Backflash January 2020 – Domme a Domme (January 10th, 2012)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
Eight years ago, in January 2012, I wrote a post about “Domme a Domme”, it was the 100th post in this blog. I sorted it under the category “Exploring sims in Second Life”. There was just one single picture in this post. Club Domme a Domme has changed a lot ever since, gone through several full refurbishments and moved. Mistress Jenny and I still visit it quite often, although it is mostly a S&M (Stand & Model) nowadays. But the concept is still the same and sometimes there’s also something going on.
Here’s the post from January 10th, 2012:

Domme a Domme

I can not remember exactly how I found Domme a Domme (DaD), but as far as I remember it was a group that I joined as Yasmin has been a member and it was not free to join it. It was a small select group of Dommes that met to explore their secret side once in a while or just to escape from the pressures of being domme. At first it was my  personal retreat and I didn’t take Jenny there for a long time. And I had some nice experiences with Leighrayne Ninetails and others. The first club house was a small house with a limited number of props. As the group developed it was time to get a bigger plot and the group moved to Long Lost Bay.

The plot there consisted of a landing zone next to a lounge and some small traps. There was a club house with private dancing and some other buildings that Mina kept on developing. Leigh provided the main attraction and a lot of  banter was going on in IM. DaD was a good place to visit but then more and more people mainly stood around the landing area and did not explore anymore. There were also a lot of dommes looking to break everybody they saw and some of the stand offs and banter became humerous.

Quite recently a lot of work has been done to develop DaD into an urban area around a courtyard. There is a museum, a diner and some areas to RP in but the main meeting place is still at the main square.  Nowadays you will encounter a mixture of dommes and subs although subs are requested to not actively search for an owner there. The balance of people is similar to the way Stonehaven used to be when the patio there was a great place to visit, watch, have some banter or make friends.

So although you may feel a little frustrated at first that nothing is happening, just say hello to everybody and very soon you will begin to make friends.  That’s how I met people there, people who got close to me or were close to me for a while – and three of them are collared members of the Eurobrats today.

Beware some of the traps are cruel so keep your relay on ask unless you have a friend to rescue you close by.

P.S.: This is the 100th post on this blog 🙂

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Some further remarks:
The three above mentioned members of the Eurbrats, who I met first at club Domme a Domme and who became our collared slaves were Dana (Dana Drezelan), tittia (Mistress Cuttita) and Delilah (Delilah Ormidale). We miss Delilah since June 2014. slave Dana is still arouned and we still see her every once in a while although she’s not our collared slave anymore. tittia is also still around and se see her and are in touch with her.
Leighrayne Ninetails is the founder of the Domme a Domme group and care about it and about it’s home ever since. Thank you, Leigh!

Link to the original post:
https://themaurers.me/2012/01/10/domme-a-domme/
Landmark to the current club Domme a Domme
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Darkadia/174/74/90

Diary 2020 (8) January 16th/17th The new footstool

Thursday, January 16th, Mistress was not inworld in the afternoon. I went on a simploring tour and visited the SS Galaxy, a huge “historic” cruise ship that is now at the new continent Bellisseria (see Simploring 2020 (5) SS Galaxy).

At night I met slave Gwendi, slave Lara and slave Luci at the greedy table and joined them for two games until Mistress Jenny came inworld. We took the slaves to Trouble Tavern. Ann and slave Flo joined us there. We spent an entertaining hour there playing Truth or Dare, answering and discussing questions for dominants and submissives. This game always gives reason for banter and fun and at the same time it provides some insight into our slaves desires.

January 16th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with Ann and slave Flo, slave Gwendi, slave Luci and slave Lara at Trouble Tavern and at home playing Cards against Humanity

We returned home and played Cards against Humanity. slave Lara won it clearly, but winning is not the the main aspect, its more the fun that comes with playing. Time flew by quickly and it was bedtime soon. Mistress Jenny and I retreated to our skybox and had some time together before we went to bed ourselves. And yes, Mistress Jenny allowed me to lick her and to get my fix.

Friday, January 17th, I found a list of landmarks provided by Kitty in my inbox. I knew the first one, checked the others that were mostly kinky adult places and kept one for a later simploring tour. I also found a message from one of my favourite SM furniture store which has moved and I went to the new place to have a look. They had something new, that was only available at an event place, hence I went there – and I bought a new footstool.
I went to our loft and rezzed one footstool there, then I tried out something to modify the skybox at our loft when Mistress Jenny came online. We caught up with our mutual news and I showed Mistress the new footstool. Of course we tried it out and Mistress loved it – and I got another fix *winks*. Mistress and I had fun, we spent almost an hour together testing the new stool, then we went to club Domme a Domme for 15 minutes until Mistress had to leave.

January 17th: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita testing the our new footstool / Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club Domme a Domme

My night started with playing greedy with slave Gwendi and slave Luci. slave Luci went off to her RL and I took slave Gwendi to our dungeon, I rezzed a new footstool and had slave Gwendi servicing me with her tongue. A nice start into this night!

January 17th: Diomita with slave Gwendi trying out the new footstool

When I was satisfied it was time for our Friday night party. Virgo selected the theme “Rose, Red or even pink”. We had fun as always and a great start into our weekend.

January 17th – Friday night party: (upper row) Claire (maddh4tt3r), Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, Firefly (rmf361sim), papafox57, Jade (enigmawrappednightmare), Della Randt, slave Gwendi, Diomita / (lower row) slave Gwendi, Diomita, Sara (SaraRandall), Ebony Massey, Virgo Babii

Diary 2020 (7) January 14th/15th Relaxed days

Tuesday, January 14th, I met with Mistress Jenny in the afternoon. We went to club Domme a Domme and caught up with our mutual news there. We had not that much time that afternoon due to RL, hence that’s it about the afternoon – almost. Mistress Jenny began to shorten my leash and to build up her stricter side, because she can.

At night slave Flo, slave Gwendi and LaraSofie were present and playing greedy at home. Mistress Jenny and I joined the game – and Mistress Jenny won it. Then we took the slaves to Psi’s realm for a short bondage night. We placed slave Flo, slave Gwendi and LaraSofie at the Wall of Shame and I added a Magic wand stand for slave Flo. We chatted a bit with the other guests and teased also other present slaves.

January 14th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club Domme a Domme / Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Psi’s realm with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and LaraSofie

We returned home when it was slave Flo’s betime and took slave Gwendi and LaraSofie to Mesmerize Dungeon for a bit. slave Gwendi was turned into a comfy chair for Mistress Jenny. We had a bit of fun teasing and chatting. Overall, it was a relaxed day in Second Life for us.

January 14th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Flo, slave Gwendi and LaraSofie at Psi’s realm and at Mesmerize Dungeon

Wednesday, January 15th, Mistress wasn’t inworld in the afternoon. I said hello to slave Flo, who was cleaning the house. She’s a good head slave and a role model. LaraSofie was inworld and at home. I took the opportunity to talk with her, to learn about her desires and to clarify her status. We will treat her like slave Luci, who is often with us but not collared.
At night I first went on a short simploring tour before I returned home, met Ann, slave Lara and slave Gwendi and played a round of greedy with the slaves. Then I went to Mesmerize Dungeon with them where Mistress Jenny and later slave Flo and Argi joined us.

January 15th: Diomita with slave Lara at home in our Fetisch Club Chez Maurer / Diomita with slave Lara and Ann / Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Mesmerize Dungeon with slave Lara and slave Gwendi

We stayed at Mesermize Dungeon until it was bedtime. We had fun and a relaxed evening. Just before we logged off slave Gwendi made Mistress Jenny and me laugh with her remark about Argi: “Argi talks faster than a machine gun and my translator doesn’t really work, it fails often. Donald Trump’s English seems to be more at my level, at least I understand him”.
That’s it about these 2 days.

Diary 2020 (6) January 7th – 13th A short break

Tuesday, January 7th, Mistress Jenny was not inworld in the afternoon. I used my free time for a enjoyable longer simploring tour.
At night we had a full house with with Angelique, Ann, slave Flo, slave Gwendi, slave Luci and later slave slut cecy. We first went to club Domme a Domme.

January 7th at home and at club Domme a Domme: Mistress Jenny, Diomita, Angelique with Ann, slave Flo, slave Gwendi and slave Luci

slave Gwendi had a little accident at the club as you can see in the picture above. Angelique had her fun teasing slave gwendi about it and ordering her to clean up her mess. We went on to Mesmerize Dungeon where slave slut cecy joined us. I rezzed a snowglobe and Mistress put her in. Unfortunately slut crashed soon after but she returned when we were back home again.

January 7th at home and at Mesmerize Dungeon: Mistress Jenny, Diomita, Angelique with Ann, slave Flo, slave Gwendi, slave Luci and slave slut cecy

Mistress Jenny and I allowed slave Gwendi and slave Flo some freedom before we retreated to our skybox for some time of togetherness as it was our last night for a few days. I had a few days off and went on a holiday and returned very late Sunday night, January 12th.

Monday, January 13th, I met with Mistress in the afternoon and we went to our loft to catch up with our mutual news. Mistress hadn’t had much time online as well during my absence but from what she knew, the slaves had fun. We went to a place named Bacchus Ladies’ Lounge, a place for women only – “Females only. Lesbian CFNF site. For Dommes and the subs & slaves that love them. Access to lesbian Ladies, girls and TGs. Shemales are admitted but must not display assets. Castle, Dungeon, sauna, pool and sex rooms. Lesbian Society welcome“.
We explored the club and it’s facilities, had a tour in a seat and in a balloon. Mistress spoiled me with a massage and finally we went to Mesmerize Dungeon for a few minutes. We had a relaxed afternoon and enjoyed being together again.

January 13th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at our loft (upper left), at Bacchus Ladies’ Lounge and at Mesmerize Dungeon (right)

We spent Monday night with the slaves at home first. First of all, I made them wear their restraints again and they had to take off their boots and wear ballet boots instead. I controlled that they all wear their plastic panties and I set their restrictions. Then Mistress and Jenny and I listened to their report.
The slaves had fun and enjoyed their relative freedom. And they entertained themselves, they went to Mesmerize Dungeon and slave Gwendi expressed her domme side. slave Flo supervised it all secretly (or not secretly *winks*). We got a picture from their time out. slave Flo had fun protecting “her” hut from getting dirty building a barrier around it. And the slaves played greedy together …. and well, we will find out.

January 13th: slave Gwendi sitting on LaraSofie, slave Luci and slave Flo behind her at Mesmerize Dungeon (picture taken by slave Gwendi on Sunday, January 12th) / Mistress Jenny, Diomita, slave Luci, slave Flo, slave slut cecy and slave Gwendi at home and at Mesmerize Dungeon

We talked more than an hour, then we went to Mesmerize Dungeon for a few minutes and exposed our slaves and slave Gwendi back under control.
Finally Mistress Jenny and I retreated at slave Flo’s bedtime and enjoyed some intimate time before we went off to bed ourselves. I had a nice welcome back home day.

 

Diary 2020 (5) January 5th/6th – A bondage night and the belated Christmas tree

Sunday, January 5th, I met with Mistress in the afternoon and we went to Heavy Bondage Club. But quite soon later we both had an crash. Obviously the whole sim crashed and returning back hom we found ourselves at our skybox. As Angelique was at home we went down and played a round of skipee until Mistress Jenny had to leave for RL.

Sunday night we had an entertaining bondage night at Sarah’s patio. It had been a while that we have used it. We had slave Luci, slave gwendi, slave Flo, slave slut cecy and Angelique …. a real full house and we had the fun that comes with that. Time went by really quickly *sighs*

January 5th – a bondage night at Sarah’s patio: Mistress Jenny, Diomita, slave Luci, slave gwendi, slave Flo, slave slut cecy and Angelique

What a full night and it was crowned with time together at our new loft.

Monday, January 6th, I had again a quiet and relaxing hour with Mistress in the afternoon. We caught up with our mutual news, we chatted, we made plans and we visited club Domme a Domme and Heavy Bondage Club getting some eye candy.

January 6th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club Domme a Domme and at Heavy Bondage Club

At night we went to Strict Venus Femdom SSC. That was the place Mistress had seen the bumper boats. I had been there almost one year ago, got a tour by ally (ally259) and wrote a simploring report about it (read Simploring 2019 (18) Strict Venus Femdom SSC). Mistress Jenny, Angelique, slave Gwendi and I had fun speeding around the sim with the jumper boats. Angelique can handle them very well. And after this fun we went to the Longue where we met Kika Yongho, the owner, and a few of her stuff and subs. We chatted and Kika remembered about the post in this blog. She told us that there’s a new dungeon. We might have a look at that another time. Kika offered us a belated Christmas present – then we moved on to Mesmerize Dungeon

January 6th: Mistress Jenny, Angelique and Diomita with slave Gwendi at Strict Venus Femdom SSC

slave slut cecy had come inworld in the meanwhile and Mistress summoned her to us. And Ann joined us. We had quite a good time at Mesmerize Dungeon, maybe also because we had a colourful attraction. Mistress Jenny had unwrapped the above mentioned Christmas present and it turned out being a living tree …. a slave slut cecy Christmas tree … absolutely easy-care and self watering.

January 6th: Mistress Jenny, Angelique and Diomita with Ann and slave Gwendi and slave slut cecy, the Christmas tree

These two days have been varied and entertaining.

Diary 2019 (201) December 29th – The End of a short and new green light

Sunday, December 29th, I continued working and learning about our new Maurer’s Loft in the morning. I went on a simploring and when I returned in the afternoon Mistress was inworld. She had been busy with Dove (claireadelle), who she introduced to our ways. I took her to our new Maurer’s loft and we discussed the different types of Victorian houses available. To make a longer story short, we decided to stick with the type we had. It’s good to have our (not secret) hideaway back.
I made Mistress wear her DHB split straight jacket and took her to club Domme a Domme to expose her proudly. Nothing can beat this experience, this feeling of having my owner at my feet. And I will never give up this claim.

December 29th: Diomita and Mistress Jenny at club Domme a Domme

Time with Mistress flew by quickly and I had to tend to my RL. At night we had a full house with Angelique, slave Gwendi, slave Flo, Luci and Rubor (ruborion). I took them all to our house to chat for a bit – then my RL kicked in unexpectedly for almost an hour. Upon my return Mistress was inworld and I had quite something to read. We went to Mesmerize Dungeon and continues chatting and teasing the slaves there.

December 29th: Diomita, Mistress Jenny and Angelique with slave Gwendi, slave Flo and Luci at Mesmerize Dungeon

We stayed about an hour before we went back home for a greedy. Dove (claireadelle) showed up again. As Mistress Jenny had an early start the next day, I retreated with her quite early. I was still having a green light and I had to make the most of it. Hence I fixed Mistress on a rack in my annex and licked and fucked her (yes, both *winks*). Then I returned control back to Mistress Jenny.

December 29th: Diomita having her own way with Mistress Jenny

It was a short and different green light. Mistress Jenny wanted me to address her always with Mistress – even during green lights. I could convince her not to implement this rule obligatory but I felt obliged to try it. Hence I adressed her properly during this green light. It made a difference as the temporariness was present all the time and as I respected her position even while I was in control. Yet I have to admit, it worked better than I thought. Most probably this limit is erased now too. Thank you Mistress Jenny for granting the green light!

Diary 2018 (200) December 28th – A varied day in control

Saturday, December 28th, became very different and not at all as I expected it to be. I was inworld early in the afternoon and intended to go on a simploring tour. But the place I picked was not acessible and two other places I visted didn’t turn out being good enough for a simploring tour.

In Spring 2019 I had abandoned our “Maurer’s Loft”, the place I got from Linden Labs with my premium membership. Linden Lab had new houseboats and houses on a new continent name Bellerisma and I wanted to get one of those instead, because they offer more prims and look way better. It turned out that I couldn’t get one as they were sold out way too quickly.
Since that day I had tried to get one – in vain. I admit that I might have not tried hard enough or lost patience – anyway, on Saturday I got a new house. That changed my plans and I began to get familiar with the new “Maurer’s loft”.
Mistress Jenny came inworld and I showed her the new place. Then I took her with me as I had to take advantage of my green light. I took her to “Angel of Pain”, the successor sim of Angel’s BDSM island of Pain that had closed recently. And I enjoyed having my way with Mistress. I enjoyed my control and made it very clear that I wan’t give up my claim on her ever!

December 28th: Diomita with Mistress Jenny at “Angel of Pain”

When I was done with her I took Mistress to club Domme a Domme to expose her – and of course I tied her up!

December 28th: Diomita with Mistress Jenny at “Angel of Pain” and at club Domme a Domme

Mistress Jenny had to leave to tend to her RL and I went back to the new “Maurer’s Loft” and began furnishing it. It turned out that the new house was nice and yes it had more free prims but it was quite small, too small. When I had finished furnishing I looked around and saw other houses nearby that offered way more space. Spontaneously I took all furniture back into my inventory and and abandoned the new place again. That was not that smart as again, I didn’t get offered a house again. Just the houseboats were available and after looking at them, they were too small either.

December 28th: The first new Maurer’s Loft that I gave up again

I spent 2 hours with refreshing the page with the houses for permium members before I got another house offered – and it was even smaller than the one I had before *sighs*. I gave that up immediately and tended to my RL.
I returned early at night and this time I was lucky finally! I got a nice house offered and took it. YAY! I furnished it quickly and took a few pictures. It has 6 rooms and we will have a lot of space in it. It is our (not so secret) hideaway, a place for particular moments of togetherness as well as a place to take a slave to to have a conversation out of character. This new Maurer’s Loft, I called it Maurer’s loft 2.0, might become even more useful as we have some prims and space left over.

December 28th: Maurer’s Loft 2.0

When Mistress Jenny came inworld I showed her the new Maurer’s Loft. Mistress seems to like it. This was already a successful day!
After exploring our new hideaway a bit we went home and met slave Flo and Luci. We took them to Mesmerize Dungeon where we spend a good time. Mistress allowed Luci to manipulate her cuffs so that we get access to them all the time. And later a sub named Dove approached us at Mesmerize Dungeon. She had called me two days before and outlined her desires of total helplessness. We do get many of these applications. But Dove seemed to be nice and polite and hence Mistress Jenny decided to give her a chance. When we went back home, Luci and Dove both had given up control to us to some extent. And slave Flo? I teased her and she had her fun as well. She enjoyed her break before getting wrapped up in latex again.

But the night was not over yet. Having a green light I had to make the most of it and I took Mistress to the annex of our skybox and made her licking me. Yes, it is just “pixel”-sex but with the right person and with the connection Mistress and I have, it is particular and we can almost feel it physically. I enjoyed it!

December 28th: Mistress Jenny serving her owner Diomita

What a day!

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