Backflash April 2020 – My 2nd and 3rd collaring day (April 21st, 2015 & 2016)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For April 2020 I selected 2 posts and both were written on the occasion of my collaring day (April 21st, 2013). The first post is from 2015 (my 2nd anniversary) and explains how my relation to Mistress Jenny changed and how we picked April 21st as my collaring day. The second post is from 2016 (my 3rd anniversary) that marked a more deceisive change in our relation. Since then and up until today, Mistress Jenny’s position as my owner strengthened and my submission became deeper and deeper, but I still get my green lights and we both enjoy them to the fullest. And today marks my 7th collaring anniversary! Time flies. Thank you Mistress Jenny for being my Mistress and my partner. I love you, Mistress. I submit to you, Mistress.
Enjoy reading a bit in the history files of Mistress Jenny’s and my relation….


Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
(April 21st, 2015)

Jenny and I have several days that we celebrate, so we do get reminded about how time flies quite often. And today marks my 2nd official collaring day. I want to emphasise the word “official” as switching between us has a long history. When Jenny and I got married and spent the honeymoon in our skybox, Jenny already had one day when she dominated me. Honestly I don’t remember, if it was before our wedding or after it (I think it was after it) when Yasmin and Jenny arranged a scene where Yasmin added Jenny as 2nd owner besides herself to the my collar. And since that day we do switch every once in a while. Not that often when I was owned by Yasmin but more and more after my release of her collar.
Considering that, there’s no exact date for my collaring day. We simply picked it. Well that’s also not the whole truth behind it. After my release of Yasmin’s collar I had several scenes with others to fulfil my submissive needs and maybe to fill the lack caused by my release. My pretext was that I learn for my domme side if I submit in play to others. And up until today it is still exciting to play with others. Two years ago during a “green light” where Jenny was dominating me it came to my mind that my spoardic scenes in which I knelt for others but Jenny distinguished our already mutual ownership of eachother. While Jenny did not kneel for anybody else than me, I did. And I wanted to live up to her attitude and told Jenny about it. And later we agreed to take that day as my official collaring day.

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Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

We agreed on rules between us that allow scenes with others for me to happen, but ever since there was no play with anybody else that I didn’t confess to her or had her approval upfront. It is her decision how to handle it, when I confess kneeling to somebody else but her. And Jenny reinforced her ownership of me end of 2014 when I fully submitted to her. Don’t get it wrong, Jenny is still my property and her submission to me is without any doubt. This is our way as dommes as well as as submissives to live and enjoy our mutual ownership. And for most people it is hard to understand. It is for sure rare and we feel blessed having this tight relation.

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Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins – early morning April 21st, 2015

Enough words. Thank you for collaring me, Mistress Jenny. I love you!


Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
(April 21st, 2016)

April 21st marks my official collaring day. I wrote about how we picked this date last year at the same time. Another year went by. And this time my collaring day will be particular again, and different from last year. My relation to Jenny has further developed. She got more and more in control quite naturally, in a steady process, an ongoing change between us. On the occasion of my 3rd collaring day Jenny bought a new collar for me, a collar that I will wear every day and as opposed to before it is not the one she is wearing for me. This way this new collar for me expresses her ownership, her claim to fully own me. And I happily accept this gift as she accepts my gift of submission to her.

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Mistress Jenny and Diomita

Mistress Jenny and I will still appear as a domme couple and I will still head the family. But it is at her to allow me to be equal to her and to wear the jewelery collar (the same that Mistress Jenny wears) for limited periods of time as she sees fit. And Jenny’s submissive side belongs to me only. Jenny will grant time for me to control her, to take advantage of her and to satisfy my demand of owning her – so nothing has changed between us regarding switching back and forth. Who knows, it might be that I’m more often in control than before? *winks*. And where is the difference? The emphases have changed, the balance between us – and just between us as this is most of all between the two of us.
To some extent we still try out ourselves, we continue our journey together. And if we’re not happy with it we can and we will change it again. This step was not easy for me and I admit hesitating but it is the right thing to do for me and it feels just right. For this 3rd collaring day I wrote new vows for Mistress Jenny, that shall express my submission to her. I’m thankful for what we had and I look forward to the time ahead (of course in particular to Jenny’s 8th collaring day in June *winks*).
Thank you for owning me, my wonderful partner, my love, my world, my owner, Mistress Jenny!


Link to the original Posts:
Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2015/04/21/celebrating-my-2nd-collaring-day/
Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2016/04/21/celebrating-my-3rd-collaring-day/

1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. jennymaurer
    Apr 21, 2020 @ 18:45:23

    My wonderful Ehesklavin. It has now been 7 years with you wearing my collar and during that time I have pushed you deeper into your sub role. I have cherished every moment of your submission and I can’t see there ever being any way for us to go back to how we were at the beginning. But why would I when we are getting along so well and having our time of SL . Thank you for you love, support and friendship and may there may be many more to follow.

    xxxxxxxxxx
    Love Jenny

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