A tribute to Jenny Maurer

Those who follow us in this blog might have an idea how difficult it was for me to write this text. If I missed anyone close to Jenny in this post, please forgive me – it was not intended!

My beloved partner, my property, my Mistress, my world and my best friend passed away unexpectedly in in July 2022.

There is no second life, we all have only one life. Second Life was Jenny’s and my heavenly escape. A place where we could try out ourselves, do things we’d never dared doing in RL, we could dress kinky and own a big island. We could be evil and nice. But still this second life was part of our one life.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2009/2010)

Jenny rezzed her avatar (Laylady Lay) in Second Life on March 19th, 2008, just 6 weeks after I had rezzed mine. We met each other the first time on May 21st, 2008 at a place called Stonehaven, which was at that time a very popular sim for bondage lovers, cage lovers and for other kinky people. I had a small house up in the skies of Stonehaven. I just had been collared by Yasmin Heartsdale and was a member of her “brat pack”.
Jenny and I, we both sat at the patio of Stonehaven. Frankly, this was a really ugly place, but it was popular. There was a wall with hooks where subs and slaves were leashed and put on display and a few chairs for the visitors who watched what was going on. We began to talk and that night I showed Jenny my house in the skies and the cage I had there. She wanted to go in spontaneously but I stopped her from doing so. Instead I promised her that I would allow it the next time we would meet. Jenny returned the next day and entered the cage. I kept her in there until June 5th, 2008. That day I collared her as my slave with the blessing of my owner those days, Yasmin. We had used her time in the cage to talk for endless hours, to get known to each other. We talked about our expectations, about our kinks, about D/s, about bondage and yes also about our RL. It was the beginning of a wonderful time we had together, more than 14 unforgetable years, in which we saw each other daily for several hours. When our RL prevented us to come into second life, we stayed in touch with other media.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2008/2009)

We got partnered in Second Life and married with a real virtual wedding ceremony (held by Yasmin) on October 24th, 2008. For our honeymoon we got a skybox which is still in the skies of our homesim today and which we named “Chez Maurer”.

We founded an own family within Yasmin’s brat pack. That’s why we called our family “Euro Brats”. I forced Jenny to be dominant towards the other slaves who I collared over the years. One of our first slaves was Santana Thibedeau, who we collared on November 22nd, 2008. He once had a play with other slaves of Yasmin’s brat pack and became a cat, a Kitty for a limited time. And she began to enjoy it that much, that we decided that he stays female. (S)he became Kitty Maurer.
Jenny enjoyed her dominance towards our subs and slaves more and more with time and she wanted more. She negotiated that I submitted to her for limited times, which we called a “green light”. After my release from Yasmin’s collar in 2011, Jenny convinced me to wear a collar again – her collar. And I agreed that we owned each other mutually. Later we fixed a day for my collaring: April 21st, 2013.
Our family changed … slaves and subs came and left. In 2012 we collared Angelique. Angelique Maurer became a close family member. She became our niece and as our niece she literally grew, she persued her own way and her own way of roleplay. And more and more we became her aunts, providing a stable family and base for her just like in RL. Angelique was never officially released by us, and we loved to have her around – as our niece. In these hard days of grieving for Jenny, I am very happy to her her around.
And there is our Flo. We enslaved Flo on Nov 29th, 2013 – she had no chance once we got our claws into her. On the occasion of her 7th collaring anniversary in 2020, we promoted our long standing friend and slave to “Maurer’s Housekeeper”, a position with more duties and not more rights. Thank you, Flo.
With the years going by, Jenny’s dominant side developed and became stronger and stronger. On the eve of our eighth wedding anniversary, October 23rd, 2016, I finally fully submitted to Mistress Jenny and became her married slave, her Ehesklavin for the rest of our time together. I still owned her as well but since that day Mistress Jenny was in charge. She was the one who granted green lights, the limited times when I was allowed to dominate her, and when she could let her hair down and relax being mine for a couple of days. As a true dominant, she made her life comfortable and kept me as the head of our family – she was smart.

Jenny and Diomita Maurer’s 10th wedding anniversary October 24th, 2018 (witnessed by our niece Angelique)

We had our own homeplace, a homestead named Mount Everest, since June 2011. We occupied 1/2 of our homesim and had rented out 1/4 to Sarah Fhang, a friend of ours who we knew from our Stonehaven times. And another 1/4 was rented out to Virgo Babii and Tyra Sciarri, also longterm friends from that time. Virgo is the dj of the legendary Friday night party, that is celebrated every Friday since 2008 and took place (and still takes place) on our sim since we owned it. Jenny loved the Friday night parties with which we started into our weekends. She hated to miss them due to RL shift work. We used to talk about a theme for the party every Thursday and she came up with great ideas.

We were inseparable, a domme couple, yet everyone around us knew that I was Mistress Jenny’s married slave. We were embedded in a great community of family and friends: Claven Albatros, Baroness Capelo, our stepdaughter Ebony, Argi Boa, Starbright Wingtips and the whole pixie gang and many others. In 2021 we collared slave Holly and Jenny was pleased owning her. Just lately we also enjoyed the presence of slave Alessi (who is not collared by us) and we became closer with our domme friend Dely (krybia).

Jenny was a wonderful person. She was always polite and tolerant. I learned a lot from her. She took things not too seriously. She wanted that all around her had fun. She insisted that we never forced a slave or sub to stay, that we never collared someone against their will. She had wit and creativity. She taught me being more “British”. Since she had retired in RL in 2021, Mistress and I had more time in the afternoons, more time for togetherness. Mistress Jenny strengthened her position as my owner. She pushed me deep into subspace and I enjoyed it. She did prepare her steps. Nothing happened by accident. Yet she also kept her spontaneity and she took care of me so that I never doubted her love. She loved teasing me and keeping me on my toes.

Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that’s so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you. Jenny created this hunger in me. I really loved, admired and worshipped her. I craved to please her and she always confirmed that I pleased her always and anytime and anywhere. She was very proud to own me and I was proud to be hers. But most of all we were close friends. Jenny was – and will always be (!) – the love of my Second Life. We enjoyed our time in SL, that was a part of our RL. We had just great years, memories that I will value for the rest of my life until I see Jenny again on the other side.

We respected our privacy. Although we talked a lot also about our RL, about our children as well as about projects, about food, about vacations, about work and about everyday life we never exchanged pictures of us, phone numbers or adresses. Thus we kept the picture of each other that we had in Second Life. We lived our Second Life. When Jenny didn’t show up anymore, I had gloomy premonitions that something bad had happened. I am thankful that I got certainty when someone close to Jenny in RL contacted me to tell me that she passed away.

Jenny will be missed not only by me but also by her family and friends in real life as well as in second life. I myself miss her badly, every day. I talk to her, every day. I think of her, every day. I feel her close, every day. I feel her unconditional love every day. Jenny will stay unforgotten not only by me. Rest in peace, my love.

I have to make some decisions now that I am a widow in Second Life. An important chapter in my real life and in my second life has ended. I am more than thankful for my time with Jenny. My second life will go on. I won’t let down our family and friends in this virtual world. Jenny will always be with me, she will watch me from the other side. And as we were inseparable a part of her will live on in my real life and in my virtual existence until I see her again.

Farewell my love, rest in peace, Jenny

Diary 2016 (1) Dec 31st, 2015 – Jan 3rd, 2016

I want to try something different this year and call it “Diary 2016”. I intend to write more often but sometimes the entries might be a bit shorter (not this one I admit :-))

Besides selling Dana on New Years Eve, I had also a little bondage session with slave L. I stored her at the entrance of Gwen’s storage. Hopefully she found some time to think about good resolutions for 2016.

Last bondage in 2015: Dio with slave L at Gwen's storage.

Last bondage in 2015: Dio with slave L at Gwen’s storage.

Later we ended last year and started this year in Second Life dancing, just Jenny and I. Well, to be more precise, we ended 2015 GMT and started 2016 GMT. That was a nice begining.

Diomita and Jenny dancing into 2016

December 31st, 2015 / January 1st, 2016: Diomita and Jenny dancing into 2016

New Year’s Day was a surprise for me. Jenny granted a green light to me “just because she can” and of course I didn’t hesitate to take advantage of that. I brought her to Lochme and tied her up exposed and restricted. She really makes a nice decoration and she enjoyed some time just thinking and watching the “This resident, That Person, Some People ….” crowd. Later I had my way with my property at Damsel. Unfortunately it was very laggy over there and that did spoil a bit of the fun.

Jan 1st - The first green light: Jenny on display at Lochme

Jan 1st – The first green light: My property Jenny on display at Lochme

Saturday, Jan 2nd, I was in shopping mood and went to Ricielli. This shop has some really nice clothes and shoes at least for my taste. There was a Christmas hunt still ongoing which had some great offers for just 15L per piece. Later Jenny also joined me and we both grabbed a lot of hunt items. I had to do a lot of unpacking and sorting later. While I was still sorting the clothes from Ricielli, slave Flo came online and told me that her duster doesn’t work anymore. Hence I had a look a few hours later to check the equipment. I tried myself, cleaned one baord and found no mistake.
At night, when slave Flo came online, I told her to demonstrate what’s wrong – and the dusting worked fine (of course!). No question, slave Flo had to be punished for making me dust one board! She was put into her confinement suit to think about her behavior. The confinement suit is a rubber bulb which has just one breathing tube with a valve. Thus you can control airflow and you can add some extra’s like nicotine, aphrodisiac, or other smelling liquids (you might guees). Although dangerous, this suit is quite extreme as the slave fully depends on her owner and learns her place (hopefully!). Jenny was online in the meanwhile and we both took slave Flo to Heavy Bondage Club where we had some fun with slave Flo.

Jan 2nd: Diomita and Jenny with slave Flo (the red rubber bulb) at HBC

Jan 2nd: Diomita and Jenny with slave Flo (the red rubber bulb) at HBC

But Saturday was not over yet. When we retreated to CM (Chez Maurer, our private skybox), I unlocked my property. I was aware of the consequences as Jenny had told me in advance, that she will lock me into a short red light if I unlock her before Sunday. Yet, I couldn’t resist the temptation. Although surprised, Jenny switched quickly into being Mistress Jenny and she took advantage of me right away (no picture!). It became late that night as Mistress Jenny took me to The Secret House to wind down a bit.

Jan 2nd: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at TSH

Jan 2nd: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at TSH

The first Sunday of 2016 was quite relaxed. In the later morning I went to DaD. Mistress had placed a hover text above my head “Owned Domme” and she had attached my serious wrist shackles and prevented that I could take the keys from the cuffs. Thus I was quite vulernable, particular at a place called “Domme a Domme”. I admit, I simply wanted to see if anyone would take even notice. Well, I got some attention, but more the way I’m used to get it *winks*

Jan 3rd: "Owned Domme" Diomita at DaD with Kim

Jan 3rd: “Owned Domme” Diomita at DaD with Kim

In the afternoon we had our niece Angelique, our slave Maurerien Orja and Poison with us. We chatted, Angelique got her belated Christmas present and something from Ricielli’s Christmas hunt in addition, we got something for our Orja and we watched the confined slave Flo. After all, it was very nice to chat a bit again and to relax, as we often do on Sunday’s.

Jan 3rd: A Sunday afternoon at home: Diomita, Maurerien Orja, Poison, Angelique and Mistress Jenny inspecting slave Flo in her confinement suit

Jan 3rd: A Sunday afternoon at home: Diomita, Maurerien Orja, Poison, Angelique and Mistress Jenny inspecting slave Flo in her confinement suit

Delilah Maurer

Last night turned out to end with a surprise. First I took Jenny and Delilah on a simploring tour. We visited Fortress Mortice (FM). The sim is part mansion, part asylum and part prison,  The owners use it as a cover for their criminal activites, for using their slaves as cheap labour and  amusing toys. In short FM is a new prison and slave sim. Dana considers a stay there. So that gave reason for the visit.
We got an enjoyable tour seeing all facilities of this prison and attended a trial. In fact we can imagine to agree to a stay for Dana or of another sub of ours.

Back home I was in the mood to play. I was just using Delilah while Jenny watched as Argi joined the scene. The situation was kind of embarrassing and humiliating for Delilah. No I wont go into details:-). In the end Argi and Jenny played while Deli and I took the time to whisper together about what has happened. As a matter of fact Deli had become even closer to us during the last weeks and also stepped deeper in her submission to Jenny and me. Spontaneously, I proposed to her to change her display name to Delilah Maurer to express this development. Deli loves her last name and had considered this change before but dismissed the idea. Now after the experience of last night and as I proposed it she felt ready for it. She thinks that the new name will also help and support her in her submission to us and protect her in case of any doubts. Jenny and I feel very honored about her change as for her it was not a petitesse but a big step. So we celebrated with her dancing on the roof of our most private home “Chez Maurer”. On a sidenote – thus Argi got the chance to see our skybox even before being collared by us *winks.

Argi, Jenny and Dio dancing together with Delilah Maurer

Argi, Jenny and Dio dancing together with Delilah Maurer

Thank you for your gift to us, Delilah Maurer.