I was collared by Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale on May 8th, 2008. Two years now! As everyone tells me that is nearly a lifetime in SL. Although I don’t agree to that statement it certainly is something very extraordinary that a D/s relation in SL lasts that long. I am very happy and thankful that Goddess and me achieved this anniversary and I hope to have many more anniversaries with her.
If you suppose that only the domme who collars a sub can release the sub then it only depends on the domme how long a collarship lasts. Those who know me know that I take my collar very seriously and that in principle I would agree to this statement. But nonetheless I ask myself how we managed to stay together that long. And I think the answer is quite simple and goes far beyond D/s – we both wanted it. We both invested a lot of ourselves in our relation and we both respect eachother and are willing to accept all our faults and willing to forgive if we’ve been not fair or not obedient (depends from which side you look at our relation).
Two years now. I will not bore you by renarrating these two years. But looking back I see so much that didn’t change and I see also many things that changed. Places changed. I remember the first family island where my trial for Goddess began as she leashed me in her office – Brat Pack Island in Mises West. Where I logged on and off in a cage even after my trial as a daily routine. I remember Stonehaven with Goddess’ place there and my place there. Places that are in my memory. The family changed. Some sisters and subs left and are still close friends – others simply left and we only hope that they’re doing well. The relation to Goddess is something like a backbone in my SL. It is one base for my SL – the second base is Jenny.
Goddess is one of the strictest dommes that I know. She rules her family. And I’ve learned a lot from her. But she’s at the same time a very very caring person. I can and I do rely on her. If I need her help, advise or anything else she always manages to lend me an ear. I trust her. I am her devoted brat and her property. I am proud to be her’s. I love you, Goddess !!
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