An unexpected event

13 May 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about family members, about our homeplaces, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , ,

Last Wednesday my dear friend Tyra asked me to lock her and Virgo. She had a free wish from Virgo so she took the opportunity to get into trouble with her. How could I resist? But it shouldn’t be just locking … so where to put them? Sarah, our neighbor, has recently refurbished  her island from the scratch and added a nice house with a large porch where she installed a patio that reminded us a bit of the old Stonehaven patio. The right place to lock and store my victims. We had some fun watching them and stripping them, two real beauties …. these long legs! Jenny and I went shopping and found two nice latex discipline suits to encase both – and so we did. The wall still needed some more victims and we all had a lovely Thursday night chatting and having nice banter around various victims. Sarah seemed to be pleased having her patio and “the wall” filled.


Friday nights are party nights for the Eurobrats and Virgo is our disc jockey. So I had to move her to the dance floor in her latex bag. And thus the theme for the night was set – bondage gear or come as you are. That Friday Jenny felt in a domme mood and that fitted well with my mood so I took my cuffs on and granted a green light. Then Jenny decided to give my keys to Sarah …. Well, I had a restricted night as Sarah took advantage. But that wasn’t all. At the end of the party I had to take Virgo back to the patio and when she logged off ….. Sarah locked not only me but also Jenny at her wall.
This unexpected event isn’t over yet and was just the start of a great weekend.

Just something inbetween

07 May 2012 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Right now I can’t login. Apparently SL has gone down unexpectedly. No SL, no SL homepage, no marketplace. Time to write a little bit about the ongoings within the Eurobrat family.
– I wrote already about Kitty’s return. I decided that Kitty may have another start and I hope that she will never again vanish without warning.
– tittia’s RL is keeping her from going online. RL is always priority but of course we miss her. We get applications for the Strict Ballet Academy every once in a while but without instructors the academy remains closed.
– Puppe (Dana) is transformed to a puppy. We do enjoy the rare times we see her due to the time difference. She had some issues with the gear that prevents her friends to chat with her via IM. Luckily she found a workaround and I still hope that we can get a feedback of the builder of the gear why it is not working as it should. Well you can always say, voila it works as puppies can’t chat.
– vanessa is vanessa. She comes online at midnight every once in a while when we’re just on our way to bed. Nonetheless her devotion is amazing. And every time she sees a new face being with us she asks “A new sister?”
– qt, Maurer’s it, is still nicely locked down and dreams of escape. She never gets tired to warn those who come close to us but most people simply don’t take her warning to run as fast as they can seriously. Well, we can always say they have been warned.
– Delilah had to reduce her online presence a bit due to her RL. That prevents her from instructing at the ballet academy. Right now she’s assigned to keep our house clean being our first maid. We simply like the idea of bound maids that work for us. It is not our idea and the place “bound maids” is down since quite a while and the new place for the maids isn’t working yet. With the help of Danii we installed some objects which attract the dust in the house and which need dusting every once in a while. Of course this work can only be done with a dustergag.
– That leads to Danii who worked on her scripts after being released from her humare life. And she helped to develop the dusting system for the house.
– Our youngest family member, Angel, is the most active of all of us right now. She brought some new kinks and new roleplay to our SL and we, her aunts, enjoy teasing and humiliating her as much as she enjoys the other side of the leash.

And Jenny and I? We still enjoy ourselves, our togetherness, we make plans and laugh a lot and have fun. Friday nights are still a highlight of our everyday life in SL and RL. So overall everything is just fine although RL is preventing some of us to get online as much as before right now.

Kitty’s back to SL

16 Apr 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , ,

Kitty is back home after more than 4 months hiatusSunday, April 15th, our Kitty returned to SL after more than 3 months being missed. Just the night before Jenny and I had talked about our slaveboy aka. Kitty and that we’re going to remove him as our owned sub. We didn’t hear anything from him during his absence and every attempt to get a sign of life failed. By strange coincidence Kitty returned just a few hours later. Kitty has been very occupied by her RL and needed to protect herself from the addiction that SL provides to us, as a permanent temptation to escape from our real life problems. I always say and confirm that RL has priority for all of us in SL. And Kitty’s RL took all of her attention as she told us. We do really understand that.
But I personally also believe that it is a question of respect, to let those who care for you, know what is going on. I can’t accept that there’s no time within weeks and months to send a short email or to go online 5 minutes to send an offline IM. Thus a return like Kitty’s causes ambivalent feelings for me. There’s the joy and happiness that a good friend and submissive is back, the relief that he’s healthy and there’s also the feeling of abuse and of disrespect. I feel abused as being someone not important enough to inform but good enough to be here in SL to have fun when my sub decides to contact me again: “Hello, I’m back, let’s have fun together”. And I know that I sound harsh and hurt – and I am. Anyway this blog is our diary for SL and in this sense this entry had to be written. Kitty is not the first who left us without a word then returned and no doubt she won’t be the last. But Kitty/Santana is the first who has been so close over years that I really need time to get over this experience and to decide how to go on with her.

About my collar

09 Apr 2012 3 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: ,

Those who are close to me in SL might have noticed that I wear a new piece of jewelery for a few weeks. In fact after my release from Yasmin I missed the animations that were hidden in my collar. So I bought a new collar and hid it in my body so that I could use the scripts. Knowing my wife, there couldn’t be any other owner of this collar than her, and she got her wish fulfilled. I began to wear the collar visible around my neck during a green light phase. I never made a secret about my sub side. It is there, not as strong as my Domme side but also not to be neglected. I personally think it gives me the opportunity to recharge when I sub. And I learn from own experiences. The collar around a sub’s neck is a strong symbol. At least that’s how I see it and my subs do know that too well. It is a sign of being owned and devoted. It is a sign of being controlled and no longer self determined. That is how I saw the collar of Yasmin around my neck. That is how I see the collar around Jenny’s neck and around the necks  of my subs. So when I’m wearing a collar myself now again, what does it symbolize for me but being owned and not self determined? In fact it does exactly mean that I’m owned and not totally self determined. Owned by my wife and Ehesklavin Jenny. Not self determined as she has a say in all family affairs and does co-own my subs. Owned in particular when I grant a green light and give control to her. But then it is also different as I determine the duration of a green light, it is different as Jenny will always be my slave first, it is different as the family hierarchie isn’t changed at all (despite green lights).    Wearing the collar in public now reflects my deep trust in my wife and that our subs  do understand the little difference between the collar around my neck and around theirs. Wearing it in public does also mean that I am proud of it, proud not to hide my sub side and proud about who does own this side of me first.


The picture above is a collage from my recent trip to NYC. I want to thank Jenny for her patience with me regarding my collar.

4 years 19th March 2012

18 Mar 2012 3 Comments

by jennymaurer in about family members, anniversary blog entries, Exploring sims in Second Life, Uncategorized Tags: , ,

Has it been four years already?

I want to do something a little different for my 4th year since my rez day celebrations.

Anybody reading this blog regularly can predict what I would normally say so I will keep that short and later on.

What makes SL the place to spend a lot of our waking moments?

Of course you have to say the people and the escape from RL, but to make it work there has to be something that keeps it fresh, different and even new.

I have spoken before about how a lot of places have disappeared in the past and for a time it felt that SL was shrinking especially in the BDSM world. So it came as a big surprise when I found a gateway to new worlds. I found it with one of my hobbies which is looking through profiles. Some are very entertaining. An example of this is one person I came across just recently at Domme a Domme. Her avatar was 24 days old, she had no payment info and was a member of the group which costs to join. Her words in her profile? “ Stop asking me if I am an ALT”.,,,, If you don’t want to be asked then stop making it obvious. ( Smiles)

Anyway, I was looking through random picks and found a place I have not visited before. I didn’t expect much but I was in for a pleasant surprise.

Here is the LM

http://slurl.com/secondlife/Denholme%20Field/115/152/66

There may be a landing point so I took a picture to help describe what you will find there.

Inside the store to my right is a shop. You will see glass doorways. If you are wearing a relay one of the doors will take you to a very good demonstration of how RLV works. There are some example traps on short timers and it will explain how RLV can make SL very exciting for those who like traps or transformations.

You will need an #RLV folder so if you need help with that then Marine Kelley describes it in her blog ( Marine is one of the main developers of RLV and her restraints are by far the best)

http://realrestraint.blogspot.co.uk/2008/10/shared-outfits-tutorial-part-2.html?zx=26a4ca6cdf8bff90

Once you are familiar with RLV, and wear a relay then to my left is garden that is filled with the same glass doors. They are gateways to many sims that use RLV to enhance the experience and for me a lot of new places to visit in the future.

But SL can be a lonely place on your own, especially with traps about. The life we live here is enhanced a 1,000 fold when you share it with good friends.

I have the best friend I could ever wish for in my Mistress, owner and partner Diomita. Together we have a varied collection of family and friends who we enjoy to the full and they make our life in SL very rich. They have helped to keep SL fresh and exciting as we can hardly plan the night ahead let alone the week.  However we have some things we would like to plan and one of those is a short SL break together on a personal adventure. If we are off map or not in contact then be assured it is something we have wished for, for a long time.

Before I finish this entry I have something else to share. I have finally found something that has given me a special power. The outfit I wear in the first picture is from XTC. I have found that when I wear it my hands suddenly become full with keys, (winks). So you may see me wearing it a lot, but not too much to wear it out.

Yes even after 4 years I still find SL has everything to keep me here for a long time to come.

Love to you all

Jenny Maurer.

xxxxxxxxxxx

Anniversary party

10 Nov 2011 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about our homeplaces, anniversary blog entries Tags: , , , , , , , ,

On November 4th we had our belated 3 years wedding anniversary party. We are very happy and pleased that many of our friends came over to celebrate with us and to have fun. Here are some pictures from the party for you to enjoy. The pictures were taken by our Delilah, thank you. And if you enjoy dancing, relaxing and chatting you’re invited to come to our weekly Friday night party at our beach disco at 9 PM GMT / 1 PM SLT. Music is provided by our DJ Virgo Babii.

Upper row: Claven Albatros, Alexander Chapman, Justy Boa
Lower row: Kitty Maurer (Santana Thibedeau), Tyra Sciarri, Virgo Babii

Upper row: Voltek Atansoff, Koshka Kira, Delilah Ormidale, Sarah Fhang
Lower row: Party impression

Upper row: Queen Takacs (kneeling), Diomita Maurer, Jenny Maurer
Lower row: Party impressions

Thank you all for coming and making it a great party!
Love from Diomita and Jenny Maurer

Autumn Break and belated Celebrations

21 Oct 2011 2 Comments

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries, Uncategorized Tags: , ,

Next Monday Diomita and I will have been partnered for 3 years. I have heard a lot of people say that this is a long time for SL. I would agree with that and what makes it more special is the fact that we have spent a lot of time together during those three years and we both log in daily.
I can’t begin to explain what clicked between us but it seems that we get along very well and we understand eachother in thoughts and needs. So for us the 3 year anniversary will be a special occasion.
Unfortunately for us it falls in the Autumn break and we are both away on Monday. Diomita is away until Saturday and I will be visiting family then work again during the week. We both look forward to our Friday night dance with the brilliant Virgo playing the tunes and we decided that to celebrate properly we should re arrange everything until Friday 4th Nov. We have some plans for that night and we will let everybody know soon. It will involve great music, a lovely location on the beach and the best people in SL. So if you know us well enough to read this blog then we hope to see you there.

In the lead up to our break we have been having a bit of fun with our family. We would like a family of picture of everybody wearing black latex and restraints. If we get everybody together that would be a blessing so if you see our girls dressed like this you know why. Again the release date might coincide with the 4th Nov or it may not depending on how good Diomita is at finding her set of keys.

One last thing, if you see us both on line before our party and we seem to be a little occupied please bear with us, we might just be making good use of a little time together in private celebrations. Well a wife has to be selfish once in a while. 🙂

Lots of love
Jen xxxxxxxx

Two years old

18 Mar 2010 2 Comments

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries Tags: , ,

Two Years Old

 

As I have been approaching my two year rez day celebrations I have been pondering what and who have helped me reach it.

Without any doubt the most important person has been Diomita my Mistress, partner and best friend. We complement each other very well and quite often know what the other is about to say. We support one another and share a lot of very good times together. I will always be grateful for knowing you. Anybody who knows us understands how important we are to each other. Thank you my love.

There are lots of times that we are not together and for those times there are 2 things that have contributed to my enjoyment:

I have to admit it was the ability to explore my fantasies with bondage that brought me to SL. Some of the toys and scripts are exquisite and really do fire up my imagination. I have learnt things in SL that I have been able to bring to my RL and also test some of my limits likes and dislikes in a safe environment.

But aside from my best friend and Mistress the thing that makes SL fresh interesting and welcoming are my family and friends. They say in that life you cannot choose your family, only your friends. It is somewhat true in SL too. With a family such as ours members introduce their own members to the family and they become part of the unit. We are blessed right now to have a wonderful family and lovely friends of the family. I know many places where I can go now and I will always get a very friendly welcome, somebody to talk to and help with anything should I need it.

To me SL is a social place with the bonus of bondage play, without the all of the fantastic people I have met over the past 2 years, I could not be sure that I would still be here now.

So to everybody I know Thank you for tolerating the lag and making SL a place I hope to be for many years to come.

Love

Jenny Maurer (Laylady Lay)

The day we met again.

23 May 2009 Leave a comment

by jennymaurer in anniversary blog entries Tags: ,

Diomita and I met on the 21st to the 22nd May change over last year.

As part of our celebrations we both had similar ideas to surprise the other.

I found the exact hair clothes and cuffs I wore that day and Diomita found very similar clothes, the same hair etc. We met on the patio at Stonehaven and Diomita asked me for my keys as she did last year.  For the next hour or so we re enacted our first meeting and it brought back a flood of great memories.

We had such a lot of fun doing it but that sums up our SL together.

We simply enjoy being together. We make each other smile, and we make the time in SL enjoyable for the other. We care about the feelings of each other and we have grown and developed over these past 12 months as a team and couple.

Sl is all about having fun at the very least it should be a good time and something you look forward returning to. I can honestly say that Diomita has made SL just that for me.

Mistress Diomita

12 Mar 2009 1 Comment

by jennymaurer in about Dio Tags:

 

Goddess Yasmin Heartsdale arranged a competition with the theme “My Mistress is the best Mistress / Domme because..” in under 350 words.

Whilst my entry did not make the top 4 I would still like to share it as it gives an insight to how much my Mistress and wife means to me.

 

Mistress Diomita Maurer

 

I propose that Mistress Diomita Maurer is the best Mistress. There are many reasons why and everything about Mistress Diomita culminates in a unique experience if ever you should be one of the lucky few that submit to her.

 

First meeting:  When I first met Mistress Diomita she never made any assumptions nor did she push or force herself on me. Instead she asked if she may take my keys and then she gave me a guided tour of her house in Stonehaven. Whilst there she showed me her cage and the whole experience was very daunting for me. I asked would I be expected to go in the cage then and Mistress Diomita replied not now but you will the next time you come here.  The confidence in which she said that made me know inside that I would be spending a long time in that cage and I would have gone into it there and then.

 

The Trial: Consisted of going into that very cage the next time we met and spending the next 12 days there where Mistress Diomita visited me and listened as we talked every day. We became good friends very quickly.

 

My limits: have been gently eased so I no longer remember what they where and I have been coached and my Domme side encouraged and Mistress Diomita has enjoyed that I display my Bratty side too.

 

Personal details: Mistress Diomita pays attention to needs and to what ever you tell her. During a very sad personal time in RL she supported me and was happy to sit with me and help me when she could have elsewhere having a good time. Mistress Diomita always makes time for everybody in her care.

 

I have highlighted the important traits and I believe that to be a good Mistress you must have all of these qualities before you even try to own somebody or tell them what to do. Mistress Diomita has all of this and the confidence to carry it off in a subtle manner that commands respect.

 

Jenny Maurer

 

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