A tribute to Jenny Maurer

Those who follow us in this blog might have an idea how difficult it was for me to write this text. If I missed anyone close to Jenny in this post, please forgive me – it was not intended!

My beloved partner, my property, my Mistress, my world and my best friend passed away unexpectedly in in July 2022.

There is no second life, we all have only one life. Second Life was Jenny’s and my heavenly escape. A place where we could try out ourselves, do things we’d never dared doing in RL, we could dress kinky and own a big island. We could be evil and nice. But still this second life was part of our one life.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2009/2010)

Jenny rezzed her avatar (Laylady Lay) in Second Life on March 19th, 2008, just 6 weeks after I had rezzed mine. We met each other the first time on May 21st, 2008 at a place called Stonehaven, which was at that time a very popular sim for bondage lovers, cage lovers and for other kinky people. I had a small house up in the skies of Stonehaven. I just had been collared by Yasmin Heartsdale and was a member of her “brat pack”.
Jenny and I, we both sat at the patio of Stonehaven. Frankly, this was a really ugly place, but it was popular. There was a wall with hooks where subs and slaves were leashed and put on display and a few chairs for the visitors who watched what was going on. We began to talk and that night I showed Jenny my house in the skies and the cage I had there. She wanted to go in spontaneously but I stopped her from doing so. Instead I promised her that I would allow it the next time we would meet. Jenny returned the next day and entered the cage. I kept her in there until June 5th, 2008. That day I collared her as my slave with the blessing of my owner those days, Yasmin. We had used her time in the cage to talk for endless hours, to get known to each other. We talked about our expectations, about our kinks, about D/s, about bondage and yes also about our RL. It was the beginning of a wonderful time we had together, more than 14 unforgetable years, in which we saw each other daily for several hours. When our RL prevented us to come into second life, we stayed in touch with other media.

Diomita and Jenny Maurer (2008/2009)

We got partnered in Second Life and married with a real virtual wedding ceremony (held by Yasmin) on October 24th, 2008. For our honeymoon we got a skybox which is still in the skies of our homesim today and which we named “Chez Maurer”.

We founded an own family within Yasmin’s brat pack. That’s why we called our family “Euro Brats”. I forced Jenny to be dominant towards the other slaves who I collared over the years. One of our first slaves was Santana Thibedeau, who we collared on November 22nd, 2008. He once had a play with other slaves of Yasmin’s brat pack and became a cat, a Kitty for a limited time. And she began to enjoy it that much, that we decided that he stays female. (S)he became Kitty Maurer.
Jenny enjoyed her dominance towards our subs and slaves more and more with time and she wanted more. She negotiated that I submitted to her for limited times, which we called a “green light”. After my release from Yasmin’s collar in 2011, Jenny convinced me to wear a collar again – her collar. And I agreed that we owned each other mutually. Later we fixed a day for my collaring: April 21st, 2013.
Our family changed … slaves and subs came and left. In 2012 we collared Angelique. Angelique Maurer became a close family member. She became our niece and as our niece she literally grew, she persued her own way and her own way of roleplay. And more and more we became her aunts, providing a stable family and base for her just like in RL. Angelique was never officially released by us, and we loved to have her around – as our niece. In these hard days of grieving for Jenny, I am very happy to her her around.
And there is our Flo. We enslaved Flo on Nov 29th, 2013 – she had no chance once we got our claws into her. On the occasion of her 7th collaring anniversary in 2020, we promoted our long standing friend and slave to “Maurer’s Housekeeper”, a position with more duties and not more rights. Thank you, Flo.
With the years going by, Jenny’s dominant side developed and became stronger and stronger. On the eve of our eighth wedding anniversary, October 23rd, 2016, I finally fully submitted to Mistress Jenny and became her married slave, her Ehesklavin for the rest of our time together. I still owned her as well but since that day Mistress Jenny was in charge. She was the one who granted green lights, the limited times when I was allowed to dominate her, and when she could let her hair down and relax being mine for a couple of days. As a true dominant, she made her life comfortable and kept me as the head of our family – she was smart.

Jenny and Diomita Maurer’s 10th wedding anniversary October 24th, 2018 (witnessed by our niece Angelique)

We had our own homeplace, a homestead named Mount Everest, since June 2011. We occupied 1/2 of our homesim and had rented out 1/4 to Sarah Fhang, a friend of ours who we knew from our Stonehaven times. And another 1/4 was rented out to Virgo Babii and Tyra Sciarri, also longterm friends from that time. Virgo is the dj of the legendary Friday night party, that is celebrated every Friday since 2008 and took place (and still takes place) on our sim since we owned it. Jenny loved the Friday night parties with which we started into our weekends. She hated to miss them due to RL shift work. We used to talk about a theme for the party every Thursday and she came up with great ideas.

We were inseparable, a domme couple, yet everyone around us knew that I was Mistress Jenny’s married slave. We were embedded in a great community of family and friends: Claven Albatros, Baroness Capelo, our stepdaughter Ebony, Argi Boa, Starbright Wingtips and the whole pixie gang and many others. In 2021 we collared slave Holly and Jenny was pleased owning her. Just lately we also enjoyed the presence of slave Alessi (who is not collared by us) and we became closer with our domme friend Dely (krybia).

Jenny was a wonderful person. She was always polite and tolerant. I learned a lot from her. She took things not too seriously. She wanted that all around her had fun. She insisted that we never forced a slave or sub to stay, that we never collared someone against their will. She had wit and creativity. She taught me being more “British”. Since she had retired in RL in 2021, Mistress and I had more time in the afternoons, more time for togetherness. Mistress Jenny strengthened her position as my owner. She pushed me deep into subspace and I enjoyed it. She did prepare her steps. Nothing happened by accident. Yet she also kept her spontaneity and she took care of me so that I never doubted her love. She loved teasing me and keeping me on my toes.

Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that’s so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you. Jenny created this hunger in me. I really loved, admired and worshipped her. I craved to please her and she always confirmed that I pleased her always and anytime and anywhere. She was very proud to own me and I was proud to be hers. But most of all we were close friends. Jenny was – and will always be (!) – the love of my Second Life. We enjoyed our time in SL, that was a part of our RL. We had just great years, memories that I will value for the rest of my life until I see Jenny again on the other side.

We respected our privacy. Although we talked a lot also about our RL, about our children as well as about projects, about food, about vacations, about work and about everyday life we never exchanged pictures of us, phone numbers or adresses. Thus we kept the picture of each other that we had in Second Life. We lived our Second Life. When Jenny didn’t show up anymore, I had gloomy premonitions that something bad had happened. I am thankful that I got certainty when someone close to Jenny in RL contacted me to tell me that she passed away.

Jenny will be missed not only by me but also by her family and friends in real life as well as in second life. I myself miss her badly, every day. I talk to her, every day. I think of her, every day. I feel her close, every day. I feel her unconditional love every day. Jenny will stay unforgotten not only by me. Rest in peace, my love.

I have to make some decisions now that I am a widow in Second Life. An important chapter in my real life and in my second life has ended. I am more than thankful for my time with Jenny. My second life will go on. I won’t let down our family and friends in this virtual world. Jenny will always be with me, she will watch me from the other side. And as we were inseparable a part of her will live on in my real life and in my virtual existence until I see her again.

Farewell my love, rest in peace, Jenny

simploring 2019 (112) – 20][21 gallery “Miss Barbara’s sense for ice”

Our friend Barbara Reiter-Jewell (Barbara Reiter) has her own little gallery called “20][21 gallery“, where she exhibits her own work every once in a while. Saturday, November 2nd, she opened her exhibition “Miss Barbara’s sense for ice” with pictures of her journey to Greenland in 2019: icebergs at Disco Bay, mainland shelf and some Greenland moods. It is an art show and installation showing an other view into arctic and arctic life.

In the 20][21 gallery you can see the pictures presented in different ways as slideshows, as panorama pictures where you can litteraly walk in and as wall filling exhibits. Besides the quality of the pictures the permanent changing of them at the walls and slideshows and different viewing angles allow you to immerse yourself into this artic world.

A view into the 20][21 gallery

I added a few sample pictures of the exhibiton so that you get an impression. The pictures look better in the 20][21 gallery. For me personally presenting photographs from the physical world in Second Life is a great fit between the two worlds that adds another dimenision to 2D pictures.

Impressions of “Miss Barbara’s sense for ice” (1)

Impressions of “Miss Barbara’s sense for ice” (2)

Landmark to 20][21 gallery for contemporary art

Simploring 2018 (62) Formosa Cafe

For my simploring tour on Wednesday, July 18th, I picked “Formosa Cafe” from scoop.it SL Destinations. The Formosa Cafe is a restaurant and bar founded in 1925 and located at 7156 Santa Monica Boulevard at the intersection with North Formosa Avenue, in West Hollywood, California (source wikipedia).
When I followed the provided link to read a little bit about it, I came across Second Life Newers, a blog that exists as long as our blog does, written by several authors. It is about the people, places, things, and events across Second Life and has an extra section about places. Hard to belive that I never came across it before. I added the link to Second Life Newers to the “Other links” section on the right side bar.

The Formosa Cafe in Real Life and in Second Life

In the Second Life Newers blog is a very detailed desripction about Formosa Cafe along with information about it’s creator Gardenia Malheur titled “The Formosa“, written by Klaus Bereznyak. As this post is so detailled and complete, it is hard to add anything – and I won’t.
In his post Klaus Bereznyak also provided a link to another blog post about Formosa Cafe, which was published by riverpearl in her blog “Million Happy Endings” titeled “The Formosa Cafe“. I just had a short look into riverpearl’s blog but its amoung other things also about places in Second Life. I added Million Happy Endings as well to the “Other links” section on the right side bar (Remark: I couldn’t find riverpearl or Pearl Grey in Second Life, hence I assume her username must be different).

Impressions of my visit to Formosa Cafe in Second Life

Of course I also visited the Formosa Cafe and I was not disappointed at all. It is a great cafe and you can sense the atmosphere. It is buildt with love and passion by Gardenia Malheur and as I build myself a little bit in Second Life, I know what it means to get it done in such a perfection, in particular if you want to build something that exists in Real Life.
Comparing the picture from wikipedia with the Formosa Cafe in Second Life, I’m impressed! There’s so much to see and discover in Second Life, that I’d need to get a 3rd and 4th life!

Thank you Gardenia for creating Formosa Cafe and for sharing it with the public. Many thanks also to Klaus Bereznyak and to riverpearl for the great blog posts about it. I enjoyed my short simploring tour.

Landmark to Formosa Cafe
Second Life Newers blog entry “The Formosa” by Klaus Bereznyak
riverpearl’s blog post “The Formosa Cafe”

Update: Today Annie Oh (anniebrightstar), who manages scoop.it SL Destinations, send me a private message: “The Editor of SL Newser is Bixyl Shuftan, Klaus is Klaus (klaus.bereznyak) and Pearl Grey is Pearl Grey (pearlgrey) (in Second Life), all interesting people“. Thank you, Annie. I had only found Klaus.

Happy New Year 2018 and some stats and findings about this blog (2017 in review)

In 2016 I began to blog almost daily, in 2017 I really succeeded to have an entry for every day. Blogging daily is a challenge as there’re days with not that much to report. In addtion, I’m not able to write every day due to other obligations and vacation. Hence I always have some posts on stock and I try to pile up a few more, when I’m off got a few days.
In 2017 I started to number the diary entries as well as the simploring posts. There were more than 200 diary entries and over 100 simploring reports. Over all the blog grew by 374 new posts bringing the total archive of this blog to over 1,100 posts.
As taking pictures is one of my passions in SL and storage space is not free, I also changed the way I publish my pictures and grouped them to save space. When you click the pictures you can see them a bit larger. I also post the pictures on deviant art (Diomita Maurer at Deviant art). There you get the pictures in a higher resultion. I uploaded more than 2,000 pictures in 2017.

We had more than 37,500 clicks this year, again a raise of 10,000 clicks compared to 2016. That’s on average more than 100 clicks per day. The blog attracted 8,500 visitors, an increase of 50% compared to 2016. Most clicks came from Germany (7,800), the US (6,900) and the UK (4,200). The statistics show that in total people from over 100 countries visited our blog. Also the number of followers increased to close to 100! Many thanks to all friends, readers and followers.
Most found our blog coming from search engines (7,500) and from deviantart.com (2,100). Again not only the new blog entries attract readers, there’re also some “evergreens”.
The Top 5 Posts in 2017 were:
1. Kara Bound – April 2014 – 307 clicks – ranked 1st also in 2016
2. The Victorian Corset Story Part II – 230 clicks – March 2017 (written by slave Flo)
3. Simploring 2017 (27) Fortress Mortice – 174 clicks – April 2017
4. Surrender Cove – 156 clicks – October 2016
5. Simploring 2017 (28) Maison de L’amitié – 126 clicks – April 2017
6. Sissy sold – August 2013 – 120 clicks – ranked 2nd in 2016, ranked 1st in 2015

This blog contains a lot of memories for Mistress Jenny and me and for the people close to us in Second Life. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around us in Second Life and has grown with time. In the meanwhile I read back myself often to look up a date or to check if I came across a place already before. The diary entries became also more personal and you could follow how my submission to Mistress Jenny grew and became natural for me, but you could also follow how much I enjoy to have her as my sub, as my property during my green lights. She’s still owned vice versa and that’s not going to change.
I have fun writing and it’s my intention to continue daily, if I find the time for it. Considering how much of our free time in real life is spent in this virtual world it makes sense to keep the memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and they stay vivid and present this way.
That we attract so many readers who follow our ways in SL makes me happy and motivates me.

Thanks again for reading and following my and our blog.
Have a great year 2018 in SL and in RL, stay healthy!
Diomita Maurer

Simploring 2017 (83) La Vie in Autumn

Last summer, June 2016, I visited “La Vie” the first time (read here). When I saw Inara Pey’s blog post “Autumn comes to La Vie in Second Life” it rang a bell that I’ve been there before and of course I went exploring it again.

October 13th/14th: Impressions of La Vie in Autumn (1)

Compared to my visit last summer she island has been completely refurbished, it is not just a seasonal change. La Vie sim invites you to roam around and to enjoy the views. Some farmhouses are scattered over the island, there are birds, horses and other farm animals around and you find several spots to sit and relax. Of course the leaves are coloured and provide pretty nice opportunities to take pictures. The pictures look like watercolour pieces of art, very peaceful and do express what I felt when visiting La Vie.

October 13th/14th: Impressions of La Vie in Autumn (2)

While I visited, Ocotber 13th and 14th, we had beautiful late summer days where I live and I also enjoyed the nature in the physcial world. La Vie is French and translates to “The Life”, fitting to the title of this post “La Vie in Autumn”. I share some pictures of Autumn that I took these days just close to where I live – it’s Autumn in both worlds.

October 13th/14th: Impressions of La Vie in Autumn in RL

Thank you Krys Vita for providing your sim to the public. I spent a lovely time.

Inara Pey’s blog “Autumn comes to La Vie in Second Life”
Landmark to La Vie

A letter from slave slut cecy

Today, Tuesday October 3rd, slave slut cecy was online while I was still at work. She cleaned the house and left an offline IM to Mistress Jenny and me. I did not revise it and it was her explicit wish that I publish it on this blog. I decided to fulfil her wish although this blog usually doesn’t touch the boarder between RL and SL…

Hello Dear Mistresses,

just letting You know I already cleaned the whole House and Shangri-La. I know it pleases You and as I promised Mistress Diomita, I finished it between the days She ordered me.

I must confess too I feel super excited and humiliated with this new Evil Titler to me. First, people changed it to “I am a dirty slut!”, then to “Still a dirty slut” and right now Im living with a “Forever a dirty filthy slut”. I cant describe the humiliation. Inclusive, people just changed it and disappear, leaving me exposed with this title.

October 3rd – a letter from slave slut cecy: pictures of our slave slut

I hope this message pleases You, Mistresses, in addition, I hope and beg this message could be shared in the blog just to expose to the world my loyalty in SL and RL, because in my RL Im already melting and soaking my panties typing this, before going to the work. I would feel so thankful in case You share it.

I try my best even I’m in Mexico and its time zones. Dont forget this mexican slut and property loves You so much, Mistresses, and she will do anything, inclusive the worst humiliation to show loyalty. Any other order to follow in RL, Dear Mistresses?

Forever Yours,
Your slut and RL property,
cecilia medina.

1.000 blog posts

I just noticed, that I published the 1.000th post in our blog today. And that’s worth an extra blog post. Writing and keeping our memories of Second Life for our Real Life is still fun. Thank you to all, who follow this blog and who motivate me to continue.

Diomita Maurer
September 19th, 2017

Happy New Year 2017 and some stats and findings about our blog (2016 in review)

20161229-happy-new-year-2017To all of our family, to all friends, to all readers. we wish you a happy and healthy 2017. May your wishes and desires come true!

In 2016 I began to blog almost daily and this way added 338(!) new posts bringing the total archive of this blog to 731 posts. I uploaded 1,115 pictures, more than 3 per day. We had more than 27,600 clicks this year, almost doubled from 2015, where we had 14,000 clicks. That’s on average more than 75 clicks per day. The blog attracted 5,700 visitors, an increase of 30% compared to 2015. Most clicks came from Mexcio (6,197) – in 2015 Mexico had 641 clicks, hard to believe. For sure the reason for this is our slave cecy and her friends. The US follows with 5,467 clicks, then Germany with 3,564 clicks, Switzerland (1,745), the Netherlands (1,442), Finland (1,350) and the UK with 1,312 clicks. The statistics show that in total people vom 92 countries visited our blog. Many thanks to all friends, readers and followers.

Most found our blog coming from search engines (4,250) and from deviantart.com (2,500), where I also publish my pictures (Diomita Maurer at deviantart). Not only the new blog entries attract readers, there’re also some “evergreens”.
The Top 5 Posts in 2016 were:
1. Kara Bound – April 2014 – 192 clicks – ranked 5th in 2015
2. Sissy sold – August 2013 – 175 clicks – ranked 1st in 2015
3. Diary (89) September 5th – slave slut cecy – September 2016 – 148 clicks
4. Enjoying bondage January 2016: Night of the Living Latex Dolls – 126 clicks
5. Slaves horse riding – July 2016 – 99 clicks

This blog contains a lot of memories for us and for the people close to us. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around us in Second Life and has grown with time. I have fun writing but blogging daily is a real challenge and it’s my intention to continue, if I find the time for it. Considering how much of our free time in real life we spend in this virtual world it makes sense to keep memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and stay vivid and present this way. That we attract readers who follow our ways in SL makes me happy and encourages me.

Thanks again for reading and following our blog.
Have a great year 2017 in SL and in RL, stay healthy!
Diomita and Jenny Maurer

Happy New Year 2016 and some stats and findings about our blog (2015 in review)

20151227 Happy New Year_001To all of our family, to all friends, to all readers. we wish you a happy and healthy new year. May your wishes and desires come true!

The people of WordPress.com send me a few figures and remarks reviewing this blog for 2015: “The concert hall at the Sydney Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 14,000 times in 2015. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 5 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.” Again a “YAY” for the last year and again compared to the last year this is one extra sold-out performance and will be motivation to continue writing. Thank you all readers!!
When I got the report, I thought that this year there would be another comparison than the above, but the people of WordPress seem to stick to the comparison with the Sidney Opera House. So I decided to look for something different, like “This blog was viewed about 14,000 times in 2015. If there was the international fetish bondage competition at Munich Olympic Hall, it would be sold out for that many people to see it!” The Olympic Hall is used for concerts, sporting events, exhibitions or trade fairs. Olympiahalle opened in 1972 and was the venue for gymnastics and handball events at the 1972 Summer Olympics. The seating capacity for the arena varies from 12,150 up to 14,000. The current seating capacity 15,500 set after a massive overhaul that was completed in 2009 (source: wikipedia.com).

Munich Olympic Hall: Fetish Bondage Event 2015 sold out!

Munich Olympic Hall: Fetish Bondage Event 2015 sold out!

In 2015, there were 96 new posts, growing the total archive of this blog to 393 posts, so in average we published 2 blog entries per week in 2015. I uploaded 471 pictures, that’s more than one per day. As mentioned above, we had more than 14,000 clicks on this blog last year, getting close to 40 clicks in average every day. We had more than 4,300 visitors from all over the world, from 86 countries in all.
Most clicks came from The United States (3,700). Germany (1,250) & United Kingdom (2,750) were not far behind and combined this year we even got more clicks from our home countries than from the US, yay!

Most visitors found our blog from deviantart, where I also publish my pictures. So there developed a link between this blog and my deviantart account. Like in 2014 not only the actual texts did attract readers, the most popular texts are a bit older mostly. And the “Enjoying bondage” series seems to be popular. Here’s the ranking of the Top 5:
1. Sissy sold – August 2013 – 163 clicks
2. Enjoying bondage series – April: Selfies – April 2014 – 138 clicks
3. Enjoying Bondage April 2015: Dio’s tied-up simploring tour – 125 clicks
4. Second Life Fetish Fashion Blog – February 2012 – 122 clicks
5. Kara Bound – April 2014 – 116 clicks

This blog contains a lot of memories for us and for the people close to us. It started as a little diary to keep up with all the things happening around us in Second Life and has grown with time. Considering how much of our free time in real life we spend in this virtual world it makes sense to keep memories like you do in real life. The memories are real and stay vivid and present this way. That we attract readers who follow our ways in SL makes me happy and a bit proud (everybody is a bit vane, aren’t we?)

Thank you all for reading and following our blog.
Have a great year 2016!
Diomita and Jenny Maurer

Busy times

We have a rule that might be valid for most people who are in Second Life: Real Life has always priority. Unfortunately this priority applies for me and for some of the Euro Brats right now. Thus our cummunity has shrunk lately.

  • Kitty’s (Santana.thibedeau) online times rarely matched with ours due to her time zone (PST), but her RL kicked in now in addition again. Luckily we still stay in contact and manage to see eachother online every once in a while for catching up at least. Kitty still has fun, when she’s online and hopefully will continue writing her sim reports.
  • qt’s (queen.takacs) account has been hacked and she’s still trying to get it restored. Otherwise she has to come back on a new account. Right now we just hope that she will return soon and won’t turn her back to SL.
  • Our niece Angelique has a lot of work in RL right now and she’s not at all as present as she used to be and if she manages to go online her online times don’t match with ours.
  • Our Rona (ronapotter.resident) is missing since December 17th, 2014. We don’t know what happened with her and have to wait for any sign of life. But we hope, that she’s doing well.

So right now it is often Jenny, slave Flo and myself – and my RL has become a bit busy too. Nonetheless or in particular because of my busy RL I enjoy the time, that I can spend in SL. We often just hang around chatting at “our” clubs (The Secret House or Domme a Domme) or go a little bit exploring somewhere else or play dice. I enjoy just to relax. And as my second offical collaring day is getting closer, Jenny began to prepare me for this event in her way *winks.

No post without picture: Yesterday Sarah took advantage of me and had a short play enjoying that I couldn’t talk back.

Dio prevented from talking back by Sarah - Jenny watching

Dio prevented from talking back by Sarah – Jenny watching

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