Enjoying Bondage April 2015: Dio’s tied-up simploring tour

April is close to be over and there has been no enjoying bondage night so far, at least none I wrote and published about. As Jenny is away this weekend it has been particular quiet and thus I decided to do something different this Sunday morning. I put on a new full latex catsuit from Graves, my leather harness and cuffs from the Real Restraint vixen set, added my tapegag and went to places, where I should find other tied-up people or bondage models. Oh, and I was careful and ensured having the keys myself. My first stop was at the RLV Bondage playground “The Lovers”. What a shame, it was very quiet. I just found one model for a picture and of course I made this one picture there.

Diomita in selfbondage at RLV playground

Diomita in selfbondage at RLV playground “The Lovers” with anonymous tied-up model

My next stop was Adara’s silent bondage island. If you go there, make sure that you’re gagged. Well I was gagged, so I complied to the rules. And I found at least one model. She was blindfolded and it took my a while to grab her and to place her for a picture as communication was a bit hard *winks*

Diomita in selfbondage at silent bondage island with anonymous tied-up model

Diomita in selfbondage at silent bondage island with anonymous tied-up model

After this visit I went home,  changed into something less revealing and returned to the island. In the meanwhile Kitty awoke. She was at home all morning long but had fallen asleep. She awoke just in time to take another nice picture at silent bondage island. Don’t you think that Kitty, Jane Doe and myself give a good example of  complying the rules?

Diomita in selfbondage at silent bondage island with Kitty and Jane Doe - complying the strict rules

Diomita in selfbondage at silent bondage island with Kitty and Jane Doe – complying the strict rules

Where to now? I haven’t been to Psi’s for quite a while. So that was my next stop. Unfortunately Psi’s was not as crowded as it used to be. But Psi Merlin herself was there and she was absent. I think she’s absent most of her time online. But being absent she couldn’t resist to get a picture taken of Kitty and me beside her and – good for this blog entry – she was tied up herself as it should be for an enjoying bondage entry.

Kitty and Diomita posing together with Psi Merlin in the dungeons of Psi's

Kitty and Diomita posing together with Psi Merlin in the dungeons of Psi’s

Last stop on my tied-up simploring tour was “Enslaved”. And here I finally found lots of people. To be more precisely I should say, lots of Latex dolls. In the underground labs they are trained for getting used to their only purpose (and no, you’ll have to find out about this purpose yourself, I won’t go into details). Kitty and I had fun to watch and to discuss about the fate of the poor dolls. Luckily I kept Kitty’s and my own keys hidden, otherwise this visit could have ended badly. Our own bondage had one clear disadvantage though: We couldn’t take and even more we couldn’t taste the sparkling wine.

The downside of being tied- up: No sparkling wine for Kitty and me at

The downside of being tied- up: No sparkling wine for Kitty and me at “Enslaved”

I think, I made the most of a quiet Sunday morning / early afternoon. Don’t you agree?

Celebrating my 2nd collaring day

Jenny and I have several days that we celebrate, so we do get reminded about how time flies quite often. And today marks my 2nd official collaring day. I want to emphasise the word “official” as switching between us has a long history. When Jenny and I got married and spent the honeymoon in our skybox, Jenny already had one day when she dominated me. Honestly I don’t remember, if it was before our wedding or after it (I think it was after it) when Yasmin and Jenny arranged a scene where Yasmin added Jenny as 2nd owner besides herself to the my collar. And since that day we do switch every once in a while. Not that often when I was owned by Yasmin but more and more after my release of her collar.
Considering that, there’s no exact date for my collaring day. We simply picked it. Well that’s also not the whole truth behind it. After my release of Yasmin’s collar I had several scenes with others to fulfil my submissive needs and maybe to fill the lack caused by my release. My pretext was that I learn for my domme side if I’m submit in play to others. And up until today it is still exciting to play with others. Two years ago during a “green light” where Jenny was dominating me it came to my mind that my spoardic scenes in which I knelt for others but Jenny distinguished our already mutual ownership of eachother. While Jenny does not kneel for anybody else than me, I did. And I wanted to live up to her attitude and told Jenny about it. And later we agreed to take this day as my official collaring day.

Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

Mistress Jenny and me just before my 2nd collaring anniversary

We agreed on rules between us that allow scenes with others for me to happen, but ever since there was no play with anybody else that I didn’t confess to her or had her approval upfront. It is her decision how to handle it, when I confess kneeling to somebody else but her. And Jenny reinforced her ownership of me end of 2014 when I fully submitted to her. Don’t get it wrong, Jenny is still my property and her submission to me is without any doubt. This is our way as dommes as well as as submissives to live and enjoy our mutual ownership. And for most people it is hard to understand. It is for sure rare and we feel blessed having this tight relation.

Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins - early morning April 21st, 2015

Jenny and Dio enjoying togetherness as my 2nd collaring anniversary begins – early morning April 21st, 2015

Enough words. Thank you for collaring me, Mistress Jenny. I love you!

Busy times

We have a rule that might be valid for most people who are in Second Life: Real Life has always priority. Unfortunately this priority applies for me and for some of the Euro Brats right now. Thus our cummunity has shrunk lately.

  • Kitty’s (Santana.thibedeau) online times rarely matched with ours due to her time zone (PST), but her RL kicked in now in addition again. Luckily we still stay in contact and manage to see eachother online every once in a while for catching up at least. Kitty still has fun, when she’s online and hopefully will continue writing her sim reports.
  • qt’s (queen.takacs) account has been hacked and she’s still trying to get it restored. Otherwise she has to come back on a new account. Right now we just hope that she will return soon and won’t turn her back to SL.
  • Our niece Angelique has a lot of work in RL right now and she’s not at all as present as she used to be and if she manages to go online her online times don’t match with ours.
  • Our Rona (ronapotter.resident) is missing since December 17th, 2014. We don’t know what happened with her and have to wait for any sign of life. But we hope, that she’s doing well.

So right now it is often Jenny, slave Flo and myself – and my RL has become a bit busy too. Nonetheless or in particular because of my busy RL I enjoy the time, that I can spend in SL. We often just hang around chatting at “our” clubs (The Secret House or Domme a Domme) or go a little bit exploring somewhere else or play dice. I enjoy just to relax. And as my second offical collaring day is getting closer, Jenny began to prepare me for this event in her way *winks.

No post without picture: Yesterday Sarah took advantage of me and had a short play enjoying that I couldn’t talk back.

Dio prevented from talking back by Sarah - Jenny watching

Dio prevented from talking back by Sarah – Jenny watching

A visit to Otium

Exploring sims: OTIUM

Exploring sims: Otium

The “Living in a modemworld”-blog of Inara Pey provides me with places to visit. This time I visited Otium, first alone and then together with Jenny.
The name of this sim has a meaning that I looked up at Wikipedia for a correct description:
Otium, a Latin abstract term, has a variety of meanings, including leisure time in which a person can enjoy eating, playing, resting, contemplation and academic endeavors. It sometimes, but not always, relates to a time in a person’s retirement after previous service to the public or private sector, opposing “active public life”. Otium can be a temporary time of leisure, that is sporadic. It can have intellectual, virtuous or immoral implications. It originally had the idea of withdrawing from one’s daily business (negotium) or affairs to engage in activities that were considered to be artistically valuable or enlightening (i.e. speaking, writing, philosophy). It had particular meaning to businessmen, diplomats, philosophers and poets
(see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Otium).

What you can experience at Otium fits perfect to the name. First of all there is a Mediterranean village with small alleys, lots of cosy places, benches and pavement cafes. And the village is not empty. There are little shops and the houses can be rented. Where you land when arriving at Otium, there’s a gallery. The exhibtion there shows Giovanna Cerise’s art and is called “LINE”. This Exhibition isn’t restricted to the gallery itself but is spread over the whole island. Giovanna herself wrote about her permanent exhibition “Creation of a path-research on the infinite freedom hidden in two-dimensional and three-dimensional size. The line, with its lightness incisive, inspired the Transposition of the complexity of the solid structures of some of my work in new areas, expression of pure essentiality.”

"LINE" exhibition permanent of Giovanna Cerise

“LINE” exhibition permanent of Giovanna Cerise

When exploring Otium you will come across Giovanna’s art everywhere, her filigrane “line”-art is non physical, thus you can walk through it and it changes it’s look depending from which angel you look at it. The art provides a perfect background for creating your own photo art, something to publish at deviantart. At the beach there’re other 3 dimensional pieces of her, of which some are also changing permanently. All of Giovanna Cerise’s art can be purchased directly. And I’m pretty sure that I saw her art before at some other places. I consider to get a piece for our island as well.

"LINE" exhibition permanent of Giovanna Cerise in the streets of Otium

“LINE” exhibition permanent of Giovanna Cerise in the streets of Otium

Coming back to the name of the Island: Otium. I visited Otium together with Jenny and after roaming through the alleys we walked down to the beach which offers some places to cuddle, to watch the waves of the ocean and even for sport activities like Taichi. Thus Otium provides everything to recover, to enjoy simply being yourself or to refresh your mind with art: relax, unwind, soothe your soul. The name Otium does really fit.

Taichi at the Otium beach

Taichi at the Otium beach

Jenny and Diomita enjoying at Otium beach

Jenny and Diomita enjoying at Otium beach

Otium is owned by Franz Markstein. Thank you, for your hospitality.

Types of Dominants

I came across Mona’s blog today and found this old post, which was actually inspired by another post of Inara Pey ….
There are some interesting entries on Mona’s blog. I added the link to Mona’s blog in the links section. Enjoy reading:-)

Happy Easter

Jenny and I both were busy with RL over the Easter holiday. But last night we still had some unexpected Easter fun. Jenny got a “Bunneh”- outfit that is rlv-enforced, can be coloured individually and that is full perm. Jenny first asked slave Flo to wear it for us and I locked the Bunneh outfit on her. Then Argi came visiting and to our suprise she joined the fun and wore the outfit as well. We took both to The Secret House, but unfortunately, Argi had to run to fulfil other obligations and at the club none volunteered to jump into the Bunneh outfit. So we moved on to DaD … and there we found several volunteers and had them quickly turned into Easter Bunneh’s for us. Too bad that we ran short in time, otherwise we’d collected a lot more Bunneh’s. Oh … and if you don’t recognize her, slave Flo is inside of  the white bunneh costume.

Happy Easter 2015: Jenny and I with the "bunneh's

Happy Easter 2015: Jenny and I with the “bunneh’s

Piony Hideout

On my tours following the recommendations of Inara Pey in her Living in a modemworld blog, I came across Piony Hideout:
(https://modemworld.wordpress.com/2015/03/29/returning-to-a-picturesque-hideout/)
Once again I’m overwhemingly facinated by what people create here in Second Life. Piony hideout looks like an own small world and in particular it looks like real. For me it took a long time for the mesh objects to rezz but once the did – wow. Rezzing itself was also interesting and fun to watch. For example the there are 2 cars, an Aston Martin and a Mini and while the rezz you can see the chassis, the motorblock, the steering wheel, the seats and finally the autobody being set together like a puzzle. These two cars hide a lot of details!

A visit to Piony Hideout

A visit to Piony Hideout

exploring Piony Hideout

exploring Piony Hideout

The main street has looks British because of the two British cars and because of a sign “Carneby Street”, but it also has something mediterranean, quite a mix. When you walk on to the waterside, see the Vespa and the colours, you think you were in Paris. And if you leave the main street and walk a bit you’re right in the Provence. This little world of ist own is really worth not just one visit!

La Provence at Piony Hideout

La Provence at Piony Hideout

Here’s the landmark:
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Lions%20Hill/76/115/23
Enjoy your visit.

Exploring Second Life – Sunday tours

Sometimes I do get time for exploring Second Life like last Sunday. It was quiet, none of the family around. So instead of hanging around in one of our clubs, I opened the “Living in a Modemworld”-blog from Inara Pey and visited some of her recommendations. And it was worth the time and worth sharing some pictures as a teaser for you to visit as well.

Metmorphosis Escher

Metmorphosis Escher

I started my Sunday tour with art (https://modemworld.wordpress.com/2015/03/25/metamorphosis-looking-through-the-eyes-of-escher/). This artful, mostly held in black and white installation by Beq Janus was inspired by M.C. Escher, a Dutch graphic artist, who is famous for his impossible constructions. I recommend reading in Wikipedia about him. Back to SL, where you can walk through virtual art, where you can see it from different angels, in different lights and explore all 3 dimensions. Beq translated Escher’s work into all three dimensions – just as looking with his eyes. Here is the landmark: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Quarry%20Hill/229/118/4001.
It is temporady art, gone in a few months, irrecoverable. And pictures can just capture 2 dimensions. But they can revive memories.

Diomita meets M.C. Escher

Diomita meets M.C. Escher

Forever Dreams

Forever Dreams

My second stop on my Sunday tour was Caladan http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Forever%20Dreams/217/75/31. It is sort of a demo for landscaping and gardening in Second Life. Antinéa (antinea.torok) offers to decorate other sims. But you can also jsut enjoy this garden, the beauty of Second Life and relax. That’s what I did. The sim is simply beautiful. I sat down, relaxed and watched the fountains, enjoyed the  colorful garden. Truely a place to cuddle, talk and recover and to let your thoughts wander. Also see: https://modemworld.wordpress.com/2015/03/24/caladan-tranquility-in-an-indian-garden/

Diomita enjoying Forever Dreams

Diomita enjoying Forever Dreams

20150329 The Trace Too_002My last stop was a particular one for me: The Trace too. (https://modemworld.wordpress.com/2015/03/22/returning-to-a-second-life-watercolour/). It is, as I know now, the second sim that Kylie Jaxxon created. And her first one is gone. Visiting “The Trace” was for me like travelling to the US East coast with a few mouseclicks. Kylie brought memories alive. When you walk along the beach and see the lovely huts overlooking the sea, it invites you to sit down and inhale the atmosphere. The environement sound is perfect. I could sit hours in a lounging chair and just watch the scenery. I truly enjoyed Kylie’s sim. Here’s the landmark to go there: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The%20Trace%20Too/38/121/32

A visit to the East coast: The Trace Too

A visit to the East coast: The Trace Too

The Trace Too: At the beach

The Trace Too: At the beach

Burning Bush in concert at Venustus

Yesterday night we visited Venustus again after quite a while we haven’t been there. It was gone and reerected. By coincidence there was an inworld concert from the “Burning Bush”, a second life cover band playing popular and rock music (lead singer is Britny McMahon-Humphreys (britny.mcmahon)). Their show is a bit weired, but it is SL, isn’t it? And if you take a close look, you can see what gave the name for the band. Jenny, slave Flo and I had a relaxing time and enjoyed. And the picture which I took turned out to be really good, so I had to share.

Burning Bush in concert at Venustus

Burning Bush in concert at Venustus

Bad Kitty

Finally Kitty is exploring Second Life again and is having various fun. Not that she didn’t enjoy being a pony and we know: once a pony, always a pony. But her reports about sims were missed and here is one again: Kitty visited Bad Kitty!

Here is her report on Bad Kitty, spiced with pictures of her and from a visit Jenny and I made later:

"Pickled Slut"

“Pickled Slut”

Some say that there’s a sim appropriately named in Kitty’s honor and that they use wooden barrels to pickle their sluts. All we know is that it’s called Bad Kitty and it’s jam-packed with great RLV fun and unique toys. When you arrive, you might notice warning signs along the path. Ignore them, set your relay to ‘auto’ and enjoy. However, if you still happen to have a good friend or two, keep them on speed-dial or better yet, bring them along for the fun.

This sim is best explored with two or more people to try out different toys and to help each other with traps.

I'm not going to try it!

I’m not going to try it!

Here are some of the areas you should not miss:
If you enjoy trapping your friend in something that you’d like to take home, there is a store which sells most of the unique contraptions that you will find in this sim.
For all the pony fans out there, please check out the design of the stalls. Why aren’t there more stalls like this around? Of course there is a training area as well. After all, you can’t leave your ponies locked away at all times (or can you???).

Kitty loves ponies

Kitty loves ponies

No pony around? Ride a Zebra!

No pony around? Ride a Zebra!

Some of you might still remember the good old Challenge Cells from Stonehaven. Well, Bad Kitty has it all and some more, including Think Tanks, Strip Poker, and other nice games.
For those who want to have even more fun, just run like mad behind a UFO.
All of this good fun can be had just behind the a well-manicured garden with beautiful sculptures. In case you decide to strike a pose or two, just be patient. Alabaster won’t last fovever.
For those who are more romantically inclined, Bad Kitty offers you various places to dance and cuddle. One of them is a large gazebo at the end of the dock. Even though all of Bad Kitty is one big playground with toys and gadgets in nearly every corner, there is one square that contains a large assortment of the same and you should not miss visiting it.

At "Bad Kitty"

At “Bad Kitty”

The tower at "Bad Kitty"

The tower at “Bad Kitty”

There is a beautiful tower on the island. You can climb it but make no mistake – it is a long, dizzying way up to 270m. Alternatively, you could also hitch a ride in the rubber band rocket near the base of the Tower. The tower rises even higher though the upper floors are private. From here you have a good view of the waterpark-style slide back down. Just far-sit and: Weeeeeeee!

The rocket: the fast way up to the tower.

The rocket: the fast way up to the tower.

There are way, way, way too many other fun things to discover on this island. The best you can do is go and check it out.

Thank you for your inspiring report, Kitty. There are still places in SL where you can simply have fun.

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