Backflash April 2020 – My 2nd and 3rd collaring day (April 21st, 2015 & 2016)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For April 2020 I selected 2 posts and both were written on the occasion of my collaring day (April 21st, 2013). The first post is from 2015 (my 2nd anniversary) and explains how my relation to Mistress Jenny changed and how we picked April 21st as my collaring day. The second post is from 2016 (my 3rd anniversary) that marked a more deceisive change in our relation. Since then and up until today, Mistress Jenny’s position as my owner strengthened and my submission became deeper and deeper, but I still get my green lights and we both enjoy them to the fullest. And today marks my 7th collaring anniversary! Time flies. Thank you Mistress Jenny for being my Mistress and my partner. I love you, Mistress. I submit to you, Mistress.
Enjoy reading a bit in the history files of Mistress Jenny’s and my relation….


Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
(April 21st, 2015)

Jenny and I have several days that we celebrate, so we do get reminded about how time flies quite often. And today marks my 2nd official collaring day. I want to emphasise the word “official” as switching between us has a long history. When Jenny and I got married and spent the honeymoon in our skybox, Jenny already had one day when she dominated me. Honestly I don’t remember, if it was before our wedding or after it (I think it was after it) when Yasmin and Jenny arranged a scene where Yasmin added Jenny as 2nd owner besides herself to the my collar. And since that day we do switch every once in a while. Not that often when I was owned by Yasmin but more and more after my release of her collar.
Considering that, there’s no exact date for my collaring day. We simply picked it. Well that’s also not the whole truth behind it. After my release of Yasmin’s collar I had several scenes with others to fulfil my submissive needs and maybe to fill the lack caused by my release. My pretext was that I learn for my domme side if I submit in play to others. And up until today it is still exciting to play with others. Two years ago during a “green light” where Jenny was dominating me it came to my mind that my spoardic scenes in which I knelt for others but Jenny distinguished our already mutual ownership of eachother. While Jenny did not kneel for anybody else than me, I did. And I wanted to live up to her attitude and told Jenny about it. And later we agreed to take that day as my official collaring day.

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Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

We agreed on rules between us that allow scenes with others for me to happen, but ever since there was no play with anybody else that I didn’t confess to her or had her approval upfront. It is her decision how to handle it, when I confess kneeling to somebody else but her. And Jenny reinforced her ownership of me end of 2014 when I fully submitted to her. Don’t get it wrong, Jenny is still my property and her submission to me is without any doubt. This is our way as dommes as well as as submissives to live and enjoy our mutual ownership. And for most people it is hard to understand. It is for sure rare and we feel blessed having this tight relation.

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Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins – early morning April 21st, 2015

Enough words. Thank you for collaring me, Mistress Jenny. I love you!


Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
(April 21st, 2016)

April 21st marks my official collaring day. I wrote about how we picked this date last year at the same time. Another year went by. And this time my collaring day will be particular again, and different from last year. My relation to Jenny has further developed. She got more and more in control quite naturally, in a steady process, an ongoing change between us. On the occasion of my 3rd collaring day Jenny bought a new collar for me, a collar that I will wear every day and as opposed to before it is not the one she is wearing for me. This way this new collar for me expresses her ownership, her claim to fully own me. And I happily accept this gift as she accepts my gift of submission to her.

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Mistress Jenny and Diomita

Mistress Jenny and I will still appear as a domme couple and I will still head the family. But it is at her to allow me to be equal to her and to wear the jewelery collar (the same that Mistress Jenny wears) for limited periods of time as she sees fit. And Jenny’s submissive side belongs to me only. Jenny will grant time for me to control her, to take advantage of her and to satisfy my demand of owning her – so nothing has changed between us regarding switching back and forth. Who knows, it might be that I’m more often in control than before? *winks*. And where is the difference? The emphases have changed, the balance between us – and just between us as this is most of all between the two of us.
To some extent we still try out ourselves, we continue our journey together. And if we’re not happy with it we can and we will change it again. This step was not easy for me and I admit hesitating but it is the right thing to do for me and it feels just right. For this 3rd collaring day I wrote new vows for Mistress Jenny, that shall express my submission to her. I’m thankful for what we had and I look forward to the time ahead (of course in particular to Jenny’s 8th collaring day in June *winks*).
Thank you for owning me, my wonderful partner, my love, my world, my owner, Mistress Jenny!


Link to the original Posts:
Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2015/04/21/celebrating-my-2nd-collaring-day/
Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2016/04/21/celebrating-my-3rd-collaring-day/

Diary 2020 (41) March 18th/19th Mistress Jenny’s 12th rezz day anniversary inworld

Mistress Jenny was not inworld on Wednesday, March 18t, due to her RL. I took the opportunity to go on a simploring tour and to “work” on the blog.

At night I was busy. slave Flo, slave Gwendi, Ann and a visitor were at home in our living room and soon afer I arrived, Steffi Huntress (Steffi Darkwatch) joined us as well. We had a bit of chat and Steffi got our script for her RR gear, that will allow Mistress and me to take control of the cuffs anytime. I unlocked the asylum suits of slave Flo and slave Gwendi and gave them free choice of clothes. They had been in the suits for more than 2 weeks now.


March 18th: Diomita at home with slave Flo, slave Gwendi, Ann, Steffi, Angelique and a visitor / Diomita and Angelique at Heavy Bondage Club

Changing took some time for the slaves and Ann did entertain us with a kind of a fashion show. I was quite busy … watching Ann, helping slave Flo, helping Steffi with our script, checking why I couldn’t access slave gwendi’s cuffs … and time went by too quickly again. At 11 PM the slaves had finally changed. Angelique had joined us in the meanwhile. Time to wind down: Angelique, slave Flo, slave Gwendi and I played a round of greedy, Ann went off roaming and Steffi off to bed. slave Gwendi and slave Flo went off at Flo-time punctually – and Angelique and I stood and modeled for a while at Heavy Bondage Club … then I went off to bed.

I expected Mistress Jenny being back Thursday night, eventually Thursday afternoon. A real bonus: She came inworld in the afternoon. We went to our loft first and chaught up with our mutual news. And I could congratulate Mistress Jenny to her 12th rezzday anniversary. I had written a short blogpost on this occasion and to my surprise Jenny had written one herself providing an other aspect of our almost 12 years together in Second Life – it’s impact on our real life. Thank you, my love!

March 19th – Mistress Jenny’s 12th rezz day anniversary: Mrs. and Mrs. Maurer at our loft (upper left) / Diomita and her property, her owned Mistress wife at the Mistress’ cabin at Cage Elegance

I’m still enjoying my green light and being in control hence I used the remaining time of this afternoon to take advantage of my very owned Mistress wife and took her to the Mistress’ cabin at Caged Elegance. The pictures tell the short story. Our time together went by way too quickly again!

We had a very relaxed and appropriate night to celebrate Mistress’ rezzday. First Jenny got her 12 rezzday spanks from me at our loft skybox, then I gagged her and took her to club Domme for a few minutes just to enjoy having he at my feet. I added a titeler “It’s my 12th rezzday!” We went home and slave Flo and slave Gwendi were allowed to give her rezz day spanks. And finally, just before we went to bed, Angelique gave her 12 spanks to her aunt (with love *winks*).

March 19th – Mistress Jenny’s 12th rezz day anniversary: Rezz day spanks for Mistress Jenny from Diomita / Diomita with her owned Mistress at club Domme a Domme / rezz day spanks from slave Flo, slave Gwendi and Angelique

And inbetween we went to Caged Elegance with slave Flo and slave Gwendi and attended Gravity’s Thursday night party. That was just the right thing to do. Angelique joined us there. We danced and chatted and there was also main chat going on. We had fun and stayed for one hour. Then we returned back home and had a greedy – Mistress Jenny, slave Flo, slave gwendi, Angelique and I.

March 19th – Mistress Jenny’s 12th rezz day anniversary: Mistress Jenny, Diomita, Angelique, slave Flo and slave Gwendi attending a party at Caged Elegance as if it was organized for Mistress

I think Mistress Jenny had a nice rezzday with a bit of everything…

 

12 Years And Counting

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Today is my 12 years rez day. I can’t believe it is that long ago that I first logged in to Second Life. Back then things were frantic. The BDSM scene was exploding and sites such as Stonehaven were very popular with both people new to the scene and those with more experience trying to lead the way. I met Diomita with her family in the cage room and later again up at the terrace. The rest is all history and well documented in this blog. But what does not often get a mention is the role that SL has had on our private lives too. I have seen us both develop as people, seen our children grow up and leave home, and I have become more relaxed and confident because of my friendship with Diomita. Having somebody to share life with and experiences and having an ear to listen to you is important and we have both been that for each other. Thank you for a fun 12 years and long may it continue. I love you lots and lots Diomita

Here is a picture of us taken together in 2009 to remind everyone of how we looked back then.

Jenny xxxxx

Mistress Jenny’s 12th rezzday

Today is the 12th rezzday of my beloved wife, my property, my partner, my friend, my mistress, my world – Mistress Jenny. I have enjoyed every minute of our journey together so far. You must have been rezzed for me – and I for you. Thank you for being inworld for me, Mistress, for your care, your love, your friendship, your creativity, your dedication to me and for all you do for me and our family here. I look forward to many years to come.
I love you, Mistress Jenny!

Backflash February 2020 – Valentine’s gift (February 23rd, 2016)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
I had several ideas for this month, as I wrote a longer post on the occasion of my rezzday every February. My first idea was to look 10 years back, to my 2nd anniversary in Second Life. Really a lot has changed in these 10 years. Also this blog has changed. 10 years ago I added less pictures to my posts, for sure also because the graphic in Second Life was not as good as it is nowadays. If you want to have a look, here is the link to my anniversary post in 2010.

Finally I decided to pick a post from 2016: “Valentine’s gift”. Back in February 2016 Mistress Jenny was still my Ehesklavin but the process of her full and final takeover of control was  already progressed very far. Mistress already decided about when I was allowed to dominate her (green light) and she had granted a green light some time around Valentine’s day. At that time I was intrigued by a picture of Danna Pearl that I saw on deviant art. And for the green light I wanted to take a similar picture of my then Ehesklavin. It worked out very well and the picture of that night 4 years ago is still displayed in the annex of our skybox – fond memories!
Enough said, here’s the post from February 23rd, 2016:

Valentine’s gift

I follow several friends on deviant art. Recently one picture of Danna Pearl caught my particular attention – Valentine’s gift timeout! It’s not just the picture itself, which is very well done, but it’s also the story behind the picture. Danna and her sister have turned the tables with their former mistress. That happened on Valentine’s day as their “Mistress thought, since they were such good girls, they deserved a bit more freedom! She even let her girls tie her up for Valentine’s day thinking it would be nice funs for a change! However things did not go as she expected…and her girls are enjoying being the dominants ones for a change.” (quote from DannaPearl’s dA).
It must have been Valentine’s day that Mistress Jenny granted a green light to me. Not that I keep her in steady bondage, but I’m in control, what a coincidence! So I got in contact with Danna and found out more about the setting of the above “Valentin’s gift timeout!” picture. I got the according gear and prepared having my timout with Jenny. The timeout was Saturday night, Feb 20th. I took my Ehesklavin to our private dungeon, put her in her chastity belt (the one with the dildo vibrators inside, which are remote controlled), helped her mounting the wall rack, and gagged her with the reading lamp. Then I sat down and enjoyed reading a book.

Feb 20th: Timeout with my Ehesklavin holding the reading light for me

Adjusting the light is quite easy with pulling at Ehesklavin’s nipple clamps :-). After finishing a chapter in my book, I began a quite one sided conversation, as my Ehesklavin couldn’t really talk while holding the lamp. Ok, talking is not what a timeout is made for, but what about a bit of music? I switched on the vibrators in my Ehesklavin’s chastity belt – and her moans were lovely music for my ears. Her views were alternating between pleading to cum and plotting for revenge. Did she say “I’ll get you back”? I played with the remote …. until my property couldn’t hold back anymore and screamed out in lust, dropping the lamp on the floor.

Feb 20th: Timeout with my Ehesklavin ….. the reading light has dropped on the floor

What an enjoyable end of a night! I think I should make the most of it and stay in control 🙂

Link to the original post “Valentine’s gift”
https://themaurers.me/2016/02/23/valentines-gift/
Danna Pearl’s “Valentine’s gift timeout!” picture
https://www.deviantart.com/dannapearl/art/Valentine-s-gift-timeout-591630460

Dio’s 12th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2019 – Part I

Oh my gooad.. I can’t believe it! 12 years in Second Life!
Today marks my 12th anniversary of joining Second Life. Considering that there’s only one life you can live, the virtual world of Second Life has become a part of my everyday life. And the intention of this blog was and is to keep the memories alive, although places and people simply vanish sometimes. Reading back I’m able to remember, like a journey in my memories. In May 2019 I began a new monthly series in this blog called “Backflash”. In this series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. That’s always quite interesting also for myself! For our readers the new series provides an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

Like every year I write a longer blog post on the occiasion for my rezzday. I’ll have a look back on the last year to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Like I did for my last anniversaries, I will split this anniversary post – this time into even 3 parts. The part one will be about our family, the part two about my simploring tours and part 3 about the other highlights of my 12th year. Enjoy!

12 years in Second Life – part I: My home and my family

Let’s start with our home. Once again it hasn’t changed. We didn’t make any major refurbisment. Obviously we’re quite happy with it and it does feel like home, just like in the physical world. There have been only some minor changes, some more plants, some new furniture and toys. And my art collection, consisting of sculptures and pictures, which I either bought or got as a present from artists is growing.

Dio’s little art park – some new exhibits of 2019: Humanitree by Milly Sharple and Yes/No by Reycharles

During the last year the family has changed again.
On Tuesday, January 15th, 2019 Mistress Jenny and I collared slave Gwen (gwenney) as Maurer’s slave Gwen. One week after her collaring, slave Gwen sent an offline IM to me that she has some RL issues and wight be off a couple of days. We haven’s seen slave Gwen ever since. 5 months later, on June 22nd, 2019, we released her officially from our Service. We hope she’s doing well. Like all other former slaves of ours, slave Gwen is always welcome at our home.

After we released slave Gwen we had only three official collared slaves for quite a while: Kitty, slave slut cecy and slave Flo. That changed during the Summer. On August 24th, we collared slave Christin and a few days later on August 29th we collared slave Gwendi.

Kitty is doing well and is still adventurous and causes mischief. We still get messages every once in a while from people who caught her or who she had locked up. Mistress and Kitty meet sometimes in our morning and I also met her several times regardless of our not fitting timezone. We stay in touch and this blog is also very helpful for Kitty to catch up with our news. Besides being our collared slaveboy ..ehm … slavegirl, Kitty has become a close friend of ours in addition.

Unfortunately also our slave slut cecy lives in a different timezone (slut is Mexican). Her RL prevents her from being with us most of the time. We see slut irregularly about once a week. slut is very loyal and manages to stay in touch but it is hard to integrate her when she appears all of a sudden. As we don’t want to spoil her short online time with technical stuff we refrained from getting a meshbody for her and we change her outfit only very rarely. The catsuit that she’s wearing right now will become her second skin. It can be colour changed easily to have some variation and it is restrictive.

slave Flo has been a very good slave. Quite often she was our only slave present after slave Gwen didn’t show up again. slave Flo is still enjoying bondage and restrictions. Being our head slave Mistress and I rewarded her and dedicated the slave’s hut “Shangri-La” for her use. slave Flo is keeping our house clean from pixel dust. How can someone show more dedication and loyality than by this sysphos work? slave Flo developed her own status within the family and like Kitty she has become also a personal friend, a fix part of our Second Life and we’re happy and proud to own her.

Christin (Christinvega) began visiting our homesim in Autum 2018. She in every once in a while and in March 2019 we had a first chat with her. We learned that she’s from Norway, that she’s submissive and we could tell that she’s a bit shy at least at first. She attended the next Friday night party and then was absent for several months. She returned end of June, stayed close and and we took more and more control of her. She slowly opened up more and more and as she got known to us she even developed more confidence, she became more bratty and she got a bit closer to slave Flo and Angelique. But she stayed very obedient, patient and not needy. slave Christin began her traditional trial for us on Saturday, August 17th. Exactly one week later, on August 24th, we collared slave Christin as our Maurer’s Norsk Brat Christin. Welcome to the family, slave Christin.

We had noticed Gwendi Dash many times before. She was visiting the same clubs and places as we do and her often shiny or fancy outfit caught our eyes. We also got in contact to her several times, mostly talking about her clothes. That all changed with a short but funny conversation with her about slave Flo and slave Christin on August 15th and I invited Gwendi to join our Friday night party the other day. Gwendi was present when we started slave Christin’s trial and she was with us ever since. She hold company at slave Christin’s trial cell and of course she attended all the conversations we had with slave Christin during the trial. While attending slave Christin’s trial, Gwendi agreed to give up more and more control and I restricted her to our home, her home from now on. It became almost a double trial. Hence Gwendi’s own trial was comparably short but very intense. We didn’t leave her any real choice, actually she was already our’s before she entered the trial cell, she just didn’t know it. We collared slave Gwendi on August 29th, 2019 as “Maurer’s slave Gwendi”.

And there’s Angelique, our niece. She’s not collared by us. Angelique has a very spophisticated and elaboarted wardrobe and is very helpful. When it comes to dressing, she’s our style consultant. She’s also very attractive herself and is irresistable when she’s in a kinky mood. Angelique is obedient and submissve and very loyal. My relation to Angelique cooled down while she was not in the mood for anything for a few months. But then we got closer again, maybe even closer than before. Roleplaying with her is exciting and she still allies sometimes Mistress Jenny against me but still it stays just teasing. Angelique is another fix part of my Second Life.

With slave Gwendi some of her closer friends became close to us as well. I want to mention here in particular our shiny Ann (TransAnn). Ann has always itchy feet and can’t stay still or without roaming around restlessly – nonetheless she and her helpful ways is a real enrichment for our family.

Besides Mistress Jenny and myself the core family at the start of my 13th year consists of Angelique, Kitty, slave Flo, slave slut cecy, slave Christin and slave Gwendi.
The solid base of my Second Life is my relation to Mistress Jenny, my beloved wife, partner and property. We shared these 12 years together and for some we’re seen as one person (DioJen) already. I couldn’t believe it but my submission to Mistress Jenny has even further grown. She made my submission to her irreverible. Nonetheless Mistress Jenny still grants (way too short) green lights where I may tie her up and be in control. I personally think that these role swaps are one reason why our relation stays exciting, varied and gets even stronger.
Mistress insists that I head the family, but to some extent that’s more a delegation as she has grown into the (not very secret) decider in the background. We exchange about everyhting, our everyday life, our Second Life, all matters regarding the family, we tease each other, we try to get enough time for playing amoung ourselves, we love each other.
Besides all the fun I have in Second Life, besides my simploring tours, that I enjoy a lot, Jenny is for sure the reason that I’m still in Second Life after these 12 years – and that it became a part of my life. Thank you, Mistress Jenny!

End of part I, part II will be about my simploring tours and part III about the other highlights of my 12th year.

Backflash December 2019 – Season Greetings (December 4th, 2012)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers this series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

For December 2019, I scrolled 7 years back to December 2012 and found a post about our home and about our friend Argi. Argi came to us during a roleplay in which we caught her and kept her as out victim for some weeks. For some reason Argi was reluctant and resisted being collared by us and her resistance is ongoing up until today. The collar issue is a regular tease when we’re with Argi nowadays. She has become a close friend of ours. She’s kind of the union representative for the slaves, always fighting for them in a playful way. And all Maurers like to cuddle with Argi or at least to hug her. Also in a playful manner we call her Princess or Argichen. Argi has also a talent for invention new words in English or mixing words from different languages. And she’s always entertaining and can liven up any group of people.

The post “Seasol Greeetings” is quite short. I didn’t write as much as I do nowadays and I didn’t post that often. What you can see is how our home has changed with the years. Back in 2012 it all looked quite more basic. Also the graphic quality has increased a lot since 2012. I don’t get tired to say how much Second Life has also changed to the upside. We take the progress way to much as granted.

We still decorate our home for the season every year. And the gazebo that you see in this post is still the one we use today. We also alyes have the ice rink and some other smaller deco items, which accompanied us for many many years. Here’s the post:

Season Greetings

Another year turns to its end. It has become a nice tradition that we have some snow in SL in December until New Year. So we continue this tradtion. For us a familiar view in the meanwhile. For those new to us…well …. we have a “guest” right now, Argi Boa,  since a few weeks who is definitively freezing just by seeing snow in SL. We do have fun with her complains about the snow and her way wrapping up herself in the thickest clothes available.
We have decorated the house and prepared the ice rink. So at least here we do have a lovely winter holiday scenery.

We wish you all a great Advent season looking forward to some more quiet days around christmas and New year.
Love from Diomita & Jenny

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Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2012/12/04/season-greetings-2/

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