Dio’s 15th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2023

Without slave Holly reminding me I woulf have forgot my 15th rezzday. When she reminded a few days ago, my first thought was “Do I really want to write a long blogpost about the last year?” The honest answer is no. Nonetheless I sit here and begin writing, though I do not intend to write a really long post.

The last year in Second life was coined by the loss of my beloved partner, wife, slave, Mistress, my best friend Jenny. She passed away last Summer unexpectedly. I was worried when she didn’t come online although we had planned to meet and when my messages kept unanswered I figured out that something must have happened. The days of uncertainty were hard. Finally, I had contact with her family and learned of her unexpected sudden death.
It was hard to accept it, even harder to stay in Second Life. Those days I considered to leave SL behind me, I thought about closing the blog. My family in SL, all my close friends here were here for me and kept me going and finally I decided to stay and to continue this blog.
Then I had another stroke of fate, this time in my RL. Sometimes it is really hard to function, to continue and I mean both worlds RL and SL. The two are connected, SL is just a part of my RL. Since that stroke of fate I’m quite busy in my RL and my time in SL is limited. And I do not blog daily anymore.

August 14th, 2022: Diomita at Jenny’s monument at home / Diomita kneeling next to Mistress Jenny’s holographic statue in our skybox

It is said that time heals all wounds and it is. Today I like to remember the good time that Jenny and I had. Nevertheless, I miss her very much and my SL is different today than when we were here together. But my other SL gives me pleasure and I like to come into my other world – yet in the future I will also pursue more projects in RL and I also plan to travel more.

The family in SL hasn’t changed. Kitty, Flo and slave Holly are still my officially collared subs. slave Alessi is still close as my sub and a close family member as if she were collared. Angelique, my niece, is going through a hard time in her RL but she stays in touch and lives in our sim again, what I do appreciate.  Ebony, my step-daughter and all others who were close to Jenny and me, stayed close to me. Thank you all! Without you all, I wouldn’t be here anymore.

My sub side needs an outlet and to my surprise Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity) turned out to become my Mistress. We are both switches, maybe that’s why we fit. I’m happy to call her Mistress Cherry and I enjoy being with her. Mistress Cherry respects my SL family and thus our time together is limited, also because Mistress has her store and business in SL and is owned herself. Thank you, Mistress Cherry.

December 17th, 2022 Mistress Cherry and Diomita

I continued exploring SL but I reduced my simploring activities. The simploring reports take a lot of time and I simply did not and do not have the time at the moment. What I mainly continue are my art activities. I enjoy visiting galleries and supporting the artists by writing about them. I had more than 100 art posts in my 14th year in Second Life.
Unfortunately I hadn’t enough time to continue the “Enjoying Bondage” series, but I hope to pick up this activity again as well as the “Backflash of the month” series.

During my 14th year in SL I also continued slightly changing my appearance. As opposed to RL, in SL we get more and more beautiful and I like this feature. So here is a picture of me taken end of August 2022.

August 28th, 2022: Diomita Maurer

I am still curious to see what SL has in store for me in the future and I look forward to every day I have the opportunity to spend time in SL. My SL without Jenny has simply changed. I want to thank all my friends and readers. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who keep my and our SL enjoyable.
Let’s look forward and go on into my 16th year in Second Life.

Love from Diomita
xoxox

November 22nd / November 29th Kitty and Flo’s Collaring Anniversaries

Tuesday, November 22nd, marked Kitty Maurer (Santana Thibedeau)’s 14th collaring anniversary. It is incredible how time flies. I still remember the Hotel California where Jenny and I had imprisoned Santana for months before we collared him. It seems to have happened in another world. Later Santana became a kitty during a roleplay and he began to enjoy his new appearance and gender so much that Jenny and I decided that he had to stay Kitty. And he is Kitty up until today. Kitty is fun, always up for mischief and always up for new adventures. Kitty lives in California and we could only meet in-world during the morning or sometimes late at night. Jenny had more contact to Kitty because she could be online in our mornings as she worked shifts. She always kept me up-to-date with Kitty’s news and told me about her adventures. And sometimes we went rescueing our Kitty. That was always fun!

Now that Jenny had passed away, Kitty stays in touch with me regularly. And she meets with slave Holly in the morning sometimes. Now I get the reports about her adventures. And now I am her only owner. Kitty had become a dear friend way beyond our common fun in Second Life. I am proud to be her friend and I am proud to her Mistress. Such a loyalty is rare, in particular in a virtual world. All I can say is “Thank you, Kitty!”

January 26th, 2020: Mistress Jenny, Kitty, Flo and Diomita at Mesmerize Dungeon / October 30th, 2022: Diomita and Kitty at Psi’s realm / November 22nd, 2022: Diomita and Flo at club DeLust

Today, Tuesday November 29th, is Flo (Florence Riddler)’s 9th collaring anniversary. Like Kitty Flo has become a dear friend. I see her almost daily. The last years we played cards a lot, mostly when I come inworld at night until more of the family are around. While playing we catch up with our mutual news, we chat and we enjoy our 2nd life beyond everyday life in RL. Flo insists that we don’t talk too much about RL, she doesn’t like to talk about any RL issues as that doesn’t belong to her world in Second Life.
Flo loves to try out tight corsets, new bondage equipments and she loves to complain about it and how uncomfortable restraints are at her age. With this argumentation she is exempted from kneeling most of the time and is treated … let’s say particulary. We all love her dry humor and her wit.
I am very thankful to call Flo a dear friend of mine. And I am happy to be her beloved only Mistress now. Thank you so much, Flo!

Backflash June 2022 “Diary 2017 (90) May 31st – Mine” (June 8th, 2017) and “Diary 2017 (93) June 5th – 11th: with my property” (June 15th, 2017)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For June 2022 I selected two posts:
The first is the diary post from May 31st, 2017, so about five years old. It is titled “Mine”. I was enjoying a green light as Mistress Jenny’s 9th collaring anniversary was coming up.
The second post is a diary post “Diary 2017 (93) June 5th – 11th: with my property”, published June 15th, 2017. In that post I summarized 6 days when we both were not that much inworld and I was still enjoying being in control. In that post expressed my possessiveness about Jenny.
A lot has happened in the meanwhile. Our journey continued. Mistress Jenny enslaved me and marked me as her slave, her Ehesklavin. Her tattoos have been modified as well. But Mistress Jenny is still my wife and my Mistress, something I am very proud of – and I am still very possessive about her.
Enjoy reading…


Diary 2017 (90) May 31st – Mine (June 8th, 2017)

Wednesday, May 31st, I took my property Jenny, aka. Mine, to Bondage & Storage Project in the afternoon so that she could please me in two ways, first of all, I enjoyed her tongue to the fullest and then I tried out a nice bondage hook using Mine as a model. I think the result is very nice.

May 31st: Mistress Diomita and her property Jenny, aka. Mine, at Bondage & Storage Project

At night I started at home in our dungeon and began to get a bit more familiar with the new Mistress Chair. We had placed a copy in our dungeon (the other one is on our skybox). Mine had to lick my boots and she did well. Then I put a RF hood on Jenny’s head, pulled it tight and added some restrictions and we began a little tour exposing her at Mesmerize Dungeon first and then at Heavy Bondage Club.

May 31st: Scenes of a varied night

Cow Kitty came inworld and joind us. We also met an old friend, Vanilla Meili, who showed us her latest combination of clothing including a metal hood with a lockable front shield and a golden corset with spikes, quite an individual cmposition of clothes and restraints. Once again, we finished our night at club DeLust before I stored Mine in the annex of our private skybox.

We had another varied day and I enjoyed being in control (as it should be *winks*)


Diary 2017 (93) June 5th – 11th: with my property

While Jenny is on vacation and our slaves are not often present due to various reasons (read also here) our Second Life was quiet and there’s not that much to report and to save for our diary. I spent my nights with my property, with shopping, playing chess inworld, with simploring and with a bit of roaming around. I was absent myself due to RL obligations between Friday, June 9th and Sunday, June 11th. When Jenny was online, we spent most of our time chatting and catching up and I enjoyed having her at my feet. I admit, that I get used to be in control again and I enjoy it to the fullest. I am and will always be very possessive about Jenny, about my property, Mine. And that is what I want to save for the diary.

June 7th: Precious moments – Mistress Diomita and her very owned property Jenny


Links to the original posts
https://themaurers.me/2017/06/08/diary-2017-90-may-31st-mine/
https://themaurers.me/2017/06/15/diary-2017-93-june-5th-11th-with-my-property/

June 5th, 2022 – Jenny’s 14th collaring anniversary

Really 14 years?

On June 5th, 2008, I collared Laylady Lay, aka. Jenny, as my slave, A lot has changed since. We had an enjoyable journey together, we had lots of fun, and we developed a tight and stable connection to eachother. You all know, that Jenny became my slave wife for a few years. Then she began to turn the tables, teasing me to let go some of my control. It was a slow process over several years … and then all of a sudden (for me), she began to close all back doors, one after the other. She collared me and made me her slave wife, her Ehesklavin. This was also quite some years ago. And still our relation develops, and still we desire each other, and still we enjoy every minute together, and still I own her as she owns me.

June 5th, 2022 – Happy collaring anniversary, Mistress Jenny

Happy collaring anniversary, Mistress Jenny Maurer!

Your loving Ehesklavin
Diomita

Backflash May 2022 “Celebrations.” (May 25th, 2012)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For May 2022 I selected a post from May 2012 – a decade ago. And it is a post that Jenny wrote for us and I wrote a longer comment to it. Jenny titled it “Celebratations.” because she wrote it on the occasion of her upcoming 4th collaring anniversary.
Enjoy reading…


“Celebrations.” (May 25th, 2012)

As Diomita wrote in her last blog we are celebrating 4 years since we met and today is 4 years since Mistress Diomita invited me to enter her double cage knowing that I would be there until she alone decided.

When we had met a few days earlier there was a charge in the air that was not like anything else I had ever felt. During the tour of Diomita’s home she had shown me the cage and I remember I had said something along the lines of do you want me to go inside it. Diomita replied that I would, but on my next visit.  I knew it would happen and I knew I could not resist.

Before I did enter the cage I had some loose ends to attend to. I was being pursued by somebody else and the time zones were wrong and there was also the feeling that I was not welcome by her partner. I asked Diomita if I might explain in person that I had made up my mind as I do like to do things properly.

So on 25th May 2008 I made the steps to enter the cage. I felt a wide mixture of emotions. I had not done anything like this before and yet I already felt there was trust between us. I knew I would be isolated from everyone I knew and would not be able to wander around enjoying the RP’s at Stonehaven and the banter that went on there. I did not know for how long I would be caged or what else to expect so there was some apprehension but most of all I felt that it was something I had to do, Destiny was controlling me as much as my head or my heart.

Over the 12 days that I was locked up I was kept locked and leashed at all times. Diomta came to visit me every day and we sat and talked and got to know each other very well. My ‘Trial’ would have been over a couple of days earlier but Diomita was obliged to introduce me to Goddess first for her approval. Now this was something that scared me more than the first step into the cage. I really was new to this kind of family hierarchy and Goddess was very comfortable in her role as head. my nerves were on edge and I was worried that I might say the wrong thing and end my chances to wear the collar that made me the property of Mistress Diomita. Needless to say I passed inspection and I met Yar Sam and Tyra for the first time that day too.

So for everybody who knows us in SL, and who follows us in this blog, This time brings back a lot of very special memories to us both. We still like to celebrate this time with some back to the future play, as it brings back the raw feelings that we experienced when we met. We have developed a lot and our roles have evolved over time yet our relationship is strong because of one very firm rule that we both insist on. Mistress Diomita will always own me first and I will always be her slave no matter how you see us or what we are doing at the time this will always be true.

I love you Mistress Diomita


I wrote the following comment to Jenny’s post …

Thank you for this anniversary text, Ehesklavin. Now this day is documentated also in our diary. At least from your side of the bars. I do remember the house and the cage at Stonehaven very well as well as I remember the patio in Stonehaven where we met first. I felt a strange trust to Jenny. She was open minded, willing to serve and to give up control. We talked about rules and expectations, about Yasmin, my sisters, my trial, her potential role. I still have the first notecards from her 🙂
It was enjoyable and we even exchanged a bit about RL.
After just a few days I was sure she would stay in the cage until I open it. But we had to wait to see Yasmin so that I get permission to collar her. We met her at the Bratz Club which was brand new these days as far as I remember. There we had the Friday night parties and this tradition lives on until today.

I love you to bits, Ehesklavin. And yes, you’ll be mine first beyond all tease and play and beyond green lights. Enjoy your red light weeks now.
Kisses from Dio


Back to 2022!

Times have changed as you all know. Today I am Mistress Jenny’s slave, I fully submitted to her. I am her Ehesklavin.
It was a long process that began some time in 2012, led to my collaring in April 2013, to being marked as Mistress Jenny’s Ehesklavin in 2016 and to full enslavement in 2022. But what about the promises we both made back in 2012? None of us foresaw this development and we don’t know what future has in store for us. We simply enjoy our journey together and the bond between us became very strong. And we have nothing to regret or to take back. Mistress Jenny is still also collared by me and I fully trust her as her married slave, her Ehesklavin. Thank you Mistress Jenny, my love, my world!


Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2012/05/25/celebrations/

Diary 2022 (61a) April 30th slave Holly’s 9+1 years in SL

slave Holly wrote a blogpost about her 10th rez day anniversary, that was also her 1st collaring anniversary. This way you get another view on the same event, a very personal view as slave Holly also reflects her year with us. So here it is ….


slave Holly’s 9+1 years in SL

Ten years in SL and yet, the past year, since collared by Mistress Jenny and Mistress Diomita, has changed the way I feel about SL.
I won’t talk about everything that has happened – Mistress Diomita does that far better in the blog than I ever could. Some of my own feelings that could never be captured in a blog… though I do try to share when I can!

A family friend (Miss Dely) summed it up well with “slave’s 9 years + 1 year anniversary”. Life in SL was good, though I often wandered a little lost until Mistresses collared me – every day now is something special. I often say to Mistress Jenny that SL is and should be fun… every RL-day I look forward to logging in and spending time with Mistresses – whatever SL may bring.
I felt something special the first time I handed my keys to Mistress Diomita and surrendered myself for the first time. This was a little before Mistresses decided to collar me. I gave my submission and surrendered my freedom before being collared and haven’t looked back since. A SL without Mistresses now seems a distant memory.

Mistress Diomita has ‘super-powers’ and, always seems to find something in me I haven’t felt before – a brief glimpse in one direction and I am addicted to Mistress Diomita in an instant.
Mistress Jenny – the one that is “really in-charge”, “the one that always has the final say”, the one I still find ‘mysterious’…
My world has become what Mistresses choose it to be and I am truly happy and feel the love that they give… “the more Mistresses take the more they give”

I adore the gifts Mistresses gave on my 10th rez-day and my 1st collaring anniversary. I can gaze at the wall in my home within Mistresses’ world and look back with submission, adoration, worship, and affection at times past and with a view to a future and my still growing devotion to Mistress Jenny and Mistress Diomita.
I don’t have a choice, Mistresses intend… no will, (I hope) keep this slave forever.

‘My love Always and Forever, Mistress Jenny and Mistress Diomita’, unconditional and never ending…

P.S.
I cannot end this without a few words to the rest of the family – Sis (hello) Kitty always getting in trouble yet having fun, Sis Flo for her wit and devotion, Alessi for the hugs and the help with our SL chores and, both for the occasional game of Skipee!!!! One final mention to Ebony – the one that scares me and teases me but also the one to recognise how much this little family means to me and her support me (though Ebony would probably never admit it).

slave Holly x x x


Thank you for your contribution to our blog. We appreciate it and look forward to many years to come with you at our feet.
Mistresses Jenny and Diomita

Diary 2022 (56) April 20th/21st Diomita’s 9th collaring anniversary

I often wrote that times flies. It might be that writing a diary makes you even more aware of it. Anyway, when I met Mistress Jenny on Wednesday, April 20th, in the afternoon she took me to club Delust and she talked with me about my collaring anniversary the next day. Mistress asked me about my wishes – and I really have none. I’m happy as it is. Well, I don’t like wearing ballet boots as I can’t walk at all in them in RL and hence it is a bit unrealistic but that’s no reason to complain. I proposed to see a tattoist to change our tattoos according to our position within our relation and Mistress agreed to that in general but not as a present.
Mistress took me to Marine Kelley’s shop and to Sensations and we looked around there but we both got no convincing idea. Mistress is also happy as it is now. Finally we visited Carnal Intentions and Faye came by for a few minutes. But then Mistress Jenny had to leave and to turn to her RL. Also the time in this afternoon flew by way to quickly again.

April 20th: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita at club DeLust and at Carnal Intentions with Faye

We had a relaxed night with a full house. When i came inworld, Mistress Jenny, Flo and slave Lily (Lily Bloodrose) were already present and Mistress Jenny summoned me to the game tables. Flo was playing skipee with slave Lily. Mistress had made progresses regarding Holly’s room and told me about them. We are almost set for slave Holly’s 10th rezzday / 1st collaring anniversary.
When Flo and slave Lily had ended their game, we played a skipee as teams and while we were playing slave Luci (Luci Glendale) and slave Holly came inworld. We played another game with 3 teams. It became a very close game with each team having one long run. In the end slave Holly and I won it unexpectedly.

We went to Mesmerize Dungeon for a change but is was more or less empty, at least there was none talking. Hence we moved on to Psi’s realm for the rest of the night. After Flo had left, slave Z (Zado Ninetails) came inworld. We chatted quite a lot among us as not much was going on at Psi’s realm either.

April 20th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Mesmerize Dungeon and at Psi’s realm with Flo, slave Holly, slave Luci, slave Lily and slave Z

Thursday, April 21st, marked my 9th collaring day. Mistress Jenny and I had picked the day randomly after we were wearing collars of each other since 2012. It was just fair that I got a collaring day like Mistress Jenny has her’s. Nowadays my collaring day has gained more importance for both of us. When I came inworld in the afternoon I found a nice present from slave Holly in my messages. slave Holly has a talent to present pictures in a different way and to pick the right picture (from our blog). Thank you slave Holly!

April 21st: slave Holly’s present for Diomita’s 9th collaring anniversary

The other present I got was a blog entry that Mistress Jenny wrote on the occasaion of my 9th collaring day. If you haven’t read it yet, the link to it is here. Thank you, Mistress Jenny!

Mistress Jenny locked my arms behind and leashed me after she had got a subhug from me. We went down to the games area to meet Flo there. slave Luci (Luci Glendale) and slave Lily (Lily Bloodrose) joined as there soon after. And even slave Alessi came by shortly. As Mistress had added a hoover text above my head “collared for 9 years today”, I got the attentions that Mistress wanted to achieve. slave Alessi had to tend to her RL again, Mistress Jenny, Flo, Luci and slave Lily and I played a round of greedy. After the game Flo left us and Mistress Jenny took me and the slaves to Psi’s realm where she leashed all of us at the wall of shame. I could sense that Mistress did enjoy demonstrating her power. We didn’t stay long, maybe 15 or 20 minutes, then we returned home and Mistress retreated with me to our skybox, where I got my next collaring anniversary present. I was allowed to lick Mistress and to get my fix – and she allowed me to rub myself at her feet (I had to clean it afterwards of course). Finally before we left to tend to our RL, Mistress changed into a black catsuit that perfectly expresses her position. it was an intense and varied afternoon for me.

April 21st: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita at home and with her Ehesklavin Diomita, slave Luci and slave Lily at Psi’s realm

At night Mistress Jenny took me shopping first thing. We went to Avec Toi and I saw a brand new catsuit there, that was sold at a fetish fashion fair. We went there and Mistress got the fatpack for me. Thank you Mistress Jenny!
Then we returned home and had a skipee with Flo, slave Lily and slave Holly. I didn’t get out any card until the last round when I got rid of just 3 cards before slave Lily won that game. But I did look great holding the cards.
We went to Carnal Intentions after the game … slave Z (Zado Ninetails) and Argi joined us there later. And Argi did once again entertain us very well!
slave Holly: “can’t help smile at Argi’s use of language – it’s very engaging!”
Mistress Jenny: “she has her own dictionary, more colourful than any rainbow”
A full family night to celebrate. Well it was more kind of a “Spoil Diomita” day than a collaring day *winks*

April 21st: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita with Flo, slave Holly, slave Lily, slave Z and Argi

slave Holly’s 1st collaring anniversary and 10th (!) rez day

Today marks our slave Holly’s 1st collaring anniversary – and her 10th (!) rez day in Second Life. Congratulations, slave!

Slave Holly joined us on April 13th, 2021 and against our principles we collared her already two weeks later on April 30th, on her 9th rez day anniversary. And we didn’t regret it at all!
Slave Holly is very loyal and completely dedicated to her Mistresses. You won’t see slave Holly roaming around, she’s either with us or at home. We keep her permanently restricted and remove her chastity belt only for rare and particular occasions. She has wit which is no wonder seeing as she’s British like Mistress Jenny – she cares about everyone close to us and gets along well with everybody. When she is with us, she always focused and eager to serve and to please us. slave Holly became addicted to my pee and I keep her addiction level up – who doesn’t want a personal toilet? *winks*. And of course she has a talented tongue to clean me afterwards (or more).

Mistresses Jenny and Diomita with slave Holly / slave Holly and slave Alessi (lower middle)

Mistress Jenny and I fully control slave Holly’s Second Life but beyond that Holly became a valued friend. She is a who we don’t want to miss anymore. A slave is a slave and has no rights and no choices and we won’t say that publicly – thank you slave Holly for being our’s!

Mistresses Jenny and Diomita with slave Holly / slave Holly and slave Alessi (lower middle)

Since a few months slave Holly has her own small place at our home. A quite large cell in which she goes before she logs our and where her time in Second Life starts when she gets online. Her cell became her personal limited space and just recently I decorated her personal space with 2 pictures of us. So as a treat for her collaring celebrations, we have fenced off a small plot around her cell to call her own special place. And I added a slideshow inside with over 100 pictures about her first year with us. We hope to add more pictures to it during the next years to come.

April 29th: slave Holly looking at her own plot “slave Holly’s Heaven” that we made for her 1st collaring anniversary

Congratulations to your 1st collaring anniversary, slave Holly. Your Mistresses love you.

Diomita’s 9th Collaring Day

Diomita in her place at my side.

 

The change from being owned by Diomita to me owning Diomita was a slow journey that took place over a long time.

Once we had established that this was how things were going to be for our future we had to look back and decide on exactly what day to call Diomita’s first collaring day. We both agreed that the 21st April 2013 was the date that fitted best. Over the first few years after that date things changed slowly but in the past year there have been some big steps that now finalise Diomita’s change to being completely owned by her former slave and there is no way that it seems possible to go back to how things were. I have heard it said many times that ex- Dommes make the best slaves, Diomita is my perfect slave and she tells me that every time I call her Ehesklavin. Thank you for belonging to me and I promise to take good care of you for many years to come.

 

Mistress Jenny Maurer’s 14th Rez day

Today marks Mistress Jenny Maurer (Laylady Lay)’s 14th Rez day in Second Life. It’s just a date and Mistress Jenny herself is not inworld on her anniversary day. She returns tomorrow. Nonetheless it is a day that reminds me how blessed we are that we found each other and that we were able to keep our Second Life exciting and varied. That is not just our merit, as opposed to it is the merit of the people, family and friends around us.

We had great 14 years together and the dynamic of our relation has changed completely. I’m very happy to be Mistress Jenny’s married slave, her Ehesklavin. Thank you for everything, Mistress Jenny. I hope for many more years with you. I love you.

Your loving wife and Ehesklavin
Diomita

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