October 24th, 2012 – 4 years married

21 Oct 2012 4 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, anniversary blog entries Tags: , ,

October, 24th it will be 4 years that Jenny and I had our wedding ceremony. That is a really long time particularly in SL and gives reason to celebrate, to look back and to look forward. We share most of our spare time together und thus this SL relation goes far beyond pixels. Jenny is part of my life, my love for her is real, the memories we share are also part of our RL.

At our wedding ceremony Jenny was my slave and I still call her Ehesklavin. We had a clear role allocation. But we developed, we changed together constantly, little changes step by step. During the last months our bdsm relation changed again a bit. As known I wear Jenny’s collar around my neck, I grant green lights, where she is my domme every once in a while. I admit, that we might have had a different understanding of this mutual ownership and collar. Playing around in SL on my own I had a particular D/s adventure that led to serious discussion between us about it’s meaning. We talked a lot and we got over it and agreed about the meaning of my collar. So far, so good. But again, step by step we changed. I began to understand and to accept. A few weeks ago I submitted to Jenny. I accepted her as my owner without any restrictions. And she locked the collar around my neck making me hers. There is no real date, no real collaring date, it just happened step by step. Thank you, Jenny!  So today we’re not just partners, we also own eachother in the bdsm part of our relation. I wear Jenny’s collar with pride as she wears mine. We submitted to eachother. And we’re stuck together now (well, haven’t we been before? *giggles*).

Today I want to say thank you for the great time with you, Jenny. Thank you for your love, your patience, your devotion and your trust, Jenny. I do look forward with confidence to our further journey together.

We will celebrate within our regular Friday night event at our beach disco, Friday October, 26th at 1 PM SLT / 9 PM GMT. We appreciate if you can join us dancing and having fun together. Theme will be: “Bitches and Witches – Halloween, Chains, ropes, cuffs, latex, leather … just be kinky and creative”.

We hope to see you there!

Dear Diary – The Ropes

03 Oct 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , ,

This post is for our diary again. Just for us to read and for saving the memories. A couple of weeks ago we discoverd a suspension rack for shibari bondage. We didn’t hesitate long and got the according ropes that can be used just as a harness or to tie someone in different poses even with some added bamboo sticks like in the picture below.

In the picture above I took Jenny with me to “Domme a Domme” in her Shibari bondage. In this picture you also see the new tapegag from Real Restraint. Another quite new toy that we love to use lately. Of course we showed the Shibari rack to our neighbour Sarah Fhang and she got it and installed it close to the patio in her house. Jenny was one of the first who was bound on it.


In the meanwhile also Deli and Arka (and I) got their ropes and we look forward to some nice bondage sessions and plays.

21 Sep 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , ,

Tyra made a series of interviews that she publishes now. The link to her blog and thus to all the other interviews is in our links list. We enjoyed the interview a lot and it is a fine summary about our love for SL. Thank you Tyra!

tyralove's avatarTyralove's Blog

Introduction

This Q&A session is a face to face interview with Diomita Maurer and her partner Jenny Maurer.

The first one of its type posted.

So it should keep you lot happy till next week……..I hope!! ((All excluding Pet that is *winks*))

Dio was a former sister of mine to Yasmin.

The first notable memory of us meeting was when Dio was on her trial to Yas, locked in a capsule, stirring at a blank wall, for 2 weeks plus.

Not my idea of fun but there you go.

I tried to visit her when i could to help her through this and we became close friends as a result of this, and still are.

Jenny i met through Dio.

I have images in my head of her wearing a hooped black and white latex catsuit, prisoner style….locked in Dio cage at her Stonehaven home.

If you come to Mount Everest…

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Eurobrats update – some changes

23 Aug 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, about our homeplaces Tags: , , , , ,

Jenny and I have been looking at our SL and in particular at our family. We mostly make time for our subs and try to get the most for us and for them. But frankly spoken it needs some regular online time to keep a D/s relation alive. And in addition when online times do get too rarely, most of the time left over is used for catching up and this time is lost for all of us. Some of the decisions we have made have been hard but we felt they had to be made. They make officially what is somehow reality already for quite a long time.
Today I updated our family chart as well as my profile.

I have released Vanessa Rendelstein after close to 4 years wearing my and our collar on August 22nd. Vanessa was and is a joy to own particularly because of her loyalty and dedication. Unfortunately her online presence became less and less over the last years and she got the title “Night Owl” as when she logged in it was just when we were ready to log off. We came to the decision that she might enjoy her SL better alone and without having any obligations and hopefully she’ll get new excitement out of her SL. Vanessa will always be our close friend and stay close – nothing will change that. We all love you, Vanessa!

I have released tittia (mistress.cutitta) after close to 1 1/2 year wearing my and our collar on August 16th. Tittia is  only having a very time online for one year now because of her RL and there’s no chance that this will change soon. Upon her return online she will have no obligations and can start seeking new adventures and excitement. Nonetheless tittia will stay a very close friend of ours and hopefully we’ll see her around with us often. First of all we wish all the best for her and that she can make time for SL later again. You’re always welcome to us, tittia.
We love you, tittia!

We  have decided to close the Strict Ballet Academy for the public and will keep parts of it for private play only. We had fun with it and will have fun with it again. But we got many applications that we couldn’t fulfill as we lack intructors and the time to run it properly; plus Delilah can’t run it on her own. Thus there will be ballet lessons but just for selected few and who knows, maybe there will be a time when we or tittia will reopen it officially.

We understand the RL always comes first, this will always be our first rule and we don’t judge anyone for having less time.

Love Diomita and Jenny

Summer slump ?

12 Jul 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , , ,

Is there a summer slump in SL? No. Is there a summer slump for us Eurobrats? Well, to some extent.
Some of us enjoy vacations, some of us go outside in the evening and enjoy the warmth or even sun (not very often unfortunately). As not too much is going on right now, at least not much to report or to save here right now it could be the summer slump. During the last week Jenny had a quite dominant phase and she took advantage of me and my sub side a few times. So here are some pictures for our diary or for our readers to enjoy.We also began to explore our new ruins and – as it is summer – we enjoyed nudity. This picture was taken after the fun 🙂And I got a new bike which I had to test on our island. The passenger option is the real extra of this bike. A great possibility to take your “catch of the day” home.
Enjoy the summer!
Diomita

Dear Diary

22 May 2012 2 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, anniversary blog entries, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , ,

As mentioned in several posts before this blog is also just a diary for Jenny, my family and friends in SL and for myself. And this post is a diary post saving memories from the last week up to today. Last week we first continued playing at Sarah’s new patio. On Tuesday, May 15th, Z visited us and I enjoyed surfing through her rlv-folder.

As this last week was about bondage and having Tyra and Virgo as our “guests” the party on Friday night consistently was about bondage.  Again we enjoyed great music from Virgo who was nicely tied down with Tyra. And several other toys attended the night tied down. This is SL and here you can dance to some extent even tied down and more important –  you can also spin records!
Then last week we noticed a lot of dust in our house and thus Tyra and later Virgo became our maids to keep the house clean. Jenny did a great job selecting their uniforms. They really look just amazing in their skirts! Last night we had a real weired scene with “The head”. It all began with some disciplinary actions for Angelique. She was put into her latex bag and made helplessly. Then we tried to forcily teleport her to us but that failed already with the first place we choosed. Angel did tp back immediately several times until i took that ability before she could tp back. But then there was just her head left. It looked completely weired. We went back home and teleported the head to us. She didn’t respond in main nor did she in IM. Finally we but a pole under her head and buildt a stage. That’s in short the story behind the picture above. I’m curious to hear what happened. But I can tell, we had fun.

Last but not least – on May 21st, 2008 I met Jenny. And of course we celebrate in our way – for example by wearing the hairstyle we had in 2008. The picture below is not from 2008, it’s from last night. Look how Jenny’s locket beams. Thank you for all your love and devotion, Mrs. Maurer, my Ehesklavin. Thank you for having me! Nothing compares to you.

Just something inbetween

07 May 2012 1 Comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Right now I can’t login. Apparently SL has gone down unexpectedly. No SL, no SL homepage, no marketplace. Time to write a little bit about the ongoings within the Eurobrat family.
– I wrote already about Kitty’s return. I decided that Kitty may have another start and I hope that she will never again vanish without warning.
– tittia’s RL is keeping her from going online. RL is always priority but of course we miss her. We get applications for the Strict Ballet Academy every once in a while but without instructors the academy remains closed.
– Puppe (Dana) is transformed to a puppy. We do enjoy the rare times we see her due to the time difference. She had some issues with the gear that prevents her friends to chat with her via IM. Luckily she found a workaround and I still hope that we can get a feedback of the builder of the gear why it is not working as it should. Well you can always say, voila it works as puppies can’t chat.
– vanessa is vanessa. She comes online at midnight every once in a while when we’re just on our way to bed. Nonetheless her devotion is amazing. And every time she sees a new face being with us she asks “A new sister?”
– qt, Maurer’s it, is still nicely locked down and dreams of escape. She never gets tired to warn those who come close to us but most people simply don’t take her warning to run as fast as they can seriously. Well, we can always say they have been warned.
– Delilah had to reduce her online presence a bit due to her RL. That prevents her from instructing at the ballet academy. Right now she’s assigned to keep our house clean being our first maid. We simply like the idea of bound maids that work for us. It is not our idea and the place “bound maids” is down since quite a while and the new place for the maids isn’t working yet. With the help of Danii we installed some objects which attract the dust in the house and which need dusting every once in a while. Of course this work can only be done with a dustergag.
– That leads to Danii who worked on her scripts after being released from her humare life. And she helped to develop the dusting system for the house.
– Our youngest family member, Angel, is the most active of all of us right now. She brought some new kinks and new roleplay to our SL and we, her aunts, enjoy teasing and humiliating her as much as she enjoys the other side of the leash.

And Jenny and I? We still enjoy ourselves, our togetherness, we make plans and laugh a lot and have fun. Friday nights are still a highlight of our everyday life in SL and RL. So overall everything is just fine although RL is preventing some of us to get online as much as before right now.

Kitty’s back to SL

16 Apr 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: , , ,

Kitty is back home after more than 4 months hiatusSunday, April 15th, our Kitty returned to SL after more than 3 months being missed. Just the night before Jenny and I had talked about our slaveboy aka. Kitty and that we’re going to remove him as our owned sub. We didn’t hear anything from him during his absence and every attempt to get a sign of life failed. By strange coincidence Kitty returned just a few hours later. Kitty has been very occupied by her RL and needed to protect herself from the addiction that SL provides to us, as a permanent temptation to escape from our real life problems. I always say and confirm that RL has priority for all of us in SL. And Kitty’s RL took all of her attention as she told us. We do really understand that.
But I personally also believe that it is a question of respect, to let those who care for you, know what is going on. I can’t accept that there’s no time within weeks and months to send a short email or to go online 5 minutes to send an offline IM. Thus a return like Kitty’s causes ambivalent feelings for me. There’s the joy and happiness that a good friend and submissive is back, the relief that he’s healthy and there’s also the feeling of abuse and of disrespect. I feel abused as being someone not important enough to inform but good enough to be here in SL to have fun when my sub decides to contact me again: “Hello, I’m back, let’s have fun together”. And I know that I sound harsh and hurt – and I am. Anyway this blog is our diary for SL and in this sense this entry had to be written. Kitty is not the first who left us without a word then returned and no doubt she won’t be the last. But Kitty/Santana is the first who has been so close over years that I really need time to get over this experience and to decide how to go on with her.

About my collar

09 Apr 2012 3 Comments

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, about family members, Uncategorized Tags: ,

Those who are close to me in SL might have noticed that I wear a new piece of jewelery for a few weeks. In fact after my release from Yasmin I missed the animations that were hidden in my collar. So I bought a new collar and hid it in my body so that I could use the scripts. Knowing my wife, there couldn’t be any other owner of this collar than her, and she got her wish fulfilled. I began to wear the collar visible around my neck during a green light phase. I never made a secret about my sub side. It is there, not as strong as my Domme side but also not to be neglected. I personally think it gives me the opportunity to recharge when I sub. And I learn from own experiences. The collar around a sub’s neck is a strong symbol. At least that’s how I see it and my subs do know that too well. It is a sign of being owned and devoted. It is a sign of being controlled and no longer self determined. That is how I saw the collar of Yasmin around my neck. That is how I see the collar around Jenny’s neck and around the necks  of my subs. So when I’m wearing a collar myself now again, what does it symbolize for me but being owned and not self determined? In fact it does exactly mean that I’m owned and not totally self determined. Owned by my wife and Ehesklavin Jenny. Not self determined as she has a say in all family affairs and does co-own my subs. Owned in particular when I grant a green light and give control to her. But then it is also different as I determine the duration of a green light, it is different as Jenny will always be my slave first, it is different as the family hierarchie isn’t changed at all (despite green lights).    Wearing the collar in public now reflects my deep trust in my wife and that our subs  do understand the little difference between the collar around my neck and around theirs. Wearing it in public does also mean that I am proud of it, proud not to hide my sub side and proud about who does own this side of me first.


The picture above is a collage from my recent trip to NYC. I want to thank Jenny for her patience with me regarding my collar.

“My Viewer” page updated

22 Mar 2012 Leave a comment

by diomitamaurer in about Dio, Uncategorized Tags: , , ,

There’s a new Firestorm-Release out with the version number  4.0.1.27000. As there were some major changes I updated not only my viewer but also the “my viewer” page. I recommend that you watch the tutorial video http://youtu.be/QYaf2NZZmIE which is really helful. If you have any hint what I should change in my settings, please let me know. I’ll appreciate that. If you update – good luck!

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