April 21st – Diomita’s 6th collaring anniversary

Today, Easter Sunday, April 21st, marks my 6th official collaring day. The date was choosen quite arbitrarily. There was no collaring ceremony nor a particular reason, the day just fitted into our anniversary calendar that time. Jenny had been my slave, my married slave, my Ehesklavin since I collared her June 5th, 2008. We switched always ever since, I gave up control every once in a while and I remember in particular that after our wedding in October 2018, we switched for a day during our honeymoon. It was more a playful switching, more something to confirm our love for each other.

Things began to change when I was released by my former owner Yasmin in August 2011 and wore no collar at all for several months. Jenny convinced me to wear a collar again just for having the animations that came with it and as an extra symbol of our relation she owned this collar. We continued to switch every once in a while. She used the power that came with the collar wisely. She always prepared her plays with me in detail, she surprised me and she tried out different things, when she got in control. Our subs and slaves addressed her with Miss Jenny and when we switched, I did address her with Miss Jenny as well.

Some time in 2012, we changed our profiles stating that we own each other mutually. The subs and slaves had to address Jenny as Mistress Jenny and I do remember sitting with Jenny in our skybox one day and her request to be address with Mistress Jenny by me for when she’s in control. It was strange, felt odd, but worked fine and way better than I thought. Finally in Spring 2013 we fixed a collaring day for me and picked April 21st as mentioned above.

Our story continued and Jenny persistently began to demand her times in control. Still she planned everything in detail and my submission to her grew more and more. The tables were turned. And the lights were turned. It now was me getting green lights, getting allowed to control her. It now was me who was taken into red lights to strengthen my submission to Mistress Jenny.
Mistress tighthened the collar around my neck more and more. Instead of the partnering collar I got an extra collar to wear during my red lights first, then Mistress kept me in it also when I wasn’t in a red light. And finally this collar became my everyday collar and I got the thick Ehesklavin collar for red lights.
We have had Mistress’ “Ehesklavin” tattoo removed and she got a tattoo “Eheherrin” instead. I was wearing a tattoo from Mistress Jenny marking me as “Besitz”. That was removed as well and instead I was marked as “Ehesklavin”, Mistress Jenny’s Ehesklavin.

I confirmed my full and complete submission to Mistress Jenny on the occasion of our 8th wedding day in October 2016. Since then my submission to Mistress Jenny kept growing to my surprise as I thought it couldn’t grow anymore. And it is still growing. We still switch regularly and I try hard to surprise Mistress Jenny when she grants a green light. Yet our new balance of power is fully establish and either Mistress Jenny nor me do see it changing back ever again for the foreseeable future.

No blog entry without a picture. I made a little retrospective of these 6 years being collared by Mistress Jenny from April 2013 to today.

 

April 21st, 2019 – My 6th collaring anniversary: Mistress Jenny and Diomita in April 2013 (upper left) / Diomita in April 2014 (lower left) / Mistress Jenny April 2019 (upper middle) / Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita’s 8th wedding anniversary October 2016 (lower middle) / Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin March 2019 (upper right) / Ehesklavin Diomita pleasing Mistress Jenny April 2019 (lower right)

So today marks my 6th collaring anniversary. Way more then half of our time together I’m Mistress Jenny’s sub and Ehesklavin. And today I couldn’t be any prouder being owned by her.

Thank you for the bliss of being your slave, Mistress Jenny, your married slave, your Ehesklavin. I love you to bits, my love, my wife and also just in a different way my Eheslut and my property!

One decade – Jenny and Diomita married for 10 years

Today marks the 10th anniversary of Jenny’s and my wedding in Second Life. 10 years is a long time in real life and maybe even more in Second Life. Jenny and I had a great journey together, we share a lot of memories, we spent a large part of our free time together. We also changed with time, developed together.

Our dance at the wedding celebration

When we married October 24th, 2008, I was collared by Yasmin and Jenny was my collared slave (collared on June 5th, 2008), my Ehesklavin. I was released by Yasmin in 2011 and in 2012 Jenny convinced me to wear a collar again, her collar, and we became mutually owned. In 2013 we fixed a date for my collaring, just to have a another day to celebrate. We picked April 21st, 2013. In the course of 2014 – 2016 Jenny became more and more dominant and took control of me. That culminated at our 8th anniversary in 2016, where I finally fully submitted to her, becoming her Ehesklavin and she became Mistress Jenny for me. And my submission to Mistress even grew more during the last 2 years. Yet, we’re still mutual owned, partnered, a domme couple for most and I still claim Jenny as Mine, as my property and you might see her at my feet at times.

I wrote something in this blog at every of our wedding anniversaries so far and you can follow our time together and how we changed and developed together reading these entries:

2017 https://themaurers.me/2017/10/24/jenny-and-diomita-married-for-9-years/
2016 https://themaurers.me/2016/10/24/jenny-and-diomita-married-for-8-years/
2015 https://themaurers.me/2015/10/25/october-24th-ii/
https://themaurers.me/2015/10/24/october-24th/
2014 https://themaurers.me/2014/10/24/celebrating-my-6th-wedding-anniversary/
2013 https://themaurers.me/2013/10/24/diomita-and-jenny-maurer-5th-wedding-anniversary/
2012 https://themaurers.me/2012/10/21/october-24th-2012-4-years-married/
2011 https://themaurers.me/2011/10/24/october-24th-2011-third-wedding-anniversary/
2010 https://themaurers.me/2010/10/24/mrs-jenny-maurer-ehesklavin/
2009 https://themaurers.me/2009/10/23/one-year-wedding-anniversary/
2008 https://themaurers.me/2009/03/08/dios-1st-year-in-second-life/

We both were very happy during the last 10 years. We accepted the change around us and the change between us. And thus we are also very happy as we are now.
Mistress Jenny is enjoying and further strengthening her position and I’m happy and proud to be her Ehesklavin. As Mistress is also my collared property, she grants green lights. Then she’s at my feet and is Mine. The switching, although limited in time, might be one reason that keeps our relation exciting and that keeps up the strong desire for eachother.

Recent pictures of: Mistress Jenny and Ehesklavin Diomita / Diomita and her very owned Mistress, aka. Mine / Mrs. and Mrs. Maurer

Above all Jenny is my wife and partner and I am hers vice versa. Thank you for 10 years of blissful marriage, Jenny. I love you to bits!

 

Diary 2017 (33) Feb 28th – red light ended

Mistress Jenny and I took advantage of the opportunity to meet in the afternoon again Tuesday, February 28th, as our RL schedules allowed it. Mistress bought a new white latex lingerie outfit for me and she took her Ehesklavin out to The Secret House and to Domme a Domme wearing it. She truely enjoys exposing me as her property, her married slave and I get used to the fact that she does it, when it comes to her mind. And I should not only be proud of being owned by her, I am proud to be owned by her *smiles*.
Nonetheless, I submit to Mistress Jenny only, for everyone else my domme side will be up.

February, 28th: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita at TSH

February, 28th: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita at TSH

February, 28th: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita at DaD

February, 28th: Mistress Jenny with Ehesklavin Diomita at DaD

We had a relaxing afternoon and caught up again about RL as well as about SL issues. When it was time to log out, Mistress Jenny surprised me with ending the red light. Each red light takes me step further in my submission and I do enjoy the experience as well as I enjoy the experience of green lights. Thank you, Mistress Jenny, my Eheherrin.
February, 28th: Mistress Jenny visiting slave slut cecy at sNr

February, 28th: Mistress Jenny visiting slave slut cecy at sNr

Our slut cecy is still at Stones ‘N Rubber as a decorative statue. While I was leashed at Domme a Domme, Mistress visited our slut and controlled that she’s not flooding the sim there. Luckily the transformation into marble also stops the dripping *winks*. After Mistress Jenny had left I went quickly to Stones ‘N Rubber myself and took a picture of our slut as a statue and added some restrictions as a kind of a greeting.

February, 28th: Diomita visiting slave slut cecy at sNr

February, 28th: Diomita visiting slave slut cecy at sNr

Dio’s 9th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2017

Today is my 9th rezzing anniversary in Second Life – just incredible that I’m entering my 10th year as a part of this virtual world. SL has contributed a lot to my life during the last 9 years and I hope that I can spend a part of my free time for many more years in SL. For my anniversary I always write a longer blog post looking back to the last year, summarizing it and I try to look out a bit. Overall nothing has changed as I am still together with my beloved partner in SL, Jenny. We still live at our own homesim Mount Everest next to our neighbours Tyra (Tyra.Sciarri) and Virgo (Virgo.Babii) on one side and Sarah (Sarah.Fhang) and vero (vero.Hartmann) on the other side. We still have several subs and slaves in our family. We still like bondage and visit kinky places. And I still explore the beauty of Second Life on my exploring tours. But in detail a lot has happened!
Let’s start with our homesim. We had an accident end of February 2016 (Saturday mess) and the whole sim was a big big mess. Thanks to Linden Labs who provided a roll back. After the mess and the sim roll-back, I started with refurbising our island at Mount Everest and just after one week the work was done (Eurobrats Headquarter – work in progress (II) and Eurobrats Headquarters – refurbishment mainly done). Besides the new layout we won a lot of underground space with this refurbishment and I built a dungeon maze into it. During 2016 we noticed that the space above the dungeon wasn’t really used and honestly I wasn’t really happy with the big large rock after a while. So I refurbished the island again in December 2016 removing the rock and adjusting the underground dungeon maze. I also moved our private skybox a bit outside which allows to make separate settings in the viewer for it. Later we installed a “slut and slave wall” with a patio, which has a touch of the old Stonehaven patio, quite close to the landing point. And just recently we added the “Fetisch Club Chez Maurer” in the underground. Right now, we’re happy with the layout, but we might further develop our home this year.fccm1

We also had again some changes in our family. Our slave Nina aka Maurerien orja (snina93) left Second Life without any word. She left the family group and i can’t find her with the search anymore. We don’t know what happened and can only hope that she’s doing well. And also our slave Gebby aka Maurer’s sklavin (gebby) didn’t get online anymore since July 26th, 2016. We have no clue what happened. That people leave with no explanation is a clear downside of this virtual world, but nothing we can change unfortunately. We released Nina and Gebby her from our collar October 6th, 2016.

July 10th: Mistress Jenny and Diomita with slave Nina and sklavin Gebby at MD

The last picture I found with sklavin Gebby and slave Nina is from July 10th 2016 showing them with Jenny and me at MD

On the other side slave cecy (cecysumi) was collared as Maurer’s Aztec slave and slave Adarra (AdarraMorgan) was collared as Maurer’s Maple slave both on May 18th, 2016. And we collared Christa (christa.windlow) on July 2nd, 2016 as Maurer’s slavin C. Just lately we also have slave D (scarfdaniela) quite close to us and might collar her some day.20170128-slave-cecy-slave-adarra-slavin-cOver the last years Angelique literally grew as our niece, she persued her own way and her own way of roleplay. And more and more we became her aunts rather than her owners, providing a stable family and base for her just like in RL. Angelique was never officially released by us, and we love to have her around – as our niece nowadays. And of course we won’t refrain from educating her or even punish her for disobedience even nowadays (if needed). Angelique is and will always be our beloved niece and has a place at home. She was collared by Zoey (zolene) on November 20th, 2016.

November 20th: Zoey and Angelique after the collaring ceremony

November 20th: Zoey and Angelique after the collaring ceremony

As of today the family consists of the slaves Flo, cecy, Adarra and Christa, of sub Kitty Maurer and of our niece Angelique Maurer (though not collared by us anymore). slave Flo is our oldest slave now and she fills into this role very well and loves to be the head slave. We enjoy her presence, her reliability, her devotion and dedication to us. Hopefully she starts something like her fantasy “The Accountant” (part I to IV, part I see here) some time soon again. And Kitty? She’s still our’s and causes trouble and fun and provides interesting links and expierences. She also keeps us connected with our ex-slave Dana and with other people from the US who we meet only rarely. Thank you for being ours over all these years, Kitty.20170128-slave-flo-and-kitty

Writing the blog was also a major activity for me during the last year. I began to blog almost daily which is a real challenge but fun. I also read back myself quite often in the blog. And thinking of something to write about also inspires me to experiment, to try out new things, to build and last but not least to go simploring. In my 9th year I visited around 90 sims on my exploring tours. Second Life and the possibilities for creative people are amazing. The graphics are becoming better every year and the impressions are getting close to reality. Here I want to pick Mont Saint-Michel, which is already a classic sim and Furillen which is inspired by real places. And every season of the years brings  new sims and expierences. Just think of the magic that I found at Telrunya Winter, the lovely fall at It all starts with a smile or at Templeton Cove, think of a summer at Noelia, of Frisland, Hide&Seek, La Vie, Eclectica, Byrd Island, Binemust, and many others. And then there’s the art I could see in SL Evre, Cica’s library, artSpace UTSA, Ephemeral, Monochrome, All_Most Real, Keys and so many more. I visited some scary sims around Halloween like Woodbury Falls, Arranmore, Neverland, The Fallen and Halloween town. And I also explored some kinky sims of course like Bondage & Storage Project, Dreamshire, Black Mill, Headlights, Surrender Cove, S&L Slave Storage, Xaara, Lick ….20161105-furillen_017

We continued the enjoying bondage series. The slaves get a new themed outfit every month which is often the subject for the enjoying bondage picture of the month. But there were also other subjects for this series. I remember in particular the June 2016 entry “The ropes” where I tried out a new set of ropes on myself and I got some really nice pictures of me tied up.

Enjoying bondage June 2016: Diomita in Tight Rope (Shop Makiko) (3)

Enjoying bondage June 2016: Diomita in Tight Rope (Shop Makiko) (3)

The most important issue of my 9th year in Second Life was for sure my changing relation to Jenny. Our relation is constantly further developing and changing. In spring 2016 Jenny took more and more control and even a long green light that I got on the occasion of Jenny’s 8th collaring day on June 5th, 2106, didn’t stop this change of control. It was a slow change in mutual consent that was already ongoing for the last years. On our wedding anniversary, October 24th, we made it official as I said my vows submitting to Mistress Jenny and she said her vows confirming it. Mistress Jenny bought a new collar for me. It is thicker than our mutual jewelery collar but still jewelery. Mistress continues wearing the small jewelery collar, and I wear a thicker collar, Mistress Jenny’s collar, for everyday life.

October 23rd, 2016: The different 8th wedding anniversary (3)

October 23rd, 2016: The different 8th wedding anniversary (3)

Along with this major change our private skybox got a little refurbishment. The main part is now reflecting Mistress Jenny’s position and the decoration and pictures show her in control. That is where we begin our time together online every day and where we log out every day. Our private dungeon has been teared down as it wasn’t needed or used anymore. Instead I build an small annex to our skybox, that I use for green lights, when Mistress Jenny grants me controlling her and taking care of her sub side and her kink for being tied up, locked and controlled. Beside this major change we continue to own eachother mutally and this is not going to change at all. And Mistress Jenny also insists that I head the family although nothing will happen without her consent (actually we decided everything together for many years now). Nonetheless my submission to Mistress brought a lot of new experiences for me and for Mistress Jenny. We both enjoy that and it is ongoing. Thank you, Mistress Jenny.

December 1st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at our private skybox

December 1st: Mistress Jenny and Diomita at our private skybox

With my rezzday anniversary posts I always have at least one picture showing myself and the changes. In Second Life there’s no aging. As opposed to with the increasing quality of graphics we become more and more beautiful. Such a shame that we can’t transmit that to real life. In my last anniversary blog entry I reported about my new mesh body. This year the most visible change is my new thicker jewelery collar. The other change of this year is more intimate. Mistress and I wear several fitting tattoos, the rose on our right breasts together with “Dio’s” and “Jen’s”, a tattoo on our left shoulder blade saying “Dio’s wife” and “Jen’s wife” and a tattoo on our back saying “Diomita’s property” and “Jenny’s property”. We also both have an intimate tattoo. Mine was “Besitz”, being owned by Jenny, her’s was “Ehesklavin” being owned by me.

February 2017 entering my 10th year in SL - showing Mistress Jenny's collar and my Ehesklavin tattoo

February 2017 entering my 10th year in SL – showing Mistress Jenny’s collar and my Ehesklavin tattoo

In May 2016 Mistress Jenny added a tattoo on my right shoulder blade showing a stylized woman, the first sign of my submission to her as she doesn’t wear something correspondent. Then in December we got new intimate tattoos as our personal Christmas gift. We said, we both had a little surgery to remove the old tattoo’s. My intimate tattoo now says “Ehesklavin”, Mistress Jenny’s tattoo says “Eheherrin”. What a change considering that Jenny was my Ehesklavin for many years. And now I am her Ehesklavin. That completed my submission to Mistress Jenny and I am proud to be her Ehesklavin now.

Thank you all for making this world for me and for us. SL is first of all about people and it’s you all who make my and our SL what it is: Still going strong, still enjoyable and still exciting! It was a great 9th year in Second Life and I look forward to the 10th!
Love from Diomita
xoxoxoxox

Diary 2017 (16) Jan 27th – green light

Friday, January 27th, it was about high time for me to get a green light again. I planned to take my property, my very owned Mistress, after our Friday night party but either she didn’t want to be surprised to stay in control about the decision to grant a green light or Mistress was too eager herself for a green light. Anyway, when we met Friday afternoon she changed into her sleeveless corset and of Course I accepted the invitation and took control. Thank you, Mine.

Jan 27th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at DaD

Jan 27th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at DaD

I took my property to Domme a Domme. I wore the tag “Jenny’s Ehesklavin” and Mistress wore the tag “Diomita’s Eheherrin”. Some people noticed the role reversal between us and teased Mistress about it. And to be honest, Jenny looks just perfect at my feet.
I also took a picture of my perperty and me at The Bondage & Storage Project, but it was empty there. The hour we had together in the afternoon went by way too quickly. Friday night we had our regular party and I doubt that anyone noticed that I’m enjoying being in control – but I did 🙂

Jan 27th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at BSP

Jan 27th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at BSP

Green Light

Im December I had 2 posts about my red light (see “Red Light” and “Red Light (II)“). Just before Christmas, Mistress Jenny finally released me of the red light and she even exchanged my collar to the smaller partnering collar for Christmas. It has been a long red light that consolidated my submission to her. I became her “Ehesklavin” and consequently she’s my “Eheherrin”. We both had a minor surgery and got new intimate tattoos that reflect her and my position. That was our Christmas present for each other. I’m very happy, thank you Mistress Jenny.
But nonetheless I still own my Mistress and to keep that alive and present, Mistress Jenny grants green lights, where I am in control of her. These green lights are also necessary to satisfy Mistress Jenny’s submissive demands and her love for bondage and for being tied up.
On Christmas late night, Mistress Jenny exchanged my collar again to my thicker jewelery collar and granted a green light, which started Monday, December 26th.
After what I wrote above it is very obvious that first of all I selected something tight and restrictive for my owned Mistress. She got a new tight corset that also restraints her arms and that fits to the “Aphrodite Hood” that I got for her a few months ago (see here). Under it she wears a full black latex catsuit. In addition I selected the tag “Dio’s owned Mistress” for her. Tied up like this also her vision is restricted.

December 26th: Jenny's restricted view wearing the "Aphrodite Hood"

December 26th: Jenny’s restricted view wearing the “Aphrodite Hood”

I went to Bondage & Storage Project with Jenny for a photoshooting, then I took her to Mesmerize Dungeon and to The Secret House, not only to expose her but also to enjoy the feeling of having Jenny kneeling tied up and locked at my feet.

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December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at BSP

December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at BSP

December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at MD

December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at MD

December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at TSH

December 26th: Mistress Diomita with Jenny at TSH

That was a really relaxing 2nd Chistmas day afternoon.