A tribute to Jenny Maurer

03 Sep 2022 3 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about family members, Real Life and Second Life Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Those who follow us in this blog might have an idea how difficult it was for me to write this text. If I missed anyone close to Jenny in this post, please forgive me – it was not intended!

My beloved partner, my property, my Mistress, my world and my best friend passed away unexpectedly in in July 2022.

There is no second life, we all have only one life. Second Life was Jenny’s and my heavenly escape. A place where we could try out ourselves, do things we’d never dared doing in RL, we could dress kinky and own a big island. We could be evil and nice. But still this second life was part of our one life.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2009/2010)

Jenny rezzed her avatar (Laylady Lay) in Second Life on March 19th, 2008, just 6 weeks after I had rezzed mine. We met each other the first time on May 21st, 2008 at a place called Stonehaven, which was at that time a very popular sim for bondage lovers, cage lovers and for other kinky people. I had a small house up in the skies of Stonehaven. I just had been collared by Yasmin Heartsdale and was a member of her “brat pack”.
Jenny and I, we both sat at the patio of Stonehaven. Frankly, this was a really ugly place, but it was popular. There was a wall with hooks where subs and slaves were leashed and put on display and a few chairs for the visitors who watched what was going on. We began to talk and that night I showed Jenny my house in the skies and the cage I had there. She wanted to go in spontaneously but I stopped her from doing so. Instead I promised her that I would allow it the next time we would meet. Jenny returned the next day and entered the cage. I kept her in there until June 5th, 2008. That day I collared her as my slave with the blessing of my owner those days, Yasmin. We had used her time in the cage to talk for endless hours, to get known to each other. We talked about our expectations, about our kinks, about D/s, about bondage and yes also about our RL. It was the beginning of a wonderful time we had together, more than 14 unforgetable years, in which we saw each other daily for several hours. When our RL prevented us to come into second life, we stayed in touch with other media.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2008/2009)

We got partnered in Second Life and married with a real virtual wedding ceremony (held by Yasmin) on October 24th, 2008. For our honeymoon we got a skybox which is still in the skies of our homesim today and which we named “Chez Maurer”.

We founded an own family within Yasmin’s brat pack. That’s why we called our family “Euro Brats”. I forced Jenny to be dominant towards the other slaves who I collared over the years. One of our first slaves was Santana Thibedeau, who we collared on November 22nd, 2008. He once had a play with other slaves of Yasmin’s brat pack and became a cat, a Kitty for a limited time. And she began to enjoy it that much, that we decided that he stays female. (S)he became Kitty Maurer.
Jenny enjoyed her dominance towards our subs and slaves more and more with time and she wanted more. She negotiated that I submitted to her for limited times, which we called a “green light”. After my release from Yasmin’s collar in 2011, Jenny convinced me to wear a collar again – her collar. And I agreed that we owned each other mutually. Later we fixed a day for my collaring: April 21st, 2013.
Our family changed … slaves and subs came and left. In 2012 we collared Angelique. Angelique Maurer became a close family member. She became our niece and as our niece she literally grew, she persued her own way and her own way of roleplay. And more and more we became her aunts, providing a stable family and base for her just like in RL. Angelique was never officially released by us, and we loved to have her around – as our niece. In these hard days of grieving for Jenny, I am very happy to her her around.
And there is our Flo. We enslaved Flo on Nov 29th, 2013 – she had no chance once we got our claws into her. On the occasion of her 7th collaring anniversary in 2020, we promoted our long standing friend and slave to “Maurer’s Housekeeper”, a position with more duties and not more rights. Thank you, Flo.
With the years going by, Jenny’s dominant side developed and became stronger and stronger. On the eve of our eighth wedding anniversary, October 23rd, 2016, I finally fully submitted to Mistress Jenny and became her married slave, her Ehesklavin for the rest of our time together. I still owned her as well but since that day Mistress Jenny was in charge. She was the one who granted green lights, the limited times when I was allowed to dominate her, and when she could let her hair down and relax being mine for a couple of days. As a true dominant, she made her life comfortable and kept me as the head of our family – she was smart.

Jenny and Diomita Maurer’s 10th wedding anniversary October 24th, 2018 (witnessed by our niece Angelique)

We had our own homeplace, a homestead named Mount Everest, since June 2011. We occupied 1/2 of our homesim and had rented out 1/4 to Sarah Fhang, a friend of ours who we knew from our Stonehaven times. And another 1/4 was rented out to Virgo Babii and Tyra Sciarri, also longterm friends from that time. Virgo is the dj of the legendary Friday night party, that is celebrated every Friday since 2008 and took place (and still takes place) on our sim since we owned it. Jenny loved the Friday night parties with which we started into our weekends. She hated to miss them due to RL shift work. We used to talk about a theme for the party every Thursday and she came up with great ideas.

We were inseparable, a domme couple, yet everyone around us knew that I was Mistress Jenny’s married slave. We were embedded in a great community of family and friends: Claven Albatros, Baroness Capelo, our stepdaughter Ebony, Argi Boa, Starbright Wingtips and the whole pixie gang and many others. In 2021 we collared slave Holly and Jenny was pleased owning her. Just lately we also enjoyed the presence of slave Alessi (who is not collared by us) and we became closer with our domme friend Dely (krybia).

Jenny was a wonderful person. She was always polite and tolerant. I learned a lot from her. She took things not too seriously. She wanted that all around her had fun. She insisted that we never forced a slave or sub to stay, that we never collared someone against their will. She had wit and creativity. She taught me being more “British”. Since she had retired in RL in 2021, Mistress and I had more time in the afternoons, more time for togetherness. Mistress Jenny strengthened her position as my owner. She pushed me deep into subspace and I enjoyed it. She did prepare her steps. Nothing happened by accident. Yet she also kept her spontaneity and she took care of me so that I never doubted her love. She loved teasing me and keeping me on my toes.

Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that’s so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you. Jenny created this hunger in me. I really loved, admired and worshipped her. I craved to please her and she always confirmed that I pleased her always and anytime and anywhere. She was very proud to own me and I was proud to be hers. But most of all we were close friends. Jenny was – and will always be (!) – the love of my Second Life. We enjoyed our time in SL, that was a part of our RL. We had just great years, memories that I will value for the rest of my life until I see Jenny again on the other side.

We respected our privacy. Although we talked a lot also about our RL, about our children as well as about projects, about food, about vacations, about work and about everyday life we never exchanged pictures of us, phone numbers or adresses. Thus we kept the picture of each other that we had in Second Life. We lived our Second Life. When Jenny didn’t show up anymore, I had gloomy premonitions that something bad had happened. I am thankful that I got certainty when someone close to Jenny in RL contacted me to tell me that she passed away.

Jenny will be missed not only by me but also by her family and friends in real life as well as in second life. I myself miss her badly, every day. I talk to her, every day. I think of her, every day. I feel her close, every day. I feel her unconditional love every day. Jenny will stay unforgotten not only by me. Rest in peace, my love.

I have to make some decisions now that I am a widow in Second Life. An important chapter in my real life and in my second life has ended. I am more than thankful for my time with Jenny. My second life will go on. I won’t let down our family and friends in this virtual world. Jenny will always be with me, she will watch me from the other side. And as we were inseparable a part of her will live on in my real life and in my virtual existence until I see her again.

Farewell my love, rest in peace, Jenny

Diary 2022 (114) August 16th-18th In terrible grief for Jenny

30 Aug 2022 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Tuesday, August 16th, I spent some time inworld in the afternoon. I met Lily (Lily Bloodrose) at club Domme a Domme. I met Faye at Jenny’s memorial. I made some slight changes at Jenny’s memorial monument .. and I revised the orientation map at the landing point of our sim by adding the memoiral. Other that that, I had a few chats with friends …
At night I played a skipee with slave Lily and Angelique. Then we went to club DeLust where I stayed the rest of the night. Flo joined us there shortly before Angelique left to bed.

August 16th: Diomita and slave Lily at club Domme a Domme / Diomita at home at Jenny’s memorial / Diomita and slave Lily at the landing point / Diomita at club DeLust with Angelique, Flo and slave Lily

Later slave Alessi also joined us and after Flo had left as well to get some sleep, Argi came by.

August 16th: Diomita at club DeLust with Flo, slave Lily, slave Alessi and Argi

That day was not really a good one for me, though I had less crying attacks missing the love of my Second Life. I missed Jenny badly and was not the best company. Nonetheless Flo and later also Argi succeeded to make me smile. Thank you.

Wednesday, August 17th, I went on a simploring tour in the later morning and early afternoon. I visited Florence, a lovely sim with lots of great views to take pictures and with countless places to sit and watch the world and time flow by (read more about it here).
I spent the rest of my free time in the afternoon quite aimlessly again. I hopped over sims, checked landmarks, I sorted my inventory, I picked up useless prims at home, I met Dely (krysbia) and slave Luci (Luci Glendale) at club Domme a Domme, and finally I spent some time sitting at Jenny’s tree trunk and looking at her memorial. I was still in a turmoil of emotions.

August 17th: Diomita simploring Florence / Diomita at club Domme a Domme with slave Luci / Diomita at home

There’s not much to report about my night. I ran late due to my RL. Flo was inworld and playing skipee. Flo had left a candle at Jenny’s memorial. Thank you, Flo. It breaks my heart to see the pain that our family is going through.
slave Alessi came by, We played a round of skipee, then Flo had to leave for bed. I took slave Alessi to club DeLust for some time, then I returned home with her. I had in mind to visit a gallery, but it was not ready installed yet. I met Dely (krybia) at club Domme a Domme. She comforted me. And I had a longer IM with Yasmin Heartsdale, who also tried to comfort me in my grief …. no pictures of that night.

I knew I was not easy to handle these days, my grief was still too intense and my crying attacks became worse again.

Thursday, August 18th, I roamed over places again quite a lot. I had IMs and chats, I saw Ebony and Dely (krybia) and I re-visited “New Day” by Bamboo Barnes (read here) as there were 3D art objects by Kerupa Flow added to the exhibition. I revised and finished the blogpost.

At night I first played two round of skipee, one with Angelique and Flo, and one as a team with Angelique against Flo and slave Alessi. slave Sakura (sakuramatsumoto) joined us and watched.
We went to club DeLust but didn’t stay long there. Flo couldn’t enter as it was too full. Hence we moved to Carnal Intentions. Later, Angelique was already off to bed, Argi joined us – and she was quite entertaining again. A good distraction!

August 18th: Diomita at club DeLust and at Carnal Intentions with Angelique, Flo, Argi, slave Alessi and slave Sakura

I knew that time heals wounds and that some day I would remember the good times Jenny and I had together without crying but with a smile. But I was far from that point although I cried less. My family supported me, they tried hard to make me smile (and succeeded a few times). I was there for them. When I was alone …. Second Life felt empty for me. I missed Jenny terribly.

Backflash April 2021 – Monday night fun (April 19th, 2016)

28 Apr 2021 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month Tags: , , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For April 2021 I went 5 years back again and scrolled through the posts of April 2016 – and I picked the post “Monday night fun”. We had fun with one of our favourite activities – double horse riding. Reading it again …. we should do that again very soon!
Another nice memory – also a memory about the slaves Nina, cecy and Adarra who left us long ago already. Enjoy!

Monday night fun

April 18th: Monday night fun – Jenny and Diomita riding slave Flo and slave Nina

After Sunday night fun comes? Yes, Monday night fun!
We had talked about this kind of fun on Sunday preparing Monday’s session: “horse riding the Maurer way”. Actually it is really not the first time we had this kind of fun but we haven’t had it for quite some time, maybe two years. This way of horse riding is not our invention, it was created by Yasmin Heartsdale, my first owner – and I’m not sure where she might have copied it. Anyway, it is great fun and for slave Flo it was not the first time being taken this way, but it was a premiere for slave Nina. Both slaves were very eager after months being in chastity. We fixed Euro bondage slut Adarra in the steel rack where we held slave Nina before. And slave cecy, our last living latex doll, was placed on a doll stand. Both slaves Flo and Nina were freed of their hoods and mittens and stripped and then fixed on our riding benches. They began to kiss each after immediately after they were tied up properly.

April 18th: Monday night fun - slave Flo and slave Nina

April 18th: Monday night fun – slave Flo and slave Nina

Jenny and I put our strapons on and began riding. Soon after the room was filled with moans and the sound of our bare hands spanking the slave’s buttocks to motivate them. Great fun! Who won the race? Well, slave Flo’s orgasm was first, but we decided to call it tied as we couldn’t find a fair way to judge. Here’s another picture of Monday night’s fun ….

April 18th: Monday night fun - Jenny and Diomita riding slave Flo and slave Nina. In the background are Adarra and slave cecy.

April 18th: Monday night fun – Jenny and Diomita riding slave Flo and slave Nina. In the background are Adarra and slave cecy.

Unfortunately Adarra had to leave so we had no second round of riding. Instead slave Flo recovered at Jenny’s feet and I had another workout riding slave cecy. I doubt that it will take years until we go riding slaves again *winks*

April 18th: Monday night fun - Diomita riding slave cecy, slave recovering at Jenny's feet

April 18th: Monday night fun – Diomita riding slave cecy, slave recovering at Jenny’s feet

Link to the original post
Monday night fun | Diomita and Jenny Maurer’s Blog (themaurers.me)

Backflash February 2021 – Dio’s 3rd year in Second Life Feb 11th 2011

28 Feb 2021 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For February 2021 it was quite obvious to select an anniversary blogpot. We travel 10 years back to 2011 and have a look at my Second Life at that time. And looking at the 2 pictures in the post – that was me??
It is always fun to read back and to remember, to realize the changes, and to smile!
Enjoy reading…

Dio’s 3rd year in Second Life Feb 11th 2011

My third year in Second Life ended today. Time to look back again and to have a look forward. The look back starts with reading the blog entry that I wrote one year ago. WOW. I can cut and paste some parts of that entry, particularly the sentences dealing with the base of my SL:

“- I am still owned by Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale
– I am still spoiled by the love and devotion of my partner and Ehesklavin Jenny
– I am still part of a lovely large family
– I am still running my own family branch
– I am still exploring SL and myself
– I am still happy to be here”

Usually when we think about a days’ events we come to the conclusion that we didn’t do what we intended to do and that nothing really happened. When we look back to a whole year we’re surprised to notice how much has changed or how much we achieved, discovered or expierenced. Same happens to me when I look back to my 3rd year in SL, the base is still the same but nonetheless a lot has happened and changed.

The family has changed. Goddess and Teyonas parted and Goddess partnered to my sister Valerie. My sisters Fae and Claire left the family and my beloved sister rabea is suffering of serious RL health problems and might not return.
Amanda, Alexx, Jaycie, Joni and Mariska became new sisters to me.

My own little family within the family changed. My sub Sio left us unexpectedly. I collared vero but she found her love for Gor roleplay and she left us as a dear friend. Our only boy, slaveboy Santana found his way to be officially in the family. And just recently I collared my sweet Doll Dana. I am happy to report that my sister Mariska became my subsister and is now often with us as part of our family branch. And … I expect to collar another girl soon.

We lost our home in Rivers Rock. That was a dramatic change. As the tiers weren’t payed to LL the sim closed without any warning. I wrote to LL and they kindly reopened the sim for 3 days so that we could grab our belongings. Suddently we were homeless. We had our family home at Yasminia but no “Chez Maurer” to retreat to. So during these days in October 2010 I looked around restlessly for a new place. Finally we decided to settle in Dragon Cove where we rented a quarter sim. We share the new home place with our dear friend Claven who was neighbor to us already in Rivers Rock. And Virgo and Tyra also became neighbors to us. It is great to have neighbors like you are!
With Rivers Rock we also lost the place for our Friday Night parties hosted by our DJ Virgo. Luckily the new homeplace provides enough prims to establish a new club where we’re dancing now every Friday 1 PM SLT / 9 PM GMT. You’re heartly invited to join us there.
Apropos dancing. Dancing and listening to good music has become our main activity besides our kinky part of SL. We often chill out at Venustus before we go to bed and wet met a lot of nice people over there. Although it is a quite laggy place because of the large audience once you managed to teleport there and have rezzed the lag is bearable as long as you talk mainly in IM and as long as the music stream lasts. I can strongly recommend visiting.

Other activities we love are playing dice games or cards or to fence. That’s another way to chill out in SL when you’re not in the mood for kinky plays. Oh no, we didn’t loose our kinky side. It is still our main activity and you can sense the vibrations even when we chitchat about other things. We found new toys and animations, discovered other little mean toys like thumbcuffs and tongue clamps. We also give home to some decorative bondage toys either for short seasonal live objects like our lovely christmas tree replacement during the holidays or as long time live decoration like “it”. This deco is also mobile and can be placed elsewere if needed and “it” even moans when you push the right “buttons”.

My relation to Jenny has further strengthened. She did become quite as domme as myself just a bit more cruel at times but she’s still my beloved slave. She’s very attentive and I feel very spoiled having a partner like her. For christmas she bought a Chimera for me. That is a dancing animation worn at your head. It animates you and those who click it with lovely recurring dancing animations – all selected by Jenny. And I was sure that I had no wish at all. You surprised me again. Thank you my love!

Further changes? Yes the viewer. During my 3rd year we lost the Emerald viewer due to non-compliance with the LL 3rd party requirements. Since then and thank to the never ending patience and work of the Phoenix team we use the Phoenix viewer. I am happy that I have not to get used to the odd viewer 2. We do have multiple attachment points now as well as we do have display names now. The display names are not as bad as I thought as long as they are used wisely. And, I admit, they can be a lot of fun when they are embedded in long term roleplay.

Anything else changed? I became older. In SL this expresses in finding your own style, developing the appearance of your avatar, collecting the wardrobe you love either for casual or for kinky occasions, yes.. and collecting the according shoes, boots, heels, ballets and stilettoes. You may compare me in 2008 and me in 2011 …. not any additional wrinkle, still as young as at my first day in SL but nonetheless .. not the same.

16 days old in SL

3 years old in SL now ... no additional wrinkle at all *grins

I am very happy and content with my SL and I hope that my 4th year will be as exciting as the 3rd year was. My greatest wish for my 4th year is that the above mentioned base of my SL will not change. I want to end this entry just like I ended the entry for my 2 year anniversary:
Dear Jenny, Dear Goddess, dear family, dear friends, let me heartfully thank you all for your love and support. I wouldn’t be here without you. I wouldn’t be “Dio” without you. I couldn’t relax and enjoy SL without you. Thank you all for a great 3rd year in 2nd life. Many thanks!

Link to the orignial post:
Dio’s 3rd year in Second Life Feb 11th 2011 | Diomita and Jenny Maurer’s Blog (themaurers.me)

Diary 2021 (11) January 21st/22nd A new Yasminia

05 Feb 2021 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

When I came inworld Thursday afternoon, January 21st, Mistress restricted my ability to see locations first thing after we had hugged each other. She took me to a winterly sim. My goad, I wasn’t dressed for that! We took two skiing lifts up to a mountain, where Mistress and I sat down in a chair by a campfire (at least that gave a bit of warmth). She asked me if I knew where we were – of course I didn’t yet I had already got a notecard of the sim greeter when we entered. I first thought, that Mistress wanted to take me there for skiing as I couldn’t do that this year in RL. But no, she had got the landmark from a profile or whatever, she couldn’t remember. But she had tried it out …. the place Aspen Fell – Whistletoe, is a Ski resort, with a lot of menities such as snow skiing, snow boarding, snowball fights, exploring, snow mobiles, ski lifts, snow sledding, animals, live snow that sometimes changes, a beautiful lodge with poses, bar and other games, many outdoor lounging areas and chalet rentals for the Winter season. But the real funny thing is – it is built on a homestead names Yasminia!
Yasminia is a place where Mistress and I spent a lot of time during our first years in SL when I was owned by Yasmin Heartsdale. I had seen other places built on it later when Yasmin had given up it – but I didn’t know of this one!

January 21st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Aspen Fell – Whistletoe (Yasminia) and at Puerto Esclava with slave Lucy

We went to Puerto Esclava next and caught up with our news there. Mistress summoned slave Lucy (Miss LucyWales) to us, who presented her new catsuit and hood and knelt at our feet decorating us nicely.

At night Mistress was running late. I had a skipee with slave Flo first. She must had rigged the table and the cards as she got many fitting ards and jokers and the game was quicker than usual. slave Flo went cleaning the house while I had an interruption by RL. When I returned slave Irene (AdlerIrene) was present and I took her over to the house and to our office desk. Time that she gets her office desk christening *winks*. Flo and later also Mistress Jenny watched and cheered slave Irene up a bit.

January 21st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home and at club Domme a Domme with slave Irene and Flo

When I was done with slave Irene we went to club Domme a Domme, where it was full that night. We chatted amoung us and read profiles. Argi joined us there. She is always entertaining. And before we went to bed, we shortly also saw Faye.

January 21st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club Domme a Domme with Flo, Argi, Faye and slave Irene

Friday afternoon, January 22nd, Mistress and I went to Puerto Esclava after we had caught up with our mutual news. We spent more than half an hour there. Not much (nothing) was going on there, that way we had time to talk and to read profiles. I read one interesting profile and grabbed a landmark. We also fixed the theme for our Friday night party later: “It is Friday again … weekend… TGIF … Did you notice that the days are getting longer already? Let’s say goodbye to the short and dark days by wearing something shiny – anything but black, Let us colour the world – or come as you are of course. DJ Virgo is spinning the tunes.”

January 22nd: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Puerto Esclava and at our loft skybox

We went to our loft skybox as my fix was overdue again. And I was lucky that Mistress granted it. I enjoyed serving her and getting my fix. After Mistress had left for dinner, I decided to have a quick look at the landmark that I grabbed before. To my surprise it was really worth the visit and I wrote a simploring post about it (to be published soon).

Nothing really to report about Friday night. Mistress, Angelique, Flo and I played a greedy before our party started. And, you guess it already, we had fun at our party as every Friday – celebrating the start into our weekend in RL and SL.

January 22nd – Friday night party: Diomita, Mistress Jenny, Angelique, Flo, Ebony, Faye, Irene, Baroness Capelo (upper row), Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, Zarra Fluffpaw, Claire (maddh4tt3r), Talos, Virgo dressed and topless (lower row)

Backflash April 2020 – My 2nd and 3rd collaring day (April 21st, 2015 & 2016)

21 Apr 2020 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, anniversary blog entries, Backflash of the month Tags: , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For April 2020 I selected 2 posts and both were written on the occasion of my collaring day (April 21st, 2013). The first post is from 2015 (my 2nd anniversary) and explains how my relation to Mistress Jenny changed and how we picked April 21st as my collaring day. The second post is from 2016 (my 3rd anniversary) that marked a more deceisive change in our relation. Since then and up until today, Mistress Jenny’s position as my owner strengthened and my submission became deeper and deeper, but I still get my green lights and we both enjoy them to the fullest. And today marks my 7th collaring anniversary! Time flies. Thank you Mistress Jenny for being my Mistress and my partner. I love you, Mistress. I submit to you, Mistress.
Enjoy reading a bit in the history files of Mistress Jenny’s and my relation….

Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
(April 21st, 2015)

Jenny and I have several days that we celebrate, so we do get reminded about how time flies quite often. And today marks my 2nd official collaring day. I want to emphasise the word “official” as switching between us has a long history. When Jenny and I got married and spent the honeymoon in our skybox, Jenny already had one day when she dominated me. Honestly I don’t remember, if it was before our wedding or after it (I think it was after it) when Yasmin and Jenny arranged a scene where Yasmin added Jenny as 2nd owner besides herself to the my collar. And since that day we do switch every once in a while. Not that often when I was owned by Yasmin but more and more after my release of her collar.
Considering that, there’s no exact date for my collaring day. We simply picked it. Well that’s also not the whole truth behind it. After my release of Yasmin’s collar I had several scenes with others to fulfil my submissive needs and maybe to fill the lack caused by my release. My pretext was that I learn for my domme side if I submit in play to others. And up until today it is still exciting to play with others. Two years ago during a “green light” where Jenny was dominating me it came to my mind that my spoardic scenes in which I knelt for others but Jenny distinguished our already mutual ownership of eachother. While Jenny did not kneel for anybody else than me, I did. And I wanted to live up to her attitude and told Jenny about it. And later we agreed to take that day as my official collaring day.

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Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

We agreed on rules between us that allow scenes with others for me to happen, but ever since there was no play with anybody else that I didn’t confess to her or had her approval upfront. It is her decision how to handle it, when I confess kneeling to somebody else but her. And Jenny reinforced her ownership of me end of 2014 when I fully submitted to her. Don’t get it wrong, Jenny is still my property and her submission to me is without any doubt. This is our way as dommes as well as as submissives to live and enjoy our mutual ownership. And for most people it is hard to understand. It is for sure rare and we feel blessed having this tight relation.

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Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins – early morning April 21st, 2015

Enough words. Thank you for collaring me, Mistress Jenny. I love you!

Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
(April 21st, 2016)

April 21st marks my official collaring day. I wrote about how we picked this date last year at the same time. Another year went by. And this time my collaring day will be particular again, and different from last year. My relation to Jenny has further developed. She got more and more in control quite naturally, in a steady process, an ongoing change between us. On the occasion of my 3rd collaring day Jenny bought a new collar for me, a collar that I will wear every day and as opposed to before it is not the one she is wearing for me. This way this new collar for me expresses her ownership, her claim to fully own me. And I happily accept this gift as she accepts my gift of submission to her.

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Mistress Jenny and Diomita

Mistress Jenny and I will still appear as a domme couple and I will still head the family. But it is at her to allow me to be equal to her and to wear the jewelery collar (the same that Mistress Jenny wears) for limited periods of time as she sees fit. And Jenny’s submissive side belongs to me only. Jenny will grant time for me to control her, to take advantage of her and to satisfy my demand of owning her – so nothing has changed between us regarding switching back and forth. Who knows, it might be that I’m more often in control than before? *winks*. And where is the difference? The emphases have changed, the balance between us – and just between us as this is most of all between the two of us.
To some extent we still try out ourselves, we continue our journey together. And if we’re not happy with it we can and we will change it again. This step was not easy for me and I admit hesitating but it is the right thing to do for me and it feels just right. For this 3rd collaring day I wrote new vows for Mistress Jenny, that shall express my submission to her. I’m thankful for what we had and I look forward to the time ahead (of course in particular to Jenny’s 8th collaring day in June *winks*).
Thank you for owning me, my wonderful partner, my love, my world, my owner, Mistress Jenny!

Link to the original Posts:
Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2015/04/21/celebrating-my-2nd-collaring-day/
Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2016/04/21/celebrating-my-3rd-collaring-day/

Backflash January 2020 – Domme a Domme (January 10th, 2012)

25 Jan 2020 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month, Exploring sims in Second Life Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
Eight years ago, in January 2012, I wrote a post about “Domme a Domme”, it was the 100th post in this blog. I sorted it under the category “Exploring sims in Second Life”. There was just one single picture in this post. Club Domme a Domme has changed a lot ever since, gone through several full refurbishments and moved. Mistress Jenny and I still visit it quite often, although it is mostly a S&M (Stand & Model) nowadays. But the concept is still the same and sometimes there’s also something going on.
Here’s the post from January 10th, 2012:

Domme a Domme

I can not remember exactly how I found Domme a Domme (DaD), but as far as I remember it was a group that I joined as Yasmin has been a member and it was not free to join it. It was a small select group of Dommes that met to explore their secret side once in a while or just to escape from the pressures of being domme. At first it was my  personal retreat and I didn’t take Jenny there for a long time. And I had some nice experiences with Leighrayne Ninetails and others. The first club house was a small house with a limited number of props. As the group developed it was time to get a bigger plot and the group moved to Long Lost Bay.

The plot there consisted of a landing zone next to a lounge and some small traps. There was a club house with private dancing and some other buildings that Mina kept on developing. Leigh provided the main attraction and a lot of  banter was going on in IM. DaD was a good place to visit but then more and more people mainly stood around the landing area and did not explore anymore. There were also a lot of dommes looking to break everybody they saw and some of the stand offs and banter became humerous.

Quite recently a lot of work has been done to develop DaD into an urban area around a courtyard. There is a museum, a diner and some areas to RP in but the main meeting place is still at the main square.  Nowadays you will encounter a mixture of dommes and subs although subs are requested to not actively search for an owner there. The balance of people is similar to the way Stonehaven used to be when the patio there was a great place to visit, watch, have some banter or make friends.

So although you may feel a little frustrated at first that nothing is happening, just say hello to everybody and very soon you will begin to make friends.  That’s how I met people there, people who got close to me or were close to me for a while – and three of them are collared members of the Eurobrats today.

Beware some of the traps are cruel so keep your relay on ask unless you have a friend to rescue you close by.

P.S.: This is the 100th post on this blog 🙂

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Some further remarks:
The three above mentioned members of the Eurobrats, who I met first at club Domme a Domme and who became our collared slaves were Dana (Dana Drezelan), tittia (Mistress Cuttita) and Delilah (Delilah Ormidale). We miss Delilah since June 2014. slave Dana is still arouned and we still see her every once in a while although she’s not our collared slave anymore. tittia is also still around and we see her and are in touch with her.
Leighrayne Ninetails is the founder of the Domme a Domme group and cares about it and about it’s home ever since. Thank you, Leigh!

Link to the original post:
https://themaurers.me/2012/01/10/domme-a-domme/
Landmark to the current club Domme a Domme
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Darkadia/174/74/90

Backflash September 2019 – My pony FFF Thoroughbred Dana (Sept. 17th, 2011)

29 Sep 2019 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month Tags: , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
Eight years ago, in September 2011, I wrote about my sub Dana (Dana Drezelan). Dana was my and our slave from December 2010 until December 2014. We released her because our timezones and online times that didn’t fit anymore. Dana was a very active sub and we wanted her to enjoy her SL to the fullest. Her dedication and submission was a wonderful gift and she will always be a close friend to us and the Eurobrats. We still have contact to Dana and see or talk to her every once in a while. Sometimes our Kitty is causing mischief together with her.
September 2011, when I wrote the blogpost, was shortly after my release from Yasmin Heartsdale’s collar. At that time Jenny was my married slave and although she already co-owned my subs and slaves I still considered them as belonging to me and not to us. How times have changed! Reading the post brought back a lot  of memories to me. And for those who feel inspired by the blog, the Frilly Filly Farm does still exist.
Here’s the post from September 17th, 2011:

My pony FFF Thoroughbred Dana

My sub Dana experienced the life of a pony and has trained to become a thoroughbred at Frilly Filly Farm (FFF). Jenny and I have some very little experience at being ponies and I admit that it wasn’t my kink at all. Nonetheless I allowed Dana to enter the training at FFF to become a thoroughbred. Her former sub, now co-owner and half-sister Asfor, recommended persistently that Dana should get into the training course. Several weeks ago Dana started and I could watch her progresses every time I saw her mainly at weekends. She got better and better every day and improved a lot. When we told my sister Jill Freenote, who is a well-known pony trainer, about the training she entered more or less immediately herself. Thus Jenny and I could have a lovely ride over the FFF sim in a cart pulled by Jill and Dana.

Dana and Jill providing a cart tour for Jenny and Dio at FFF

Today I got the notice that Dana has been promoted to a thoroughbred. Congratulations, Dana! we are very proud of you!
The training is hard and it needs a lot of patience. I even tried one parcour myself, it is not easy at all and needs a lot of training particularly if you have some lag in the sim. Being so proud of my sub and thoroughbred Dana here is her registration card listing her achievements:

Pony-girl Registration Card of Dana Drezelan
The pony belongs to: Diomita Maurer
Is in the care of Miss Asfor Cooperstone
It has been/is being trained by Miss Keri Clowes & Miss Jo Gallindo
10  Requirements to Graduate from Frilly Filly Farm
1. Physical Exam:   8 -5-2011 Miss Jo Galindo
2. Cart the Farm Trails displaying knowledge of Whip Commands: Jo Gallindo FFF Stable Mistress: ” Dana  shows excellent carting skills. I am very impressed!”
3. Slalom : 16.37 Trainer Keri Clowes
4. Barrel Race: Score 29 or less with no faults. Dana did a great job with barrels.  5 clean runs in a row with runs in the mid 26 second range. I am honored to sign off this event Senior Trainer Elandrel Moonwing 9/3/201
5. Large Steeplechase: 1100 Score or better with no faults. Jo Gallindo: “I watched Dana do 2 clean runs and score 1123 and 1118 in consecutive runs”.
6. Dressage: without fault approved by trainer Jo Gallindo FFF Stable Mistress. “I approve  Dana she is excellent at dressage with me and other Stable Mistresses”
7. Cross Country Carting on both paved & unpaved roads: Dana is good at carting on both paved and unpaved surfaces – Button Wright
8. Play and Score in Pony Polo: 8-14-2011 Cherry Rexie I, Cherry Rexie, certify that this pony played well and scored in pony polo. 2011-08-14 17:40
9. Recommendations of 3 trainers: Recommended by Mistress Button Wright and by Trainer Sabrina Baddingham 9/11/2011. I recommend this pony to be allowed to test for her thoroughbred final exam. She has proven to be very talented – Pricilla Slade (Trainer) 9/11/2011
10. Final Exam with a Stable Mistress: Completed by Mistress Jo Gallindo 9/15/2011
Upon completion, the pony has been given membership in the FFF Thoroughbreds group and is allowed to wear the FFF Thoroughbred tag
Well Done Dana.

Jenny added a comment:
Congratulations Dana you have made us all proud. The hard work you put in has been worth while and you are now ready to take us all on guided tours of FFF.

Link to the original post:
https://themaurers.me/2011/09/17/my-pony-fff-thoroughbred-dana/
Landmark to Filly Frilly Farm
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Bulgogi/102/158/86
About Dana
https://themaurers.me/familyfriends/dana-drezelan/

Simploring 2019 (94) Silly by Cica Chost at Yasminia

09 Sep 2019 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Exploring sims in Second Life Tags: , , , ,

Sunday, September 8th, I got an invitation to visit Cica Ghost newest installation called “Silly”. I visited right away. The first thing though that caught my attention was the name of the sim where Silly is located: Yasminia!

I connect a lot with this sim. It was the homeplace of Yasmin’s brat pack, the family of my first owner Yasmin Heartsdale. It was the place where I spend most of my time in 2011 and 2012, a place with which I associate many fond memories and many friends. That Yasminia is long gone and I revisted another Yasminia in 2016, when it was a pastoral peaceful place. I wrote a blogpost about my visit in 2016 and added also links and a picture of the first Yasminia here: https://themaurers.me/2016/09/16/yasminia-2/

And now Yasminia is the place where Cica built Silly! What a coincidence!

Silly by Cica Ghost – inviatation Card / at the landing point

Silly by Cica Ghost is great fun. Those who are familiar with Cica’s art and her animals and beings, sense Cica’s humor at once. The environment is kept in green, blue, purple and yellow. Huge mushrooms provide some shadows, at the corners are huge (green) cooling towers (well, that’s what these objects looked like to me *winks), there’s a lake and there are many of Cica-ish huge animals and beings with their big eyes. They are looking at the visitors with curiosity and as always, they are peaceful and bear with the visitors.

Impressions of Silly by Cica Ghost (1)

Instead of flowers, arms and feet grow out of the ground, they wave and move up and down, just as if humans would live under the surface, some of them sticking their arms trough the ground to feel how it is outside and others as if they are stuck in the ground upside down and stick their feet out. Silly .. and funny.

Impressions of Silly by Cica Ghost (2)

At Silly by Cica Ghost you can be childish or simply have fun. You can grab a gift, a purple bug, sit on it and fly around. You can sit on some of Cica’s beings. For that just hoover your mouse over the boxes which you find close to some of them. But be careful, some of these boxes are traps and you vanish in them, just your feet stick out, so that you can be a part of the above mentioned feet and hands sticking out of the ground. I had fun!

Impressions of Silly by Cica Ghost (3)

There’s a lot more to discover or to look at, like the butterflies that fly around. Or you “sit” on the big Cica-being which lives on a seperate island next to one of the cooling towers (the one that is shown on Cica’s invitation card). Or you watch the Cica octopussy who lives in the lake. As always, Cica provided also a short idea in the landmark’s description:
Q: What is a cat’s favorite color?
A: PURRRR-ple.

Silly by Cica Ghost is what the name implies – silly. For me one of her best installations. I had great fun. Thank you Cica!

Landmark to Silly by Cica Ghost
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Yasminia/200/122/37

Dairy 2019 (47) March 27th/28th Doll slut cecy

13 Apr 2019 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Mistress Jenny and I met in the afternoon, Wednesday, March 27th. After we had caught up we went shopping first at “Deviant Behavior” as there was a sale. Mistress bought 4 outfits, I bought a body and Mistress made me wear it right away.
We went to different sims, that Mistress Jenny had explored before, one of them was EvaTek. Mistress Jenny showed me the doll transformation machine there and instructed me to transform slave slut cecy, in case she would turn up at night as she herself won’t be inworld that night.
We went to club Domme a Domme for a short time and then home, where we met Angelique shortly.

March 27th: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita at club Domme a Domme

At night, I first roamed a bit and visited several clubs, then slave Flo and slave slut cecy showed up. As slut was still (or again) at Psi’s realm, I took slave Flo with me and picked her up there. The transformation requirs that the object to be transformed should wear not too many other restraints, hence I removed slave slut’s chastity belt, her vixen collar and her gag. Then I brought the slaves to EvaTek.

March 27th: Diomita with slave slut cecy and slave Flo at Psi’s realm / transforming slave slut cecy into doll slut cecy

The transformation process was quick and effective. I selected get a pink Doll….

Doll Maker 5000: Avatar Captured. Selecting options.
Doll Maker 5000: Pink
Doll Maker 5000: Options selected and loaded… Processing..
Doll Maker 5000: Scanning Victim and calibrating for conversion.
Doll Maker 5000: Scanning complete…. Proceeding.
Doll Maker 5000: Items detected that dont fit to requsted spec…. Removing and disposing.
Doll Maker 5000: Rescanning……
Doll Maker 5000: Unwanted items removed…. Proceeding.
Diomita Maurer watches
Doll Maker 5000: Prepearing items needed to complete the requested look……..
Doll Maker 5000: New items have been fitted…. Moving to last stage for inspection.
Doll Maker 5000: Quality control in progress.. Please wait the victim will be delivered in a moment.
Doll Maker 5000: Quality control passed….. Delivering finnished product
Doll Maurer’s Aztec s.lave: mnghtht!!
Diomita Maurer: hello doll
Doll Maurer’s Aztec s.lave: wh whet hguppanid?

Taaaadaa .. done 🙂

March 27th: doll slut cecy looking at the board explaining EvaTek dolls / Diomita with slave Flo and doll slut cecy at Psi’s realm and at EvaTek

Doll slut cecy is locked into her doll suit now. She can’t deny teleports and her speech is restricted in a funny way. Doesn’t she just look great? I took her and slave Flo back to Psi’s for a bit, then I decided to go back to EvaTek where we met a few other people. Amoung them was Eva and I had a short chat with her about the dolls (or should I say her dolls). We stayed until doll slut cecy had to leave – she will find herself at EvaTek now, when she returns online.

March 27th/28th: Diomita with slave Flo at Psi’s realm / slave Flo’s restricted vision (the picture is from when we picked up slave cecy before) / Mistress Jenny with doll Kitty (purple) and another random doll (blue) at Psi’s realm

I went back to Psi’s realm with slave Flo and we had some fun there chit chatting.
Did I mention that Mistress had in mind transforming Kitty as well? She just wanted another colour for kitty. When I met Mistress Jenny on Thursday, March 28th, she told me that she had selected purple as the colour for Kitty when she met her Thursday morning. Mistress provided a picture of herself with doll kitty (in purple) taken at Psi’s realm. There’s also a blue doll in this picture, it’s a random sub, who asked Mistress about the doll outfit and ended in one herself, Mistress Jenny choose blue for her.

I went on another simploring tour Thursday night and visited the lovely island Lotus Bay (see yesterday’s blog entry Simploring 2019 (44) Lotus Bay). I returned home and began writing the simploring report and was almost finished when slave Flo and doll slut cecy came inworld.
I teased slave Flo a bit playing with her restrictions, then I took her with me and went to EvaTek where doll slut cecy was still hanging around. What a surprise, I did not even meet Eva, the owner of EvaTek, there again (she was busy though) but also Jill Ormstein, who I know from my first years in SL. She once was a sister of mine when I was still owned by Yasmin Heartsdale.

March 28th: Diomita with slave Flo at home / Diomita with slave Flo and doll slut cecy at EvaTek (lower right and middle) / doll Jill Ormstein (upper middle) / Diomita with slave Flo at Psi’s (left)

Jill was absent unfortunately and she was also in a doll outfit (I think hers is from Enslaved). Hence I just smacked her behind and put her into doll case.
As there was nothing going on at EvaTek at the time of our visit, I took slave Flo and doll slut cecy back to Psi’s and we had some fun there. Inbetween I brought doll slut cecy back to EvaTek when she had to leave. slave Flo got some attention and I had a nice public chat with one of the guests at Psi’s, who was very interested in Flo’s hood.
And that’s it for these 2 days.

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