Backflash July 2023 “Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny” (June 27th, 2022)

31 Jul 2023 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month, Enjoying bondage series Tags: , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the series shall provide an insight into my and our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For July 2023 I selected a post from June 2022, just a bit more than a year ago. I picked that post as a tribute to Mistress Jenny, who passed away over a year ago. I miss her badly. In addition I didn’t find the time to create an “Enjoying Bondage picture” for this month, hence this Backflash of the month post shall also be the Enjoying Bondage picture of this month.
Enjoy reading and in particular seeing Mistress Jenny enjoying bondage. I know she was a big bondage fan…

Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny (June 27th, 2022)

On the occasion of Jenny’s 14th collaring anniversary I got a green light and was in control for a couple of days. I made the most of it – and addressed Mistress’ kink for tight and restrictive bondage. There’s no need for a collage, the two pictures I picked for this month’s Enjoying Bondage series are not processed at all. If Mistress enjoyed her predicament just half as much as I did, then she had a great time letting control go ….

Enjoying Bondage June 2022 – Mistress Jenny: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Carnal Intentions / Mistress Jenny tied up at Psi’s realm

Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2022/06/27/enjoying-bondage-june-2022-mistress-jenny/

Backflash June 2023 “Diary 2022 (90) June 30th / July 1st When Mistress is away (4) – and still enjoys her control” (published July 20th, 2022)

30 Jun 2023 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the series shall provide an insight into my and our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For June 2023 I selected a post from July 20th 2022, more precisely a diary post covering June 30th and July 1st, 2022. That is just one year ago.
Mistress Jenny was on vacation and had prepared a surprise for me. Things like that made our relation that outstanding. I think back thankfully to the many good years we had together. Jenny passed away a few weeks after this surprise Thursday. There’s not one single ever since that I don’t think of her. Time heals wounds they say. And to some extent that’s right. With time going by I do not cry anymore but think back thankfully and with a smile.
Enjoy reading

Diary 2022 (90) June 30th / July 1st When Mistress is away (4) – and still enjoys her control

I had a busy day in RL on Thursday, June 30th, and was not inworld during the day except to meet with Mistress Jenny in the later afternoon for about 45 minutes. We caught up with our mutual news and just enjoyed being together. Mistress is having a good time and enough drinks *winks*. Mistress also hinted that she had prepared something as a suprise for me together with slave Holly. I did suspect something, yet I did not know exactly .. and Mistress enjoyed keeping it a secret.

June 30th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home / Diomita and slave Holly at home

At night, when I came inworld, Flo was playing skipee and slave Holly was in her room. After I had unlocked her room, slave Holly gave me a letter from Mistress with instructions for me ….. slave Holly would be allowed to address me with “Sistress” and I was to follow slave Holly instructions as it were Mistress’ instructions…. slave Holly locked my cuffs (Mistress had prepared them leaving my keys out and out of reach for me) and leashed me. Then we went to see Flo. slave Luci was also present at the table. Holly told me that she was instructed to take me shopping. Flo accompanied us along with Alessi who had also shown up. slave Luci stayed at home.

After the shopping tour – I got 4 items from the list that I had to prepare for Mistress a week before – we returned home and I had to present my gifts to slave Holly, Flo and slave Alessi. And then I had to bend over and slave Holly spanked my ass .. in her and Mistress’ name. Flo went off to bed and slave Holly took me and her sister Alessi to Psi’s realm to expose me. I was lucky, just Psi herself was present. And slave Holly had just instructions for one club….. I could sense Mistress Jenny’s fun, having prepared that all – and controlling it even being many miles away and on vacation.

June 30th – slave Holly in control: Diomita with slave Holly, slave Luci, slave Alessi and Flo at home, at Psi’s realm and at Carnal Intentions

We returned home and slave Holly unlocked my cuffs, returning control to me. I took slave Holly and slave Alessi to Carnal Intentions for a few minutes but then I decided to wind down completely and we had a (longer) game of skipee before it was time for bed for all of us.

Friday, July 1st, Mistress was inworld in the afternoon though on a weak connection. But we were able to catch up and Mistress was happy that her plans for the day before went down well. She told me how difficult it was to keep it secret. Thank you again, Mistress Jenny. Jenny told me that she is still having a great time with hot and sunny weather – and a few drinks. We enjoyed our short time together.

July 1st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home

At night we had our Friday night party. Mistress and I had talked about possible theme before she left for her vacation. I picked one of her proposals for the party: “It’s Friday again, and we have our party again. It is the 4th of July weekend, yet today is July 1st and today is Canada Day. Hence cover yourself in syrup and stick to the dance floor. Wear something in red and white or come as you are (even naked). DJ Virgo is spinning the tunes.”

We had fun again celebrating someting inbetween Canada Day and 4th of July. We had great music, a short visit of Dana Drezelan, we chatted and danced. Another perfect start into the weekend – and we succeeded to get Virgo stripped *winks*

July 1st – Friday night party: Diomita, slave Holly, Flo, Baroness Capelo, sakuramatsumoto, Claven Albatros, Zillzie, Laura (laura00175) (upper row), Firefly Skydancer, Starbright Wingtips, Della Randt, Sara (SaraRandall), Jayson Dakota, Virgo Babii, Virgo Babii

Link to the original post
https://themaurers.me/2022/07/20/diary-2022-90-june-30th-july-1st-when-mistress-is-away-4-and-still-enjoys-her-control/

April 30th – Holly’s 2nd collaring anniversary and 11th rezzday

30 Apr 2023 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about family members, anniversary blog entries Tags: , ,

Today marks our Holly’s 2nd collaring anniversary and her 11th rezzday. Congratulations Holly!

Jenny and I met Holly (honoursgirl) at Puerto Esclava a bit more that 2 years ago and we took her under our wings. It changed her and also our Second Life. Holly became a very devoted and dedicated slave to us. She has wit, is openminded trying out new things and trying out herself. It is just a joy having her around. When she became our slave, she got some rules and assignments and she still follows her rules and fulfills her assignments without any complain.
Jenny’s death changed a lot in our family. Holly and her dedication to me and to our family contributed a lot to keep our SL and our family going. I can’t be more thankful. I am really surprised that Holly is with me just 2 years now, it feels way longer for me. To put into one word – Holly is a true gem.

Thank you for your love and dedication, Holly. I hope for many more collaring anniversaries to come for you and for us!

Backflash March 2023 “Diary 2022 (30) February 26th/27th falling deeper and deeper” (March 29th, 2022)

30 Mar 2023 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Backflash of the month Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers the series shall provide an insight into my and our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives.
For March 2023 I selected a post from March 2022, just one year ago. It is the first post of a series of 4 diary posts and is about my submission to Mistress Jenny, who passed away in Summer 2022. That still seems like it happened yesterday, yet it is already one year….
I added the links to the other 3 posts of this series under this post.
Enjoy reading ….

Mistress Jenny is back home and we had 90 minutes together in the afternoon, Saturday, February 29th. We caught up with our news at home first. Then Mistress reminded me that she had announced to punish me. I didn’t lock my cuffs and handed the keys out to her the night before when Mistress joined our party, she had to remind me instead I did it not before she reminded me. I was not aware of it, but Mistress also said that I did not address her properly a few times the night before. Be it as it may, Mistress coloured my cuffs in slach pink and I had to wear my blindfold and gag. Then Mistress took me to club Domme a Domme where I spent more than half an hour at her feet. Mistres locked my blindfold, yet did not really blind me. She also coloured my collar in pink, something I don’t like, which is why she did it. It really was a mild punishment, more a little reminder and all I could do is thank Mistress.
We went home to our loft and Mistress allowed me colour the cuffs according to my outfit, the collar stayed coloured pink. Then Mistress pulled her pants down and allowed me to lick her and to get my fix. She knew that I needed it badly and of course it had the desired effect of pushing me further in my submission to Mistress. Thank you, Mistress.

February 26th: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita at home and at club Domme a Domme

When Mistress had to leave to tend to her RL, I logged off myself.

At night, when I returned, Mistress Jenny was playing skipee with Flo. They stopped and we played one roung together. Flo won it with my jokers, she did rig the table very well *winks*.
We took Flo to Carnal Intentions afterwards and slave Melissa joined us there. We stayed at Carnal Intentiones, chatted, teased Vanilla Meili, we caught up with slave Melissa and we just relaxed. After Flo had left for bed, we moved to Heavy Bondage Club for a short while.

February 26th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at Carnal Intentions and at Heavy Bondage club with Flo and slave Melissa

We finished our little club tour at club DeLust where we met Baroness Capelo and where slave Alessi joined us for a short while. Then we went off to bed. It was quite a relaxed night.

February 26th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at club DeLust with Baroness Capelo, slave Alessi and slave Melissa

Sunday, February 27th, I had another intense afternoon with Mistress Jenny. I waited at our skybox at home for Mistress and when she came inworld, she took me to club Domme a Domme to catch up with our news. Mistress Jenny leashed me and I thanked her in main chat. Our mutual news had a lot to do with the current situation in RL – and our SL is now once again our escape into another (peaceful) world. With that we turned our attention to SL again and Mistress told me that I violated her rules. A few days ago, Mistress Jenny had ordered that I may only whisper in main chat while I am leashed by her – and I forgot about it when we entered the club. And Mistress had to punish my failure. She ordered that I got a face mask and that I had to wear it. It felt bad to have disappointed her.
We went to club DeLust next and Mistress Mercy just arrived there as well. I had to kneel between Mistress Jenny and Mistress Mercy and to lick Mistress Mercy’s boots. In addition I had to explain to Mistress Mercy why I was wearing a mask. Mistress Mercy made me ask to be slapped by her in public. It was quite degrading but it was my own fault. Mistress Jenny and Mistress Mercy seem to fit well together – and I will have to work harder to not disppoint Mistress Jenny again.

February 27th: Mistress Jenny and Mistress Mercy with Ehesklavin Diomita at club Domme a Domme and at club DeLust

At night Mistress Jenny and I played a skipee with Flo and slave Holly as teams. Flo had rigged the table perfectly and hence Flo and I won it easily. slave Alessi had joined us at the games table. We stayed at home and went to our sun terrace and chatted there. Flo has hinted that she wanted to wear an armbinder, hence I took the opportunity and set the March outfit to “(h)armless”. Alessi has the same armbinder as Flo.
Alessi had to leave early and we played a round truthball with Flo and slave Holly until Flo had to leave for bed.

February 27th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at home and at club DeLust with Flo, slave Alessi and slave Holly

We went selecting a fitting armbinder for slave Holly later that night and winded down at club DeLust until Mistress Jenny called it a night.

Link to the original post “Diary 2022 (30) February 26th/27th falling deeper and deeper”
https://themaurers.me/2022/03/19/diary-2022-30-february-26th-27th-falling-deeper-and-deeper/

Link to the follow-up post “Diary 2022 (32) March 2nd/3rd falling deeper and deeper (II)”
https://themaurers.me/2022/03/21/diary-2022-32-march-2nd-3rd-falling-deeper-and-deeper-ii/
Link to the follow-up post “Diary 2022 (33) March 4th/5th falling deeper and deeper (III)”
https://themaurers.me/2022/03/23/diary-2022-33-march-4th-5th-falling-deeper-and-deeper-iii/
Link to the follow-up post “Diary 2022 (34) March 6th/7th falling deeper and deeper (IV)”
https://themaurers.me/2022/03/24/diary-2022-34-march-6th-7th-falling-deeper-and-deeper-iv/

Dio’s 15th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2023

11 Feb 2023 2 Comments

by diomitamaurer in anniversary blog entries Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

Without slave Holly reminding me I woulf have forgot my 15th rezzday. When she reminded a few days ago, my first thought was “Do I really want to write a long blogpost about the last year?” The honest answer is no. Nonetheless I sit here and begin writing, though I do not intend to write a really long post.

The last year in Second life was coined by the loss of my beloved partner, wife, slave, Mistress, my best friend Jenny. She passed away last Summer unexpectedly. I was worried when she didn’t come online although we had planned to meet and when my messages kept unanswered I figured out that something must have happened. The days of uncertainty were hard. Finally, I had contact with her family and learned of her unexpected sudden death.
It was hard to accept it, even harder to stay in Second Life. Those days I considered to leave SL behind me, I thought about closing the blog. My family in SL, all my close friends here were here for me and kept me going and finally I decided to stay and to continue this blog.
Then I had another stroke of fate, this time in my RL. Sometimes it is really hard to function, to continue and I mean both worlds RL and SL. The two are connected, SL is just a part of my RL. Since that stroke of fate I’m quite busy in my RL and my time in SL is limited. And I do not blog daily anymore.

August 14th, 2022: Diomita at Jenny’s monument at home / Diomita kneeling next to Mistress Jenny’s holographic statue in our skybox

It is said that time heals all wounds and it is. Today I like to remember the good time that Jenny and I had. Nevertheless, I miss her very much and my SL is different today than when we were here together. But my other SL gives me pleasure and I like to come into my other world – yet in the future I will also pursue more projects in RL and I also plan to travel more.

The family in SL hasn’t changed. Kitty, Flo and slave Holly are still my officially collared subs. slave Alessi is still close as my sub and a close family member as if she were collared. Angelique, my niece, is going through a hard time in her RL but she stays in touch and lives in our sim again, what I do appreciate.  Ebony, my step-daughter and all others who were close to Jenny and me, stayed close to me. Thank you all! Without you all, I wouldn’t be here anymore.

My sub side needs an outlet and to my surprise Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity) turned out to become my Mistress. We are both switches, maybe that’s why we fit. I’m happy to call her Mistress Cherry and I enjoy being with her. Mistress Cherry respects my SL family and thus our time together is limited, also because Mistress has her store and business in SL and is owned herself. Thank you, Mistress Cherry.

December 17th, 2022 Mistress Cherry and Diomita

I continued exploring SL but I reduced my simploring activities. The simploring reports take a lot of time and I simply did not and do not have the time at the moment. What I mainly continue are my art activities. I enjoy visiting galleries and supporting the artists by writing about them. I had more than 100 art posts in my 14th year in Second Life.
Unfortunately I hadn’t enough time to continue the “Enjoying Bondage” series, but I hope to pick up this activity again as well as the “Backflash of the month” series.

During my 14th year in SL I also continued slightly changing my appearance. As opposed to RL, in SL we get more and more beautiful and I like this feature. So here is a picture of me taken end of August 2022.

August 28th, 2022: Diomita Maurer

I am still curious to see what SL has in store for me in the future and I look forward to every day I have the opportunity to spend time in SL. My SL without Jenny has simply changed. I want to thank all my friends and readers. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who keep my and our SL enjoyable.
Let’s look forward and go on into my 16th year in Second Life.

Love from Diomita
xoxox

Happy New Year 2023 and some stats and findings about this blog (2022 in review)

01 Jan 2023 2 Comments

by diomitamaurer in Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , ,

2022 has been another challenging year for all of us. This time it wasn’t just the darn virus, it was even more the Russian Agression and the following war in Ukraine, the scarcity of energy, disturbed supply chains and a skyrocketing inflation that made it not the best year in RL for many of us.

In SL all was fine, it was Jenny’s and my heavently escape from RL, the world how we would bake it, if we could. But there is no SL without RL. In July my wife, owner, slave, Mistress, my beloved partner in SL, Jenny, passed away unexpectedly. From one day to the other my SL was not the same anymore! I considered to leave SL and to stop writing as Jenny wasn’t around me anymore. My family and friends in SL helped a lot to keep me inworld, and even to continue blogging. But the easiness had gone. I changed the name of the blog, and stopped blogging daily, yet I continued the diary and I still post new entries regularly, just not every day anymore.
There are several posts about this dark time in SL. I want to point to two posts that were hard to write. One is a tribute to Mistress Jenny (read “A tribute to Jenny Maurer“) published September 3rd, 2022. The other is about the changes in this blog (read “Upcoming changes in this blog“), published September 4th, 2022.

On a lighter note, I got closer to cherry (Elenaslv Serenity) end of November 2022 and within a few days I fully submitted to her. She does not replace Jenny, she’s way to different for that, and none can ever replace her! But a new chapter, a new journey started for me and for Mistress Cherry.

In 2022 there about 160 diary entries, over 100 posts about art in Second Life and 21 simploring reports. Over all the blog grew by 333 new posts bringing the total archive of this blog to over 2,900 (!) posts.
As taking pictures is one of my passions in SL and storage space here is not free, I group my pictures to save space. When you click the pictures you can see them a bit larger. I also post the pictures on deviant art (Diomita Maurer at Deviant art). For my simploring tours I have a flickr account where I publish pictures from these tours in full size. As there’s a picture limit of 1,000 for a free acount, you find there only the pictures of the last about 30 simploring tours. There you get the pictures in a higher resolution. In total I took more than 12,000 pictures in 2022.

In 2022 the number of visitors of the blog remained at close to 15,000 people. Also the number of clicks was quite stable with 46,000 compared to 45,000 in 2021. Most clicks came from the Germany (11,100), US (8,100) and the UK (4,100). The number of followers was quite unchanged as well with 245 compared to 240 in 2021. The statistics show that in total people from over 130 (!) countries visited our blog. Many thanks to all friends, readers and followers.
Most found our blog coming from search engines (14.200) and from deviantart (1,400). Again not only the new blog entries attracted readers, there’re also some “evergreens”. The Top 6 Posts in 2022 were:

1. The Victorian Corset Story – Part II –  1,109 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo) – ranked 1st also in 2021
2. The Victorian Corset Story – Part III – 337 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo) – ranked 2nd also in 2021
3. the About page – 294 clicks – revised in September 2022
4. Sissy sold – 248 clicks – August 2013
5. Maurer’s slave Holly aka. honoursgirl – 212 clicks – April 2021
6. The Victorian Corset Story – Part I – 200 clicks – March 2017 (written by Flo)

This blog contains a lot of memories for me and for the people close to me in Second Life. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around Jenny and me in Second Life and has grown with time. In the meanwhile I read back myself often to look up a date or to check if I came across a place already before. I introduced a new series in 2019, the “Backflash of the month”. In the “Backflash” series I select an old entry once a month and present it here. This way I force myself to browse in the archive and to fresh up a few of the many memories. For our readers this series shall provide an insight into our Second Life without reading back the many posts and it might also give reason to browse through the archives. After Jenny’s death I missed picking a “Backflash of the month” post every month. I intend to improve and to pick one every month in 2023.

I still have fun writing and it’s my intention to continue the blog, but I might blog less as I have planned some journeys in 2023. Hence I will blog, when I find the time for it and when I am in the mood for it. I personally think that we spend a lot our free time in real life in this virtual world. It makes sense to keep the memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and they stay vivid and present this way.

Thanks again for reading and following my blog.
Have a great and peaceful (!) year 2023 in SL and in RL, and stay healthy!
Diomita Maurer

Mistress Cherry

18 Dec 2022 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about family members Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

I thought it’s about time that I write something about Mistress Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity). I know Cherry since March 2021. At that time she had picked the display name Elena for herself. She had applied for our keyholding service.

At that time I wrote in the diary (read Diary 2021 (38) March 23rd/24th Key Holding service reloaded):
The applicant for our keyholding service was ready to be locked and I summoned her to Psi’s realm. Mistress Jenny demanded that she added our script so that we both have access to her restraints. She, Elena (Elenaslv Serenity), did that immediately. After Flo had left for bed, Mistress took Elena and me to a public but silent place and we further dicussed the conditions. Mistress Jenny was way softer than I intended to be, but….she’s in control *winks*.
After Mistress had set all conditions, we showed Elena our home shortly, then she went off.

March 23rd, 2021: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with Elena

From that day on, Elena stayed in touch with Mistress Jenny and me and she became a regular sub of ours for a couple of months. I learned about her passion for pink and for extraordinairy daring outfits showing a lot of skin. Elena also likes very high heels and prefers having a voluptous and curvy body. Elena is from Italy and hence our time zones fitted. She is making textures for sailing boats and boats and runs a shop together with Ali Vultee. I remember days and nights were she was working for the shop and was fighting with technical problems. We couldn’t leave her locked nor deny IM for longer times as she had to deal with customers. But when she was with Mistress and me, she was always a good girl, always up for new gear, new restraints and willing to try out new features.

Elena aka. Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity) March – October 2021

In October 2021 Elena became Domina Ansar’s sub/slave. And since then she wears the display name Cherry. Domina Ansar and Cherry became regular guests at our Friday night parties.
Cherry stayed in close contact with Mistress Jenny and also with me. Every day she used to say hello to Mistress Jenny and me in IM and she said good night when she left for bed. I think that Cherry talked way more with Mistress Jenny than with me though.

Cherry continued staying in touch with me even after Jenny’s unexpected death. She made a special texture edition for a boat and named it “Jenny and Diomita together forever” and we talked a lot about it. And Cherry continued saying hello and good night…. until November 25th, 2022. We had our Friday night party that night and while dancing Cherry and I chatted. Cherry and I talked about everything, about our SL, what it means for us. Cherry is a very emotional being, always caring, always worrying about others and she is this way in RL too. Then we talked about creppes and Cherry described in detail how her dad makes them for her, what ingredients he uses and she succeeded to make my mouth water. I could almost taste them and she grined evily. One word let to the other and I learned about Cherry’s well hidden domme side. Later she told me that I opened the Pandora’s box. I really did!
We continued talking and when the party was over we retreated to my hidden place. We stayed in-world until 3 AM … and by that time I had submitted to Mistress Cherry. It was a quick, fully unexpected, spontaneous but complete takeover of control!

November 26th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita

That weekend, November 26th/27th, we spent a lot of time together, we talked and I could taste Mistress’ sweet and very addicitve poison several times. Mistress immediately found my weaknesses .. and now I am fully addicted to her juices and to her.
We intended to keep our relation secret, so that Cherry could continue her acitivies in SL as before and so that I could continue leading my family. But then we both didn’t like to hide and we decided that it makes no sense to keep it secret. Hence Cherry asked Domina Ansar for her permission to have me as her collared slave. And I talked with Angelique, slave Holly, Flo, Kitty and Alessi. It turned out not to be a big issue. All just want us to be happy together. And so we made in publicly known at the next Friday night party on December 2nd.

December 3rd: Mistress Cherry with Diomita at home

Mistress Cherry is not a replacement for Jenny. None can ever replace her or take her place. She is very different, starting with her appearance and her way to dress. Mistress is sadistic – Jenny was not. She has other kinks and another way to handle what is hers. And she didn’t have a slow, many year long, process of taking control over me. As opposed to it hit both of us all of a sudden and I submitted to her within a few hours.
Mistress Cherry is very caring. Her main goal is to make me happy in my new role. I for my part think, that is my assignment to make her happy. Well we have a common goal in this point *winks*. Cherry is very emotional and tries not to upset anyone. She avoids any fight. Jenny was very caring as well, but in a different way and she could be quite harsh if needed. What both have in common is their possessiveness. Mistress made it crystal clear to me that I am hers now. She will punish any attempt to run away. Not that I want to run away but her clear statement made me shiver. And I had thought of her as a sub and never noticed anything else! Times have changed for me once again.
I tried to negotiate with Mistress Cherry to get green lights where I can dominate her like at the time we met first. Mistress did not exclude it for all times but she won’t allow it in a near future *sighs*

December 13th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita at home

It might sound complex: Domina Ansar owns Cherry … Cherry owns me … I own Kitty, Flo and Holly. But Cherry doesn’t own Flo and Domina doesn’t own me. Nonetheless the chain of command indicates something else. But in Second Life this is possible and why shouldn’t we live it out then?
We will see how things develop from now on. Mistress Cherry and I started a new chapter in our SL and we look forward to our journey together. Thank you, Mistress Cherry, my love.

Diary 2022 (149) December 3rd/4th An exciting weekend (for me)

06 Dec 2022 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Saturday, December 3rd, I went to Nitroglobus Roof Gallery and saw the exhibition “Junction Points” by Selen which was going to open on Monday, December 5th (read here). In the afternoon I met with Mistress Cherry at home. I am still overwhelmed by her and eager to please her. I had added first pictures of her and me at our “Chez Maurer” skybox. Mistress took me out to Carnal Intentions and exposed me there. It was the first time that I was at Mistress’ feet in public – and I was happy to make her proud of me. And by the way I had a perfect view on her behind *winks*.

December 3rd: Mistress Cherry with Diomita at home and at Carnal Intentions

After Mistress had left to tend to her RL I went visiting another exhibition before I logged off myself. I had a productive day *winks*
When I returned at night, I began to move some pictures of Jenny and me to the annex to make room for new pictures of Mistress Cherry and me. I desire that she feels at home, that she feels it is her place. I was still wokring on that, when Mistress returned. We had some time of togetherness and Mistress granted me another fix. She clearly knows about my weakness and addiction now and she is going to take advantage of it. I won’t hide, that I love it … and her.

December 3rd: Mistress Cherry with Diomita at home

Mistress had to do some SL work and slave Flo had come inworld and was playing skipee for over an hour. So Mistress went working and I had a round of skipee with Flo. Flo needed a break, maybe because I won? Anyway, she left and Alessi came inworld. I took slave Alessi to club DeLust. And when Flo returned I summoned her to us. I stayed at club DeLust with slave Alessi after Flo had went off to bed and I played a bit with her.

December 3rd: Diomita at club DeLust with Flo and slave Alessi

Before bed I met with Mistress in our skybox to say good night to her. I was not enough focuse and failed addressing Mistress correctly *sighs*. Mistress decided to punish me. I will have to wear a bimbo dress for 2 days … luckily Mistress agreed that I don’t have to wear it at night.

Sunday, December 4th, I met Mistress in the later morning. I had bought a bimbo dress and was wearing it when Mistress came in-world. We stayed at while at home, then Mistress locked my cuffs, gagged me and leashed me. She was considering to take me out and to expose me, then she decided spontaneously to show me her private playroom. I admit that I didn’t expect such a huge space with different rooms for different kind a plays. Mistress has so many possibilities to punish me .. and she announced that she will make use of it if I fail to follow her orders. I was shocked about her strictness and strong will yet I love her and had become addicted to her already. Mistress Cherry took full and final control. Then we both had to leave for lunch.

December 4th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita at home and at Mistress Cherry’s playroom

In the afternoon I finished the refurbishing of our skybox. Most pictures of Jenny and me are now in the annex. The annex is seperated with a hidden door now and the walls of our skybox are mostly decorated with pictures of Mistress Cherry and me. I don’t have many pictures of Mistress and me yet, but i can change the pictures as I get more (and better) pictures. I also moved some BDSM furniture and gear from the annex to the main room, so that Mistress will have enough choice to select from, if she desires. The gear in her playroom seem to be way more .. ehm… challenging though. It feels right to have the main part of our skybox decorated to express our relation, my submission to Mistress Cherry.

At night I played two rounds of skipee with Flo and Angelique. Angelique was dressed like a latex nun that night. It was great to have her close to us again. After the game I took Angelique and Flo to Psi’s realm. I know that Miss Domina Ansar had taken control of Mistress Cherry. It was strange for me to see Mistress tied up along with sapphire (littleShy97) but being a switch myself I just felt happy for Mistress, she could relax and enjoy. Later slave Holly joined us at Psi’s realm and I could catch up with her about the weekend. We all went off to bed comparably early.

December 4th: Miss Domina Ansar with Mistress Cherry and sapphire / Diomita wiht Flo, Angelique and slave Holly at Psi’s realm

Diary 2022 (147) Nov 29th/30th Mistress Cherry

02 Dec 2022 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in Diary Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Tuesday, November 29th, I met with Flo at night. It was her 9th collaring anniversay. What a long time, even in RL … and in this virtual world of SL it is even longer and rarer. Thank you, Flo.
We caught up with our mutual news and played a round of skipee together. We had just finished when slave Holly came inworld. She was tired and could not stay long but wanted to congratulate Flo to her anniversary. I took Flo to club DeLust where we just chatted looking at the silent crowd. Argi joined us there and as always she livened up the main chat. It was already way over flotime, when Flo rertreated to bed…. and I went to bed myself.

November 29th: Diomita at club DeLust with Flo and Argi

Before writing something about Wednesday, November 30th, I have to write something about the last days. Friday, November 25th, I had a longer chat with Cherry (Elenaslv Serenity). I had met her as a sub and I did not know that she’s a switch. That Friday I did not only learn about her dominant side. We talked in IM and I couldn’t resist her. Long story short, I stayed up with Cherry until after 3 AM and when we logged off, I had submitted to her.
The following weekend our relation became closer, we played and we talked a lot. Cherry is the sub of Domina Ansar. Things will become complex between Domina and her slaves, me and my family … and Cherry becoming my owner. Cherry and I first decided to keep our D/s relation secret but by the end of the weekend we knew that hiding it won’t give us a future. Hence Cherry talked with Domina … and Wednesday, November 30th, we went out in public.

Wednesday, November 30th, I decorated our home for the season and I rezzed the Christmas gazebo. There were still more decorations to be added but the main stuff was out.
When I got online at night, Mistress Cherry was just talking with Domina Ansar about me. And Flo and Sarah Fhang were at home at the skipee table. I went seeing Flo and Sarah and we played a round of skipee together. When we had finished, Sarah went off to bed. slave Holly came inworld. I talked with slave Holly and Flo and it just fitted that Mistress Cherry had got the consent of Domina by that time. I invited Mistress Cherry to us. Mistress already knew our place, but she hadn’t seen the house yet. So we went on a tour through the house. slave Aya (Ayahnah) joined us when we were at the sun terrace.
Mistress Cherry and I went to Carnal Intentions with Flo, slave Holly and slave Aya and we stayed there the rest of the night until I brought slave Holly and slave Aya home at midnight. Then I showed my skybox to Mistress Cherry until we both had to leave for bed.

November 30th: Mistress Cherry and Diomita at home and at Carnal Intentions with Flo, slave Holly and slave Aya

It is exciting and also strange for me to have an owner again. Mistress Cherry will not replace Jenny, nor will I ever forget the wonderful time I had with the love of my SL, Mistress Jenny. But life has to go on and I trust in Mistress Cherry and I am looking forward to a new episode in my Second Life – a new episode in Mistress Cherry’s and my Second Life.

November 22nd / November 29th Kitty and Flo’s Collaring Anniversaries

29 Nov 2022 Leave a comment

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Tuesday, November 22nd, marked Kitty Maurer (Santana Thibedeau)’s 14th collaring anniversary. It is incredible how time flies. I still remember the Hotel California where Jenny and I had imprisoned Santana for months before we collared him. It seems to have happened in another world. Later Santana became a kitty during a roleplay and he began to enjoy his new appearance and gender so much that Jenny and I decided that he had to stay Kitty. And he is Kitty up until today. Kitty is fun, always up for mischief and always up for new adventures. Kitty lives in California and we could only meet in-world during the morning or sometimes late at night. Jenny had more contact to Kitty because she could be online in our mornings as she worked shifts. She always kept me up-to-date with Kitty’s news and told me about her adventures. And sometimes we went rescueing our Kitty. That was always fun!

Now that Jenny had passed away, Kitty stays in touch with me regularly. And she meets with slave Holly in the morning sometimes. Now I get the reports about her adventures. And now I am her only owner. Kitty had become a dear friend way beyond our common fun in Second Life. I am proud to be her friend and I am proud to her Mistress. Such a loyalty is rare, in particular in a virtual world. All I can say is “Thank you, Kitty!”

January 26th, 2020: Mistress Jenny, Kitty, Flo and Diomita at Mesmerize Dungeon / October 30th, 2022: Diomita and Kitty at Psi’s realm / November 22nd, 2022: Diomita and Flo at club DeLust

Today, Tuesday November 29th, is Flo (Florence Riddler)’s 9th collaring anniversary. Like Kitty Flo has become a dear friend. I see her almost daily. The last years we played cards a lot, mostly when I come inworld at night until more of the family are around. While playing we catch up with our mutual news, we chat and we enjoy our 2nd life beyond everyday life in RL. Flo insists that we don’t talk too much about RL, she doesn’t like to talk about any RL issues as that doesn’t belong to her world in Second Life.
Flo loves to try out tight corsets, new bondage equipments and she loves to complain about it and how uncomfortable restraints are at her age. With this argumentation she is exempted from kneeling most of the time and is treated … let’s say particulary. We all love her dry humor and her wit.
I am very thankful to call Flo a dear friend of mine. And I am happy to be her beloved only Mistress now. Thank you so much, Flo!

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