Upcoming changes in this blog

04 Sep 2022 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , ,

A Second Life without Jenny is something I couldn’t imagine and what I never ever wanted to experience. When Jenny didn’t appear anymore I was very worried from the first day on and my worries grew. I first continued my daily routines in SL, I wrote diary, I visited galleries and places and cared for the family. When I got the information that Jenny had passed away, my world collapsed, the pain was (and still is) awful, telling our family in SL and our many friends was a hard task.
No surprise – some things in Second Life are like in RL. First you have to deal with organizing things – paying rent, getting the information out, changing the profile, creating a place to remember. I built a memorial at our homeplace, a place that I (and several others) visit several times every day ever since, a place where I pray, a place where I calm down. I know that with time it will be a place where I look back in thankfulness even with a smile. But I’m far from this point at the moment, although I am thankful for the time we had.

Of course I thought of leaving Second Life. But then Jenny and I were always embedded in a nice group of family and friends. And I enjoy being with them. I also don’t want to miss the art in Second Life and all the nice places to visit. Hence I will continue in this virtual world. I don’t know how, I don’t know where it will lead me, but I will stay.

And what will happen with the blog? My first thought was to close and finish the blog. My second thought was to close the blog and to start a new blog. I set up a new blog. It turned out to be more difficult than I thought and it would cause extra recurring costs. So after a while I dropped this idea.

I decided to keep the blog, to continue blogging. My journey together with Jenny is in this blog and keeping it and writing in it will also make me look at older entries and will make me smile in future.
But there will be changes:
1. The name of the blog with change to “Diomita Maurer’s Blog” (instead of “Diomita and Jenny’s blog”)
2. The subtitle changes from “Our world” to “The Maurer family in Second Life” (that includes Jenny always and forever)
3. I will change the site icon picture

Icon of Diomita Maurer’s Blog – The Maurer family in Second Life

Furthermore I might stop blogging every day. I will keep writing a diary, but it might be a bit more about the family than about my personal experiences, honestly at least right now I don’t know yet. I intend to continue writing about art and places, when I am in the mood for it.

Jenny was the love of my Second Life, my world, my best friend. What keeps me going most of all is my belief that Jenny is watching me and us. A part of her will live on in me (in both worlds) until I follow her.

November 25th, 2021: Jenny and Diomita Maurer

Backflash April 2020 – My 2nd and 3rd collaring day (April 21st, 2015 & 2016)

21 Apr 2020 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, anniversary blog entries, Backflash of the month Tags: , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For April 2020 I selected 2 posts and both were written on the occasion of my collaring day (April 21st, 2013). The first post is from 2015 (my 2nd anniversary) and explains how my relation to Mistress Jenny changed and how we picked April 21st as my collaring day. The second post is from 2016 (my 3rd anniversary) that marked a more deceisive change in our relation. Since then and up until today, Mistress Jenny’s position as my owner strengthened and my submission became deeper and deeper, but I still get my green lights and we both enjoy them to the fullest. And today marks my 7th collaring anniversary! Time flies. Thank you Mistress Jenny for being my Mistress and my partner. I love you, Mistress. I submit to you, Mistress.
Enjoy reading a bit in the history files of Mistress Jenny’s and my relation….

Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
(April 21st, 2015)

Jenny and I have several days that we celebrate, so we do get reminded about how time flies quite often. And today marks my 2nd official collaring day. I want to emphasise the word “official” as switching between us has a long history. When Jenny and I got married and spent the honeymoon in our skybox, Jenny already had one day when she dominated me. Honestly I don’t remember, if it was before our wedding or after it (I think it was after it) when Yasmin and Jenny arranged a scene where Yasmin added Jenny as 2nd owner besides herself to the my collar. And since that day we do switch every once in a while. Not that often when I was owned by Yasmin but more and more after my release of her collar.
Considering that, there’s no exact date for my collaring day. We simply picked it. Well that’s also not the whole truth behind it. After my release of Yasmin’s collar I had several scenes with others to fulfil my submissive needs and maybe to fill the lack caused by my release. My pretext was that I learn for my domme side if I submit in play to others. And up until today it is still exciting to play with others. Two years ago during a “green light” where Jenny was dominating me it came to my mind that my spoardic scenes in which I knelt for others but Jenny distinguished our already mutual ownership of eachother. While Jenny did not kneel for anybody else than me, I did. And I wanted to live up to her attitude and told Jenny about it. And later we agreed to take that day as my official collaring day.

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Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

We agreed on rules between us that allow scenes with others for me to happen, but ever since there was no play with anybody else that I didn’t confess to her or had her approval upfront. It is her decision how to handle it, when I confess kneeling to somebody else but her. And Jenny reinforced her ownership of me end of 2014 when I fully submitted to her. Don’t get it wrong, Jenny is still my property and her submission to me is without any doubt. This is our way as dommes as well as as submissives to live and enjoy our mutual ownership. And for most people it is hard to understand. It is for sure rare and we feel blessed having this tight relation.

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Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins – early morning April 21st, 2015

Enough words. Thank you for collaring me, Mistress Jenny. I love you!

Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
(April 21st, 2016)

April 21st marks my official collaring day. I wrote about how we picked this date last year at the same time. Another year went by. And this time my collaring day will be particular again, and different from last year. My relation to Jenny has further developed. She got more and more in control quite naturally, in a steady process, an ongoing change between us. On the occasion of my 3rd collaring day Jenny bought a new collar for me, a collar that I will wear every day and as opposed to before it is not the one she is wearing for me. This way this new collar for me expresses her ownership, her claim to fully own me. And I happily accept this gift as she accepts my gift of submission to her.

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Mistress Jenny and Diomita

Mistress Jenny and I will still appear as a domme couple and I will still head the family. But it is at her to allow me to be equal to her and to wear the jewelery collar (the same that Mistress Jenny wears) for limited periods of time as she sees fit. And Jenny’s submissive side belongs to me only. Jenny will grant time for me to control her, to take advantage of her and to satisfy my demand of owning her – so nothing has changed between us regarding switching back and forth. Who knows, it might be that I’m more often in control than before? *winks*. And where is the difference? The emphases have changed, the balance between us – and just between us as this is most of all between the two of us.
To some extent we still try out ourselves, we continue our journey together. And if we’re not happy with it we can and we will change it again. This step was not easy for me and I admit hesitating but it is the right thing to do for me and it feels just right. For this 3rd collaring day I wrote new vows for Mistress Jenny, that shall express my submission to her. I’m thankful for what we had and I look forward to the time ahead (of course in particular to Jenny’s 8th collaring day in June *winks*).
Thank you for owning me, my wonderful partner, my love, my world, my owner, Mistress Jenny!

Link to the original Posts:
Celebrating my 2nd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2015/04/21/celebrating-my-2nd-collaring-day/
Celebrating my 3rd collaring day
https://themaurers.me/2016/04/21/celebrating-my-3rd-collaring-day/

Dio’s 12th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2019 – Part III

13 Feb 2020 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, anniversary blog entries Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Before yesterday, I had my 12th anniversary of joining Second Life.
It has become a tradition for me to write a longer blog post on the occasion of my rezzdays, to have a look back on the last year and to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Before yesterday, I published Part I of my anniversary entry and talked about my closer family and the changes in my family, yesterday’s part II was about the simploring tours I made in my 12th year. And today’s part III is about other highlights of my 12th year in Second Life.

12 years in Second Life – part III:
Other highlights of my 12th year

What else happened in this 12th year? Without research in my own blog I’d say not much aside from the changes in my family (see part I My home and my family). In fact we had a lot of fun and exciting experiences again.
End of February 2019 I kidnapped sappy (durham novaland) who I met at Heavy Bondage Club (read here). We had a nice roleplay with slave sappy, kept her restricted and amused ourselves with her for more than 2 months.

The kidnapping of SapphicSentiment (durham novaland)

Then slave sappy was caught by Mistress Oblivion (herindoors3) and we sold her to her. I had met Mistress Oblivion myself just a few weeks before also at Heavy Bondage Club, what a coincidence! Mistress Oblivion had an appartment with some little extras where she kept her victims. Later she built a seperate facility, The Facility and in October she caught first Kitty and then Mistress Jenny. I had to negotiate hard and had to fulfill some requests to get Kitty and Mistress Jenny free (read here). The Facility still exists, yet Mistress Oblivion has left it to MadamMoonbeam.

October 21st: Diomita visiting Mistress Jenny at The Facility

End of March 2019 Mistress Jenny took me on a tour to different sims, that she had explored before, one of them was EvaTek. Mistress Jenny showed me the doll transformation machine there and instructed me to transform slave slut cecy. And when slut cecy showed up at night I brought her to the transformation machine. slave Flo witnessed slave slut cecy becoming a doll slut. Doll slut cecy was locked in her suit for some weeks, she couldn’t deny teleports and her speech was restricted in a funny way (read here). For sure she was a colourful eye candy for all others.

March 27th: doll slut cecy looking at the board explaining EvaTek dolls / Diomita with slave Flo and doll slut cecy at Psi’s realm and at EvaTek

In February 2019 I met Lexie (Lexie Dragovar). What began with teasing ended in blackmailing me to serve her. I did enjoy the roleplay and it felt quite real although I had told Mistress Jenny about it. Mistress Jenny insisted that I continued it. It clearly supported my submissiveness and Mistress turned it into her advantage. This roleplay lasted until the first days of April when it cooled down. I found out why by the end of April when I was invited to a “little revealing party” where all victims of Lexie gathered. Lexie herself (and an alt of her) had been caught by Mistress E. Mistress Jenny and I are still in a loose contact with E. For sure the Lexie story was one of my more intense experiences in 2019 (read here).

April 27th: Lexie D’s coming out

For three months, from May to July, we had slave Emmi (rileylynch) with us quite often. Emmi is a real bondage doll and up for being tied up almost always. She has a broad variety of gear and she’s a real expert using the same wardrobe system that we use. We had fun with her and she became a helpful sub friend when it comes to technical issues or new features like baked mesh. We also had slave Kathryn (Sheva Xaris) with us in Summer 2019. slave Kathryn is a friend of Kitty, living in the Western US and hence not in a very convenient timezone with us. Although slave Kathryn didn’t get that close to us we had a lot of fun with her.


Kitty is also together with slave Dana (Dana Drezelan) every once in a while and thus we still follow her ways in SL and see her sometimes although we released slave Dana due to not matching online times many years ago (end of 2014). slave Dana lured Kitty to a place for sissies and Kitty became a sissy for several days and we had fun teasing her and peeking into the very particular world of sissies end of September 2019 (read here)

September 29th: Dio with sissy Kitty at “Gans”

slave Luci (Luci Glendale) came to us in October 2019 and is close to us ever since. slave Luci is a quiet and obedient slave. She’s not seeking being owned officially as she has also a relationship with someone else, who she just sees way to rarely. We will see where this leads to.


Many years ago I got a small plot and house on mainland with my premium membership. We called it Maurer’s Loft. Mistress Jenny and I used it as a retreat or when we wanted to talk with a sub/slave out-of-character. In Spring 2019 Linden Labs released new homes with a higher prim allowance and we gave up our Maurer’s loft in order to get one of these. I wasn’t lucky and always ran late when a new series of homes were released. Finally by the end of 2019 I got a new home within my premium membership, a nice large house in Victorian style – our Maurer’s Loft 2.0 (read here). We could also install a seperate skybox and thus Mistress Jenny and I have another (secret) retreat.

December 28th: Maurer’s Loft 2.0

We also still enjoy bondage in all forms. We tried out new racks, new toys and new restrictive gear. In November we put all slaves into an isolation suit which can be coloured individually and offers quite a lot of partly mean restrictions (read here). slave slut cecy is still wearing this suit up until today and we plan to keep her in it for many months to come, we will just change the colour and the restrictions. I continued creating one “Enjoying Bondage” picture per month, that always also highlighted the activities of the according month.

Enjoying Bondage November 2019 – The slaves in Isolation suits: slave slut cecy, slave Gwendi, Diomita, slave Flo, slave Christin, Mistress Jenny

Last but not least we had our great Friday night parties every Friday. For more than a decade we start our weekend in SL and RL dancing and chatting. Thank you Virgo for providing great music every Friday throughout the year!

Friday night party November 1st: Mistress Jenny, papafox57, Virgo, Linda (lindaleefox), Diomita, slave Christin (upper row), Diable (Orson Neutron), Firefly (rmf361sim), Starbright Wingtips, Della Randt, slave Gwendi, slave Flo (lower row)

My 12th year in Second Life was coined by my growing submissiveness to Mistress Jenny. I hadn’t thought that it could still grow. My green lights when Mistress granted me to dominate her got shorter, my red lights when Mistress pushed me deep into subspace got longer and were intense. Red and green lights were for sure also highlights in my 12th year. During my red lights Mistress easily eliminated some of my remaining Limits (if not all). She succeeded in surprising me again and again. I won’t forget the long time in subspace that I had in November and December 2019, a really particular experience for me. I got fully addicted to her in many ways. Although I still own my Mistress wife as well (and that will not change!), I’m her owned Ehesklavin except for my green lights or other times when Mistress grants more leeway.

Mistress Jenny and Diomita 2019 – scenes of a very particular relation

Thank you so much for your love, your care and your creativity, Mistress Jenny, my love, my world.

With that I will end the series of anniversary blog posts. Mistress Jenny and I as well as the core members of our little family are embedded in a great community of friends, we know some of them way over a decade now, some for several years and some are new friends of ours. Even if not mentioned by name in this anniversary blog post, these friends do mean a lot to me and to us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who keep my and our SL enjoyable and exciting! It was a great 12th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 13th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Dio’s 12th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2019 – Part I

11 Feb 2020 3 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, anniversary blog entries Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Oh my gooad.. I can’t believe it! 12 years in Second Life!
Today marks my 12th anniversary of joining Second Life. Considering that there’s only one life you can live, the virtual world of Second Life has become a part of my everyday life. And the intention of this blog was and is to keep the memories alive, although places and people simply vanish sometimes. Reading back I’m able to remember, like a journey in my memories. In May 2019 I began a new monthly series in this blog called “Backflash”. In this series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. That’s always quite interesting also for myself! For our readers the new series provides an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

Like every year I write a longer blog post on the occiasion for my rezzday. I’ll have a look back on the last year to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Like I did for my last anniversaries, I will split this anniversary post – this time into even 3 parts. The part one will be about our family, the part two about my simploring tours and part 3 about the other highlights of my 12th year. Enjoy!

12 years in Second Life – part I: My home and my family

Let’s start with our home. Once again it hasn’t changed. We didn’t make any major refurbisment. Obviously we’re quite happy with it and it does feel like home, just like in the physical world. There have been only some minor changes, some more plants, some new furniture and toys. And my art collection, consisting of sculptures and pictures, which I either bought or got as a present from artists is growing.

Dio’s little art park – some new exhibits of 2019: Humanitree by Milly Sharple and Yes/No by Reycharles

During the last year the family has changed again.
On Tuesday, January 15th, 2019 Mistress Jenny and I collared slave Gwen (gwenney) as Maurer’s slave Gwen. One week after her collaring, slave Gwen sent an offline IM to me that she has some RL issues and wight be off a couple of days. We haven’s seen slave Gwen ever since. 5 months later, on June 22nd, 2019, we released her officially from our Service. We hope she’s doing well. Like all other former slaves of ours, slave Gwen is always welcome at our home.

After we released slave Gwen we had only three official collared slaves for quite a while: Kitty, slave slut cecy and slave Flo. That changed during the Summer. On August 24th, we collared slave Christin and a few days later on August 29th we collared slave Gwendi.

Kitty is doing well and is still adventurous and causes mischief. We still get messages every once in a while from people who caught her or who she had locked up. Mistress and Kitty meet sometimes in our morning and I also met her several times regardless of our not fitting timezone. We stay in touch and this blog is also very helpful for Kitty to catch up with our news. Besides being our collared slaveboy ..ehm … slavegirl, Kitty has become a close friend of ours in addition.

Unfortunately also our slave slut cecy lives in a different timezone (slut is Mexican). Her RL prevents her from being with us most of the time. We see slut irregularly about once a week. slut is very loyal and manages to stay in touch but it is hard to integrate her when she appears all of a sudden. As we don’t want to spoil her short online time with technical stuff we refrained from getting a meshbody for her and we change her outfit only very rarely. The catsuit that she’s wearing right now will become her second skin. It can be colour changed easily to have some variation and it is restrictive.

slave Flo has been a very good slave. Quite often she was our only slave present after slave Gwen didn’t show up again. slave Flo is still enjoying bondage and restrictions. Being our head slave Mistress and I rewarded her and dedicated the slave’s hut “Shangri-La” for her use. slave Flo is keeping our house clean from pixel dust. How can someone show more dedication and loyality than by this sysphos work? slave Flo developed her own status within the family and like Kitty she has become also a personal friend, a fix part of our Second Life and we’re happy and proud to own her.

Christin (Christinvega) began visiting our homesim in Autum 2018. She in every once in a while and in March 2019 we had a first chat with her. We learned that she’s from Norway, that she’s submissive and we could tell that she’s a bit shy at least at first. She attended the next Friday night party and then was absent for several months. She returned end of June, stayed close and and we took more and more control of her. She slowly opened up more and more and as she got known to us she even developed more confidence, she became more bratty and she got a bit closer to slave Flo and Angelique. But she stayed very obedient, patient and not needy. slave Christin began her traditional trial for us on Saturday, August 17th. Exactly one week later, on August 24th, we collared slave Christin as our Maurer’s Norsk Brat Christin. Welcome to the family, slave Christin.

We had noticed Gwendi Dash many times before. She was visiting the same clubs and places as we do and her often shiny or fancy outfit caught our eyes. We also got in contact to her several times, mostly talking about her clothes. That all changed with a short but funny conversation with her about slave Flo and slave Christin on August 15th and I invited Gwendi to join our Friday night party the other day. Gwendi was present when we started slave Christin’s trial and she was with us ever since. She hold company at slave Christin’s trial cell and of course she attended all the conversations we had with slave Christin during the trial. While attending slave Christin’s trial, Gwendi agreed to give up more and more control and I restricted her to our home, her home from now on. It became almost a double trial. Hence Gwendi’s own trial was comparably short but very intense. We didn’t leave her any real choice, actually she was already our’s before she entered the trial cell, she just didn’t know it. We collared slave Gwendi on August 29th, 2019 as “Maurer’s slave Gwendi”.

And there’s Angelique, our niece. She’s not collared by us. Angelique has a very spophisticated and elaboarted wardrobe and is very helpful. When it comes to dressing, she’s our style consultant. She’s also very attractive herself and is irresistable when she’s in a kinky mood. Angelique is obedient and submissve and very loyal. My relation to Angelique cooled down while she was not in the mood for anything for a few months. But then we got closer again, maybe even closer than before. Roleplaying with her is exciting and she still allies sometimes Mistress Jenny against me but still it stays just teasing. Angelique is another fix part of my Second Life.

With slave Gwendi some of her closer friends became close to us as well. I want to mention here in particular our shiny Ann (TransAnn). Ann has always itchy feet and can’t stay still or without roaming around restlessly – nonetheless she and her helpful ways is a real enrichment for our family.

Besides Mistress Jenny and myself the core family at the start of my 13th year consists of Angelique, Kitty, slave Flo, slave slut cecy, slave Christin and slave Gwendi.
The solid base of my Second Life is my relation to Mistress Jenny, my beloved wife, partner and property. We shared these 12 years together and for some we’re seen as one person (DioJen) already. I couldn’t believe it but my submission to Mistress Jenny has even further grown. She made my submission to her irreverible. Nonetheless Mistress Jenny still grants (way too short) green lights where I may tie her up and be in control. I personally think that these role swaps are one reason why our relation stays exciting, varied and gets even stronger.
Mistress insists that I head the family, but to some extent that’s more a delegation as she has grown into the (not very secret) decider in the background. We exchange about everyhting, our everyday life, our Second Life, all matters regarding the family, we tease each other, we try to get enough time for playing amoung ourselves, we love each other.
Besides all the fun I have in Second Life, besides my simploring tours, that I enjoy a lot, Jenny is for sure the reason that I’m still in Second Life after these 12 years – and that it became a part of my life. Thank you, Mistress Jenny!

End of part I, part II will be about my simploring tours and part III about the other highlights of my 12th year.

Backflash November 2019 (II) – Owned Domme (November 25th, 2014)

25 Nov 2019 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, Backflash of the month Tags: , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers this series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

For November 2019, I scrolled 5 years back to November 2014 and found several posts suitable for the Backflash series. As I couldn’t decide which one to pick I publish 2 Backflash post for November. Yesterday’s post was about slave Flo’s experiences as a drone (read here) written by slave Flo. In it slave Flo describes her expierences as a drone. Today’s Backflash post is quite personal. The original post was published November 25th, 2014. It marks the final turn in my relation to Jenny. Since that day Mistress Jenny decides about granting control over herself to me. What once were green lights for her became up until today green lights for me. And my submission to Mistress Jenny has grown way deeper and stronger since that day. But read yourself:

Owned Domme

Diomita “Owned Domme”

In my last post about Mistress Jenny (posted November 9th) I reported about my last period where Jenny dommed me. It lasted more than 3 weeks and was a particular expierence for me. I learned to let control go not just for a few days. During this year I accepted more and more that Jenny owns my sub side and I enjoyed the days where I granted her to domme me more and more. Shortly after I published the post, Jenny released me from subbing to her. It felt good being at her side again and we had some nice nights together. But still something had changed. So we agreed that I might get her keys again to domme her, but not as long as she had mine before – turning the colour scheme. She will grant green lights (where I am in control) but will take me into longer red lights (where she is in control).

Then I had my green light and it was really enjoyable to have Jenny at my feet again. She relaxed, I relaxed. The green light was just a couple of days and ended last Sunday, with a small bondage night. I ended the post about this “Enjoying bondage” night with a P.S.: “The green light ended just after this small spontaneous bondage night and a just a few days later Mistress Jenny restored her position”. And Jenny added a comment “I enjoyed my short break back into bondage, thank you Diomita. It is now back to the serious business of taking the last bit of control away from you. XXXXX”

The following days, Mistress Jenny took control again. I was confused and perturbed about it. Jenny was my collared slave, my enslaved wife “Ehesklavin” for far over 6 years. We developed into a domme couple. But it felt right to give up control. I love her to bits and trust her. She’s my world, my friend far beyond SL. We talked a lot. We both value what we have in SL together as a couple and don’t put it at risk ever. Finally we decided to go on exploring about us and D/s. Jenny calls it our journey together and we let it flow wherever it will take us in mutual trust.
Last Friday Mistress Jenny removed my jewelery collar and replaced it with a thicker leather and steel collar. Thus she took away my status of being equal to her. Tables are turned now not just for a week. She is Mistress Jenny for me. She will grant green lights for me as she sees fit to enjoy bondage or to recover her strength, but it is her decision to end them. If she feels for it she will put me into red lights and keep me there as long as she wants.

Mistress Jenny locking the collar around her “Owned Domme”‘s neck.

For the family nothing will change. I’m heading the family with Mistress Jenny. I might become stricter to our slaves and subs as my domme side needs its satisfaction (so be prepared!!). And my new collar will remind me that I am an “Owned Domme” now. Somehow this change has emerged over time and is just consequent. It just feels right for me. I’m going to prepare my green lights in detail and will experience them as a reward, nothing earned but granted by Mistress Jenny.
We’re both excited about the change and will explore where it leads us to. But even if I turn tables back one day, we will have developed. Our journey continues together, dedicated to eachother.
I love you my wife, my world – I love you, Mistress Jenny.

Link to the original post:
https://themaurers.me/2014/11/25/owned-domme/

Dio’s 10th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2018 – Part II

12 Feb 2018 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, anniversary blog entries, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Yesterday, I had my my 10th anniversary of joining Second Life.
It has become a tradition for me to write a longer blog post on the occasion of my rezzdays, to have a look back on the last year and to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change. Yesterday, I published Part I of my anniversary entry and talked about my home, the changes in the family and my simploring tours.
Today’s part II is about family members,  other Highlights of my 10th year in Second Life and about my relation with my property, my wife, my Mistress Jenny. Enjoy!

Back to my SL “family”. They had their own highlights in my 10th year and of course these are also highlights for me.
slave Flo wrote another story, which still can be continued: The Victorian Corset. You’ll find part I, part II and part III in this blog. We had fun reading and illustrating it.


Kitty Maurer had kind of a competition with our ex-slave Dana and became a Hu-cow (Human Cow) like Dana. Considering that Kitty is male gave it an extra kinky touch. Kitty did well and produced lots of milk. I could have considered to drink my coffee with milk again *winks*. It was fun!

August 5th: Diomita with Hu-cow Kitty

Angelique got very active at the Oak Meadow community and managed a lot there. It was a new experience for her, trying to get all interests aligned. Some day it was all too much for her and she retreated from her “job” there and started something new. She then began to study at Birchwood Academy …. and gave in her studies in January 2018, saying that the academy is a step to high for her, she can’t follow the classes and gets behind. Oh my, I don’t want to sum up all the tuition we payed over the last years for Angelique’s education and still she’s a real brat sometimes. She’s now at another Institute called R.M.I., where they want to  treat her self wetting problems. It looks like we’ll pay more tuition.

September 17th: Angelique Maurer

Our slave slut cecy continously added to our fun. Her sluttiness and desire are insatiable. Unfortunately slut’s online times do not fit with ours anymore and we see her only during the weekends lately. Nonetheless, slace slut cecy is dedicated to us and loyal and we enjoy having her in our family and love to tease her when she’s around.

September 6th: slave slut cecy hanging around at Lochme (pictures by cecyme)

Our slavin Christa had the fantasy to become a puppy slave. Be careful, what you wish for! She became our puppy slave and we restricted her hearing and speech to that of a pet (there’re some great scripts for that). We had agreed to keep her as our pet for one full year. After 6 months, we allowed her to change her outfit and we loosened her restrictions a bit, so that she can communicate with us at least. She still has another 6 months to go.

December 26th: Diomita with slave pet Christa in her new puppy suit at home and at Mesmerize Dungeon

slave Adarra couldn’t be with us as much as she and we wanted due to her RL and the timezone issues. We did not see her often, but when she was around, she was always helpful and tried to add her part to the family. For example she made slave Kelly’s branding for the Maitreya mesh body.

October 17th: Diomita watching the slaves kelly and Adarra at our Stonehaven patio

My 10th year starts with Kitty Maurer, slave Flo, slave slut cecy, slave Adarra, slave puppy slavin C, slave kelly and slave Bella as officially collared slaves and subs. Angelique Maurer is not collared by us, but as our niece she’s part of the most inner circle. We’re quite full again:-).
In March 2017 we started our key-holding service. Our idea was (and is) that unowned slaves and subs may come to us, ready to be locked. We will lock their gear and take their keys for a predefined (longer) time of a week or more. They can enjoy being helpless and controlled. There’s no way back. We take a small fee for it, that is used to support our regular Friday night parties and our dj Virgo Babii. We had some feed back and the service also added to our fun.


The Friday night parties are a fix date in our Second Life. We enjoy starting the weekend dancing and chatting and being very relaxed. It might be one of the oldest regular parties in Second Life, running since 2008. WOW. Lately our parties have been very well attended and we came to the limit of our homesim, that can only handle 20 people simultaneously. Thank you for the great music and for providing this fun, Virgo. It became a part of my RL.

November 10th: Friday Night Party

We pursued our kinky Second Life not only within the family. We had several potential slaves and subs around us for a limited time. They left again for different reasons. Nonetheless they added to our fun. I want to mention here: Maddie (), slave Jade (,), Summer Robertson (), Rubbertoy (), sissy maid (), ally () and slave D ().


My relation to Mistress Jenny is the base of my Second Life. I wouldn’t be here without her. She continued to strenghten her position as my Mistress. As of right now, this is not going to change. She grants green lights to me, where I may control her (I do enjoy the green lights a lot!) and she holds me in a red light, when she’s in the mood to apply her full control. This is keeping our relation exciting.

During one of these red lights, Mistress Jenny had me in an outfit, that she named “submission complete”, and this describes our relation as how it is right now. Mistress Jenny is in charge and I am her Ehesklavin, her married sub wife. Nonetheless we mostly are a domme couple and we both enjoy controlling our slaves. Thank you Jenny for being my Mistress, my world and for being Mine nonetheless.

August 31st: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita – “Submission complete”

What’s left from my 9th year in Second Life, that I didn’t mention yet? Yes, an actual picture of myself. Inspired by Angelique and others I decided to try out a mesh head. In Second Life you become more beautiful with time, YAY. Such a shame that we can’t transmit that to real life. With Angelique’s help I managed to get the mesh head looking quite similar to my system head, hence it is still me (Angelique’s mesh head is really “wow”). I can switch between both heads and I do change according to the technical needs. The mesh head for example isn’t animated correctly for animations of older equipments. In addition I sometimes come the the maximum of possible attachments when I wear the Mesh head. The Mesh head is of Advantage, when I take close-up pictures, particularly when I use my LUMIPro HUD.

September 16th/17th: Diomita Maurer with “systemhead” and with “mesh head”

For sure 10 years is a long time in reality as well as in a virtual world like Second Life. I was blessed to come across Jenny with who I share not only Second Life. Our relation is the strong base upon which we built our world, but we also need and enjoy the community of family and friends around us. Thank you all for making this world for me and for us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who make my and our SL what it is: Still going strong, still enjoyable and still exciting! It was a great 10th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 11th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Dio’s 10th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2018 – Part I

11 Feb 2018 2 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, anniversary blog entries, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Incredible!
Today marks my 10th anniversary of joining Second Life.
It has become a tradition for me to write a longer blog post on the occasion of my rezzdays, to have a look back on the last year and to realize the changes in my Second Life as well as the things that didn’t change.
As this post became a little bit too long, I decided to split it into two parts. The part one will be about our home, the changes in the Family and my simploring tours. Enjoy!

Let’s start with our home. It hasn’t changed. This time I also can’t report about a major refurbisment. There have been only some minor changes, some more plants, some new furniture and toys. I personally am very happy with the layout as it is now, but there’s always room for improvements.

December 15th: Our winterly homesim “Mount Everest”

Since my 9th rezzday the family has only grown. None of our slaves and subs left. We still have slave Flo, slave slut cecy, slave Adarra and slavin C. Our sub Kitty Maurer is still owned by us and enjoying spreading mischief and causing trouble for herself and others. And Angelique Maurer, our niece, stayed close to us as well. She left Zoey and finds more and more her own way in Second Life but she feels being at home when she’s with us.

The Maurer’s: slave Adarra, slave puppy Christa, slave slut cecy, Diomita, slave kelly, Mistress Jenny, Angelique, slave Flo, slave Belly and Kitty (from left to right, picture is from January 1st, I added in slave Adarra, slave Bella and Kitty)

In October 2017, I met kelly (kellytrip) at Heavy Bondage Club. I knew her as Claven’s slave. Claven brought her sometimes to our Friday night parties as a kind of a decoration for her. Claven gave her to Mara (Maralyn Corleone) and Mara allowed kelly some freedom, like looking for trouble at Heavy Bondage Club. kelly found the trouble she was seeking for. What started with teasing developed to a longer roleplay. We had kelly and later also her former owner Mara as our victims at home. We shaved their heads bald, we (ab)used them and we threatened both. The roleplay ended when kelly offered to fully submit to us if we let Mara go. slave kelly, Maurer’s lil slave, had no traditional trial, she was simply enslaved and is our slave now.

October 2017: Diomita with slave kelly

In November 2017 Bella (BellaRose1998) came to us. She attended one of our Friday night parties from a quite secure distance. Bella didn’t dance but stood aside most of the time and she spent some time at the pit, where slave kelly was stored that night. She was picturing herself fully controlled, tied and locked and was not at all shying away even from isolation but had no experience. Bella stayed with us for several weeks, was treated like a slave and fitted in well. She’s patient and accepts her place. After a short traditional trial in the tube cell, we collared her as Maurer’s Rose in January 2018.
I explored and discovered a lot in Second Life during my 9th year. I admire the creativity of artists in this virtual world, I visited galleries like MetaLes ..O.. ArT Virtual Space, Blue Orange, SOOSH Art Gallery, Serena Imagine Arts Center, The Eye Art Gallery and La Maison d’Aneli. I saw several installations within the LEA programm like Another world, Surreal Chess Wonderland, 16 Fields and The Mind of The Machine. I came across the light shows of Mario2 Helstein and saw the Solstice Light Show. I discovered the fractals of Gem Preiz in his exhibitions No Frontiers and Chaos. I visited Enchanted art and Cerridwens Cauldron, I saw Moya …. and many many more.

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life – selection of art that I saw

I found many cosy and lovely sims where people buildt their own dreamworld, peaceful and picturesque. You don’t need many prims or a large place for it, Long Journey and Another Long Journey are examples for that. Most of these dreamworlds were homesteads: Maison de L’amitié, Amandia, Follow Your Bliss (II), Ash Falls, Tavana Island, Sunfall, Sol Existence, Binemust, Borneo Island, Aspen Fell Memories, Cherishville, Holiday Trace, somewhere ….. just to name a few. In these sims I spent relaxing hours and enjoyed the views and the peace.

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life – selection of visited sims

Then there were the sims that have a real background, where a place in the physical world was build in Second Life. This way I got a picture, an idea of the real places and my visit gave reason to do a little bit of research. Khodovarikha (in the Barents Sea, Russia) was one of the most impressing places and I spent some time learning about this place in the real world. I didn’t read or hear about Marfa before seeing it in Second Life, now I know that this place in the middle of nowhere is quite known as a major center for Minimalist art. But there were more like West Of The Rain (inspired by The San Juan Islands in Washington State), Costa Blanco (a southern province of Sweden), A piece of Ireland (Blarney Castle in Ireland), ~Neive~ (Neive is located in the Province of Cuneo in the Italian region Piedmont) and New Greenland (inspired by Kangaamiut, Greenland).

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life – selection of places I saw with a RL background

I also discovered many places related to my kinky side, to BDSM. That’s another dream you can live in Second Life and I do. Some of these places were not new at all, but new for me or I just rediscovered them. I want to mention the Seaside Slave Storage, Angel of Pain’s BDSM Island (which I visit more often again), SJC Playground, Fortress Mortice, Chek Chau – Daisy’s playground, LICK and Crystal Bay, Elegant Femme Gallery and Maison Sybille, Sadiana, Headlights, Mirage and The Havens. But there’re many many more. Also these places are build with passion and love and they all offer a lot more than just bdsm.

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life – selection of bdsm places I discoverd

Thank you all for building, for creating and for sharing your dreams with the rest of the community. And please apologize if I forgot to mention some of my tours, it were too many. I did really enjoy all of my simploring tours!

End of part I

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2017

11 Feb 2017 4 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, anniversary blog entries Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Today is my 9th rezzing anniversary in Second Life – just incredible that I’m entering my 10th year as a part of this virtual world. SL has contributed a lot to my life during the last 9 years and I hope that I can spend a part of my free time for many more years in SL. For my anniversary I always write a longer blog post looking back to the last year, summarizing it and I try to look out a bit. Overall nothing has changed as I am still together with my beloved partner in SL, Jenny. We still live at our own homesim Mount Everest next to our neighbours Tyra (Tyra.Sciarri) and Virgo (Virgo.Babii) on one side and Sarah (Sarah.Fhang) and vero (vero.Hartmann) on the other side. We still have several subs and slaves in our family. We still like bondage and visit kinky places. And I still explore the beauty of Second Life on my exploring tours. But in detail a lot has happened!
Let’s start with our homesim. We had an accident end of February 2016 (Saturday mess) and the whole sim was a big big mess. Thanks to Linden Labs who provided a roll back. After the mess and the sim roll-back, I started with refurbising our island at Mount Everest and just after one week the work was done (Eurobrats Headquarter – work in progress (II) and Eurobrats Headquarters – refurbishment mainly done). Besides the new layout we won a lot of underground space with this refurbishment and I built a dungeon maze into it. During 2016 we noticed that the space above the dungeon wasn’t really used and honestly I wasn’t really happy with the big large rock after a while. So I refurbished the island again in December 2016 removing the rock and adjusting the underground dungeon maze. I also moved our private skybox a bit outside which allows to make separate settings in the viewer for it. Later we installed a “slut and slave wall” with a patio, which has a touch of the old Stonehaven patio, quite close to the landing point. And just recently we added the “Fetisch Club Chez Maurer” in the underground. Right now, we’re happy with the layout, but we might further develop our home this year.fccm1

We also had again some changes in our family. Our slave Nina aka Maurerien orja (snina93) left Second Life without any word. She left the family group and i can’t find her with the search anymore. We don’t know what happened and can only hope that she’s doing well. And also our slave Gebby aka Maurer’s sklavin (gebby) didn’t get online anymore since July 26th, 2016. We have no clue what happened. That people leave with no explanation is a clear downside of this virtual world, but nothing we can change unfortunately. We released Nina and Gebby her from our collar October 6th, 2016.

July 10th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Nina and sklavin Gebby at MD

The last picture I found with sklavin Gebby and slave Nina is from July 10th 2016 showing them with Jenny and me at MD

On the other side slave cecy (cecysumi) was collared as Maurer’s Aztec slave and slave Adarra (AdarraMorgan) was collared as Maurer’s Maple slave both on May 18th, 2016. And we collared Christa (christa.windlow) on July 2nd, 2016 as Maurer’s slavin C. Just lately we also have slave D (scarfdaniela) quite close to us and might collar her some day.20170128-slave-cecy-slave-adarra-slavin-cOver the last years Angelique literally grew as our niece, she persued her own way and her own way of roleplay. And more and more we became her aunts rather than her owners, providing a stable family and base for her just like in RL. Angelique was never officially released by us, and we love to have her around – as our niece nowadays. And of course we won’t refrain from educating her or even punish her for disobedience even nowadays (if needed). Angelique is and will always be our beloved niece and has a place at home. She was collared by Zoey (zolene) on November 20th, 2016.

November 20th: Zoey and Angelique after the collaring ceremony

November 20th: Zoey and Angelique after the collaring ceremony

As of today the family consists of the slaves Flo, cecy, Adarra and Christa, of sub Kitty Maurer and of our niece Angelique Maurer (though not collared by us anymore). slave Flo is our oldest slave now and she fills into this role very well and loves to be the head slave. We enjoy her presence, her reliability, her devotion and dedication to us. Hopefully she starts something like her fantasy “The Accountant” (part I to IV, part I see here) some time soon again. And Kitty? She’s still our’s and causes trouble and fun and provides interesting links and expierences. She also keeps us connected with our ex-slave Dana and with other people from the US who we meet only rarely. Thank you for being ours over all these years, Kitty.20170128-slave-flo-and-kitty

Writing the blog was also a major activity for me during the last year. I began to blog almost daily which is a real challenge but fun. I also read back myself quite often in the blog. And thinking of something to write about also inspires me to experiment, to try out new things, to build and last but not least to go simploring. In my 9th year I visited around 90 sims on my exploring tours. Second Life and the possibilities for creative people are amazing. The graphics are becoming better every year and the impressions are getting close to reality. Here I want to pick Mont Saint-Michel, which is already a classic sim and Furillen which is inspired by real places. And every season of the years brings  new sims and expierences. Just think of the magic that I found at Telrunya Winter, the lovely fall at It all starts with a smile or at Templeton Cove, think of a summer at Noelia, of Frisland, Hide&Seek, La Vie, Eclectica, Byrd Island, Binemust, and many others. And then there’s the art I could see in SL Evre, Cica’s library, artSpace UTSA, Ephemeral, Monochrome, All_Most Real, Keys and so many more. I visited some scary sims around Halloween like Woodbury Falls, Arranmore, Neverland, The Fallen and Halloween town. And I also explored some kinky sims of course like Bondage & Storage Project, Dreamshire, Black Mill, Headlights, Surrender Cove, S&L Slave Storage, Xaara, Lick ….20161105-furillen_017

We continued the enjoying bondage series. The slaves get a new themed outfit every month which is often the subject for the enjoying bondage picture of the month. But there were also other subjects for this series. I remember in particular the June 2016 entry “The ropes” where I tried out a new set of ropes on myself and I got some really nice pictures of me tied up.

Enjoying bondage June 2016: Diomita in Tight Rope (Shop Makiko) (3)

Enjoying bondage June 2016: Diomita in Tight Rope (Shop Makiko) (3)

The most important issue of my 9th year in Second Life was for sure my changing relation to Jenny. Our relation is constantly further developing and changing. In spring 2016 Jenny took more and more control and even a long green light that I got on the occasion of Jenny’s 8th collaring day on June 5th, 2106, didn’t stop this change of control. It was a slow change in mutual consent that was already ongoing for the last years. On our wedding anniversary, October 24th, we made it official as I said my vows submitting to Mistress Jenny and she said her vows confirming it. Mistress Jenny bought a new collar for me. It is thicker than our mutual jewelery collar but still jewelery. Mistress continues wearing the small jewelery collar, and I wear a thicker collar, Mistress Jenny’s collar, for everyday life.

October 23rd, 2016: The different 8th wedding anniversary (3)

October 23rd, 2016: The different 8th wedding anniversary (3)

Along with this major change our private skybox got a little refurbishment. The main part is now reflecting Mistress Jenny’s position and the decoration and pictures show her in control. That is where we begin our time together online every day and where we log out every day. Our private dungeon has been teared down as it wasn’t needed or used anymore. Instead I build an small annex to our skybox, that I use for green lights, when Mistress Jenny grants me controlling her and taking care of her sub side and her kink for being tied up, locked and controlled. Beside this major change we continue to own eachother mutally and this is not going to change at all. And Mistress Jenny also insists that I head the family although nothing will happen without her consent (actually we decided everything together for many years now). Nonetheless my submission to Mistress brought a lot of new experiences for me and for Mistress Jenny. We both enjoy that and it is ongoing. Thank you, Mistress Jenny.

December 1st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at our private skybox

December 1st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at our private skybox

With my rezzday anniversary posts I always have at least one picture showing myself and the changes. In Second Life there’s no aging. As opposed to with the increasing quality of graphics we become more and more beautiful. Such a shame that we can’t transmit that to real life. In my last anniversary blog entry I reported about my new mesh body. This year the most visible change is my new thicker jewelery collar. The other change of this year is more intimate. Mistress and I wear several fitting tattoos, the rose on our right breasts together with “Dio’s” and “Jen’s”, a tattoo on our left shoulder blade saying “Dio’s wife” and “Jen’s wife” and a tattoo on our back saying “Diomita’s property” and “Jenny’s property”. We also both have an intimate tattoo. Mine was “Besitz”, being owned by Jenny, her’s was “Ehesklavin” being owned by me.

February 2017 entering my 10th year in SL - showing Mistress Jenny's collar and my Ehesklavin tattoo

February 2017 entering my 10th year in SL – showing Mistress Jenny’s collar and my Ehesklavin tattoo

In May 2016 Mistress Jenny added a tattoo on my right shoulder blade showing a stylized woman, the first sign of my submission to her as she doesn’t wear something correspondent. Then in December we got new intimate tattoos as our personal Christmas gift. We said, we both had a little surgery to remove the old tattoo’s. My intimate tattoo now says “Ehesklavin”, Mistress Jenny’s tattoo says “Eheherrin”. What a change considering that Jenny was my Ehesklavin for many years. And now I am her Ehesklavin. That completed my submission to Mistress Jenny and I am proud to be her Ehesklavin now.

Thank you all for making this world for me and for us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who make my and our SL what it is: Still going strong, still enjoyable and still exciting! It was a great 9th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 10th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Mistress Jenny and Diomita

29 Jun 2016 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members Tags: , , ,

The last days were quite uneventful and I didn’t take as much pictures as I usually do. But I did find time last weekend to play a bit with pictures. Mistress had left me tied up in our private skybox and I didn’t want to walk around like this (actually that was her intention as I can’t complain that I couldn’t go out). Here’s one result of my playing with pictures and filters:

June 29th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita - a collage

June 29th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita – a collage

Friday Night

12 Mar 2016 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , ,

 

Friday, March 11th: Diomita relaxing at home

Friday, March 11th: Diomita relaxing at home

Fridays are dancing nights for us. And still you can count the Fridays where we hadn’t our party with one hand.  My and our Friday night yesterday was different. Virgo had announced to me that she would run late and that we should start without her. Hence I choose a radio station and started the disco illumination. The party was different, no taggy muff song, no other music wishes and of course we missed that a lot. But we had quite a bunch of guests and made the best of it, we chatted and had some nice banter. Next Friday we’ll make up for it hopefully.

Friday, March 11th: Radio party

Friday, March 11th: Radio party

Without Virgo we had a quite early end at close to 1 AM. But my Friday night was not yet over. Mistress Jenny took me to club DeLust and I had to strip and to sit next to her feet while we chatted about the last two weeks. It’s two weeks now that I wear the thick collar and Mistress doesn’t intend to unlock it to swap it with my jewelery collar very soon. And it even won’t go off when Mistress Jenny grants the next green light to me, allowing that I take control for a limited time. The balance between us expressed by switching back and forth is changing. We will see where it takes us. But the unknown is the exciting in life.

march 11th: Mistress Jenny and Dio at club DeLust

march 11th: Mistress Jenny and Dio at club DeLust

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