimes it is this way *winks’.
I had time to talk with slave Holly and I took the opportunity. Later we went to club Domme a Domme where we spent the rest of the night. slave Red (newlifeloading) and slave Alessi joined us there.

May 17th: Diomita at home and at club Domme a Domme with slave Holly, slave Alessi and slave Red (newlifeloading)

And that’s it for these 2 days.

Diary 2023 (49) May 12th/13th With or without u

14 May 2023 Leave a comment

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Friday, May 12th, I was inworld in the afternoon for some time. slave kari (Karifannigan) was present and I visited and teased her at Psi’s realm. I placed a wand on a stand at her crotch and started the vibrator in her nipples. I left her there again and roamed over the sims for a bit, then I looked after her again. She had an orgasm and I noticed the puddle at her feet and added a “wet floor” sing so that none slips *winks*. Finally I took of her blindfold so that she could watch the people looking at her.

When I returned at 7 PM I found a picture of slave Kari taken by Mikki in my messages – thank you.

May 12th: Diomita and slave Kari at Psi’s realm / slave kari (picture by Mikki)

I went over to Psi’s and visited slave kari again. This time I could “motivate” Rebekah Frost (rebekahfrost) to join teasing slave kari. Rebekah is quite a brat and tried to steal my keys as well as she smacked my butt – bad girl. Funny, later she got trapped in the offer cage and guess what, I let her out but only to lock her up as company for slave Kari.

I returned home and played 2 skipee’s with Flo. slave Kari told me in IM that Zana visited her and cut off her top and threw it into the well nearby. *laughs*. After the skipee I spent a short time at club Domme a Domme with Flo before we returned home for the party.

May 12th: Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave Kari and Rebekah Frost (rebekahfrost) / Diomita and Flo at club Domme a Domme

For the Friday night party, slave Holly and I had fixed a very open theme: “It’s Friday again and we celebrate the start into our weekend. This weekend is the European Song Contest, an event with extravagant outfits. Wear something outstanding or weired to attend the event or to perform at it – or come as you are (even naked) and celebrate with us. DJ Virgo is spinning the tunes for us.”

We had fun once again with a lot of chit chat, pun and banter. The Friday night party is a fixed day in our RL and SL.

May 12th – Friday night party: Diomita, Angelique, Flo, slave Holly, Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity), slave Alessi, Sarah Fhang (upper row), Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, Claven Albatros, Laura (laura00175), Baroness Capelo, Domina Ansar, Lara (Motoko Enyo), Virgo Babii (lower row)

At the party we had Lara and Laura. We had a lot of fun – with or without u. Unfortunately this has a double sense for me these days.

Saturday, May 13th, I was inworld just half an hour in the morning, then I tended to my RL all day long. At night I first roamed around a bit, then played cards on my own until Flo showed up for a game. Zana joined us at the game table. She was tied up nicely, but I didn’t check if I could take control. Zana, Flo and I went to club Domme a Domme. To be honest it hurts to be with Zana, yet I don’t want to miss her as well. We had a bit of drama in IM … and Zana left because of it. At least she began to fight. Flo and I stayed and watched people.

May 13th: Diomita at club Domme a Domme with Flo and Zana

Diary 2023 (48) May 10th/11th Hurt

13 May 2023 Leave a comment

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Wednesday, May 10th, I was inworld in the morning shortly, but then I had to tend to my RL. In the afternoon I visited Gem Preiz’ “A dark star” installation (read here). Actually this installation is one of three installations that build on each other and all can be seen until June 30th. I recommend a visit. Three really well made installations playing with light, particles and with a touch of sci-fi.
After finishing the blog post about my visit I had a longer roleplay which distracted me well.
My night began at club Domme a Domme. Zana was there and it hurt seeing her. I got the impression that she feels hurt as well. But I can’t change it and it is out of my control. Zana moved to me, she tried to make me having fun with her and with those around her. She’s certainly right, together we act way better than we act alone. But I did not get myself involved and remained silent. And I made no picture.
Soon after I left the club and played skipee on my own until Flo showed up and played a round with me. slave Alessi came by and after we had finished we played another round with three. Maybe the best distraction I could get that night.
It was already flotime when we had finished playing skipee. I took Alessi to club Domme a Domme again and later to club DeLust … at least one picutre for that night.

May 10th: Diomita at club Domme a Domme and at club DeLust with slave Alessi

Thursday, May 11th, I was inworld almost the whole afternoon, but was also with one eye in my RL … hence I had longer times being absent. Kitty was up early and I met her at Lochme and took her with me to club Domme a Domme. When slave Kari (karifinnagan) came inworld, I picked her up at home from her cage and took her to club Domme a Domme as well. She had some longer focus time there, after Kitty had left. Later maid Monique (MoniqueDefoe) joined us. I had some entertainment at the club and the opportunity to talk with slave Kari as well as to tease her.

May 11th: Diomita at club Domme a Domme with Kitty, slave Kari and Maid Monique

At night slave kari was present. I picked her up at her cell and had her licking my boots first. Something I have to exercise with her. Then we visited club Domme a Domme first, then club DeLust. Finally I took her to Psi’s realm and tied her up there, strictly locked in chains, exposed to the public. What a nice slave.

May 11th: Diomita and slave Kari at home and at Psi’s realm

slave Kari had to leave und I left her tied up at Psi’s realm. I went to club Domme a Domme. I had some chats that distracted me from Zana, who was also there. Neither me nor she did say any word to each other. I had several other IMs. I wondered that Flo hadn’t shown up all night, then I got an IM from slave Holly and saw Flo logging off. SL had played tricks on us obviously. I talked with Holly, who has been online for 30 minutes already. and at the same time I began being busy with a RP that had been interrupted for a few days. Holly and I talked about the theme for Friday night. When I tried to get home I had two crashes ….
Anyway, Holly had to leave for an early start and I was tied up in my RP … but that’s another story.

Diary 2023 (20) February 20th/21st Within the family

23 Feb 2023 Leave a comment

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Monday, February 20th, I was inworld comparably early. slave Marta (muzylla) was present. I went to her cell to check if she had finished with exchanging her RR gag and blindfold. She had not and she was making excuses. I helped her a bit, then I left her leashed at the cell so that she would have enough time to finish.
Angelique came by and we caught up with our mutual news, then we went to club DeLust. We chatted and Angelique had fun teasing me. What a brat!
When slave Flo came inworld Angelique logged off and I went seeing Flo. We played a round of skipee until slave Holly joined is. I returned to club DeLust with Flo and slave Holly.
We stayed at the club until first Flo, then slave Holly had to go to bed. I took the opportunity to return home and to bed as well.

February 20th: Diomita at club DeLust with Angelique and slave Holly

Tuesday night was kind of a family get together. I was inworld early again and visited club DeLust alone. Mistress came inworld and we first chatted in IM. Mistress must have been at home as she notified me that slave Marta had come inworld. I had seen that, But knowing that Mistress was at home, I returned to our skybox to see and catch up with her there. Together we then went to slave Marta.
slave Marta had finally adjusted her new RR gag, but it upsat me that she was wearing her old gag in addition and that the keys of the new gag weren’t out for me to grab them. It will take some time to educate this new slave *winks*.
slave Alessi joined us by the cage and Flo was playing skipee alone (she must have wanted to win *grin). I took slave Marta and slave Alessi with me to the games, Mistress Cherry returned to her work for her store.
I leashed slave Marta next to me while Flo, slave Alessi and I played one round of skipee. Ebony came by while we were playing and she teased and distracted everyone, which was spicing up our game. And also slave Holly joined us. Almost a family get together, just Angelique and Kitty were missing.

February 21st: Mistress Cherry and Diomita and at home with Flo, Ebony, slave Holly, slave Alessi and slave Marta

After the game I took all with me to Psi’s realm for a family picture. Lately it has been often quiet at Psi’s realm and it was quiet again that night. Hence we moved on the club DeLust after Flo and Ebony had left for bed.

February 21st: Diomita at club deLust with slave Holly, slave Alessi and slave Marta

Diary 2023 (15) February 6th/7th A nice and quiet start into the week

09 Feb 2023 Leave a comment

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Monday, February 6th, I managed to visit an exhibition – Face and Body Language by Mareea Farrasco (read here). And at night, as none was around first, I visited the February exhibition at Nitroglobus Roof Gallery (post will be published tomorrow).
Upon my return Alessi was present and I went seeing her. slave Alessi was wearing her egg the first time and I tired to get familiar with the menu. slave Holly came inworld soon later.
We had a round of skipee first, slave Alessi had too good cards! Hence it was a comparably quick game. slave Holly had issues with her animations and it took a while to gather the reason for that. Actually we found out about it when I had taken slave Holly and slave Alessi to club DeLust already.

February 6th: Diomita at home and at club DeLust with slave Holly and slave Alessi

I had a chatty night talking mainly with slave Holly, a bit with slave Alessi and a bit with other guests at the club. slave Holly reminded me of my upcoming 15th rezzday. I admit that I had forgot about it. And usually I write a longer blogpost on this occasion summarizing the year and what happened. I think, that I won’t have the time for that this year *sighs*.
It was another nice and relaxed evening in SL.

Tuesday, February 7th, I spent some time writing for the blog. At night I met with Flo and we played two rounds of skipee. Both games were close and weired. So that was fun!
I took Flo t oPsi’s realm next and summoned slave Holly to us when she came inworld. There was not much going on at Psi’s realm. It is either busy and entertaining or …. like that night… it is quite quiet. After Flo had left I took slave Holly woth me to club DeLust.

February 7th: Diomita at Psi’s realm and at club DeLust with Flo and slave Holly

I enjoyed anohter half hour with slave Holly at club DeLust, teased her and enjoyed her vulnerability.
And that’s it about the start of the week.

Happy New Year 2023 and some stats and findings about this blog (2022 in review)

01 Jan 2023 2 Comments

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2022 has been another challenging year for all of us. This time it wasn’t just the darn virus, it was even more the Russian Agression and the following war in Ukraine, the scarcity of energy, disturbed supply chains and a skyrocketing inflation that made it not the best year in RL for many of us.

In SL all was fine, it was Jenny’s and my heavently escape from RL, the world how we would bake it, if we could. But there is no SL without RL. In July my wife, owner, slave, Mistress, my beloved partner in SL, Jenny, passed away unexpectedly. From one day to the other my SL was not the same anymore! I considered to leave SL and to stop writing as Jenny wasn’t around me anymore. My family and friends in SL helped a lot to keep me inworld, and even to continue blogging. But the easiness had gone. I changed the name of the blog, and stopped blogging daily, yet I continued the diary and I still post new entries regularly, just not every day anymore.
There are several posts about this dark time in SL. I want to point to two posts that were hard to write. One is a tribute to Mistress Jenny (read “A tribute to Jenny Maurer“) published September 3rd, 2022. The other is about the changes in this blog (read “Upcoming changes in this blog“), published September 4th, 2022.

On a lighter note, I got closer to cherry (Elenaslv Serenity) end of November 2022 and within a few days I fully submitted to her. She does not replace Jenny, she’s way to different for that, and none can ever replace her! But a new chapter, a new journey started for me and for Mistress Cherry.

In 2022 there about 160 diary entries, over 100 posts about art in Second Life and 21 simploring reports. Over all the blog grew by 333 new posts bringing the total archive of this blog to over 2,900 (!) posts.
As taking pictures is one of my passions in SL and storage space here is not free, I group my pictures to save space. When you click the pictures you can see them a bit larger. I also post the pictures on deviant art (Diomita Maurer at Deviant art). For my simploring tours I have a flickr account where I publish pictures from these tours in full size. As there’s a picture limit of 1,000 for a free acount, you find there only the pictures of the last about 30 simploring tours. There you get the pictures in a higher resolution. In total I took more than 12,000 pictures in 2022.

In 2022 the number of visitors of the blog remained at close to 15,000 people. Also the number of clicks was quite stable with 46,000 compared to 45,000 in 2021. Most clicks came from the Germany (11,100), US (8,100) and the UK (4,100). The number of followers was quite unchanged as well with 245 compared to 240 in 2021. The statistics show that in total people from over 130 (!) countries visited our blog. Many thanks to all friends, readers and followers.
Most found our blog coming from search engines (14.200) and from deviantart (1,400). Again not only the new blog entries attracted readers, there’re also some “evergreens”. The Top 6 Posts in 2022 were:

1. The Victorian Corset Story – Part II –  1,109 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo) – ranked 1st also in 2021
2. The Victorian Corset Story – Part III – 337 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo) – ranked 2nd also in 2021
3. the About page – 294 clicks – revised in September 2022
4. Sissy sold – 248 clicks – August 2013
5. Maurer’s slave Holly aka. honoursgirl – 212 clicks – April 2021
6. The Victorian Corset Story – Part I – 200 clicks – March 2017 (written by Flo)

This blog contains a lot of memories for me and for the people close to me in Second Life. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around Jenny and me in Second Life and has grown with time. In the meanwhile I read back myself often to look up a date or to check if I came across a place already before. I introduced a new series in 2019, the “Backflash of the month”. In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers this series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives. After Jenny’s death I missed picking a “Backflash of the month” post every month. I intend to improve and to pick one every month in 2023.

I still have fun writing and it’s my intention to continue the blog, but I might blog less as I have planned some journeys in 2023. Hence I will blog, when I find the time for it and when I am in the mood for it. I personally think that we spend a lot our free time in real life in this virtual world. It makes sense to keep the memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and they stay vivid and present this way.

Thanks again for reading and following my blog.
Have a great and peaceful (!) year 2023 in SL and in RL, and stay healthy!
Diomita Maurer

Diary 2022 (159) December 28th/29th Between the years

31 Dec 2022 Leave a comment

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When I came inworld Wednesday night, December 28th, Flo was already playing skipee. I talked in IM with Mistress Cherry and Angelique and then went to Flo. Angelique joined Flo and me at the skipee table and after we had caught up with our news Angelique, Flo and I had a nice game of skipee. I took Angelique and Flo to club DeLust. We tried hard to initiate any main chat, but failed as usual. But we had fun. slave Alessi joined us too.
I was still in IM with Mistress Cherry and later Domina Ansar showed up with sapphire (littleshy97) and Mistress Cherry at her leash. Quite weired considering the connections: Domina with Mistress Cherry at her leash, Mistress Cherry’s property Diomita with her subs at her leash.

December 28th at club DeLust: Diomita, Angelique, Flo and slave Alessi / Domina Ansar with sapphire and Mistress Cherry

When Flo and Angelique went off to bed, I stayed at club DeLust with slave Alessi and I began to tease her, mainly in private chat but also a bit in main chat. I restricted her more and more, step by step. I had fun and nejoyed my control – and slave Alessi enjoyed my attention and her helplessness. Later I went to Carnal Intentions with slave Alessi and I put her into the small cage there. I left her alone for a few minutes safely stored there when I had to return home to say good night to Mistress Cherry. Back at Carnal Intentions I continued teasing slave Alessi. It was way over my bedtime, but I had fun.

December 28th: Diomita at club DeLust and at Carnal Intentions with slave Alessi

Thursday, December 29th, I was inworld in the afternoon. slave Holly was present. She had returned from her Christmas family trip and was online to say hello before leaving for the year-end weekend. I had half an hour with her at club DeLust and we caught up with our mutual news.

At night I met with Mistress Cherry for a kiss, then I joined Flo at the skipee table. We played two rounds. After the game I went to club DeLust with her and we watched the silent crowd while chatting amoung us. slave Alessi joined us just before Flo went off to bed. I had selected a hood to complete the slave outfit for the January slave outfit and slave Alsssi was the first to try it on. I had fun teasing slave Alessi and trying out the hood. Later I went to Psi’s realm with her.

December 29th: Diomita at club DeLust and at Psi’s realm with slave Holly, Flo and slave Alessi

Diary 2022 (156) December 17th/18th A quiet season weekend

22 Dec 2022 Leave a comment

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Saturday, December 17th, I met with Mistress in the later morning. We first caught up with our news, then Mistress and I spent some time together at club DeLust before we both had to tend to our RL again.
We met again after lunch and had more than 2 hours together. Mistress began to tease me and rezzed several BDSM furnitures. The first was a large display box, where I was hung spread-eagled with a dildo pole inside of me. The whole cross could be silded into a box – living art! I thought oh my god, what does Mistress have in mind? Will I be stored like this? Luckily Mistress is not a big fan of storing people – but she laves to tease me. The next piece was a display chest where I was fixed and the whole upper plate could be lowered and the chest could be locked. Again Mistress teased me and asked what I would prefer – the dildo display or the chest. … Mistress continued with a human chair furniture on which I was the back rest for her. Mistress didn’t like it that much as I wasn’t able to kiss and please her locked in this device.
Finally Mistress rezzed a throne in which I was locked with my feet up in the armrests. Mistress tickled me and she teased my face with her feet. The tickling was evil! real torture and no marks.

December 17th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita at club DeLust and at home

I was already willing to do anything for Mistress and quite unsure what would come next of what further meaniness she’d had on stock. But Mistress led me to the bed and we had pure sex licking each other – and having an orgasm both. Thank you, Mistress Cherry.

At night Mistress and I first chatted at CM before Mistress took me to Carnal Intentions where we continued talking. We moved on to club Domme a Domme where I decorated Mistress and we talked a lot getting known to each other more and more. Finally we wento to club DeLust. In total Mistress and I had more than 4 hours together, just talking and being close to eachother. I enjoyed Mistress’ nearness. That night certainly added to submission and strengthened it.

December 17th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita at home, at Carnal Intentions, club Domme a Domme and at club DeLust

Sunday, December 18th, I was inworld and visited Calas Galadhon’s “A Christmas Wish 2022” (read here). I admit I felt a bit sad visiting this Christmas installation without Jenny. It was one of the many Christmas rituals we had in Second Life. I had changed into something “Christmassy” and kept wearing this outfit at night.
Mistress Cherry was not online. She can’t really handle if people close to her are fighting, it disturbs her mood and hence she had decided to stay off for that Sunday. slave Holly had left a message, that she’s sick RL. Good recovery, Holly! And as Flo wasn’t inworld as well, I roamed a bit around, visited DeLust, Domme a Domme and Psi’s realm.

December 18th: Diomita at Calas Galadhon’s “A Christmas Wish 2022”, Psi’s realm and club Domme a Domme

Flo came inworld later and we played two rounds of skipee. As I had an early start the next day, I went off to bed with Flo at flotime. By the way she went in her bed and I went in mine *winks*

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