Diomita Maurer’s Blog

Monday, October 24th, marks the 8th (!) anniversary of our wedding. I think I mention every time how time flew and still flies by. When you hear about relations in Second Life, most people say that they don’t last that long, that a year in SL equals 10 years in Real Life. One important reason might be that obligations and consequences in SL aren’t comparable with those in RL. Jenny and I have experienced a lot together in Second Life and we spend quite a big part of our free time together, hence SL is a part of our RL. Jenny often said from the beginning of our time together that it is a journey, that we get new impressions and experiences – and that we change with time, not to the worse, but we change and develop and so did we.

Jenny developed from my slave to my Ehesklavin (German for a slave married to her owner) to my partner, to the dominant woman at my side. She began to take care of my submissive side and encased me into a cocoon of love. I was a bit scared to admit my submission to her and to loose control, but Jenny took away my fear with her love, patience and persistence. And I let go control more and more.

For everyone outside of our family we are (and we stay!) a domme couple, enjoying the time online in our world, with our slaves and exploring our kinks (and their’s) and (at least me) the creativity and beauty of Second Life. But between Jenny and me we developed a new balance – and it is not the first time that I write about this new balance.

Our wedding anniversaries were something particular for us every year. In one way or the other we looked back, we renewed our wedding vows and we looked forward. For this year I proposed something different to celebrate it accordingly. While I married my slave in 2008, this year Mistress Jenny should marry her sub Diomita.

I wrote a vow for my submission to Mistress Jenny on the occasion of my 3rd collaring anniversary. And on Sunday, October 23rd, the night before our anniversary, I repeated it in front of our family and friends. Mistress Jenny wrote a new vow and said that one in front of the family and friends for me. Hence we renewed and confirmed our partnership, just that the roles changed. Times have changed.

My vow ….
I am proud to be owned by you, Mistress Jenny, my wife
I will obey and I will serve you, Mistress
I will accept your decisions, Mistress
I will accept your punishment, you know what is good for me, Mistress
I will accept your control and guidance, Mistress
I will be grateful for time you allow me to be equal to you as my partner and wife, Mistress.
I promise to be prepared for your submission to me, to make the most of it for you and for me and to value this particular gift, Mistress
But most of all I promise to be your perfect wife and lover, Mistress because you own me
I submit to you, Mistress Jenny

Mistress vow ….
My Dearest Diomita
The day you accepted to wear my collar made me very happy and proud.
I promise I will treasure the key to your collar,
That I will protect you when you are at my side,
I won’t punish you except for the times when you give me no other option.
I will control you and guide you further in your submission to me, yet allow you occasions to express your domme side
I give you my submissive side as you give me yours although there will be more of yours.
I promise to cherish being the owner you deserve and to value the gift of your submission.
But most of all I promise to be your perfect wife, partner, lover and Mistress

Thanks to all who attended our short ceremony, Thank you family and friends,
Happy wedding anniversary, Jenny… ehm.. Mistress Jenny. I love you!