Life is great

This is a post without a particular theme. It is just to give an impression how I enjoy our second life. Our nights and weekends on SL are always enjoyable (at least in my honest opinion); they are rarely planned and never can be planned exactly. The reason is that you never know who’s online and how long, there are interruptions for RL (which always has priority without saying). Of course we have our regular online times and of course we make some appointments. Nonetheless you can’t really plan and in any case we plan only within the inner circle of the family. My only fixed date is the Friday night dancing event with Virgo as the dj at our beach disco (Thank you for the great music you provide for us, Virgo!). In addition my time with Jenny before we go to bed is a sanctum. But everything else is spontaneous.

Delilah, Dio, qt, Jenny, Angel

It might be shopping, or exploring a sim.
It might be playing greedy or yahtzee.
It might be using one of our subs or teasing.
It might me simply chitchatting or going to meet friends elsewhere.
It might be testing new devices and toys or simply watching slide shows.
It might be fencing or fulfilling a side bet resulting from it.
It might be simply enjoying a nice bondage of a sub or of someone else we meet.
It might be having a green or a red light.
It might be standing around at Domme a Domme and read profiles or simply watching.
If I find a few quiet minutes, I spend it  building or sorting inventory or even playing Zyngo alone in our weekly family internal contest. Or improving our home with little items, updating the slide shows, or decorating. And much faster as I expect it another night is over again.
For me the addicting factor is the surprise, is the spontaneity. It is meeting new people and talking (yes about BSDM often). It’s sharing and exchanging experiences. It is a role-play that never can be planned or predicted. Does it repeat like everyday RL does – yes, to some extent but much less and there’s no laundry, no cleaning, no food shopping, no tax declaration, no taxi service, no cooking … and no necessities and a lot variety.

I’m here to enjoy.

Dio’s 4th year in Second Life Feb 11th 2012

Tomorrow i’m going to start my 5th year in second life. Again time to look back and to have a look foward. Writing this post i read my 3 year anniversary text several times. This year in SL has been extraordinary eventful. One of my most biggest wishes for my 4th year hasn’t been fulfilled. One base, one cornerstone of my SL changed: I’m no longer owned by Yasmin. For me it was a hard step to take. Yas’s collar was locked well over 3 years around my neck. What I expierenced is that the remaining cornerstones were stable enough to support me and they became stronger than before. First of all my partner, my Ehesklavin stood by my side and knelt at my feet. But also my subs, my sisters in Yas’ family and all my neighbors and friends supported me, lend me their ear and confirmed that my neck does not need any collar anymore. Thus my base in SL has changed but still is solid as a rock.

One year and there’s more to report and to write into this diary. Looking at more than 50 posts in this 4th year you can tell that this year has been eventful. My family, the Eurobrats, changed. Tittia and Delilah were collared – welcome to us, we love you. Danii returned collared as “fostersub” as her Mistress and wife reduced her online time drastically. Those who left us or who we assume being not in the most inner circle anymore did all stay close friends. We celebrated several anniversaries and being aware how quick life changes in RL and SL I am very thankful for the anniversaries:
June 5th – 3-year collaring of Jenny
October 5th – 3-year collaring of vanessa
October 24th – 3-year wedding anniversary with Jenny
November 22nd – 3-year collaring of Kitty Maurer (Santana)
December 18th – 1- year collaring of Dana
Jan 1st 1-year enslavement of Maurer’s It

In June last year we lost our 2nd home in SL, “Dragon Cove”, due to the dweeb that took over the sim. This experience led to ownership of an homestead, “Mount Everst”, where we build the new Eurobrats Headquarter with lots of space and a beach disco for our Friday night parties. Part of the sim is owned by Virgo and Tyra our longtime neighbors. Also Claven had a part of it for her private prison. But the performance of an homestaed wasn’t high enough for running it. Now Sarah Fhang became an addtional owner. We’re very  pleased to have neighbors like you are!

Just recently, my hairdresser recomended a new cut for me. And as I use these anniversary entries also to document my style changes I’ll add a picture of me with the new haircut.

Regarding our activities not that much has changed. We like to play dice games, to dance (join us at our beach disco every Friday night), to explore other sims, to shop (of course!), to roleplay and to express our kinky side. With tittia we reerected her “Strict Ballet Academy” at Mount Everest. Playing there is a nice variation. We also spend time at DaD (Domme a Domme), more or less a meeting place for those who are into similar kinks as we are. This last year in SL I met tittia and Delilah at DaD, who have been collared later. I also had a few short trips to Gorean roleplay. My friend Cruella is living on Gor and she brought this kind of play nearer to me. I can understand it’s facination but there will be just episodes for me on Gor.
There’s a lot more that happened in my 4th year. We met great people and made new friends. I assume that the variety of people, the different kinks and the different ways to enjoy second life as an escape from everyday life, as an place to live our fantasies and dreams is what makes most of SL’s facination. I’m not tired of it and look forward full of confidence and curiousity.

Dear Jenny, dear family, dear friends, let me heartfully thank you all for your love and support. I wouldn’t be here without you. I wouldn’t be “Dio” without you. I couldn’t relax and enjoy SL without you. Thank you all for a great 4th year in 2nd life. Many thanks!

My Viewer & blog stats & welcome in 2012

First of all “Happy New Year” to all readers!  Let’s have a great 2012.

I got a note from wordpress telling me a bit of about readers statistics. We had 5.358 clicks in 2011 (after 1.939 in 2010 and 951 in 2009) adding up to a total of 8.248 views. Whe have 97 posts published whereof 57 were written and published in 2011. Our readers come from all over the world, most of them from the US, followed by UK and Germany. There are readers from Paraguay, Columbia, Honduras, Indonesia, Malaysia … wow. Our busiest day was December 29th, 2011 with 106 clicks, the most seen text was about our Rubber Mare “Dana”. The clicks and views on our blog rise slowly but steadily. Thank you all for following our Second Life. Nonetheless this blog stays first and foremost our diary to save our memories which are part of our RL.

The first text of 2012 shall be different and shall introduce a new page of this blog called “My Viewer”. Here I’m going to share how I setted up the viewer that I use and I hope it will be helpful. We appreciate any comments and improvements. So have a look on the new “My Viewer”-page.

Have a great start into 2012!

Starting a new chapter

It has been vacation time for the Eurobrats. Most of us have been offline for a while or are still on vacation. It used to be a quiet time in SL always in summer due to our RL obligations. This summer has been different particularly for me. I couldn’t imagine myself not being  Yas’ Enforcer. Now the unthinkable has happened.
So I start a new chapter in SL. I always said that I have 2 bases in my SL, one being Jenny and the other Yasmin. So now it is only Jenny? No, the other base is my family, our subs first and foremost but also still Yas and her family, all my former sisters and our friends. Just the emphasis has changed.
I don’t need to hide the fact that abdicating my collar by asking for being released caused lot of tears in RL. I felt a strange sadness being online in SL. I apologize for my bad mood and the depressions I had during the last two weeks.

doesn't my neck look nice without a collar?

Diomita uncollared - doesn't my neck look nice without a collar?

While the pain is still present, the wound is healing quicker than I thought, mostly because I feel that I am getting a lot of support, understanding and love. With these two bases I can’t help but look confident into my future in SL. And as everybody comes back online they’ll find me laughing, smiling, playing and enjoying again.

Thank you family and friends, Thank you, Jenny!

August 8th, 2011, So I sit here in Yasminia

So I sit here in Yasminia on the small island with the yellow anchor, settings to sundown, listening to the music chanel that Yasmin as chosen and look at Yasmin’s house, the lighthouse, the tree with the pixies. I feel strange beyond all the support and love I expierenced yesterday and today. The collar around my neck is off. Strange my collar is off, Yasmin is wearing a collar now.

So I sit here in Yasminia at the edge of a different SL for me and my family. My view goes over to the house and memories come alive, pictures, scenes, beloved people who left. What did I do? Why? I had crying attacks today. Shall I really write about this? Is this my way to get it off my chest? Do I need to justify? My collar lays in Goddess’ lil skybox on the table. A piece of steel that companied me as a part of my avatar and my SL for 39 months.

I had a great time as Yas’ Enforcer. Goddess reputation, my sisters, her family, the innumerable friends were base of my SL and helped me to become what I am here. All gone now? ‘Life is a bitch’ is one of Goddess’ (now Yasmin for me) most favorite sayings. Moments can’t be held forever, people change, preferences change. Our yearning for new kinks, for progress, for fun and for love keeps us going and moving on. Life is a bitch, everything changes with time. Over the last couple of months I began to question my role in Yasmin’s family. My SL went well, hers went well as she said but they went parallel. Different timezone and RL did add to it. To make it very clear for everyone: It is not Yasmin’s fault, nor is it mine, nor anyone’s else!
My decision to ask for release was facing reality as it is and when I did ask Yasmin expected it. I felt that she was prepared for it. It might be our both fault not having talked earlier.

So I sit here in Yasmina very thankful for what the Eurobrats and I had. Thankful for the respect and dignity with which we ended one chapter and began a new one for both of us, for both families which are and will stay connected. No bad word, no reproaches but sort of mutual understanding that Life is a bitch.

So I sit here in Yasminia my thoughts go back over these 39 months…. Stonehaven, Samatha, Mises West, Rivers Rock, Bratz Club, Teyonas, rabea, Yasminia, Caer Heartsdale, the patio in SH.. the deck at Yasminia, Hotel California, my wedding, Chez Maurer, Yar, Jill, Valerie, the new Yasminia, the pool area, Greedy, the clock with the falling numbers….hundreds, thousands of pictures spring alive. Innumerable family charts still on my harddrive – and now a families chart with 2 families on it.
Thank you for our path together, Yasmin. Thank you for all you provided for me and Jenny and for our subs. I hope and I am confident that our way is not finished but just got a new direction .. and moving on as sisters.

I’ve once been told that my loyality and devotion to Yasmin is undyable. And so I sit here in Yasminia and realize that it is still there, maybe the emphasis has changed. My thankfullness, my love and my trust in my sister is undyable.

I love you Yasmin
Diomita
August 8th, 2011

Yas’ Enforcer

May 8th, 2008 – August 7th, 2011

Today I asked Yasmin for my release and she granted it. Right now it hurts like hell and I’m crying. But the wound will heal and what will remain are the memories of the great time we had together. I am starting a new chapter of my SL and Yasmin will always have a place in my SL now as a close friend and sister of mine.
Thank you for owning me more than 3 years, Goddess!

We part in love and friendship and respect. The Eurobrats and Yasmin’s Brat Pack will stay connected by many ways. And our families will stay side by side as friended families. Hence, the Eurobrats will stay in Yasmin’s family and friends group, and Yasmin and her brats will stay in the Eurobrats group.

I love you, sister.
Diomita Maurer
August 7th, 2011

Mistress Diomita

 

Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale arranged a competition with the theme “My Mistress is the best Mistress / Domme because..” in under 350 words.

Whilst my entry did not make the top 4 I would still like to share it as it gives an insight to how much my Mistress and wife means to me.

 

Mistress Diomita Maurer

 

I propose that Mistress Diomita Maurer is the best Mistress. There are many reasons why and everything about Mistress Diomita culminates in a unique experience if ever you should be one of the lucky few that submit to her.

 

First meeting:  When I first met Mistress Diomita she never made any assumptions nor did she push or force herself on me. Instead she asked if she may take my keys and then she gave me a guided tour of her house in Stonehaven. Whilst there she showed me her cage and the whole experience was very daunting for me. I asked would I be expected to go in the cage then and Mistress Diomita replied not now but you will the next time you come here.  The confidence in which she said that made me know inside that I would be spending a long time in that cage and I would have gone into it there and then.

 

The Trial: Consisted of going into that very cage the next time we met and spending the next 12 days there where Mistress Diomita visited me and listened as we talked every day. We became good friends very quickly.

 

My limits: have been gently eased so I no longer remember what they where and I have been coached and my Domme side encouraged and Mistress Diomita has enjoyed that I display my Bratty side too.

 

Personal details: Mistress Diomita pays attention to needs and to what ever you tell her. During a very sad personal time in RL she supported me and was happy to sit with me and help me when she could have elsewhere having a good time. Mistress Diomita always makes time for everybody in her care.

 

I have highlighted the important traits and I believe that to be a good Mistress you must have all of these qualities before you even try to own somebody or tell them what to do. Mistress Diomita has all of this and the confidence to carry it off in a subtle manner that commands respect.

 

Jenny Maurer

 

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