Diomita Maurer’s Blog

Diomita Maurer (Dio) and Laylady Lay (jen)

Would like to invite you to witness them exchange their Wedding Vows and join together as Wife and Wife.
NEW DATE: !!!!!!!
Date: Fri 24th October  2008 3:30 pm PDT 23:30 GB time 00:30 German time Location: BRATZ new open air Dungeon
Our Special wishes: We would like this to be a themed Wedding. It will be just over 5 months that Dio and Ladlady met and in celebration of this we would like it to be a Mistress / Master  … Sub / Slave theme.
If you would like to wear a corsage please visit the garden at the Bondage playground and sit in the big flower, after the animation it will give you flower. We would like to see as many flowers as possible. To find it go look for the big fire in the main grounds.
During the ceremony we would ask that all subs and slaves sit on a floor ball during the service and all Masters and Mistresses sit in a throne or stand as you please. Please dress inaccordance with your position for the day if you switch. There will be a Party afterwards at BRATZ Disco where there will be a guest book, please write and drop us a note for our memories.
We hope you can come please RSVP to Dio or Jen (or better both)

This is the original notecard that we sent to invite for Jenny’s and my wedding. It has been a year of weddings. Yar Telling married Rayn Halfpint in July, 2008. One week later Yasmin Heartsdale married Teyonas Miklos on July 14th, 2008. And on September 12th, 2008 Ilandere Boa (aka Illy, a short time sister of mine in Yasmin’s family) married Shuggi Grunspan. It was at this wedding that Illy commented to me seeing Jenny and me dancing that she senses me being the next getting married. For me it was as if the scales fell from my eyes. Stupid me! I want her, and i want her married to me – Jenny, my slave!
I remember that I couldn’t wait to ask her. I invited her to dance at a romantic place in the clouds .. and asked her. And she hesitated a few seconds to tease me but it was a “Yes” or maybe a “Yes, Mistress”. Anyway we got engaged September 14th, 2008. From that day on, we began to plan our marriage. We became partners in SL September 30th, 2008. We had a lot to prepare. The place, the ceremony, the wedding cake, the dresses, the invitation and, and, and … We asked Yasmin to conduct the ceremony and she agreed. You may imagine that it wasn’t easy to find an appropriate date for it as we were on different timezones. But we found a date and it worked out well. We had a great wedding ceremony and party. Yasmin’s speech was touching and it will now be safed here:

Welcome dearest Family and friends,
what a precious gift we are brought here to witness and share in today. The ultimate gift of love, the gift of devotion, the gift of loyalty, and the gift of friendship.
We share in witnessing Jen’s gift of submission, her gift of friendship and of companionship. We share in witnessing Dio’s gift of Devotion, guardianship, protection, and guidance.
But this union is more precious and special because what is shared extends beyond the boundariess of Second Life, it envelopes the “hearts behind the pixels”, for there are real loving hearts behind the avatars here.
Jen’s devotion to her Mistress is the standard by which devotion should be measured. Diomita’s care and guidance is complete and without reservation.
If Jen is the standard of devoted submission, it is matched only by Dio’s loving attention and devoted ownership. Even in times of reprimand, the love that is between them fully surrounds them.
For Jen, this is an affirmation of what already exists, that Dio is her best-friend, her love, her companion and that she has done so much beyond what most in Second Life might expect in order to care for Jen, for her heart and her mind. We who surround them and know them, and especially their closest family, never tire of watching them enveloped in their own cocoon of love, respect, and complete and total trust.

We wanted no gifts, yet we got a gift – a honeymoon of one week in a private skybox which was set up by the family and the friends for us. It was a very special week. And during this week I also granted Jenny to dominate me the first time. We loved the skybox and when the week was over we asked every contributor to sell us the inventory. We got everything and kept the skybox over all these years. Yes, it has changed a bit over time, new pictures, new furniture, new plants, a dance floor roof, Jenny’s private cage, yet the general design of it is still the same as is the fireplace. We called it “Chez Maurer” and up until today it is where we retreat at night or spend time just talking and enjoying togetherness.

Today it is 5 years that I married Jenny. We both never thought that we would stay together that long. Even in RL 5 years is already quite a time to stay together. This blog is full of memories about the time that we spent together on our journey in Second Life. And these memories are part of our RL too. What is missing in our blog here so far are the pictures of our wedding. There’re dozens of pictures! I selected a few for our blog now.

Dio and Jenny at the altar during the ceremony

The wedding place October 24th, 2008

Exchanging the rings

The wedding party: Rayn, Yar, Yasmin, Jen, Dio, Tyra, Nic

Our dance at the wedding celebration

And today? We developed together on our journey in SL. Jenny brought out her dominant side and I began to submit to her first occasionally then more and more regularly. After my release of Yasmin’s collar it was just a matter of time and of consequence that I got collared by Jenny vice versa. So today we’re a domme couple enjoying our family and friends. We have developed rules and signs for the moment we submit to the other. And it is the mutual trust that allows us to let go fully and to enjoy from both sides of the leash. Thank you, my Ehesklavin, my wife, my slave and my owner for 5 wonderful years of married bliss.