Two years old

18 Mar 2010 2 Comments

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries Tags: , ,

Two Years Old

 

As I have been approaching my two year rez day celebrations I have been pondering what and who have helped me reach it.

Without any doubt the most important person has been Diomita my Mistress, partner and best friend. We complement each other very well and quite often know what the other is about to say. We support one another and share a lot of very good times together. I will always be grateful for knowing you. Anybody who knows us understands how important we are to each other. Thank you my love.

There are lots of times that we are not together and for those times there are 2 things that have contributed to my enjoyment:

I have to admit it was the ability to explore my fantasies with bondage that brought me to SL. Some of the toys and scripts are exquisite and really do fire up my imagination. I have learnt things in SL that I have been able to bring to my RL and also test some of my limits likes and dislikes in a safe environment.

But aside from my best friend and Mistress the thing that makes SL fresh interesting and welcoming are my family and friends. They say in that life you cannot choose your family, only your friends. It is somewhat true in SL too. With a family such as ours members introduce their own members to the family and they become part of the unit. We are blessed right now to have a wonderful family and lovely friends of the family. I know many places where I can go now and I will always get a very friendly welcome, somebody to talk to and help with anything should I need it.

To me SL is a social place with the bonus of bondage play, without the all of the fantastic people I have met over the past 2 years, I could not be sure that I would still be here now.

So to everybody I know Thank you for tolerating the lag and making SL a place I hope to be for many years to come.

Love

Jenny Maurer (Laylady Lay)

Almost a year.

09 Oct 2009 1 Comment

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries

I know Diomita has her own words to mark this special occasion.

I think that reaching a year as partners in SL takes some doing and more than that to reach a year and feel that you are still like newly weds takes something special.

This blog is not about looking back but about looking forward,,,, On the 24th of  October Diomita and I will have been partners for a year. We are blessed to belong to yasmin’s Brat pack and to have our own Euro Brat pack sub division. Our family is quite complete and very well balanced. We are fortunate to have many good people as our friends and we are never short of things to do.

That is why for the year ahead I hope we do not just continue to enjoy all the things we had,

but we make the most of  all the things we have and that we see more of our family and friends.

With Diomita I have my best friend by my side and we will look forward to lots of new friends challenges and fun together.

Thank you not just for the past year but the hope we have for many more to come.

I love you Diomita Maurer

by jenny your married slave

Goodbye to an old friend

01 Jul 2009 1 Comment

by jennymaurer in Exploring sims in Second Life Tags:

This week week we said goodbye to an old friend. Not a person but our first home together in Stonehaven. True Mistress Diomita owned it before I met her but it quickly became the centre of our life together and it holds a great deal of memories unfortunately the lag in Stonehaven became prohibitive and made even the simplest of scenes painful.

It was about this time that we exchanged vows and partnered. Our present from Goddess was to lock us up in a sky home in Rivers Rock. It was kitted out as a honeymoon suite and we both had such a good time there that we decided to rent it and the land it is on and the rest is history. As our family grew and developed our memories began to form in our new home and slowly the cobwebs began to form in our old home.

We kept the house in Stonehaven for 8 months after we moved out. Not wanting to say goodbye and cherrishing the memories we had. Until Dirk and the Lindens decided it was time to update and move the old homes. This was time now to cut our ties as we would not have any memories in the new place nor have reason to use it. So we cleared our belongings and said our goodbyes.

We have a lot of slide shows and pictures to remind us of our time there and to keep a place in our hearts for the old place. Anybody who knows us will be in a slide show somewhere and we have hundreds of pictures every one of them special.

The old place at stonehaven was just like a real friend for us both. It was there when we needed it, It gave us a place to go when we wanted and it did not complain if we had other things to do. Diomita and I have said to each other often that we have all the time in the world. We are comfortable with our relationship and know that if we do not have time for something today we will fit it in next time we meet.  We are both happy to be with the other or comfortable on our own and our partnership is based on friendship and not just the BDSM time we share.

A sign of true friendship is how comfortable you are when it goes quiet. How long does it take before you feel compelled to break the silence or are you happy to be a part of the scene around you even if your part is in the background. Just like the house in Stonehaven, a good friend will be there when you need them and I have the best.

Thank you Diomita.

The day we met again.

23 May 2009 Leave a comment

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries Tags: ,

Diomita and I met on the 21st to the 22nd May change over last year.

As part of our celebrations we both had similar ideas to surprise the other.

I found the exact hair clothes and cuffs I wore that day and Diomita found very similar clothes, the same hair etc. We met on the patio at Stonehaven and Diomita asked me for my keys as she did last year.  For the next hour or so we re enacted our first meeting and it brought back a flood of great memories.

We had such a lot of fun doing it but that sums up our SL together.

We simply enjoy being together. We make each other smile, and we make the time in SL enjoyable for the other. We care about the feelings of each other and we have grown and developed over these past 12 months as a team and couple.

Sl is all about having fun at the very least it should be a good time and something you look forward returning to. I can honestly say that Diomita has made SL just that for me.

Euro Brats

29 Apr 2009 2 Comments

by jennymaurer in about family members Tags:

Euro Brats – our little family within Yasmin’s Brat Pack

 

 

The first two posts introduced Mistress Diomita Maurer and myself Laylady Lay, and gave an insight to how we met. In this post we both hope to explain how we expanded to form our own family within the Bratz Familiy headed by Goddess Yasmin.

 

Before anybody else came on the scene Diomita gave herself to Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale and she wears her collar with pride. This is Primary relationship that paved the way for the rest of us and we shall not forget this. When I met Diomita I was taken as her slave with the permission of Goddess and became a part of the family as a Grandbrat for me My Mistress is my first priority and I serve her unconditionally. As she is Owned then I ultimately answer to Goddess and must obey the family rules as laid down by her if not least of all so as not to disgrace my Mistress. However Goddess has been kind to me and supported our relationship so it has been an honour to know her and serve her too and this is why I only have two people who may take my keys at will and I answer to them both.

 

This has not always been the case though. When I first met Mistress Diomita I would have happily spent the rest of my life in SL on my knees just behind her displaying my loyalty to my Mistress to everybody to see. As our friendship grew and time passed the conversation arose about my getting a sister or two. Although I did not expect to know Mistress Diomita exclusively I was taken aback at first, the usual thoughts passed through my mind. Was I not good enough on my own to satisfy my Mistress, Would it mean I saw her any less, was she bored with me etc.

We didn’t exactly go looking but it wasn’t long before we met vanessa Rendelstein and Nicola Micheline. Not able to choose between them we decided to give them both a try.

 

Just before they where about to start their trial and the day before my RL birthday Mistress Diomita gave me a big shock and asked me to become her partner in SL.  The fact that it was the day before my RL birthday showed me just how much it meant as Mistress could not wait that extra day, and in any case something this important should be a celebration all of its own.

 

Nic is very creative and likes to design clothes. She is always eager to please and she tried hard to fit in with the family form the beginning.

van sometimes struggles with technical tasks like inserting scripts etc, but she is also eager to please and she also very quickly earned the nick name hure,,,, I wonder why J.

 

Nic and van both completed their trial by 4th October just before we were due to be wed but the difference in time zones amongst the Bratz made it difficult to arrange a day to suit everyone. We finally got married on 24th October and I adopted the name Jenny Maurer. It is a pity you can not change names in SL but I hear that one change may be allowed soon (for a fee of course).

 

Unfortunately and for reasons I will not go into here Nic left the family before Christmas but she remains a friend and still visits us from time to time.

 

 

In December Mistress Diomita came up with the name EuroBrats and made a flag for our beach house. This was because most of the Brats family live in the USA and we spent more time together before most of them logged in.

 

Fae Howlett collared by Goddess and a true Brat, started to spend more and more time with us as our times zones are the same, and she enjoyed being kept restricted my Mistress Diomita. With the kind permission of Goddess Fae is allowed to remain a Brat but also to call Mistress Diomita  her Mistress too and she is now as much a sister to me as she is to Mistress Diomita. She is a very joyful person and is a ray of sunshine when ever she is with us.

 

As the new year came in Mistress Diomita allowed me more time to express my Domme side and she coached me and guided me, and encouraged me to show my Domme side within the Eurobratz. I remain her slave first and partner second so Mistress will always have the first and last word on any matter. She has however asked that my sisters call me Miss as I am now her second in charge and responsible for the family when she is away.

 

Just recently and as part of coaching my Domme side, Mistress Diomita allowed me to become a guard at a Prison near to our home. Whilst there she met Pike Mayo, a person she had met on a number of occasions before and they quickly caught up and the idea of her joining out family came up. Pike has a lovely Partner Danii Szydlowska. Danii has her own Blog and has done some very interesting things herself in SL so it is worth a look. Up until this time Danii had been away for spell and as coincidence would have it I was working as a guard when she logged back into her cell.

 

I released Danii and let them both use our home to talk giving Pike a chance to explain the situation to Danii in private. Pike and Danii soon started their trial and they passed it on the 23rd April. Pike and Danii are still settling in and we hope we can all enjoy a lot of new adventures together soon…….

 

 

 

Mistress Diomita

12 Mar 2009 1 Comment

by jennymaurer in about Dio Tags:

 

Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale arranged a competition with the theme “My Mistress is the best Mistress / Domme because..” in under 350 words.

Whilst my entry did not make the top 4 I would still like to share it as it gives an insight to how much my Mistress and wife means to me.

 

Mistress Diomita Maurer

 

I propose that Mistress Diomita Maurer is the best Mistress. There are many reasons why and everything about Mistress Diomita culminates in a unique experience if ever you should be one of the lucky few that submit to her.

 

First meeting:  When I first met Mistress Diomita she never made any assumptions nor did she push or force herself on me. Instead she asked if she may take my keys and then she gave me a guided tour of her house in Stonehaven. Whilst there she showed me her cage and the whole experience was very daunting for me. I asked would I be expected to go in the cage then and Mistress Diomita replied not now but you will the next time you come here.  The confidence in which she said that made me know inside that I would be spending a long time in that cage and I would have gone into it there and then.

 

The Trial: Consisted of going into that very cage the next time we met and spending the next 12 days there where Mistress Diomita visited me and listened as we talked every day. We became good friends very quickly.

 

My limits: have been gently eased so I no longer remember what they where and I have been coached and my Domme side encouraged and Mistress Diomita has enjoyed that I display my Bratty side too.

 

Personal details: Mistress Diomita pays attention to needs and to what ever you tell her. During a very sad personal time in RL she supported me and was happy to sit with me and help me when she could have elsewhere having a good time. Mistress Diomita always makes time for everybody in her care.

 

I have highlighted the important traits and I believe that to be a good Mistress you must have all of these qualities before you even try to own somebody or tell them what to do. Mistress Diomita has all of this and the confidence to carry it off in a subtle manner that commands respect.

 

Jenny Maurer

 

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