Dio’s 13th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2021

Again another year has flown by way too quickly – today marks my 13th anniversary of joining Second Life. Looking back I’d say not much has changed during the last year. But if I think harder and read back in this blog, quite a lot has happened once again in this past year.

As always my review starts with our home and with the family. We still live on the same island with the same neighbors and we just made minor changes here and there. Just my art collection is growing, I call it my art park.
Our family however has changed. Besides Mistress Jenny, our niece Angelique and myself we had “officially” collared our Kitty and the slaves Flo, cecy, Christin, and Gwendi as of February 11th, 2020.

On November 24th, 2019 we got a message from slave Christin that she has some RL problems to care about and won’t be online for a while. It was the last time we heard from her. We released her on February 29th, 2020. Christin showed up again, yet has cut all contact with us – for what reason ever.
Sadly we also lost contact to our slave cecy (cecysumi). He RL and the non fitting timezones made it hard for her to stay in touch. After we didn’t hear from her for more than 3 months we released her on September 9th, 2020. She hasn’t shown up again so far. Nonetheless she will stay a sub friend and be always welcome, if she makes it back into Second Life.
And there’s slave Gwendi. Missing her since August 23rd, 2020, we shied back from releasing her officially and hoped and waited. Then all of a sudden, Gwendi showed up again a week ago, on February 2nd, 2021. She told us that she was seriously sick and hadn’t been in the mood for Second Life after her recovering. But while we can understand that, we can’t understand that she left not a single sign of life. We are happy that she’s alive, but being that unimportant to leave us without any information simply hurt us – it hurt us too much. I unlocked her collar, the day she returned. Good Luck, Gwendi.

Oct 29th, 2019: Diomita with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave Christin at Mesmerize Dungeon / May 11th, 2020: Mistress Jenny and slave slut cecy

In the first half of 2020 Ebony (Ebony Massey) got closer to us as our sub. She has a strong domme side though for others and has some obligations in her SL. On June 24th, Mistress Jenny and I decided to adopt our big black bytch as our step daughter instead of collaring her as our slave. This way she can continue her multiple obligations in SL, can even live out her domme side, and stay close with us at the same time. And step mums can be cruel …. and of course we will enforce our Cinderella to work for us (or punish her for motivation). Consequently Ebony will be called “Cinders” or “Maurer’s Cinders”.
slave Melissa came to us with the intention to stay a few days, maybe weeks and to escape then to tend to other adventures. She underestimated Mistress and my will and possessiveness and after some more weeks Melissa came to terms with her new situation and finally gave up any plans or thoughts of escape. The effect of the Stockholm syndrome kicked in and she submitted more and more from her own will. On September 9th, 2020 we collared Melissa (MelissaRLV). Melissa is from Italy, and hence we named her Maurer’s schiava (Italian for Maurer’s slave).
In January 2021 Ember (brie4675) approached us. She was seeking a life under control and strict restrictions preferably covered in latex. We had met her before in 2018 and 2019 and played with her for a bit but she retreated again as timezones didn’t seem to fit. Nowadays the fit is better for her, although she’s 5 to 6 hours behind us. Long story short I took control of her on January 3rd, 2021 and Ember became Maurer’s toy. slave toy was with us every day for almost 3 weeks and then left on January 20th.

Nov 13th, 2020: Ebony dancing / Jan 10th, 2021: slave Melissa, Irene and slave toy enjoying bondage / Jan 1st, 2021 Faye dancing

As of today the our family consists of Mistress Jenny, our niece Angelique, our step-daughter Ebony, our housekeeper, head maid and head slave Flo, our Kitty, slave Melissa. Yet there are more subs and slaves around us, some might get closer and end in our collar, some stay just close sub friends, and others might vanish again like Ember (brie4675). Without any specific order I want to mention Faye (Boy Serenity), Irene (AdlerIrene) and Alessi20.
And I have to mention Ann (TransAnn) here, who became a closer friend of ours. She is a friend of Gwendi and our latex and gear expert.

Several times last year Mistress, Angelique and I had fun as two and as three Angelique’s. Angelique provided her shape and hair and we dressed almost or fully alike and went out. Being in her shoes felt strange but most of all we just enjoyed ourself and the comments we got – who could handle three Angelique’s?

October 2nd, 2020: Three Angelique’s / December 15th, 2020: Ann at Oblivion

Mistress Jenny and I had several adventures in the course of my last year. We had one longer ongoing roleplay with a domme. Unfortunately this roleplay ended without a proper end as the domme appeared less and less in Second Life. We haven’t seen her for the last 6 months. All of our other attempts to get a vacation or time-out together as subs failed but we won’t give up seeking *winks*. Every play adds to our experience.
I personally had several shorter plays as a sub with other dommes, always with Mistress Jenny’s explicit consent. Mostly she stayed in direct contact with these dommes. Mistress appreciates it as it fosters and strengthens my sub side and with it my submission to her. I don’t report of the joint and personal adventures in our blog, everyone needs at least a bit of confidentiality.

My submission to Mistress Jenny has grown during this last year. I don’t see that change any more. My growing submission and Mistress Jenny’s strengthening position became manifest in my slave collar. The times Mistress allows me to wear my sub collar or even the partnering collar have become short and rare. Mistress Jenny and I still enjoy our journey together and I desire her more than ever. We both enjoy also the green lights, that Mistress grants to me regularly. Having Mistress Jenny at my feet is a particular experience for me and her. I think it helps to keep our relation fresh and healthy. Thank you for owning me, Mistress Jenny, my love, my world.

July 7th and December 13th, 2020: Mistress Jenny and Diomita

 

What else? I kept this blog running another year, with one post every single day:
– one “Enjoying Bondage” picture every month (12 posts)
– one “Backflash”-entry, picking an old post to republish every month (12 posts)
– roughly 85 simploring entries
– roughly 85 Art in Second Life entries
– about 180 diary posts

All of my simploring tours were nice and added a lot to my SL. The last year was particular as I couldn’t travel in RL, so my travels in Second Life became even more valuable for me. Scrolling through the long list I want to mention Serene Footman’s Khodovarika in Summer, his Ubay Island and Kohlmannskuppe, Jade Koltai’s Hotel del Salto, Walsh County and Dya OHare’s sims Dya’s scent of the Caribbean – all places inspired by weired or unknown places in RL, places you’d normally never ever get to in the physcial life.
Then there were the sims that actually were inspired by well known cities and places, like Paris 1900, Midnight in Paris, BKLYN, New Brighton, Dagger Bay Autumn 2020 and Dya OHare’s Dya’s Southern Twilight.
The sims of Fred Hamilton (frecoi) and Lotus Mastroianni A Favela, A Thousand Windows and Summer in the City as well as The Apartments by Paradox Ivory were inspiring as they tried out new concepts of sim design, very well made.

I enjoyed lovely sims, places that were designed to create an environment to relax and chill out, little paradises. Representative for these sims I want to mention The Getaway – Nutmeg, Silent Melody, Carolina 2020, Dream Village, Boulder, Still Waters, Northern Shore – Skärgården in Summer 2020 and Ruegen.

I also visited adult places that are not only focused on sex but offer a nice environment in addition, more stylish places. Also just respresentativ I want to mention Opium Beach and music hall, Paracosm, Oblivion and Bellefleurs.

Last year I began to split my simploring series into “simploring” and “Art in Second Life”, although the boundaries between the two often overlap. Noir’wen City is such a place. It has adult aspects, it is a big city and it is a place for artists to exhibit. Just lately I visited the Art Galerie HaXue there.
I think I covered all joint exhibitions at La Maison d’Aneli last year. The last entry was bout the exhibtion of Jan/Feb 2021 (read here) The reports about these exhibtions are always quite some work as many artists participate and as I have to do some research to report about their work. But it is always also fun and it is exciting to see how Second Life and virtual art, that is only possible in such a digital environment, gain more and more attention.
I discovered the Hannington Art Foundation and reported about quite some exhibtions there, like Hexagonia by Amita Duranjaya, little boxes by Etamae or Elusive Reality by Gem Preiz.
I visited quite often the new DixMix Gallery which also has changing exhibitions of different artists. To name just a few I saw Silence by Theda Tammas, Geomorphism by Moki Yuitza, Barock by Caly Applewhyte and Charly Keeley-Keating’s Autumns Glow.

And of course I also visited some galleries owned and curated by the artists themselves like the SUBCUTAN Art Gallery and Multimedia Centre by Sophie de Saint Phalle (read here), Art Gallery Rill’Arts by Nils Urqhart (read here), the Fractal Insanity gallery by Milly Sharple (read here) or the VeGeTaL PLaNeT Gallery by Vroum Short (read here).
Last but not least I think I covered all of Cica Ghost’s lovely art installations, that always conjured a smile in my face, even when thinking back to Monsters, Elephants, Summertime or Another Fairy Tale.

My simploring tours and art in Second Life are a nice and important counterbalance to my kinky second life within my family and friends.
What is missing in this review of the last year? Yes a picture of myself to document the change of my avatar. I grew a bit older and I played a little bit with my hairstyle. The right picture shows my “Corona”-style, less volume, easier to cut.

Diomita Maurer in 2021

What a year again! I’m still happy and I enjoy the journey at the side of my beloved partner and Mistress Jenny. We both as well as the core members of our little family are embedded in a great community of friends, we know some of them way over a decade now, some for several years and some are new friends of ours. Even if not mentioned by name in this anniversary blog post, these friends do mean a lot to me and to us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who keep my and our SL enjoyable and exciting! It was a great 13th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 14th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Backflash September 2020 – Diary 2019 (132) September 3rd A bondage night (September 8th, 2019)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For September 2020 I selected a post from September 3rd, 2019. That was just one year ago. slave Christin and slave Gwendi were both just collared a couple of days. Unfortunately slave Christin has left us in the meanwhile. I had a bondage night with the slaves that night, always something nice to do and to enjoy – and always nice to remember.


Diary 2019 (132) September 3rd A bondage night

Tuesday, September 3rd, I had some time with Mistress Jenny in the afternoon. We caught up and I was allowed to lick Mistress and to get my fix. My addiction to her, to the taste of her juices and to please her is getting stronger and stronger. Knowing that I need it ensures that I won’t forget my position. Afterwards we went seeing slave Gwendi and took her to Mesmerize Dungeon for a bit.

September 3rd: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home and at Mermerize Dungeon with slave Christin

I had plans for the night. When I returned at night I took slave Gwendi to our Stonehaven patio and leashed her at the wall. Then I began to  arrange a slapping and fucking rack, a bondage rack made of steel and the dual slave post at the patio. I summoned slave Emmi and fixed her on the bondage rack. I tied slave Christin on the slapping and fuck rack. Finally I took slave Gwendi and slave Flo to the dual slave post. I walked around, played with the remote of the slapping and fucking rack, I used a stand with a magic wand to tease slave Emmi and I added a dildo gag to the dual slave post.

September 3rd – a bondage night: slave Christin on the slapping and fucking device / slave Flo and slave Gwendi on the dual slave post and slave Emmi fixed to the bondage rack

It didn’t take long, then slave Christin began to beg for allowance to cum, but I ordered her to wait until slave Gwendi had her orgasm. I continued teasing the slaves until first slave Gwendi and then slave Christin shouted their thank you. What a lovely show entertaining me after all the “work” I had before. I freed slave Christin and slave Gwendi and ordered them to care about slave Flo. I myself tended to slave Emmi, I played with the magic wand and finally finger fucked her. Eventually slave Emmi had an orgasm as well. Just slave Flo was unable to climax, I assume the batteries in her dildo were down … poor slave.

September 3rd – a bondage night: Diomita with slave Christin, slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave Emmi

September 3rd – a bondage night: Diomita with slave Christin, slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave Emmi / Diomita at home with slave Christin, slave Emmi and slave Gwendi

After slave Flo had left to bed, I took the slaves to Mesmerize Dungeon as I wanted to wind down a bit. Unfortunately someone who I had blocked pestered us standing directly in front of me, didn’t move away when I asked her politely and followed us to another spot at Mesmerize Dungeon. Hence we went back home. She followed us even to our home. I had to ban her from there. Well, that’s also Second Life, like in RL there’re a few rude people.


Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2019/09/08/diary-2019-132-september-3rd-a-bondage-night/

Dio’s 12th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2019 – Part III

Before yesterday, I had my 12th anniversary of joining Second Life.
It has become a tradition for me to write a longer blog post on the occasion of my rezzdays, to have a look back on the last year and to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Before yesterday, I published Part I of my anniversary entry and talked about my closer family and the changes in my family, yesterday’s part II was about the simploring tours I made in my 12th year. And today’s part III is about other highlights of my 12th year in Second Life.

12 years in Second Life – part III:
Other highlights of my 12th year

What else happened in this 12th year? Without research in my own blog I’d say not much aside from the changes in my family (see part I My home and my family). In fact we had a lot of fun and exciting experiences again.
End of February 2019 I kidnapped sappy (durham novaland) who I met at Heavy Bondage Club (read here). We had a nice roleplay with slave sappy, kept her restricted and amused ourselves with her for more than 2 months.

The kidnapping of SapphicSentiment (durham novaland)

Then slave sappy was caught by Mistress Oblivion (herindoors3) and we sold her to her. I had met Mistress Oblivion myself just a few weeks before also at Heavy Bondage Club, what a coincidence! Mistress Oblivion had an appartment with some little extras where she kept her victims. Later she built a seperate facility, The Facility and in October she caught first Kitty and then Mistress Jenny. I had to negotiate hard and had to fulfill some requests to get Kitty and Mistress Jenny free (read here). The Facility still exists, yet Mistress Oblivion has left it to MadamMoonbeam.

October 21st: Diomita visiting Mistress Jenny at The Facility

End of March 2019 Mistress Jenny took me on a tour to different sims, that she had explored before, one of them was EvaTek. Mistress Jenny showed me the doll transformation machine there and instructed me to transform slave slut cecy. And when slut cecy showed up at night I brought her to the transformation machine. slave Flo witnessed slave slut cecy becoming a doll slut. Doll slut cecy was locked in her suit for some weeks, she couldn’t deny teleports and her speech was restricted in a funny way (read here). For sure she was a colourful eye candy for all others.

March 27th: doll slut cecy looking at the board explaining EvaTek dolls / Diomita with slave Flo and doll slut cecy at Psi’s realm and at EvaTek

In February 2019 I met Lexie (Lexie Dragovar). What began with teasing ended in blackmailing me to serve her. I did enjoy the roleplay and it felt quite real although I had told Mistress Jenny about it. Mistress Jenny insisted that I continued it. It clearly supported my submissiveness and Mistress turned it into her advantage. This roleplay lasted until the first days of April when it cooled down. I found out why by the end of April when I was invited to a “little revealing party” where all victims of Lexie gathered. Lexie herself (and an alt of her) had been caught by Mistress E. Mistress Jenny and I are still in a loose contact with E. For sure the Lexie story was one of my more intense experiences in 2019 (read here).

April 27th: Lexie D’s coming out

For three months, from May to July, we had slave Emmi (rileylynch) with us quite often. Emmi is a real bondage doll and up for being tied up almost always. She has a broad variety of gear and she’s a real expert using the same wardrobe system that we use. We had fun with her and she became a helpful sub friend when it comes to technical issues or new features like baked mesh. We also had slave Kathryn (Sheva Xaris) with us in Summer 2019. slave Kathryn is a friend of Kitty, living in the Western US and hence not in a very convenient timezone with us. Although slave Kathryn didn’t get that close to us we had a lot of fun with her.


Kitty is also together with slave Dana (Dana Drezelan) every once in a while and thus we still follow her ways in SL and see her sometimes although we released slave Dana due to not matching online times many years ago (end of 2014). slave Dana lured Kitty to a place for sissies and Kitty became a sissy for several days and we had fun teasing her and peeking into the very particular world of sissies end of September 2019 (read here)

September 29th: Dio with sissy Kitty at “Gans”

slave Luci (Luci Glendale) came to us in October 2019 and is close to us ever since. slave Luci is a quiet and obedient slave. She’s not seeking being owned officially as she has also a relationship with someone else, who she just sees way to rarely. We will see where this leads to.


Many years ago I got a small plot and house on mainland with my premium membership. We called it Maurer’s Loft. Mistress Jenny and I used it as a retreat or when we wanted to talk with a sub/slave out-of-character. In Spring 2019 Linden Labs released new homes with a higher prim allowance and we gave up our Maurer’s loft in order to get one of these. I wasn’t lucky and always ran late when a new series of homes were released. Finally by the end of 2019 I got a new home within my premium membership, a nice large house in Victorian style – our Maurer’s Loft 2.0 (read here). We could also install a seperate skybox and thus Mistress Jenny and I have another (secret) retreat.

December 28th: Maurer’s Loft 2.0

We also still enjoy bondage in all forms. We tried out new racks, new toys and new restrictive gear. In November we put all slaves into an isolation suit which can be coloured individually and offers quite a lot of partly mean restrictions (read here). slave slut cecy is still wearing this suit up until today and we plan to keep her in it for many months to come, we will just change the colour and the restrictions. I continued creating one “Enjoying Bondage” picture per month, that always also highlighted the activities of the according month.

Enjoying Bondage November 2019 – The slaves in Isolation suits: slave slut cecy, slave Gwendi, Diomita, slave Flo, slave Christin, Mistress Jenny

Last but not least we had our great Friday night parties every Friday. For more than a decade we start our weekend in SL and RL dancing and chatting. Thank you Virgo for providing great music every Friday throughout the year!

Friday night party November 1st: Mistress Jenny, papafox57, Virgo, Linda (lindaleefox), Diomita, slave Christin (upper row), Diable (Orson Neutron), Firefly (rmf361sim), Starbright Wingtips, Della Randt, slave Gwendi, slave Flo (lower row)

My 12th year in Second Life was coined by my growing submissiveness to Mistress Jenny. I hadn’t thought that it could still grow. My green lights when Mistress granted me to dominate her got shorter, my red lights when Mistress pushed me deep into subspace got longer and were intense. Red and green lights were for sure also highlights in my 12th year. During my red lights Mistress easily eliminated some of my remaining Limits (if not all). She succeeded in surprising me again and again. I won’t forget the long time in subspace that I had in November and December 2019, a really particular experience for me. I got fully addicted to her in many ways. Although I still own my Mistress wife as well (and that will not change!), I’m her owned Ehesklavin except for my green lights or other times when Mistress grants more leeway.

Mistress Jenny and Diomita 2019 – scenes of a very particular relation

Thank you so much for your love, your care and your creativity, Mistress Jenny, my love, my world.

With that I will end the series of anniversary blog posts. Mistress Jenny and I as well as the core members of our little family are embedded in a great community of friends, we know some of them way over a decade now, some for several years and some are new friends of ours. Even if not mentioned by name in this anniversary blog post, these friends do mean a lot to me and to us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who keep my and our SL enjoyable and exciting! It was a great 12th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 13th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Dio’s 12th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2019 – Part I

Oh my gooad.. I can’t believe it! 12 years in Second Life!
Today marks my 12th anniversary of joining Second Life. Considering that there’s only one life you can live, the virtual world of Second Life has become a part of my everyday life. And the intention of this blog was and is to keep the memories alive, although places and people simply vanish sometimes. Reading back I’m able to remember, like a journey in my memories. In May 2019 I began a new monthly series in this blog called “Backflash”. In this series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. That’s always quite interesting also for myself! For our readers the new series provides an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

Like every year I write a longer blog post on the occiasion for my rezzday. I’ll have a look back on the last year to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Like I did for my last anniversaries, I will split this anniversary post – this time into even 3 parts. The part one will be about our family, the part two about my simploring tours and part 3 about the other highlights of my 12th year. Enjoy!

12 years in Second Life – part I: My home and my family

Let’s start with our home. Once again it hasn’t changed. We didn’t make any major refurbisment. Obviously we’re quite happy with it and it does feel like home, just like in the physical world. There have been only some minor changes, some more plants, some new furniture and toys. And my art collection, consisting of sculptures and pictures, which I either bought or got as a present from artists is growing.

Dio’s little art park – some new exhibits of 2019: Humanitree by Milly Sharple and Yes/No by Reycharles

During the last year the family has changed again.
On Tuesday, January 15th, 2019 Mistress Jenny and I collared slave Gwen (gwenney) as Maurer’s slave Gwen. One week after her collaring, slave Gwen sent an offline IM to me that she has some RL issues and wight be off a couple of days. We haven’s seen slave Gwen ever since. 5 months later, on June 22nd, 2019, we released her officially from our Service. We hope she’s doing well. Like all other former slaves of ours, slave Gwen is always welcome at our home.

After we released slave Gwen we had only three official collared slaves for quite a while: Kitty, slave slut cecy and slave Flo. That changed during the Summer. On August 24th, we collared slave Christin and a few days later on August 29th we collared slave Gwendi.

Kitty is doing well and is still adventurous and causes mischief. We still get messages every once in a while from people who caught her or who she had locked up. Mistress and Kitty meet sometimes in our morning and I also met her several times regardless of our not fitting timezone. We stay in touch and this blog is also very helpful for Kitty to catch up with our news. Besides being our collared slaveboy ..ehm … slavegirl, Kitty has become a close friend of ours in addition.

Unfortunately also our slave slut cecy lives in a different timezone (slut is Mexican). Her RL prevents her from being with us most of the time. We see slut irregularly about once a week. slut is very loyal and manages to stay in touch but it is hard to integrate her when she appears all of a sudden. As we don’t want to spoil her short online time with technical stuff we refrained from getting a meshbody for her and we change her outfit only very rarely. The catsuit that she’s wearing right now will become her second skin. It can be colour changed easily to have some variation and it is restrictive.

slave Flo has been a very good slave. Quite often she was our only slave present after slave Gwen didn’t show up again. slave Flo is still enjoying bondage and restrictions. Being our head slave Mistress and I rewarded her and dedicated the slave’s hut “Shangri-La” for her use. slave Flo is keeping our house clean from pixel dust. How can someone show more dedication and loyality than by this sysphos work? slave Flo developed her own status within the family and like Kitty she has become also a personal friend, a fix part of our Second Life and we’re happy and proud to own her.

Christin (Christinvega) began visiting our homesim in Autum 2018. She in every once in a while and in March 2019 we had a first chat with her. We learned that she’s from Norway, that she’s submissive and we could tell that she’s a bit shy at least at first. She attended the next Friday night party and then was absent for several months. She returned end of June, stayed close and and we took more and more control of her. She slowly opened up more and more and as she got known to us she even developed more confidence, she became more bratty and she got a bit closer to slave Flo and Angelique. But she stayed very obedient, patient and not needy. slave Christin began her traditional trial for us on Saturday, August 17th. Exactly one week later, on August 24th, we collared slave Christin as our Maurer’s Norsk Brat Christin. Welcome to the family, slave Christin.

We had noticed Gwendi Dash many times before. She was visiting the same clubs and places as we do and her often shiny or fancy outfit caught our eyes. We also got in contact to her several times, mostly talking about her clothes. That all changed with a short but funny conversation with her about slave Flo and slave Christin on August 15th and I invited Gwendi to join our Friday night party the other day. Gwendi was present when we started slave Christin’s trial and she was with us ever since. She hold company at slave Christin’s trial cell and of course she attended all the conversations we had with slave Christin during the trial. While attending slave Christin’s trial, Gwendi agreed to give up more and more control and I restricted her to our home, her home from now on. It became almost a double trial. Hence Gwendi’s own trial was comparably short but very intense. We didn’t leave her any real choice, actually she was already our’s before she entered the trial cell, she just didn’t know it. We collared slave Gwendi on August 29th, 2019 as “Maurer’s slave Gwendi”.

And there’s Angelique, our niece. She’s not collared by us. Angelique has a very spophisticated and elaboarted wardrobe and is very helpful. When it comes to dressing, she’s our style consultant. She’s also very attractive herself and is irresistable when she’s in a kinky mood. Angelique is obedient and submissve and very loyal. My relation to Angelique cooled down while she was not in the mood for anything for a few months. But then we got closer again, maybe even closer than before. Roleplaying with her is exciting and she still allies sometimes Mistress Jenny against me but still it stays just teasing. Angelique is another fix part of my Second Life.

With slave Gwendi some of her closer friends became close to us as well. I want to mention here in particular our shiny Ann (TransAnn). Ann has always itchy feet and can’t stay still or without roaming around restlessly – nonetheless she and her helpful ways is a real enrichment for our family.

Besides Mistress Jenny and myself the core family at the start of my 13th year consists of Angelique, Kitty, slave Flo, slave slut cecy, slave Christin and slave Gwendi.
The solid base of my Second Life is my relation to Mistress Jenny, my beloved wife, partner and property. We shared these 12 years together and for some we’re seen as one person (DioJen) already. I couldn’t believe it but my submission to Mistress Jenny has even further grown. She made my submission to her irreverible. Nonetheless Mistress Jenny still grants (way too short) green lights where I may tie her up and be in control. I personally think that these role swaps are one reason why our relation stays exciting, varied and gets even stronger.
Mistress insists that I head the family, but to some extent that’s more a delegation as she has grown into the (not very secret) decider in the background. We exchange about everyhting, our everyday life, our Second Life, all matters regarding the family, we tease each other, we try to get enough time for playing amoung ourselves, we love each other.
Besides all the fun I have in Second Life, besides my simploring tours, that I enjoy a lot, Jenny is for sure the reason that I’m still in Second Life after these 12 years – and that it became a part of my life. Thank you, Mistress Jenny!

End of part I, part II will be about my simploring tours and part III about the other highlights of my 12th year.

Merry Christmas 2019

We wish all friends and readers of our blog a merry Christmas. Enjoy time with your families in Real Life and in Second Life, just celebrate!

 

 

And for all, who haven’t seen yet the yearly christmas installation from Calas Galadhon “A Calas Christmas” here’s an official video of it. It is still amazing what “our” Second Life has to offer. Enjoy!

 

Diary 2019 (180) November 14th/15th – Colourful slaves

I met with Mistress Jenny in the afternoon on Thursday, November 14th. We went to Heavy Bondage Club and watched the silent crowd while we caught up with our mutual news and talked and chit chatted. Ann came by and stood behind us for a while. We enjoyed our time together that went by far too quickly.

At night Mistress wasn’t inworld due to her RL. When I returned in the evening slave Gwendi and slave Flo were present. slave Flo was playing greedy and slave Gwendi and I joined her. slave Flo was still unhappy with the pink of her isolation suit. We had a sidebet playing greedy 3 days before – if one of the slaves win, she could decide the colour of the suits. slave Christin won this game and wanted to decide the very next day but obviously her RL prevented her from joining us since that night.

November 14th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Heavy Bondage Club with Ann behind us / Diomita at home and at Mesemrize Dungeon with slave Gwendi and slave Flo / slave Gwendi’s restricted view on Diomita

I took the slaves to the house and I sat down having in mind teasing the slaves a bit more but this time my RL kicked in and we had an unplanned break. Upon my return I decided to change at least slave Flo’s isolation suit and I selected a darker white but i kept the hood, her mittens and her boots in pink and I replaced the faceshield with a tranparent mask. Then I took the slaves to Mesmerize Dungeon. I continued playing with the isolation suit of both slaves, removed the mask from slave Flo’s face and coloured her hood, mittens and boots in a grey tone. I changed slave Gwendi’s suit into another white,  and coloured her hood, mittens and boots in red. Oh, and I played with slave Gwendi’s vision restriction.

In the meanwhile slave cyberslut cecy had come inworld and waited at Psi’s realm for us. I assume she was already desperate as she had to wait for 20 minutes and was restricted to IM with me. I had set the isolation suits of the slaves preventing IM except with the one holding the key – and Mistress Jenny still had cyberslut’s key. Accordingly our cyberslut was melting to use her words. Our move to Psi’s realm caused a crash with a roll back for slave Gwendi, hence my settings of her suit were lost and she was coloured pink again. I changed her suit to a grey called slate which looks more like a green and kept her hood, mittens and boots in red.

November 14th: Diomita at Psi’S realm with slave Gwendi, slave Flo and slave cyberslut cecy (and Ann)

The isolation suits have a little hole for relief and slave Gwendi had an accident while we were at Psi’s. Ann came by shortly and teased our cyberslut a bit – as did I. I was a bit mean and didn’t take slave cyberslut cecy’s key and kept her in pink/red. Most probably that excited her even more, in particular as we left her at Psi’s realm when it was slave Flo’s and our all bedtime. Time flies when you’re having fun.

Friday, November 15th, started just like Thursday. I met with Mistress Jenny in the afternoon and we caught up with our news at club Domme a Domme this time. We moved on to Heavy Bondage Club as it was comparably empty at Domme a Domme and we met Ann at Heavy Bondage Club again. She asked Mistress Jenny about her Picasso face and confused as I was I asked Ann “What Picasso face?” Ann showed us how she saw Mistress and me before we rezzed – and yes, it could have been a Picasso, how funny!

This afternoon ended different from the one the day before. I could sense that Mistress was planning to put me into a red light again soon and I asked her about it. She confirmed but left open when. I was eager to please and serve her and when we went home I stripped and knelt for her. Mistress then told me that she had in mind to place my Ehesklavin collar around my neck the next day or even after the weekend …. but as I asked so nicely *sighs* ..click… I’m back at Mistress’ feet. But it was what I longed for, wasn’t it?

November 15th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club Domme a Domme and at Heavy Bondage Club with Ann / “Picasso faces” / Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita at home

Friday night Mistress was absent again due to RL. Nonetheless we had our Friday night party as every Friday and it was fun as every Friday. Virgo set a theme that was quite open for everything “Put on a catsuit or just some jeans and come dance with us now” and hence everyone came more or less as they are. And some had no choice anyway *winks*

November 15th – Friday night party: Claire (maddh4tt3r), Firefly (rmf361sim), Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, papafox57, Jade (enigmawrappednightmare), Belle Panacek (Beltedone Shan), Ann (Transann) (upper row) / Sarah Fhang, vero Hartmann, slave Flo, slave Gwendi, Angelique, Diomita, Baroness Capelo, Virgo Babii (lower row)

 

Diary 2019 (179) November 12th/13th Pink and Red is a fashion trend

Tuesday, November 12th, I went on a longer simploring tour in the afternoon as Mistress was not around that day. Later we had a very quiet night. slave Flo, slave Gwendi and our cyberslut slave cecy were inworld but slave Christin was missing. She had won the greedy the night before and it was up to her to decide for a new colour for the slaves’ isolation suits. While we waited for her to come inworld we played two rounds of greedy yet slave Christin did not show up. slave Gwendi had to leave early and we went to Mesermize Dungeon with slave Flo and slave cecy for a short time until it was slave Flo’s bedtime. Our cyberslut slave cecy desired to be stored at Psi’s realm and we fulfilled her wish before we went to bed ourself. And that’s it already about Tuesday.

November 12th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Flo and slave cecy at Mesmerize Dungeon and with slave cecy at Psi’s realm

Wednesday, November 13th, was quite busy in RL for me and I was not inworld in the afternoon. And my night started late. Mistress, slave Flo, slave Gwendi and Ann were inworld and we went seeing them after we caught up with our mutual news quickly. Ann was wearing a pink catsuit fitting to the pink of our slave’s isolation suits. She wore a black harness and black gear with it. Did she change to look like the slaves? Did Mistress Jenny set a trend with her colour pick for the slaves? Ann said that it was a coincidence but I don’t think so. Anyway, Ann fulfilled my wish to change the colour of her harness and gear to red as well, then she really fitted to our slaves.

November 13th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and Ann at home / Ann’s newest outfit: pink and red is the fashion trend!

We played a round of skipee as teams. slave Gwendi and I did win this very close game. In the meanwhile our cyberslut slave cecy had come inworld and was waiting for us at Psi’s realm where we visited her. I tried out more vision restrictions with slave Gwendi and found two quite intriguing settings: McFerrin and Xtreme.
McFerrin is reall funny. The inside of the shield looks like a smily and leaves just 2 small holes to look through for the slave. A good reminder for the slave to be happy.
Xtreme looks like an Andrew cross from inside. My spontaneous thought was that it looks a bit like the Union Jack, like an hello from Mistress Jenny.

November 13th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave slut cecy / slave Gwendi’s restricted view “McFerrin” and “Xtreme”

slave Christin didn’t show up that night and hence the slaves stayed in there pink/red colour, yet I wasn’t sure anymore if they really want another colour.

Enjoying Bondage November 2019 – The slaves in isolation suits

For this months Enjoying Bondage series I selected a picture that I took at Grannus Dungeon and Prison Play Area on November 6th. I was there with slave Gwendi, slave Flo and slave Christin, sitting on a throne with the slaves at my feet. The slaves had fun talking in riddles with two other visitors. I completed the picture with slave slut cecy on the left from a picture that I made the next day at Psi’s realm. On the right I added Mistress Jenny supervising the scene. The isolation suits are cruel in several ways. First they take the slave’s identity and secondly they offer many different vision and talking restrictions (besides the whole possible “standard” restrictions). Hence I titled the picture “The slaves in isolation suits”.

Enjoying Bondage November 2019 – The slaves in Isolation suits: slave slut cecy, slave Gwendi, Diomita, slave Flo, slave Christin, Mistress Jenny

Diary 2019 (178) November 11th – Diomita in full control (III)

Monday, November 11th, I had another very nice afternoon with Jenny. I waited for her in the harem at Catena et Cavea again, an adult sim that I had explored just recently (see Simploring 2019 (114) Catena et Cavea). When Jenny came online and reported in to me I told her to strip and then summoned her to me. We caught up while she was dancing for me. What a lovely look! Inbetween I told her to dress and I selected a nice pink body for her to wear. I enjoyed this time with my property a lot.

Afterwards I took Jenny with me to club Domme a Domme, just to expose her as mine once again and also to enjoy every single moment of having her at my feet. We went home and I wanted to further enjoy her but Jenny’s RL interfered and she had to leave quickly. I just had enough time to gag and leash my property for later use *winks*

November 11th: Diomita with Jenny at Catena et Cavea and at club Domme a Domme

My night began very enjoyable. Shortly after I got inworld Jenny came online as well. And there was something left to do from the afternoon. I enjoyed my wife tongue and my control. A great start into the evening.

We went seeing the slaves afterwards and I asked Jenny to colour their suites the same way she coloured slut cecy, our cyberslut, the night before. Then we took slave Gwendi, slave Flo and slave Christin to Mesmerize Dungeon and later to Psi’s realm. At both places not very much was going on, although the slaves attracted some attention at Mesemrize Dungeon. But they weren’t at their best and didn’t make fun of them being dressed alike.

November 11th: Jenny and Diomita with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave Christin at Mesmerize Dungeon and at Psi’s realm

It was comparably quiet at Psi’s realm and Jenny and I were just discussing to return home when slave cecy, our cyberslut, came inworld rezzing just next to us. The 4 slaves all looking alike make a great outstanding group. But they were not happy with the colour Jenny had seleted. That’s a bit weired as they should be very happy to please Jenny and me. Anyway, we decided to return home nontheless and played a round of greedy with a side bet. If one of the slaves won it, then this slave might select the colour for all of them. That gave reason for some chatting! slave Christin won the greedy and is considering purple but we allowed her to reconsider it until the next day.

November 11th: Jenny and Diomita with slave Flo, slave Gwendi, slave Christin and cyberslut slave cecy at Psi’s realm and at home / Diomita returning control to Mistress Jenny

Jenny and I retreated to our skybox after the game. My time in full control was already over again. This time I had used all the time that Mistress Jenny had granted before up until the last minute. I unlocked the slave collar and locked Mistress’ partnering collar around her neck again before we went to bed. Thank you for three days in full control, Mistress Jenny.

 

Diary 2019 (176) November 8th/9th – Diomita in full control

We had a relaxed Friday, November 8th. I met with Mistress Jenny in the afternoon and we caught up at Heavy Bondage Club. Shortly after we arrived there, slave Flo came inworld as well and we summoned her so that she could add a colourful highlight to the silent crowd at the club.

November 8th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Heavy Bondage Club with slave Flo / Diomita at home with slave Gwendi

I returned back inworld quite early at night. I bought a new skin that is fitting to be used for BOM (Baked on mesh) and I succeeded in getting my tattoos baked on the Maitreya Mesh body. Now there won’t be a glitch anymore with wearing any see through fabric, latex or plastic and my tattoos are harder to remove. Why harder? Because I think that I won’t change that often and I will forget how to do it.
slave Gwendi was inworld and we chatted until it was time for our regular Friday night party. Mistress came inworld just when it started. She had proposed the theme: “The nights are drawing in, the leaves are falling, it is good time to wear brown”. We enjoyed the music chatted in main and in private and simply had fun starting into the weekend.

Friday night November 8th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita / slave Christin, slave Flo and slave Gwendi, Virgo Babii, Jammy Serendipity (navanaxsacratus) (upper right) / Firefly (rmf361sim), Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, papafox57, Elle (elleonalightheart) (lower right)

Saturday afternoon, November 9th, I took control of Jenny, who had granted a green light two days before. After we caught up with our news I exchanged her partnering collar with her slave collar. It is still the collar she got when I collared Jenny in 2008. I made her strip and she had to insert a little remote egg. Then I took Jenny to Catena et Cavea, an adult sim that I had explored just recently (see Simploring 2019 (114) Catena et Cavea).
At the Beach are just a few BDSM equipments but I liked them in particular as the sub/slave can be seen and as it is a particular place. I decided to use a driftwood post that contains some nice animations. I suspended my property hanging with one arm and began to play with the remote of the egg. I watched her fighting but of course she was soon close to an orgasm. That was the moment I switched the vibrating egg off. I changed her bondage and had just to touch her with my tongue to taste her and to take her over the edge. Yes, I’m addicted to her.

November 9th: Diomita with her property Jenny at the beach of Catena et Cavea

The next spot that I had selected for this afternoon was the villa on the rock. It offers a roof terrace with a breathtaking view over the sim in it’s Autum colours and there’s another suspension rack…

November 9th: Diomita with her property Jenny at the Villa on the rock of Catena et Cavea

There I had my way with Jenny using my strapon and she could shout her thank you (too bad there was none in shouting distance to hear her). Unfortunately my time for this afternoon was already running out. We went back to the beach where I fixed Jenny between two bondage poles and left her there.

November 9th: Diomita with her property Jenny at the Villa on the rock and at the beach of Catena et Cavea

Never plan anything in Second Life as Real Life always has priority and there’s no second life if there’s no first life. Nonetheless we (at least I) tend to make plans. When I returned inworld at night, slave Gwendi was inworld as well but absent. I took her with me to Heavy Bondage Club, read profiles and had a few chats until she returned to her keyboard. I expected slave slut cecy that night, who we had left at Psi’s realm, and I had to pick up Jenny at Catena et Cavea when she returned. Hence I took slave Gwendi to Psi’s realm where we stayed about 20 minutes. It was comparably quiet there. I returned home and played a round of greedy with slave Gwendi. Of course slave slut cecy came inworld just after we hat left Psi’s realm…..

We returned to Psi’s realm and I had fun teasing slave slut cecy … still no Jenny. I began to play with the isolation suits and tried out more vision restrictions. It was already after 11 PM when slave Christin came inworld. I summoned her to us and continued my play with the restrictions. Did I mention that slave slut cecy was melting? *grins*

November 9th: Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave slut cecy, slave Christin and slave Gwendi / Gwendi’s vision: “Holy crap!” (upper right), “Sing” (middle right) and “Alpha” (lower right).

It was close to midnight when I left slave slut cecy at Psi’s realm and took slave Christin and slave Gwendi with me to Mesmerize Dungeon. I had in mind to stay there just shortly and to go to bed. Then Jenny finally came inworld. Hence I left the slaves and picked her up at Catena et Cavea. Jenny and I caught up at Mesermize Dungeon before we took the slaves home and went to bed.

 

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