12 Years And Counting

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Today is my 12 years rez day. I can’t believe it is that long ago that I first logged in to Second Life. Back then things were frantic. The BDSM scene was exploding and sites such as Stonehaven were very popular with both people new to the scene and those with more experience trying to lead the way. I met Diomita with her family in the cage room and later again up at the terrace. The rest is all history and well documented in this blog. But what does not often get a mention is the role that SL has had on our private lives too. I have seen us both develop as people, seen our children grow up and leave home, and I have become more relaxed and confident because of my friendship with Diomita. Having somebody to share life with and experiences and having an ear to listen to you is important and we have both been that for each other. Thank you for a fun 12 years and long may it continue. I love you lots and lots Diomita

Here is a picture of us taken together in 2009 to remind everyone of how we looked back then.

Jenny xxxxx

Backflash January 2020 – Domme a Domme (January 10th, 2012)

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the new series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
Eight years ago, in January 2012, I wrote a post about “Domme a Domme”, it was the 100th post in this blog. I sorted it under the category “Exploring sims in Second Life”. There was just one single picture in this post. Club Domme a Domme has changed a lot ever since, gone through several full refurbishments and moved. Mistress Jenny and I still visit it quite often, although it is mostly a S&M (Stand & Model) nowadays. But the concept is still the same and sometimes there’s also something going on.
Here’s the post from January 10th, 2012:

Domme a Domme

I can not remember exactly how I found Domme a Domme (DaD), but as far as I remember it was a group that I joined as Yasmin has been a member and it was not free to join it. It was a small select group of Dommes that met to explore their secret side once in a while or just to escape from the pressures of being domme. At first it was my  personal retreat and I didn’t take Jenny there for a long time. And I had some nice experiences with Leighrayne Ninetails and others. The first club house was a small house with a limited number of props. As the group developed it was time to get a bigger plot and the group moved to Long Lost Bay.

The plot there consisted of a landing zone next to a lounge and some small traps. There was a club house with private dancing and some other buildings that Mina kept on developing. Leigh provided the main attraction and a lot of  banter was going on in IM. DaD was a good place to visit but then more and more people mainly stood around the landing area and did not explore anymore. There were also a lot of dommes looking to break everybody they saw and some of the stand offs and banter became humerous.

Quite recently a lot of work has been done to develop DaD into an urban area around a courtyard. There is a museum, a diner and some areas to RP in but the main meeting place is still at the main square.  Nowadays you will encounter a mixture of dommes and subs although subs are requested to not actively search for an owner there. The balance of people is similar to the way Stonehaven used to be when the patio there was a great place to visit, watch, have some banter or make friends.

So although you may feel a little frustrated at first that nothing is happening, just say hello to everybody and very soon you will begin to make friends.  That’s how I met people there, people who got close to me or were close to me for a while – and three of them are collared members of the Eurobrats today.

Beware some of the traps are cruel so keep your relay on ask unless you have a friend to rescue you close by.

P.S.: This is the 100th post on this blog 🙂

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Some further remarks:
The three above mentioned members of the Eurbrats, who I met first at club Domme a Domme and who became our collared slaves were Dana (Dana Drezelan), tittia (Mistress Cuttita) and Delilah (Delilah Ormidale). We miss Delilah since June 2014. slave Dana is still arouned and we still see her every once in a while although she’s not our collared slave anymore. tittia is also still around and se see her and are in touch with her.
Leighrayne Ninetails is the founder of the Domme a Domme group and care about it and about it’s home ever since. Thank you, Leigh!

Link to the original post:
https://themaurers.me/2012/01/10/domme-a-domme/
Landmark to the current club Domme a Domme
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Darkadia/174/74/90

Jenny Maurer collared 10 years

Thursday, June 5th, 2008 I collared Laylady Lay as my slave. My owner back in 2008 was Yasmin Heartsdale and I was a member of Yasmin’s Brat Pack. Yasmin, Goddess Yasmin, had approved that I collared Laylady Lay. Jenny’s (Laylady Lay) collaring was also the beginning of my own family, the Euro Brats. October 24th, 2008, I married my slave and we moved to our own little plot at Rivers Rock.
Ten years is a long time be it in real life or in second life. Jenny and I had eventful years and of course also a lot of changes in our family, but our relation was the base and it got stronger and stronger with the time.

Diomita and Jenny in June 2008 during Jenny’s trial for becoming my slave

I forced Jenny to guide her sister slaves and she slowly but steadily began to develop her dominant side – and demanded more often to dominate me for a limited time. When I left Yasmin in 2011 she worked persistently to collar me vice versa and we became owners of eachother in 2012.
And Jenny continued getting more and more dominant. She prepared the times she was in control in detail and had evil ideas on stock for me. A few years later, October 23rd, 2006, the day before our 8th wedding anniversary, I finally submitted completely to my wife, Mistress Jenny Maurer. We’re still owned vice versa and I will always claim that Jenny is also Mine, yet in everyday life I am her married slave, her Ehesklavin, and I’m marked as her married slave by an intime tattoo.

August 31st, 2017: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita at club DeLust and Mesmerize Dungeon – submission completed

Nowadays she grants the times, that we call green lights, when I may turn back time and dominate her for a limited time. But there will be no going back to how we were when we met first. Of course an anniversary like her 10th collaring anniversary is an opportunity for a green light and I do enjoy it right now to the fullest.

Jenny and Diomita Maurer

What we celebrate today is more the 10th (!) anniversary of the start of a wonderful journey together as a couple in Second Life back in 2008, than the anniversary of the collaring. Thank you for your love, your devotion and your loyality over all these years, Jenny. I love you lots and more than I can express with words.

Happy anniversary to us!

Diary 2018 (88) May 21st – Heavy Yoke Bar with Spheres

Monday, May 21st, I found slave kelly inworld standing at our slut platform where I left her Saturday night. As I hadn’t had my daily workout yet, I spanked her with my belt until I felt nicely exhausted. Then I released her from the suspending chain and took the yoke of the vixen cuff set off. I had kind of a present for her. Well, maybe more a present for myself: an heavy yoke bar with spheres. I found it the day before when I was with Anne and slave Flo and watched testing the Rubber Rucket Doll suit. The yoke bar with spheres is from Renie (renieotherland)’s “Other world items” (see yesterday’s post her ).
It took a bit to fit slave kelly into it. The spheres on her hands prevent touching and make her even more helplessly tied up by the yoke. But the meanest item is the sphere over slave kelly’s head. I can select between holes she has to look through and a full visor making her blind. Her cam is restricted and of course her hearing is limited as well as her speech. Tied up like this, slave kelly can be isolated by me are can be granted some limited freedoms, just like I see fit.

May 21st: slave kelly restrained with the heavy yoke bar with spheres

Mistress Jenny came online and we caught up first about the last two nights where I didn’t see Mistress. Angelique joined us as well and Mistress Jenny made plans for her (and me). Then we retreated for a game of skipee leaving slave kelly on the slut platform. After Mistress went off, Angelique and I walked back to slave kelly and I adjusted the joke with the spheres for storing her at our slut platform until Mistress or I have use for her again.

Our night was quiet and relaxed. Mistress Jenny and I took slave drone Flo to Heavy Bondage club first, then we spent some time at Lochme and finally we went to HLG-Prison Group Land. I wanted to show Mistress Jenny the toys sold at “Other World items”. To my surprise the Rubber Rocket Doll suit is for sale now already (see yesterday’s post here). Mistress and I can make plans *winks*.
We played a round of skipee with slave Flo before Mistress Jenny and I retreated to club DeLust for our last 30 minutes. It is our anniversary week. We met at Stonehaven 10 years ago .. and soon we celebrate Jenny’s 10th collaring anniversary. I will get a long green light on this occasion. Unfortunately Jenny will be on vacation most of the time, that she granted for my green light (including her collaring anniversary itself) but I will make the most of it.

May21st: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin – another way to celebrate knowing eachother for 10 years

As times have changed and I’m Mistress Jenny’s Ehesklavin nowadays, it is just fair that she enjoys her position now and until my green light starts. When we returned home to our skybox, Mistress Jenny put me into the serious shackle set and left me locked. What a way to celebrate the 10th anniversary of meeting eachother!

Kitty Maurer’s 9th collaring anniversary

Just recently we celebrated Kitty Maurer’s (aka. Santana Thibedeau) 10th rezzday (read here).  And today marks Kitty’s 9th (!) collaring day.

I was part of Yasmin’s Brat Pack and Yasmin’s collared sub and had just married my slave Jenny. On November 22nd, 2008 Jenny and I found a “present” at home. My sister Yar (Yar Telling), another brat of Yasmin (Yasmin Heartsdale), had caught Santana, had fun with him and left him in a cage in our house in Stonehaven when she was done with him. Santana was convinced that he could talk himself out of the cage and announced that he will enslave us. Actually, Santana has the particular talent to talk himself out of every miserable situation. But this one time he was wrong. We kept the boy and the more he threatened us to get out and to enslave us, the more we were motivated to prove the opposite. Santana moved with us to Rivers Rock where he was one of the first guests in our Hotel California and he spent months in his hotel room.
After that nice and comfy stay he was well conditioned and submitted to us. We both became fond of our captive and decided to make him a slave to the whole family as our time zones did not match fully. One thing shone through all this time and that was no matter when or where slaveboy always remained loyal to us and made us proud to own him (and later her) wherever (s)he went.

November 22nd, 2008 …..

November 22nd – Kitty Maurer’s 9th collaring anniversary

A lot has happened since that day. Second Life developed and changed, our family in Second Life changed, some good friends left us or decided to persue other ways in SL, Santana became Kitty Maurer, my slave wife Jenny became my Mistress – Kitty stayed with us all the time.
Thank you Kitty for your unconditional submission and dedication to your owners.
Happy collaring anniversary!

Diary 2017 (141) August 25th – Sadiana

Friday, August 25th, I wanted to make the most of my green light. I found Jenny in the annex to our skybox tied up and moaning lustfully into her gag. What a view! I didn’t hesitate to turn the vibrator up to full speed and soon later she had an orgasm.
Time for me to get one myself. I explored an Italien sim a couple of days before … Sadiana bdsm Italia where I came a cross some nice animations in one of the houses. I went theere and summoned my property over … and she had to lick me in return.

We do have a strange tradition in our SL family that eraches back to our first year in Second Life and was introduced by my first onwer Yasmin Heartsdale. When we have an orgasm in SL, we shout our thank you. Shouting in SL has the effect that it can be heard within 100 m distance, while normal chat is heard within a range of 20 m. Yasmin’s and my house in the skies of Stonehaven were less then 100 m apart, hence she could hear my shoutings or those of my slaves and I could hear her’s or those of her girls. That provided fun and things to talk about.
We kept this tradition up until today and the rule is valid in our family. And it is still fun to go at a place, trying someone else’s bedroom or dungeon (of course only when it is publically accessible) and to shout the thank you. Most of the times, none hears the shouts or none takes notice, they might think their part.

August 25th: Diomita taking Advantage of her very owned Mistress Jenny at Sadiana bdsm Italia – no shouting please!

Coming back to Sadiana … as I shouted my thank you to Jenny for her service, I was ejected from the sim. I must have disturbed someone’s silence. As Jenny was restricted from standing up. I had to go back and release her and as I did someone shouted something at me in Italien .. curses? I don’t know. Back home, I laughed with Jenny. It has been some years that anybody really took notice about our shouting *grins*.
After a short stop at Domme a Domme with Jenny, I noticed that I was still desiring more. I took Jenny back to SADIANA and she served me very well again. I refrained from shouting this time, I didn’t want to provoke anybody. Yet it felt very sinful to go back and to do it again *winks*.

And that’s it about Friday afternoon – and our Friday nights are reserved for our party.

June 5th – Jenny’s 9th collaring anniversary

Today is the 9th anniversary of Jenny’s collaring day. On June 5th, 2008, I collared Jenny as my slave and property. These nine years were splitted in 3 different phases. From 2008 until 2011 I was myself collared by Yasmin Heartsdale and part of her “Yasmin’s brat pack”. Hence also my slave Jenny was part of this brat pack. It was a time that coined our Second Life up until today. I met Jenny at Stonehaven, a very popular sim at that time, and there’re still people around who rave about this laggy sim, that was the beginning of a D/s Second Life for many. I had a skybox there with a double door cage and it was there, Jenny did her trial for me to become mine. And October 24th, 2008, we got officially married in Second Life.

We had fun at Stonehaven as well as on Yasmin’s homesims. We didn’t see her very often due to time difference as she’s located in the US. It was just consequent that I founded my own little family within Yasmin’s brat pack and that is how the Eurobrats came alive. The first Friday night party with our dj Virgo Babii was at Yasmin’s homesim “Rivers Rock”, where the Eurobrats also hold a plot and had their first family headquarter. Actually Rivers Rock was owned by one of Yasmin’s brat, Sam (Samatha Congrejo), who left SL all of a sudden and we lost our first home due to that.

This first phase ended in 2011, when Yasmin and I didn’t find a base together anymore and she released me. From that day on, the Eurobrats were an own independant family, that still exsists while Yasmin’s brat pack vanished 2 years later. It was also in 2011 that we moved to Mount Everest, our home up until today. After a few months without wearing any collar Jenny and I became mutally owned. We switched back and forth, but I decided when and for how long I gave control to her. Jenny developed into the domme at my side during this second phase. Our family grew and changed with time. Nowadays just Kitty (Santana Thibedeau) is left from our orginial family. Some have left without any word unfortunately. We celebrated wedding days, collaring anniversaries and rezzdays. And we noticed that I myself had no collaring anniversary. Therefore we picked a date that fitted best into the family calendar of events, April 21st, 2013, as my collaring day. We further developed together as a domme couple. Jenny’s self confidence and her domme side flourished. The decision about who of the two of us is in control switched to her. It was a slow but constant change until I fully submitted to my former slave on the occasion of our 8th wedding day, October 24, 2016. While she was my Ehesklavin (German for married slave) for the first 8 years, I became her Ehesklavin now and the swap was completed – and the second phase of our relation ended.

Nowadays, in the 3rd phase of our Second Life together, we’re still a domme couple. I head the family like I did since the Eurobrats were founded back in 2008. Mistress Jenny is my collared property, she’s mine. I am still very possessive about her and I will always be. But I accepted my place. I’m a domme, Mistress to our subs and slaves and I don’t kneel for anybody but for Mistress Jenny. She’s in control and I am her Ehesklavin. It is up to her grant control over her to me for a limited time. And today, as we celebrated Jenny’s 9th collaring anniversary, I’m in control as it should be on such an occasion.

We’re blessed to have found each other. We’re dedicated to each other. Thank you for all the years of your love and dedication, of your unconditional submission to me, Jenny. I’m very confident that there are many more years to come. We will continue to develop and we will see where it leads us to.

Happy collaring anniversary, Jenny, my love

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