Celebrating my 6(!)th wedding anniversary

Today marks my 6th wedding anniversary with Jenny. None of us could imagine that we would stay together such a long time and that we’re still eager for more. In these 6 years we spend our free time together and we talked more to eachother than most couples in RL might do. Jenny became my world, my slave, my slut sometimes too, she became my wife, my partner, and my domme. Most of all she’s my best friend and we share not only SL but also our everday life to some extent. There’s hardly a day we’re not in contact in one or the other way. I’ve written already a lot about us not only on the occasion of wedding and collaring days and it is not easy to come up with anything not written down here already. So for this anniversary I will just collect some excerpts from my previous anniversary blog entries together with some pictures.

24.10.2008 The wedding

“The third basic event was meeting Jenny. Right now I say it was “the” basic event. What began as a playfull session led quickly to cage her like I was caged by Goddess. She became my sub June 8th, 2008. She’s my slave, my sub, my best friend, my fucktoy, my slut, my pet. We developed a close relation and I am the most spoiled person in SL that I got her total devotion. Consequently we first partnered and then we married Oct, 24th 2008. The happiest and most important day so far in SL for me. Those knowing us know what we mean for eachother. More or less we’re one. Jenny, my wife, I love you to bits !!”
(excerpt from “Dio’s 1st year in Second Life Feb 11th 2009” – the very 1st entry into this blog – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2009/03/08/dios-1st-year-in-second-life/)

Dancing together at our wedding October, 24th, 2008

Dancing together at our wedding October, 24th, 2008

24.10.2009 1st Wedding anniversary

“One year with Jenny, my Ehesklavin, my partner, my wife, my fucktoy, my slut.
Can you imagine such an all-in-one person? I can because she’s mine.
Jenny – she’s a quiet and patient sub, she’s obedient, she’s following my rules, she accepted to be controlled and I do control her.
Jenny – she’s demanding, she’s mean, she’s makes evil plans, she’s adventurous.
Jenny – she’s my partner, my wife, my friend, the one at my side.
Jenny – she’s my slut, my fucktoy, my horny slave.
I look forward to every night that I can spent with you, my Ehesklavin.
I look forward to our second year as a couple in SL, my love.
I look forward to all the adventures we will expierence togehter.
Thank you for this year, Mrs. Jenny Maurer. I love you.”
(excerpt from “One year wedding anniversary” – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2009/10/23/one-year-wedding-anniversary/)

Dio's Ehesklavin

Dio’s Ehesklavin

24.10.2010 2nd Wedding anniversary

“Particularly the last months of our partnership were coined of a deep mutual understanding, we’re aware of our strengths and weaknesses. We’re very sure about eachother. Jenny is devoted to me more than ever – and I am devoted to her in another way. We’re enjoying eachother and we still explore eachother as well as we explore SL together. Lately we also spend nights just relaxing playing games like Greedy or BondZee. We often go to Venustus, a lesbian dancing club. We met quite a lot new people there and made new friendships.
Second Life is simple good to us – and makes us happier and more content in our RL’s. Just as it should be. Thank you, Mrs. Jenny Maurer, for the last two years.”
(excerpt from “Mrs. Jenny Maurer – Ehesklavin” – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2010/10/24/mrs-jenny-maurer-ehesklavin/)

Jenny Maurer, Ehesklavin October, 2010

Jenny Maurer, Ehesklavin October, 2010

24.10.2011 3rd Wedding anniversary

“I am blessed and spoiled that I have her at my side. And it is even better knowing that the feelings are mutual. We’re both far from being perfect but we accept our weaknesses and the mistakes we make. What else can I say but
Thank you for your devotion and dedication
Thank you for your obedience
Thank you for the time we had
Thank you for all the fun we shared
Thank you for holding me tightly when I need a shoulder to cry
Thank you for lending your ear when I need someone to listen
Most of all – Thank you for you love.
I look forward confidently into our future.

You own my heart, Mrs. Jenny Maurer. I love you!”

(excerpt from “October 24th, 2011 Third Wedding Anniversary” – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2011/10/24/october-24th-2011-third-wedding-anniversary/)

My Ehesklavin Jenny Maurer, 2011

My Ehesklavin Jenny Maurer, 2011

24.10.2012 4th Wedding anniversary

“We share most of our spare time together und thus this SL relation goes far beyond pixels. Jenny is part of my life, my love for her is real, the memories we share are also part of our RL.

A few weeks ago I submitted to Jenny. I accepted her as my owner without any restrictions. And she locked the collar around my neck making me hers. There is no real date, no real collaring date, it just happened step by step. Thank you, Jenny!  So today we’re not just partners, we also own eachother in the bdsm part of our relation. I wear Jenny’s collar with pride as she wears mine. We submitted to eachother. And we’re stuck together now (well, haven’t we been before? *giggles*).”

(excerpt from “October 24th, 2012 – 4 years married” – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2012/10/21/october-24th-2012-4-years-married/)

Dio and Jenny, October 2012

Dio and Jenny, October 2012

24.10.2013 5th Wedding anniversary

“And today? We developed together on our journey in SL. Jenny brought out her dominant side and I began to submit to her first occasionally then more and more regularly. After my release of Yasmin’s collar it was just a matter of time and of consequence that I got collared by Jenny vice versa. So today we’re a domme couple enjoying our family and friends. We have developed rules and signs for the moment we submit to the other. And it is the mutual trust that allows us to let go fully and to enjoy from both sides of the leash. Thank you, my Ehesklavin, my wife, my slave and my owner for 5 wonderful years of married bliss.”
(excerpt from “Diomita and Jenny Maurer – 5th wedding anniversary” – https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/diomita-and-jenny-maurer-5th-wedding-anniversary/)

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Dio and Jenny, October 2013

24.10.2014 6th Wedding anniversary TODAY

This picture is a gift from rona. She made it from two pictures that I published recently on this blog. I really do like it a lot. It expresses a lot and you can build your own story about it. Mine is how often I think of my wife, even when I’m out exploring other sims. Thank you for the gift, rona.

Anniversary by rona potter, October 2014

Anniversary by rona potter, October 2014

I have nothing to add to all what I’ve written in the years before – just: “Happy wedding anniversary, Jenny. I love you!”

Diomita Maurer
October,24th 2014

Delilah collared 3 years

Today is the 3rd anniversary of Delilah Maurer’s collaring and how the time flies. When Delilah got closer to us, we were just moving to Mount Everest. She was very patient during these days while we were busy building and creating our home and her collaring was the first event we celebrated on our new island.

Delilah was our huntress first as she loves to use the bow and arrows for hunting. Over the years with us she revealed her sensitive and submissive side more and more until she became our concubine. You can sense that she’s able to dive deeply into her second life and the scenery. Delilah also loved the ballet academy of tittia, she really misses it. Giving lessons there revealed another Delilah, demanding, passionately yet still very sensitive she is a natural when it comes to coaching others and getting them to work hard.

More recently Delilah shared some on line stories with us and all of them expressed the same theme. Delilah it seems is susceptible to hypnosis and we have implanted some very strong controlling trigger words that we do use on her from time to time.

Delilah Maurer (delilah.ormidale) collared July 20th, 2011

Delilah Maurer (delilah.ormidale) collared July 20th, 2011

Delilah’s RL has not allowed her to get online often lately and she’s having a tough time. We wish you all the best, Delilah and we look forward seeing you inworld again – and then we will celebrate together.
HAPPY 3rd COLLARING DAY, Deli!!! You make us both very happy.

love Dio and Jen

6 Years

6 years ago I was allowed out of the cage I had been kept in during my trial to kneel before Diomita.

I was given the chance to accept and wear her collar or take the last chance for freedom. No Contest.

I wear my collar with pride and the 6 years at the feet of Diomita has flown by. Sure we have grown as a couple and our relationship has changed over this time but Diomita is always the number 1 and will remain so. Even though I am on vacation over 4,000 Miles away I still feel close to Diomita and her presence with me. Ask me again will I accept the collar and I would repeat. No Contest.

Thank you for all the great time we share.

Love Jen

xxxxx

June 5th, 2014: Jenny collared 6 years

June 5th, 2014: Jenny collared 6 years

Today it’s 6 years that I collared Jenny as my slave. We both didn’t forsee how we developed since that day. We partnered and married in SL soon after on Oct 24th, 2008. And we grew as a couple and also our family of subs grew. Jenny became not only “first” slave but soon also domme to our brats. After my release of Yasmin Jenny took more and more control of my submissive side until we became a domme couple collared mutually to eachother. We’re still quite different in our style and in what we enjoy on how we act, Jenny is often more relaxed and playful than I am, while I do think too much and am too considerate sometimes. But together we are awesome.
I can’t be happier or more proud of owning my partner and wife Jenny. Thank you for your love, dedication and endless devotion, Jenny. I look forward to many anniversaries to come.

Love Dio

xxxxxx

 

Celebrating my 1st collaring day

It is well known by now that Jenny and I own eachother mutually. After my release of Yasmin’s collar it took a while for me to wear anything around my neck again. But then I missed the animations that come with the collar and I was used to the chat commands. It was no surprise that my Ehesklavin, wife and domme during green lights demanded ownership of this first hidden collar and thus we became mutually owned during 2012
(see also https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2012/04/09/about-my-collar/).
Jenny’s ownership of me extended with time and even if the hierarchie between us and in particular towards our subs and slaves didn’t change I accepted her ownership more and more. We never fixed a day for my collaring. In fact it was more than 2 years ago now according to this diary blog. Nonetheless in April last year I somehow submitted fully to Jenny and we fixed a day, April 21st, 2013. She and i agreed on certain rules so that we still can tease eachother and take charge when it is the right time doing. For example after a long time domming it can be really relaxing not to be in charge. But the main rule is that we accept eachothers ownership and won’t submit to anybody else even in play – and if we do we know about the consequences *grins*. And still we might escape some time for a roleplay where we both sub to someone.

Mistress Jenny with her Besitz Diomita and Angel and slave

Mistress Jenny with her Besitz Diomita and Angel and slave

Since April 21st, 2013 Jenny just takes what is hers when she needs or demands it and I do the same. We care for eachothers needs. My pet name for Jenny is “Ehesklavin” … and she choose “Besitz” as hers for me. Besitz is a German word for property. Mistress Jenny locks a vixen collar around my neck when she takes control. And it does show my nickname on it.

Mistress Jenny's Besitz

Mistress Jenny’s Besitz

To shorten it: Today I am celebrating my 1st collaring day.
Thank you Mistress Jenny
I love you!

Is it really 6 years?

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I joined SL on 19th March 2008 That seems like a long time to look back in numbers but feels like a it has been a lot shorter due to all the wonderful people I have met during this time.

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My first interest in SL was to explore the bondage exploits and themes available in a safe environment where I could live out my fantasies and learn about things I never suspected existed. Very luckily for me I met somebody who fitted perfectly with me and the rest is history, However what I cannot say often enough is that Diomita has brought  a smile to face every day since I have known her . In fact the friends and family that we keep close to us help contribute to the great time that we share together.

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This week we went to a wedding at Jades Wedding Venue where for personal reasons the service did not occur. The setting was beautiful as you can see and it reminded me of just how lucky I have been over the past six years. Over this time my Domme side has become very much stronger but I have not forgotten how lovely that sound of the final click is.

So thank you everyone and lets all keep enjoying our sexy Secret Life.

Love

Jenny Maurer  (Laylady Lay)

And yes I would do it all again

Angelique Maurer, collared 2 years

Angelique Maurer
Today we celebrate our niece’s 2nd collaring anniversary – time flies. It seems like yesterday that Angelique came to our homesim, greeted us respectfully and stood shyly a little bit aside watching and observing us. No surprise that we became curious about her. Angelique’s way to roleplay, her aspire for perfectness … combined with her.. “accidents” conquered our hearts quickly. According to our and her age we adopted her as our niece and began to support her further education. Angelique wants to become a true lady, yet she lacks manners and behavior sometimes. We sent her to the best schools, and she spoiled us with good grades. But then, all of a sudden her bratty side comes through again and all the efforts seem to be in vain again. Nonetheless, looking back at these 2 years now, there’s progress. Angelique cares for our home, she dusts, she gives tours to visitors, she serves drinks and does everything a good girl should do to help her aunts. In addition we’re spoiled by her love … and we do get particular services, of which I won’t report here.

3 views of our Angelique

3 views of our Angelique

Angelique is always caring for her appearance, her clothing and is a real beauty. Some are just smitten by looking at her and we can fully understand that. She has a weakness not just for her aunts but for any mature lady who knows good manners. That impresses her. And if someone is able to read her face and to reveal her little secrets, she will be the best girl you can imagine. Just be wary of her brattiness *winks*.

We are happy to have her around us, our gem, our niece. She enriches our Second Life. Thank you for being our sweet niece. Happy collaring day, Angelique Maurer.

Dio’s 6th year in Second Life Feb 11th, 2014

Today I’ll turn 6 years old in Second Life. It has been a year of slow changes, no dramatic changes yet my Second Life developed.

What could I do in here?

What could I do in here?

Let’s begin with our home in SL. We still have our homestead, no movement this year and we like the stability and the base our home provides to us and the family and friends. Tyra (Tyra.Sciarri) and Virgo (Virgo.Babii) on one side and Sarah (Sarah.Fhang) on the other side are still our neighbours. It’s great to have them close.
Inspired by visits to other sims we remodelled our part of Mount Everest. We added grass, flowers, trees and some pathways. We created a new lounge with a pergola. “It” (Queen.Takacs) had some technical problems and her world became literally pink. It almost destroyed her fun coming to SL. She could solve the problem luckily after a while and we built a new pit close to the new lounge for her and locked her down there. Now she has a lot of time to recover from this hard time and maybe she catches a view on our feet sometimes. We built a new dungeon and tore down the Strict Ballet Acedemy, we removed the guest house and added some more cells to “The Keep”. Furtheron we changed the Beach Disco. The weekly Friday night parties are a fix part of our SL (as well as of our RL of course). We do have a great time there and Virgo provides great music for us and she adjusts the program according to the theme. We first thought we have to built and create it newly from the scratch but then we found a great ready built outdoor disco and modified it so that it fits to us.
Over all our island lost its desert character and became greener. It’s not the beautiful landscape that some have created in SL but it is ours and we did it at a resonable prim count. In addition Sarah did a remodelling of her island too. It has become a flowerful oasis and provides places just to sit down and enjoy the atmosphere. We use the patio behind her house facing the lake quite regularly for our bondage sessions.

We celebrated several anniversaries last year. Jenny and I had our 5th wedding anniversary, something really rare in SL and even for RL it is not a given. I really feel blessed. And also our brats and closer friends could celebrate anniversaries. Regarding our collared brats “It” , Delilah (Delilah.Ormidale), Danii (Danii. Szydlowska) and Angelique (Angelique.Teskat) nothing has changed but they all had celebrated another year wearing our collar. Thank you all for your devotion and dedication to us. There’s enough to read in this blog about them, no need to repeat it here.
Dana (Dana.Drezelan) had her 3rd collaring day on December 18th. Again she explored something new last year and became a cow at DZone. Another experience she made, she was milked all day and Kitty enjoyed getting her fresh coffee cream every day. Dana gave birth to a calf at DZone and then was released there. We sold Dana to Claven (Claven.Albatros) now just the day after her 3rd collaring anniversary as our island would be too small for a herd of stock.
Kitty (Santana.Thibedeau) was naughty watching ponies for a while last year. She freed Hu-mares at SnR (Stones and Rubber) just for fun and loitered around in the according sims like FFF (Frilly Filly Farm). And thus she made friends over there and got drawn into the scene more and more. And although Kitty fought the thought of becoming a pony in SL ever and insisted that she went there just to watch, the unexpected happened and she became a pony. She got the best gear available and two friends who train her – Betty (bettylatexlover.resident) and Merjeni (merjeni.resident). Good luck, pony Kitty, win many prizes for us!
We released subtittia (Mistress.Cuttita) who had not much time to spend on SL due to her RL and is now exploring on her own again where to turn her SL to, when she finds the time for SL. Tittia is still close and always welcome to us of course.
We collared Flo (florence.riddler) and Fae (Fae.Howlett) on November 29th, 2013.
Fae is my former subsister and now the 2nd niece who we adopted. She was our sub when she and I were both owned by Yasmin. She had longer phases of absence to SL and returned now. We provide her the stability of a family, the base from where she can start her journeys and of course we keep her in bondage and gagged every once in a while.
Flo, our little doctor slave was first our kidnapee but then we kept her and the Stockholm syndrome did the rest. We enslaved her. With such a large family it’s good to have a doctor close and for us alone.
Welcome to the family Flo and Fae.

For me family is not limited to our collared brats. The family is more. We have some very close friends that are also sort of family for us. Beside our neighbours Tyra, Virgo and Sarah I want to mention Argi (Argi.Boa) here. Argi has been with us all over my last year in SL, still uncollared but nonetheless part of us now. Arka (Arkahelle.Janus) spent a lot of her time with Danii making one of her wishes come true, and recently Nirvana (Nirvana.Elan) appears more and more and fits in well,  Thank you for being with us. And I want to mention Claven who is a friend of mine since my first days in SL. She’s an unfailing source of ideas, a good dominant adviser and just a wonderful friend. Thank you, Claven.

Over the last year I tried to keep our blog alive and I wrote a lot about the things we do. We started the “Enjoying Bondage” series with one picture per month. The series gives reason to at least one bondage night or one particular bondage or anything related to that once a month. For me the blog has become a memory book where I read myself sometimes and smile about myself or about the good time I had and have. I lost mostly all contact to the old crowd of Yasmin but the memories are kept alive and every once in a while I stumble over things that remind me about this time of my SL or I meet someone (or a reborn avatar) of our old greater family. SL still keeps somethings to explore every day be it new people who I meet or be it new sims to discover.
I met Rona (ronapotter.resident) at “The Secret House”, a club we often stay just to chill a bit. Rona made some nice picture collages for us and she inspired me to create something myself. And I finally began to uplaod pictures to deviantArt.  So instead of the yearly portrait of myself to document how I changed my appearance in SL for this anniversary I made something different that not only shows how I look but also covers my relation to Jenny (laylady.lay).

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As mentioned above we celebrated our 5th wedding day last year. We are collared to eachother and we switch back and forth. During the last year Jenny got more and more familiar in her role as my owner. And I can tell that she keeps me on my toes and she knows how to tease me. Nonetheless she still has her place at my feet too. We have a very rare D/s relation where we both can enjoy both sides of the leash. I personally think that we keep up the desire for eachother also by trying to develop something new for eachother with every session we have. We also developed rituals that are now part of my everyday life. We’re connected in many ways. Thank you Jenny, my world, slave, wife and owner for everything you do for me and for the family!

Diomita's  and Jenny's Gallery

Diomita’s and Jenny’s Gallery

Dear family, dear friends, let me heartfully thank you all for your love and support. I wouldn’t be here without you. I wouldn’t be “Dio” without you. I couldn’t relax and enjoy SL without you. Thank you all for a great 6th year in Second Life. Many thanks!

Retro Party

Tonight we had a particular theme for our Friday night party. As Arka’s (2007, Feb 10th), Argi’s (2007, Feb 12th), Florence’s (2009, Feb 13th), Tyra’s (2008, Feb 16th) and my rezzday (2008, Feb 11th) are coming up we changed into our shapes and clothes of 2007/2008 .. no mesh and hardly sculpties, but still not that bad at all! And we had fun hadn’t we?…. So just for the records, here are some impressions.

Arka 2007

Arka 2007

Fae 2008

Fae 2008

Tyra 2008

Tyra 2008

Virgo 2008

Virgo 2007

Angelique 2008

Angelique 2008

Argi 2007

Argi 2007

Dio 2008

Dio 2008

Sarah 2008

Sarah 2008

Jenny 2008

Jenny 2008

Two Cuties

Our vicitm Maurer’s It aka. qt (Quen.Takacs) had some technical problems last year as her SL-world became literally pink. It almost destroyed her fun coming to SL. The pictures taken from her screen, that she showed us were awful. She could solve the problem luckily after a while and was so exhausted that she needed recovery. We built a new pit close to the new lounge for her and locked her down there. Now she has a lot of time to recover from this hard time and being in permanent forced mouselook maybe she catches a view on our feet sometimes (also see https://themaurers.wordpress.com/2013/12/17/dear-diary-5/).
Qt celebrated her 3rd enslavement day on New Years day. What a time spent in bondage. Thank you qt!

Maurer’s cutie aka. Danii (Danii.Syzdlowska) had not as much time with us online lately and was also caught by other ways to spend her free time (see at her blog http://daniiszydlowska.blogspot.de/2013/10/unpredicted-consequences-of-new-computer.html). We had her nicely tied up in strict bondage over a latex catsuit and in a severe hood. Thus she could focus on the more essential issues during the more rare time that she spent with us. For the holiday season Danii was released from her bondage – originally it was intended more to be just a break for her. But now she asked for a bit more time being unrestricted to explore and to roam and to tend to another passion, a passion that we were not aware of before. Or maybe it is just becoming a passion now because of Danii’s new graphic card, about what she is so excited: Pictures. Surprise – Danii has a deviantart account for already two years now. And she posted just a few pictures. I added the URL to the other links section.

Yesterday Jenny and I were busy in other sims as our family began to gather at home. When we arriced home we found Danii laying naked on the bars of qt’s very personal pit. What an eye candy for qt! Danii and qt know eachother for a very long time reaching back to a time before I rezzed in Second Life. Danii is Maurer’s cutie. When you speak “qt” how does it sound? Yes, like cutie. So there we go: Two Cuties!
Danii not only gave qt an eye candy – she also made a picture of the Scene. The result is quite erotic in my personal view.

Two cuties: teasing... (by Danii Szydlowska

Two cuties: teasing… (by Danii Szydlowska)

Dear Diary

The season is busy as every year, even more we enjoy our free time at SL to wind down and to have fun being just ourself. So I wanted to share a bit of this season so far. Our just recently collared slave Flo got herself into trouble by being rebellious. I tested with her a new writing desk where she had to repeat given sentences. The desk’s script is mean as it recognizes cut and paste and thus slave had to type letter by letter and of course all mistakes were counted. She seemed not to be very amused and revolted. Now she’s enjoying her hood again and has time to think about her behavior.

Slave Flo punished for her revolt

Slave Flo punished for her revolt

At our party last Friday we had the theme “Bondage”. That fitted well as our slave Flo was already restricted in her hood. And then Danii came over on her currently more rare visits to SL. She could enjoy kneeling next to slave Flo and of course I made a picture.

Slave Flo and Danii at our Friday Night "Bondage" party

Slave Flo and Danii at our Friday Night “Bondage” party

What else is going on? Tyra, or better expressed Miss Tyra right now, is enjoying to keep Virgo tied up. Hence the theme for last Friday’s night. And as Miss Tyra was off for two days due to RL obligations she asked Jenny and me to take care a bit of Virgo. That was just what we needed. As slave Flo is punished for her revolt and encased in her hood, she can’t keep the house clean and we stay more inside now as the island covered with snow. So we put Virgo to work. One upside is that maid Virgo can much easier reach even higher boards.  Doesn’t she look like a very good maid?

Introducing the new maid Virgo

Introducing the new maid Virgo

Besides that all we’re enjoying visiting “The Secret House” sometimes or just to chill at home. Monday night we teased our slave qt aka. Maurer’s It (queen.takacs). She is permanently locked and bound in her very own pit, restricted to mouselook and with restricted hearing and talking. To give her at least an eye candy we love to stand on the pit while we chat.

An usual family night - Jenny, slave Flo, Dio and Fae - at The Secret House

An usual family night – Jenny, slave Flo, Dio and Fae – at The Secret House

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An usual family night – slave Flo, Jenny, Fae, Dio – at qt’s pit

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Diomita and Jenny Maurer enjoying a dance

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Dana Maurer 3rd collaring anniversary

That’s it for now? No. Tomorrow, December 18th, marks Dana Maurer’s (Dana.Drezelan) 3rd collaring day. We’re happy to have this adventurous brat in our family. She always happy to try out something new. When we collared her 3 years ago we all were not sure how it might work out with the timezone difference between her and us (6 hours). Thank you for your submission, your devotion and your faith, Dana. Happy collaring day!! And her next adventure is planned. But that’s something to report about soon.

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