Diary 2018 (200) December 28th – A varied day in control

03 Jan 2020 Leave a comment

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Saturday, December 28th, became very different and not at all as I expected it to be. I was inworld early in the afternoon and intended to go on a simploring tour. But the place I picked was not acessible and two other places I visted didn’t turn out being good enough for a simploring tour.

In Spring 2019 I had abandoned our “Maurer’s Loft”, the place I got from Linden Labs with my premium membership. Linden Lab had new houseboats and houses on a new continent name Bellerisma and I wanted to get one of those instead, because they offer more prims and look way better. It turned out that I couldn’t get one as they were sold out way too quickly.
Since that day I had tried to get one – in vain. I admit that I might have not tried hard enough or lost patience – anyway, on Saturday I got a new house. That changed my plans and I began to get familiar with the new “Maurer’s loft”.
Mistress Jenny came inworld and I showed her the new place. Then I took her with me as I had to take advantage of my green light. I took her to “Angel of Pain”, the successor sim of Angel’s BDSM island of Pain that had closed recently. And I enjoyed having my way with Mistress. I enjoyed my control and made it very clear that I wan’t give up my claim on her ever!

December 28th: Diomita with Mistress Jenny at “Angel of Pain”

When I was done with her I took Mistress to club Domme a Domme to expose her – and of course I tied her up!

December 28th: Diomita with Mistress Jenny at “Angel of Pain” and at club Domme a Domme

Mistress Jenny had to leave to tend to her RL and I went back to the new “Maurer’s Loft” and began furnishing it. It turned out that the new house was nice and yes it had more free prims but it was quite small, too small. When I had finished furnishing I looked around and saw other houses nearby that offered way more space. Spontaneously I took all furniture back into my inventory and and abandoned the new place again. That was not that smart as again, I didn’t get offered a house again. Just the houseboats were available and after looking at them, they were too small either.

December 28th: The first new Maurer’s Loft that I gave up again

I spent 2 hours with refreshing the page with the houses for permium members before I got another house offered – and it was even smaller than the one I had before *sighs*. I gave that up immediately and tended to my RL.
I returned early at night and this time I was lucky finally! I got a nice house offered and took it. YAY! I furnished it quickly and took a few pictures. It has 6 rooms and we will have a lot of space in it. It is our (not so secret) hideaway, a place for particular moments of togetherness as well as a place to take a slave to to have a conversation out of character. This new Maurer’s Loft, I called it Maurer’s loft 2.0, might become even more useful as we have some prims and space left over.

December 28th: Maurer’s Loft 2.0

When Mistress Jenny came inworld I showed her the new Maurer’s Loft. Mistress seems to like it. This was already a successful day!
After exploring our new hideaway a bit we went home and met slave Flo and Luci. We took them to Mesmerize Dungeon where we spend a good time. Mistress allowed Luci to manipulate her cuffs so that we get access to them all the time. And later a sub named Dove approached us at Mesmerize Dungeon. She had called me two days before and outlined her desires of total helplessness. We do get many of these applications. But Dove seemed to be nice and polite and hence Mistress Jenny decided to give her a chance. When we went back home, Luci and Dove both had given up control to us to some extent. And slave Flo? I teased her and she had her fun as well. She enjoyed her break before getting wrapped up in latex again.

But the night was not over yet. Having a green light I had to make the most of it and I took Mistress to the annex of our skybox and made her licking me. Yes, it is just “pixel”-sex but with the right person and with the connection Mistress and I have, it is particular and we can almost feel it physically. I enjoyed it!

December 28th: Mistress Jenny serving her owner Diomita

What a day!

Simploring 2020 (1) Northern Shore – Skärgården

02 Jan 2020 2 Comments

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For my Christmas simploring tour I picked Northern Shore from scoop.it SL Destinations. Northern Shore is a moderate full region, created and owned by Elvira Kytori. It is inspired by the place where Elvira is living in RL, the Swedish archipelago coast also known as Skärgården. Look up pictures of these little islands, these skerris in Sweden and compare it with Northern Shore in Second Life – these picturesque, neat and peaceful places do exist! It’s not just a fantasy.

Elvira Kytori is the creator of the “Trace-sims”, places I explored in 2016/2017 (read here about Summer Trace, Fall Trace, Winter Trace and Holiday Trace). Northern Shore fits into this series of places. It is just amazingly beautiful.

Impressions of Northern Shore – Skärgården (1): Around the landing point

It is great fun to wander around, to explore all the little detail of this idyll. I spent almost half an hour at the landing point as there’s so much to see. Elvira made most of the boards and signs in Swedish to capture the atmosphere and make it feel like her home. Look at the Skärgårdshandlarn. Shandlarn is Swedish for shop and you should go inside. I also recommend to have a look at the little café right opposed to the landing point. It is quite cosy inside.

Impressions of Northern Shore – Skärgården (2)

Most of the many houses at Northern Shore are decorated for the holiday season and most are furnished. It is worth to have a look inside. You can’t go inside some of the houses though. You need to ask Elvira for a group tag to do that. But it might also be that these houses are rented out, as Elvira told me after I published this post. Hence if you look for a vacation home at Skärgården  – ask her.

There are some boats at Northern Shore, they lay at piers and you can’t use them to get from one island to the other. And the other smaller boats are on the island, stored away for the Winter. But in Second Life you can fly (flying is allowed) or you can walk (like I did) or you consider the sea being frozen and can skate. Whatever you do, exploring is fun.

Impressions of Northern Shore – Skärgården (3)

Some houses look very comfortable and cosy admist the snow, a paradise for those who love to take pictures in Second Life. Also some outdoor spots invite to sit and watch. I made some pictures using the provided windlight setting. It makes Northern Shore cold and you almost begin to freeze just by the visual impression. It is snowing and you can’t look far. For other pictures I used a brighter windlight setting – Annan Adored Realisitic ambient.

Impressions of Northern Shore – Skärgården (4)

I enjoyed my visit to Nothern Shore a lot and took many pictures. Thank you Elvira for creating this peaceful sim and for sharing it publicly.

Landmark to Northern Shore
https://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Northern%20Shore/138/79/22

Happy New Year 2020 and some stats and findings about this blog (2019 in review)

01 Jan 2020 Leave a comment

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In 2019 I succeeded again to have an entry for every day. Blogging daily is a challenge as there’re days with not that much to report. In addtion, I’m not able to write every day due to other obligations and vacation. Hence I always have some posts on stock and I try to pile up a few more, when I’m off for a few days.
In 2019 there were about 200 diary entries and 130 simploring reports. Over all the blog grew by 372 new posts bringing the total archive of this blog to 1,850 posts.
As taking pictures is one of my passions in SL and storage space is not free, I also changed the way I publish my pictures and grouped them to save space. When you click the pictures you can see them a bit larger. I also post the pictures on deviant art (Diomita Maurer at Deviant art). There you get the pictures in a higher resultion. In total I took more than 11,000 (!) pictures on Second Life in 2019.

In 2019 more than 13,000 people visited our blog compared to 10,000 in 2018 – more than 1,000 visitors per month! Just the number of clicks declined the first time since this blog exists from 53,000 in 2018 to 44,000 in 2019. In 2018 we had a few days with thousands of clicks (by only one person, I assume) resulting in an average of 5.3 clicks per visit. In 2019 each visitor made “only” 3.3 clicks.
The average daily clicks were quite stable in 2019 with 120 clicks a day. Most clicks came from the US (9,500), Germany (9,000) and the UK (2,900). The statistics show that in total people from over 130 (!) countries visited our blog. Also the number of followers increased to over 180! Many thanks to all friends, readers and followers.
Most found our blog coming from search engines (6,900), from Facebook (2,200), from scoop.it SL Destinations (1,250) (that’s from where I often pick my simploring destinations) and deviantart.com (1,500). Again not only the new blog entries attract readers, there’re also some “evergreens”. The Top 5 Posts in 2019 were

1. Enjoying Bondage June 2016 – June 2016 – 287 clicks – ranked 1st in 2018
2. Kara Bound – 280 clicks – April 2014 – also ranked 2nd in 2018
3. Simploring 2019 (121) A NYC Christmas – December 2019 – 217 clicks
4. The Victorian Corest Story – Part II – 178 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo) – ranked 3rd in 2018
5. Simploring 2019 (49) HoPe – 147 clicks – April 2019

This blog contains a lot of memories for Mistress Jenny and me and for the people close to us in Second Life. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around us in Second Life and has grown with time. In the meanwhile I read back myself often to look up a date or to check if I came across a place already before. I introduced a new series in 2019, the “Backflash of the month”. In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers this series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.

The diary entries became also more personal and you could follow how my submission to Mistress Jenny kept growing deeper and became natural for me, but you could also follow how much I enjoy to have her as my sub, as my property during my green lights. She’s still and will always be owned by me as well.

I still have fun writing and it’s my intention to continue daily, if I find the time for it. Considering how much of our free time in real life is spent in this virtual world it makes sense to keep the memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and they stay vivid and present this way.
That we attract so many readers who follow our ways in SL makes me happy and keeps me motivated.

Thanks again for reading and following my and our blog.
Have a great year 2020 in SL and in RL, stay healthy!
Diomita Maurer

Diary 2019 (199) December 26th/27th – Finally a green light again

31 Dec 2019 Leave a comment

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Thursday, December 26th, Mistress and I met with slave Gwendi and Angelique in the afternoon and enjoyed some time together at Heavy Bondage Club. We chatted and exchanged about our Christmas activities. And we took Angelique to Extra Ordinairy, a shop for clothes,  where we got her Christmas presents. I went visting a gallery after Mistress had left to tend to her RL again. Our night was Chistmas-ish relaxed. Mistress and I were at Psi’s realm with Ann, slave Gwendi and slave Flo and later we went to Mesmerize Dungeon.

December 26th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Gwendi and Angelique at Heavy Bondage Club / with Angelique, Ann, slave Gwendi, slave Flo at Psi’s realm and at Mesmerize Dungeon

That night we had a particular fun. Mistress was wearing the tinkler, which is a bladder simulation for Second Life. In short it forces you to go peeing every once in a while. There’re addons that allow others to make you drink and even to force you peeing (which is embarrassing!). Angelique wears her timkler for several years now and Mistress made me wearing it permanently a few months ago. So now and in preparing of a green light that I was about to get the next day, Mistress wore a tinkler as well and she gave Angelique control over her and my tinkler. And Angelique had fun teasing Mistress and me. And that’s it about Wednesday.

Friday, December 27th, I met Mistress at club Domme a Domme in the afternoon. For me it was a particular date as I got permission for a green light from Mistress starting that day. I didn’t hesitate to exchange her collar with her slave collar and put her in a bind pose. Kitty was inworld shortly and joined us and we could exchange our Happy belated Christmas wishes personally. When Kitty had left, I leashed Mistress with her new nose ring and enjoyed just looking at her.

December 27th: Diomita with Mistress Jenny and Kitty at club Domme a Domme

And at night we had our regular Friday night party – with a funny theme “Come as you are, wear something comfy to shake off the kilos gained over Christmas” – and so we did! Mistress Jenny and I had fun with Angelique, Mistress and she dressed alike and we had some chat and banter playing each others role – funny!

December 27th – Friday Night party: Diomita and Mistress Jenny, Angelique, slave Flo, Robur (Roburion), Mistress Jenny and Angelique (upper row) / Virgo, Della Randt, Starbright Wingtips, Firefly (rmf361), papafox57, Jammy Serendipity (navanaxsacratus), slave Gwendi

Diary 2019 (198) December 23rd-25th Christmas in Second Life

30 Dec 2019 Leave a comment

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Christmas in Second Life is particular. Most people are offline and spend their free time with their families in RL. And so does Mistress Jenny and I and our SL family and friends. I had an invitation in RL on Monday, December 23rd, and was not inworld at all. And on Christmas Eve, December 24th, I celebrated in RL. My inworld times were very reduced but I met with Kitty in the morning, I met Mistress Jenny in the afternoon and I met slave Gwendi late at night. I was nice to spend some time with my family in SL as well, very relaxed and in this particular Christmas mood.

December 24th – Christmas Eve in Second Life: Diomita with Kitty / Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Heavy Bondage Club and dancing on the roof of our skybox / Diomita with slave Gwendi at Mesmerize Dungeon

On Christmas day, December 25th, I got some time inworld in the morning and used it for a simploring tour. In the afternoon I met with Mistress Jenny, Angelique and slave Gwendi and we played a skipee. It was a close game and hence it was fun. We all enjoyed to wind down before we headed back to our families in RL.

December 25th – Christmas Day in Second Life: Mistress Jenny, Angelique, slave Gwendi and Diomita playing skipee / Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home in our skybox / Diomita with slave slut cecy and Ann at Psi’s realm

When I returned later at night I was alone first and went on another simploring tour. I shortened the tour when slave slut cecy came inworld. She was locked up at home and I took her with me to Psi’s realm. It was quite crowded there and Ann also came by. We spent some time watching and I teased slave slut cecy before I left her leashed at Psi’s, when it was bedtime for me.

Simploring 2019 (130) Aradia

29 Dec 2019 1 Comment

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Inspired by some pictures I saw at scoop.it SL Destinations I picked “Aradia” for my simploring tour on Thursday, November 21st. Aradia is a moderate homestead owned by Drakonia Aradia (ladyonia).

Aradia – overview

The landmark description is quite romantic:

Open up your wings, and fly
to me, you better watch the
currents, open up your heart
and come to me, theres
a river,theres a steam and plenty
of air to breath. Open up your
mind, and take hold of me,
ill be the bed that you lay on,
and the food you eat

At least the first line is from a song from Mariah Carey called “Butterfly”. And there are butterflies in Aradia, butterflies that carry laterns.
At the landing point you are welcomed by a parakeet, who talks permanently wishing you a good visit and inviting you to explore the place – which I did. Aradia consists of 10 islands (if I counted right). The islands are mostly flat and green with some single trees. The landing is on the largest island, which consists of a flat part and, opposed to the others islands, also of a large rock with a green high plateau. On the high plateau is a quite large round house and a chapel overlooking Aradia. On this island you find also a beach.

Impressions of Aradia (1) around the landing point, the beach, one of the latern butterflies, the round house

Aradia offers quite some places to relax, to enjoy some nature or peace or to chill with friends. You will come across many birds, there’re deers, squirrels, sheep, peacocks and other animals who liven up the scenery.

Impressions of Aradia (2)

Quite outstanding is a big stony hand. You can make yourself comfy in the palm and take a rest. On the center island you find a large open air dance area under trees.

Impressions of Aradia (3) One of several gazebos, the palm rest, and the dance area under trees

The village consists of a few houses, which are for rent. They are partly furnished and all arranged around a center fountain. And they look just cute. It is a world of it’s own, friendly and peaceful and to some extent pure fantasy – like the butterflies carrying laterns.

Impressions of Aradia (4) the village

I ended my exploring tour on the island with the stonehedge circle of stones. Sheeps are running around on this island and admist the stones is a harp (of course I tried it out). From there I returned to the landing point.

Impressions of Aradia (5)

Aradia is a picturesque peaceful fantasy. The houses look a bit like from a Walt Disney movie for me, simply cute. The whole atmosphere is relaxed and peaceful. Aradia is a nice place to chill or to meet with a friend or loved one. Thank you Drakonia Aradia (ladyonia) for providing your sim to the public.

P.S.: Aradia has changed now – it’s Winter 🙂

Landmark to Aradia
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Orchid/51/147/22
Flickr group for Aradia
https://www.flickr.com/groups/14682784@N23/

Diary 2019 (197) December 20th – 22nd Family Days

28 Dec 2019 Leave a comment

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The holiday season was coming to it’s first peak with Christmas soon. It was the time of the year where we do not only spend more time within the family in Second Life but also travel to see our families in Real Life. I was visiting mine from Friday 20th to Sunday 22nd and Mistress Jenny was traveling to see her family Saturday 21st and Sunday 22nd. Nonetheless I was able to get inworld late Friday night and to attend our Friday night party. The theme was not surprisingly Christmas *winks*

December 20th – Friday night party: Mistress Jenny and Diomita (left) / Claire (maddh4tt3r), Firefly (rmf361sim), Starbright Wingtips, Della Randt, papafox57 (upper right) / slave Gwendi with LaraSofie at her leash (lower right)

Due to Mistress Jenny’s and my absence there’s nothing to report for the diary for Saturday. We both returned Sunday night – and had a family night in Second Life. Angelique, slave Flo and slave Gwendi were present. We went to “Let it snow!” (see also Simploring 2019 (129) Let it Snow! A Winter Wonderland) and enjoyed the atmosphere.

December 22nd: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with Angelique, slave Flo and slave Gwendi enjoying a family holiday season night

We went to the Lesbian teahouse and later to Mesmerize Dungeon. We chatted, caught up and had fun – in short: we had a relaxed family night and Mistress and I crowned it with some time of togetherness before we went to bed.

Diary 2019 (196) December 18th / 19th Getting into Christmas mood

27 Dec 2019 Leave a comment

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Wednesday, December 18th, Mistress and I went on a lovely tour to A Calas Christmas (see also Simploring 2019 (122) A Calas Christmas). We enjoyed a romantic hour there doing the sleigh tour together and exploring the Winter Wonderland riding horses. And I took a lot of pictures of course. One picture that shows Mistress Jenny Maurer riding is my favourite.

December 18th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at A Calas Christmas (1)

December 18th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at A Calas Christmas (2)

Mistress Jenny Maurer

We spent our night at club DeLust with slave Flo and slave Gwendi. Argi came by and had a seat on slave Gwendi. What a lovely way to get closer to each other *winks*.

December 18th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita and Argi with slave FLo and slave Gwendi at club DeLust

Thursday, December 19th, Mistress and I went to club Domme a Domme and to Heavy Bondage Club together in the afternoon. Mistress had already changed into something more Christmas-ish and I changed as well before we wento to the clubs, not into a classic Christmas outfit, but I selected Christmas colours for my shoes, pants and top.

I was interrupted by RL while we were at Heavy Bondage club but nonetheless we had some time for chatting and watching. We went home to play a round of yahtzee before returning to our RL and as we were just finished with the yahtzee, slave Flo came inworld. I unlocked her gord doll suit at least for the next days until after Christmas and slave Flo changed into a dress she just had on hand, as Mistress and I had to leave.

December 19th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home, at Heavy Bondage Club and at home with slave Flo

Thursday night Mistress and I met slave Flo and Angelique at the game tables. slave Flo had changed into the Christmas outfit, that we got for for a few days before. It fits well. And Angelique was wearing a Christmas outfit as well. We played a game of skipee as teams. Mistress and slave Flo got tons of jokers and won it easily. It is more fun, when it’s closer. While we were playing Dana showed up. She had found shelter in our dungeon, hiding from her current owner. I could help her getting unlocked and she came to the skipee table.

After we had finished our game, Mistress wanted to take the slaves to A Calas Christmas for a sleigh tour. slave Gwendi first changed into her Christmas outfit, then we all had to strip scripts off in order to visit there. That took a while! But it was worth it.

December 19th: slave Flo, Mistress Jenny, Angelique (upper left) / slave Gwendi, slave Flo, Dana, Mistress Jenny, Diomita (lower left) at home / slave Gwendi, Dana, Diomita – Mistress Jenny, slave Flo at A Calas Christmas doing the sleigh tour

I traveled with Dana and slave Gwendi, Mistress traveled with slave Flo. And all had fun and enjoyed the beautiful Christmas Winter Wonderland. slave Flo even stayed inworld over her bedtime, she must have had enjoyed it. You really can’t plan nights like this in Second Life – what a lovely night… Christmas gets closer.

December 19th: slave Gwendi, Diomita, Dana, slave Flo, Mistress Jenny at A Calas Christmas

 

Diary 2019 (195) December 16th/17th A nice start into the week before Christmas

26 Dec 2019 Leave a comment

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Mistress Jenny and I spent a relaxed hour together in the afternoon. We went to club Domme a Domme and later to Heavy Bondage Club, where Luci and Ann joined us. We talked, we read profile and we made plans. Our hour together went by way too quickly.

December 16th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Heavy Bondage Club with Ann and Luci / Diomita and slave Gwendi admiring doll Ann

At night I met slave Gwendi and Ann at home. Ann was once again playfully and changed into a doll outfit – and that made slave Gwendi rezzing a doll case where Ann stepped in willingly for a picture. That was a fun start.
slave Gwendi and played 2 rounds of greedy, then Angelique joined us. I went to Brii with Angelique and slave Gwendi looking for something Christmas-ish. Angelique didn’t like anything there for herself. I selected a dress for slave Gwendi and saw a non Christmas-ish dress, that might fit for Mistress.
When slave Flo came inworld, I summoned her to us and we selected a dress for her as well. Even slave slut cecy was inworld for about 10 minutes but she logged off again before I could pick her up at home.

December 16th: Diomita, Angelique, slave Gwendi and slave Flo shopping (upper left) and at Mesmerize Dungeon (right) / Diomita and slave Gwendi at home (lower left)

After the shopping Angelique, slave Flo and slave Gwendi went to Mesmerize Dungeon for 15 minutes, then it was already bedtime for slave Flo and Angelique. I spent another 15 minutes with slave Gwendi at home and had her clean my boots while talking. To wrap it up, it was a relaxed Monday for me.

Tuesday, December 17th, I met with Mistress in the afternoon again. We had a very nice hour together, visited club Domme a Domme and Heavy Bondage Club. Mistress was in a playful mood, too bad that we hadn’t enough time for more. We went to our skybox and cuddled on the chaise longue and simpley enjoyed until Mistress and I had to leave into our RLs.

December 17th: Mrs. and Mrs. Maurer at club Domme a Domme and at home

My night was fun. It started with a game of skipee with slave Flo and slave Gwendi. The slaves won it working together *winks*. Angelique and Ann joined us and watched. And we had a visitor – Robur (roburion), a submissive man in a latex catsuit. I told slave Gwendi to change and we all watched her. When she was finally done and we were ready to visit a club, Angelique left us. Angelique has started a new adventure but she hadn’t told us any details yet.
I went to Mesmerize Dungeon with slave Flo, slave Gwendi, Robur and Ann. There was another slave in a gord doll suit at the club and it was also the only free space for us all. That fitted! I parked slave Flo and rezzed a seat, then ordered Robur to be the chair for slave Gwendi. slave Gwendi did enjoy that a lot and teased her chair(man). slave Flo enjoyed her encasement as did the other gord doll. Ann watched …. and I swapped with slave Gwendi after a while. Our chairn(man) did well and we had fun – and time flies when you’re having fun.

December 17th: Diomita at Mesmerize Dungeon with Robur (the chair), Ann, slave gwendi, slave Flo (the white gord doll) and another gord doll (in black and red).

After we had returned home, I retreated with slave Gwendi to our office and she was allowed to lick me. She getting better at this *winks*. And that’s it about a relaxed start into the last week before Christmas.

Merry Christmas 2019

25 Dec 2019 1 Comment

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We wish all friends and readers of our blog a merry Christmas. Enjoy time with your families in Real Life and in Second Life, just celebrate!

 

 

And for all, who haven’t seen yet the yearly christmas installation from Calas Galadhon “A Calas Christmas” here’s an official video of it. It is still amazing what “our” Second Life has to offer. Enjoy!

 

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